Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[QUOTE=ThunderBoat;5301211]This girl has been on SA previously, can't recall her previous handles but I recognize the pics from last year. Anyone have any experience with her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/977b588e-999a-4313-a8ee-eab6fb4de051[/URL]

TB.[/QUOTE]I have been texting with her but seems like the pics are fake, got a nude pic from her and completely different from the profile pics although it was still a nice body. Not sure if she is for real or not, didn't want to take the chance to meet up. She says she DoorDash's so her schedule is flexible so may be worth the try for someone.

I have been chatting with Katie. The whole conversation just feels off. For example, she says she has a car, but no mobile phone, to talk off SA. I suggested any number of things, Kik or Snap. Said she was not on them.

She agreed to a meet and greet, to be scheduled, with the understanding that fun would follow if we clicked. She wanted to have this meeting near Carowinds (another red flag). The ultimate deal killer is she has to paid the full compensation for said intimate date upfront at the meet and greet. Not a deposit, the whole thing.

I pushed back and she said take it or leave it, it is just how she does things. I declined. It is either a rip off or a sting operation. I am not inclined to learn which.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7747c4dc-3c95-4f08-acb0-e3062efe03a5[/URL]

I always do a video chat first on whatever platform they choose-if they can't at least do that--keep it moving and stop wasting your time. Don't let them rinse you. It's up to them to convince you that THEY'RE real, since you're the one with the $.

Phil.

[QUOTE=CinMiner;5301453]I have been chatting with Katie. The whole conversation just feels off. For example, she says she has a car, but no mobile phone, to talk off SA. I suggested any number of things, Kik or Snap. Said she was not on them.

She agreed to a meet and greet, to be scheduled, with the understanding that fun would follow if we clicked. She wanted to have this meeting near Carowinds (another red flag). The ultimate deal killer is she has to paid the full compensation for said intimate date upfront at the meet and greet. Not a deposit, the whole thing.

I pushed back and she said take it or leave it, it is just how she does things. I declined. It is either a rip off or a sting operation. I am not inclined to learn which.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7747c4dc-3c95-4f08-acb0-e3062efe03a5[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PhillUponThese;5301503]I always do a video chat first on whatever platform they choose-if they can't at least do that--keep it moving and stop wasting your time. Don't let them rinse you. It's up to them to convince you that THEY'RE real, since you're the one with the $.

Phil.[/QUOTE]My two cents: Payment on release of sperms! LOL.

Thanks. I received the same story and have no idea what will be waiting at the other end. Pics don't quite add up. Want 3 bills to play. Have not tried to negotiate that. Down in south CLT area (Harrisburg). Will likely offer her two or two and a half. Told her next week would be the earliest, already booked this week.

TB.

[QUOTE=CltGuy1231;5301416]I have been texting with her but seems like the pics are fake, got a nude pic from her and completely different from the profile pics although it was still a nice body. Not sure if she is for real or not, didn't want to take the chance to meet up. She says she DoorDash's so her schedule is flexible so may be worth the try for someone.[/QUOTE]

Anyone met these?

1) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/af11c0b9-88f9-429e-abc7-2573ceeb5456[/URL] - did meet and gree, super cool girl, I just was not into her, seems like she is very low maintenance, was only talking about nails and hair done, so prolly 150-200 a week.

2) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8496394e-bf65-4e7c-90b6-65881b5feb43[/URL] - texting this one but won't send her fill body pics, also has a gf she talks about possibly joining.

3) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7d4d9c95-b670-4bbe-aa91-2abe582fe476[/URL] - said her previous SD gave her 500, I feel like she never had a SD, texts sporadically.

4) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/91998bd8-487e-4d35-91b2-1bc355aad007[/URL] - texting her now, but seems very suspicious.

5) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/91df5666-5de5-41e7-943b-a7f1fe7f4398[/URL] - wants 300 but again, very slow texter.

1 looks pretty gross.

2 location is now Chicago aka fake.

3 have texted and I agree. Seems full of sh! T.

4 blocked me or is already gone.

5 depending on body I'd smoke that for 300. Will try to pump and dump.

[QUOTE=Djapa1234;5302065]Anyone met these?

1) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/af11c0b9-88f9-429e-abc7-2573ceeb5456[/URL] - did meet and gree, super cool girl, I just was not into her, seems like she is very low maintenance, was only talking about nails and hair done, so prolly 150-200 a week.

2) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8496394e-bf65-4e7c-90b6-65881b5feb43[/URL] - texting this one but won't send her fill body pics, also has a gf she talks about possibly joining.

3) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7d4d9c95-b670-4bbe-aa91-2abe582fe476[/URL] - said her previous SD gave her 500, I feel like she never had a SD, texts sporadically.

4) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/91998bd8-487e-4d35-91b2-1bc355aad007[/URL] - texting her now, but seems very suspicious.

5) [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/91df5666-5de5-41e7-943b-a7f1fe7f4398[/URL] - wants 300 but again, very slow texter.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6705fa21-033b-40f7-9b17-684b9d77a807[/URL]

Very responsive, went to text to discuss details almost immediately, wanted to meet tonight. And I should have known then she was TGTBT.

Everything covered, no GFE. I didn't even bother asking about allowance.

Told her that doesn't work for me. To her credit, she acted like she understood and hasn't blocked me yet.

[QUOTE=HoldenPierson;5305171][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6705fa21-033b-40f7-9b17-684b9d77a807[/URL]

Very responsive, went to text to discuss details almost immediately, wanted to meet tonight. And I should have known then she was TGTBT.

Everything covered, no GFE. I didn't even bother asking about allowance.

Told her that doesn't work for me. To her credit, she acted like she understood and hasn't blocked me yet.[/QUOTE]That was fast considering she's been a member since April 12. What was the damage.

Interesting. She tells you she does DoorDash, and I was chatting with her on Snapchat. She said her name is Kelli and she works as a vet tech. Something is definitely fishy with that profile.

[QUOTE=CltGuy1231;5301416]I have been texting with her but seems like the pics are fake, got a nude pic from her and completely different from the profile pics although it was still a nice body. Not sure if she is for real or not, didn't want to take the chance to meet up. She says she DoorDash's so her schedule is flexible so may be worth the try for someone.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Hiamey;5305416]That was fast considering she's been a member since April 12. What was the damage.[/QUOTE]I talked to her. GFE is negotiable but backdoor and cover are not. She says minimum 300 but I am sure you can bring it down. Seems to be heavier than her profile pic. I attached the selfie she sent me.

Avoid This one.

She is pulling the old "I need gas money to get to you" scam. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/16bbed12-9ce8-4c63-b8b0-b878fb45a514[/URL].

Sent her a message on SA yesterday afternoon. Immediately sent me here number. Wanted to meet ASAP, $250 an hour, can't host. I had plans and could not meet. Didn't really want to, as someone that pushy seems desperate. I avoid desperate people.

[QUOTE=NoBigBang;5306855]I talked to her. GFE is negotiable but backdoor and cover are not. She says minimum 300 but I am sure you can bring it down. Seems to be heavