Seeking Arrangements

I have been off and on SA for a few years. Some hits, many misses. My question to all, do you mention the amount of time you are expecting up front? I know there is no set way that works for everyone. Personally I have always stated that I am not looking for an hour wham bam, and to many I have stated I am expecting a few hours of their time. I guess its my use of the escort profession that has steered me in that direction of mentioning it up front. Am I wrong in my ways??

[QUOTE=HounDog3;4945731]Agreed. Unless you run into one of the professional escorts advertising on SA, all the girls I've met from the site assume it will be a multi-hour encounter behind closed doors. By asking the question, you give them the opportunity to time limit you up front. There are many other ways to determine whether she's a pro than asking "how long".[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;4946148]Totally agree, the platinum pussy syndrome is real (in Boston area at least) on SA. I wonder if they have a board like we do.

300 is now the standard set point and girls even scoff at 400/500 when I've offered it. Will also add the constant ask of "cashapp" requests is going up from some girls after I see them (wherein I immediately cut them off) as supposed to a few years ago. The only ones who don't are the semi-pros (who ask once but don't pester after, or not at all, as they know how to "keep the potential sale" down the road).

I didn't find a UTR this time around. I will add from the amount of likes I got, maybe I should move to Colombia or Venezuela. Seems to have a lot of "girls" fav my profile from there LOL.[/QUOTE]My VIP expired last week and everything H420 wrote happened to me. I have been on SA for 6 years, by far my least productive VIP month ever. One bright note is I did find a young, kind of UTR, that was awesome but going back to school next week. Oh well.

Saw this one recently. Very friendly over text. Agreed I'd go to her place the same day when her kids would not be there. She lives in a remote town about 15 miles away from exit 31 off 495. It was a multi-bedroom unit in a smaller sized apartment building. Pretty messy but nothing disgusting; just kids toys & arts and crafts all over the place.

She has a wicked weed habit so we smoked a bit before heading to the bedroom. The other habit she has is not shutting the fuck up. She is all hopped up on adderol. Seriously I don't think there was a pause longer than 2 seconds in conversation the whole time I was there which was roughly 2 hours. She told me her life story, tons of messed up, sad shit that I didn't really want to hear, but oh well. At least most of that was after we had finished in the bedroom and I was high.

She does have a pretty face but lots of baby damage she manages to hide in her pics. After I showed her recent test papers she did BBBJ and we went BBFS with CIP. I hit her IUD a few times which was quite unpleasant. Also from the moment we got to it she whipped out a vibrator and was using that throughout. Turnoff for me. She was willing to do MSOG although she said she does not with her other SD so after reluctantly agreeing to more BJ action, we went again doggy and mish where I thought this girl was having a damn seizure when she orgasmed.

Damage was 200. There is some other dude who sees her that pays her 300. I can't imagine paying that much for her and especially having to wear a hat and only have one pop. If I do see her again I'm going to offer less LOL. She hinted she might accept less because she likes getting pounded so much.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/515316f0-e59a-4a62-b8b4-6ad384c57506[/URL]

[QUOTE=JoeParkers;4945288]This one reached out to me and I knew from the beginning it wasn't going to work. I checked her location and she way up in Vermont. She sent me multiple texts then I finally answered her. Yep exactly what Thought. She wanted to sale me Pictures and videos. . I said I passed and 2 hours later she sent me that text:

So I've had such a bad night. My abusive ex that I thought I got away from found me tonight. He had no clue where I was and somehow someone told him. So now I'm sitting with my kids in a parking lot trying to figure out how to get 105 $ to stay in a hotel room for the night so we are safe. Is there any way you might be able to help me?? My ex is very scary and I don't want my children or I hurt. ".

This could be true. I just found the timing too good to be true. Nevertheless I didn't send any money.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0cfdae99-ae63-49a0-bda6-fd71dc9ba59b[/URL][/QUOTE]She messaged me and after I responded she gave me the exact same line, word for word.

[QUOTE=Shyzai;4945438] in my experience, more money does not equal better services. [/QUOTE]Amen! Truer words were never spoken!

[QUOTE=NHMontecristo;4947150]She messaged me and after I responded she gave me the exact same line, word for word.[/QUOTE]I would avoid such drama in general, but with the same scam story cut-and-pasted, you know whoever is on the other end is trying to steal your money. Maybe you get ghosted after the transfer to "help her out" (which was plan B, plan A was taking your money for pics), or worse you get drawn in, you get milked (figuratively only) for more cash and if there's ever an in-person meet planned: She's already got the "stalking ex" storyline all set up, so don't be surprised if you are springing for the hotel ahead of time and I'd guess that the only pounding to take place will be on the hotel door scaring the sh*t out of you with some type of shakedown before any fun is had.

[QUOTE=JDogInMA;4947201]I would avoid such drama in general, [/QUOTE]No question. Ignore, and block, immediately. Some women try to prey on the 'white knight' psychology of some guys who want to "help" them. I am happy to help the ones I have an arrangement with; I help by giving them a nice donation for our time together. An extra donation when I know it's their birthday, or Christmas. But that's it. And someone I've never met in person?? NOTHING.

[QUOTE=Chuchunga;4903368][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d46b6966-a85e-456d-9b7c-a64245f1751a[/URL]

Between 400-600 ppm. Will go bare. Not bad looking for pictures are a little better put together than she is in person. Good personality. May meet again.[/QUOTE]Actually found out has a bf. So I'd be careful of this one. Also tries to get money before meeting.

Guys any info on some of these gals. I just sighned up for premium and have been taking to a few of them. Wanted to know your take on a few of them.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/47b85858-0c89-4c30-b99e-a4926d58e3fa[/URL]

She is a lot of talking like she can write. Says she is open to PPM. Does not want to give number but rather just meet up for a drink and then see if we have chemisty. Does this mean I have to pay for the pay for the Drinks date. She is looking for 600 $ range as she quoted this was her previous arrangement. But then said it could be either 1 hour or a weekend getaway but let it grow organically.

[QUOTE=SpicyPrince;4948224]Guys any info on some of these gals. I just sighned up for premium and have been taking to a few of them. Wanted to know your take on a few of them.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/47b85858-0c89-4c30-b99e-a4926d58e3fa[/URL]

She is a lot of talking like she can write. Says she is open to PPM. Does not want to give number but rather just meet up for a drink and then see if we have chemisty. Does this mean I have to pay for the pay for the Drinks date. She is looking for 600 $ range as she quoted this was her previous arrangement. But then said it could be either 1 hour or a weekend getaway but let it grow organically.[/QUOTE]You should figure out if she wants just drinks, or drinks and go to a hotel etc if there is chemistry. You should offer to pay for her drinks, but if it's just drinks then don't pay for more than the drinks; no allowance for just a drinks date.

[QUOTE=SpicyPrince;4948224]Guys any info on some of these gals. I just sighned up for premium and have been taking to a few of them. Wanted to know your take on a few of them.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/47b85858-0c89-4c30-b99e-a4926d58e3fa[/URL]

She is a lot of talking like she can write. Says she is open to PPM. Does not want to give number but rather just meet up for a drink and then see if we have chemisty. Does this mean I have to pay for the pay for the Drinks date. She is looking for 600 $ range as she quoted this was her previous arrangement. But then said it could be either 1 hour or a weekend getaway but let it grow organically.[/QUOTE]My opinion. 600 for a 40+ year old is a crazy but if you are into that OK. If you want to spend that you can easily get a college girl who will be much more open to a regular thing without the wine and dining stuff. Meet her and buy the drink. Tell her you can only hang out for a short time so she isn't sitting there and getting hammered on your dime. You may realize she is not for you at 600 once you meet her but if you are doing an Incall just be careful on the first one or offer an outcall with a reduced amount to cover the room. One drink meeting can save you a lot if she isn't what she says what she is. Don't give her any money until the deed is done.

[QUOTE=OtherPerson;4945926]She looks like a great find for someone.
t.[/QUOTE]While I would not spend 500 for a hour with any female, I know others would. Its all a numbers game and maybe 20 percent of the time my offer of 300 for 3 hours would have been accepted. You just have to put in the time. There is no new normal, there is no union, but all of these girls will ask for as much as they can get, and we will try to get it for as little as we can. Your style, is not my style we all have different styles and then some have no style and are clueless. If you are a single / divorced guy spend 600 for a plane ticket to Medellin (travel light on spirit for 300) , 300-500 for a hotel / airbnb for a week. You can bang 8's,9's all day long for 60, and you can bang 5's to 7's for as low as 12.00 for 20 minutes. My point is for 2000-2500 can fuck 25 chicks in a week that are as good looking as flowerbloom. All the info is on this boards sister site.

[QUOTE=Rome400;4948797]While I would not spend 500 for a hour with any female, I know others would. Its all a numbers game and maybe 20 percent of the time my offer of 300 for 3 hours would have been accepted. You just have to put in the time. There is no new normal, there is no union, but all of these girls will ask for as much as they can get, and we will try to get it for as little as we can. Your style, is not my style we all have different styles and then some have no style and are clueless. If you are a single / divorced guy spend 600 for a plane ticket to Medellin (travel light on spirit for 300) , 300-500 for a hotel / airbnb for a week. You can bang 8's,9's all day long for 60, and you can bang 5's to 7's for as low as 12.00 for 20 minutes. My point is for 2000-2500 can fuck 25 chicks in a week that are as good looking as flowerbloom. All the info is on this boards sister site.[/QUOTE]You are correct. But some guys just not good at negotiating and play the waiting game.

Any info on this girl? I am looking for something LT and she seems like the real deal. Smart, too. But she does not reply to my messages.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6df22e63-5722-42f2-a6f4-b873a7f82ee6[/URL]

[QUOTE=PvWorkOuts;4949522]Any info on this girl? I am looking for something LT and she seems like the real deal. Smart, too. But she does not reply to my messages.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6df22e63-5722-42f2-a6f4-b873a7f82ee6[/URL][/QUOTE]If she won't reply to you what does it matter about what other guys have for info?

[QUOTE=Style20;4948887]You are correct. But some guys just not good at negotiating and play the waiting game.[/QUOTE]Who has never paid for SA VIP.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/05c8bc91-2f07-4bbb-859d-3719d540faf0[/URL]

I know this is the Boston section. But between the scammers. Girls that think there going to get rich. It's good to post reviews of legit girls that are reasonable with donation $. Sasha used to post on backpage up in pine motel in Nashua nh. She gives the most amazing blow jobs. She has her own special techniques that I've never experienced from no other girl. This coming from me having sampled thousands of girls is saying something. . Reviews are really hard to make from my current phone slash secluded location. . but I do appreciate all the new reviews. . So thought I would kick you guys a bone.

[QUOTE=Joe1223;4948583]My opinion. 600 for a 40+ year old is a crazy but if you are into that OK. If you want to spend that you can easily get a college girl who will be much more open to a regular thing without the wine and dining stuff. Meet her and buy the drink. Tell her you can only hang out for a short time so she isn't sitting there and getting hammered on your dime. You may realize she is not for you at 600 once you meet her but if you are doing an Incall just be careful on the first one or offer an outcall with a reduced amount to cover the room. One drink meeting can save you a lot if she isn't what she says what she is. Don't give her any money until the deed is done.[/QUOTE]That sounds like a plan. I am still learning the ropes when it comes to SA. Its been a very interesting discovery as I have seen a few of the profiles here that I have played with in the Swinger life style. Its interesting so see how things are changing like its free +the club entrance fee earlier but now its 400 PPM. That being said I have narrowed down a few profiles. My kink for this month is housewives and next month is college girls.

Any info on this one is really appreciated.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a4d7fc7b-ef37-4e24-9cc5-fbf3f0cefacb[/URL]

350 PPM for 3 hours. Says she is a single mom and does this for the thrill as she is not interest in regular dating. But I suspect it as I think she used to be an escort before.

[QUOTE=PaulRew;4949942]Who has never paid for SA VIP.[/QUOTE]Never LOL.

[QUOTE=Bran001;4859432]Not sure what the issue is. You can buy a one-month non-recurring membership still, right?

The way to use SA is to make contact there, then move off the site. I've never needed to chat with the same SB on there for more than a few days.[/QUOTE]I am planning to see her next week she is asking 500 for PPM and for 90 minutes. You did mention it was 400 PPM how long did she stay for? Because at 400 PPM I want her to stay at least for 2-3 hours LOL.

[QUOTE=SpicyPrince;4950333]That sounds like a plan. I am still learning the ropes when it comes to SA. Its been a very interesting discovery as I have seen a few of the profiles here that I have played with in the Swinger life style. Its interesting so see how things are changing like its free +the club entrance fee earlier but now its 400 PPM. That being said I have narrowed down a few profiles. My kink for this month is housewives and next month is college girls.

Any info on this one is really appreciated.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a4d7fc7b-ef37-4e24-9cc5-fbf3f0cefacb[/URL]

350 PPM for 3 hours. Says she is a single mom and does this for the thrill as she is not interest in regular dating. But I suspect it as I think she used to be an escort before.[/QUOTE]The first pic is an old pic from her backpage days. Can't remember her name but someone on here will. I never saw her. Your deep pockets for older women is impressive??

I spent 350 on a few young girls just starting out in their SA career but personally can't or won't muster the need to sustain that number for any more than one or two times. Each to their own but if you are willing and able to pay 300-600 you will not have a problem finding the BBFSCIP young hotties. I max out at 300 and cap the age at around 27 but my hit rate is a lot lower. If you haven't put up a review by next week with the amount you are planning on spending there is something missing. Not sure why you are doing a monthly kink search but you should be collecting a lot of phone numbers for future use. Good luck and just pull the trigger.

[QUOTE=SpicyPrince;4950434]I am planning to see her next week she is asking 500 for PPM and for 90 minutes. You did mention it was 400 PPM how long did she stay for? Because at 400 PPM I want her to stay at least for 2-3 hours LOL.[/QUOTE]Sorry I have no idea who you're talking about.

[QUOTE=JakeRabbit;4858725]We met in a Waltham hotel and she is insatiable! She had no idea what to do with herself and once I caught on I commanded her every position and action. She loved it and we meet again next week.

In real life I could never catch a 10 year younger sex tiger like this. Thank you SA![/QUOTE]At Bran sorry I meant to ask this question to JakeRabbit.

I am planning to see her next week she is asking 500 for PPM and for 90 minutes. You did mention it was 400 PPM how long did she stay for? Because at 400 PPM I want her to stay at least for 2-3 hours LOL.

[QUOTE=Style20;4950336]Never LOL.[/QUOTE]So, you have never paid for VIP and I imagine you will never pay for VIP based on the fact that VIP costs about what you want to spend on your dates. So I have to ask, why are you participating on this thread? No offense, but nothing you say here has any validity. This isn't just you, this is for anyone posting who will never sign up and pay for VIP. To be honest yours and their opinions are completely irrelevant when it comes to SA.

[QUOTE=PaulRew;4951273]So, you have never paid for VIP and I imagine you will never pay for VIP based on the fact that VIP costs about what you want to spend on your dates. So I have to ask, why are you participating on this thread? No offense, but nothing you say here has any validity. This isn't just you, this is for anyone posting who will never sign up and pay for VIP. To be honest yours and their opinions are completely irrelevant when it comes to SA.[/QUOTE]Well its a free forum and I like to take note just in case one day I want to try.

No offense taking though. I just wish KingOfFours would teach his method on how to get SA free though.

[QUOTE=Style20;4951322]Well its a free forum and I like to take note just in case one day I want to try.

I just wish KingOfFours would teach his method on how to get SA free though.[/QUOTE] Of course you can post here but guys on SA dont GAS what you have to say, its irrelevant. And KoF "method " is BS to be honest and even if it was great you still need to be willing to pay at least $200 and most likely $300 or more to get the low volume SA girls. So refer to my prior post suggesting this may not be for a fellow of your means.

[QUOTE=PaulRew;4951375]Of course you can post here but guys on SA dont GAS what you have to say, its irrelevant. And KoF "method " is BS to be honest and even if it was great you still need to be willing to pay at least $200 and most likely $300 or more to get the low volume SA girls. So refer to my prior post suggesting this may not be for a fellow of your means.[/QUOTE]Don't understand these broke ass Dicks bitching about 100 dollar members fee to seeking. You basically have to be filthy rich and have no job or life to score hot girls on seeking arrangements. . It's not for 99 percent for the average pervert trying to get laid. Plus it's awkward trying to make small talk when you just want to get laid and go home. It's not what it's made out to be.

[QUOTE=PaulRew;4951375]Of course you can post here but guys on SA dont GAS what you have to say, its irrelevant. And KoF "method " is BS to be honest and even if it was great you still need to be willing to pay at least $200 and most likely $300 or more to get the low volume SA girls. So refer to my prior post suggesting this may not be for a fellow of your means.[/QUOTE]For the record, I've never paid more than 200 for an SA girl, usually less, occasionally a lot less. But I've interviewed many, after obtaining email, phone, or text contact following the hack, who wanted more, usually a lot more. But so far, I've always rejected their offers, and they always rejected my counter offers, which have rarely been more than 200 in cases where I made a counter offer. But as for those I actually went to, and inseminated, it was always 200 or less. For example, for a couple of girls, 100 to 120 hh full GFE and CIP. And in one case 150 with 3 holes open for spermloads, unlimited cups (for me, at my age, two cups when I can muster that second!) And as much time as I wanted. Of course I went back to see those particular girls multiple times, although only one of those 3 is still active.

As for low volume, though? Nope! Because I would estimate that probably a dozen of you perverts have also left loads in those three I mentioned above, as they've certainly been discussed very thoroughly, on here! So it's not unlikely that there were occasions that I got some of you guys’ sloppy seconds with some of those girls, or that some of you got mine! 😱.

[QUOTE=Joe1223;4948583]My opinion. 600 for a 40+ year old is a crazy but if you are into that OK. If you want to spend that you can easily get a college girl who will be much more open to a regular thing without the wine and dining stuff. Meet her and buy the drink. Tell her you can only hang out for a short time so she isn't sitting there and getting hammered on your dime. You may realize she is not for you at 600 once you meet her but if you are doing an Incall just be careful on the first one or offer an outcall with a reduced amount to cover the room. One drink meeting can save you a lot if she isn't what she says what she is. Don't give her any money until the deed is done.[/QUOTE]She looks like a pro that was or could be still on eros guide through the years.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/45d79587-de31-4b33-b2e3-100d2ba91f29[/URL]

Messaged on SA, she was interested, we move to texting.

All I get are like 1 and 2-word responses. After I've had enough of those, I tell her that it just won't work out. "No prob" is the response.

I like it when they at least try a little.

[QUOTE=Bran001;4951839][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/45d79587-de31-4b33-b2e3-100d2ba91f29[/URL]

Messaged on SA, she was interested, we move to texting.

All I get are like 1 and 2-word responses. After I've had enough of those, I tell her that it just won't work out. "No prob" is the response.

I like it when they at least try a little.[/QUOTE]Usually a semi-pro when they do this, IMO.

[QUOTE=Bran001;4951839][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/45d79587-de31-4b33-b2e3-100d2ba91f29[/URL]

Messaged on SA, she was interested, we move to texting.

All I get are like 1 and 2-word responses. After I've had enough of those, I tell her that it just won't work out. "No prob" is the response.

I like it when they at least try a little.[/QUOTE]Logged in non stop.

Checks a lot of boxes: normally a stable age bracket, no mention of Platonic or on-line, user name grabs attention and says she is open minded. My guess is she is getting crushed with messages and thinks she is all that. Give it a week and she will come down to earth or be gone.

[QUOTE=Fentynalopolas;4951685]Don't understand these broke ass Dicks bitching about 100 dollar members fee to seeking. You basically have to be filthy rich and have no job or life to score hot girls on seeking arrangements. . It's not for 99 percent for the average pervert trying to get laid. Plus it's awkward trying to make small talk when you just want to get laid and go home. It's not what it's made out to be.[/QUOTE]Spoken like a guy who has no money! And it has been everything I need it to be, hot college girls going bare. Sadly you will never know so STG it is for you! Best of luck friend.

[QUOTE=BigStu;4912732]I talked with her a few months ago. It was an odd offer, 2000 for the night, no bareback FS & she said her husband had to stay in the room and watch. KoF I owe you a message, I'll try to get around to it tomorrow, been busy.[/QUOTE]Picture looked like my type and I sent a message. She replied that she only dates men with 8 figures and blocked me. I'm sure all the guys with 10+ million are lining up to date a 40 year old with her husband playing the third wheel.

The Falwells are in town?

[QUOTE=BigStu;4912732]I talked with her a few months ago. It was an odd offer, 2000 for the night, no bareback FS & she said her husband had to stay in the room and watch. KoF I owe you a message, I'll try to get around to it tomorrow, been busy.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=RandomFragment;4953111]The Falwells are in town?[/QUOTE]It's been sport since biblical times I've had fwb's who want pics for a hubby or bf. I did let one bring her hubby along and we double-teamed her and he watched some too. Didn't bother me!

Personally I couldn't care less what people do to keep things interesting. I just find the hypocrisy amusing.

[QUOTE=Bran001;4953309]It's been sport since biblical times I've had fwb's who want pics for a hubby or bf. I did let one bring her hubby along and we double-teamed her and he watched some too. Didn't bother me![/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/20778f3b-edae-4c3c-8127-93dafbd206ab[/URL]

"I want someone who deserves my feet. Nobody has been worthy enough to even have the chance. Losers looking to get drained step up to this Findom Goddess. If you aren't stupid, message me. My fetish is taking your money. ".

[QUOTE=Bran001;4953648][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/20778f3b-edae-4c3c-8127-93dafbd206ab[/URL]

"I want someone who deserves my feet. Nobody has been worthy enough to even have the chance. Losers looking to get drained step up to this Findom Goddess. If you aren't stupid, message me. My fetish is taking your money. ".[/QUOTE]I never respond to a "few extra pounds" number one. LOL I don't get the feet thing but I'm sure there are guys that do. A couple of my recent experiences have gotten me into some fun kink but strictly slapping and choking and not worshipping. My goal is to have them worship me and my Venmo of course.

[QUOTE=Bran001;4953648][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/20778f3b-edae-4c3c-8127-93dafbd206ab[/URL]

"I want someone who deserves my feet. Nobody has been worthy enough to even have the chance. Losers looking to get drained step up to this Findom Goddess. If you aren't stupid, message me. My fetish is taking your money. ".[/QUOTE]Let me empty my bank account so I can pick out the mulch between your toes. Sounds like a deal to me.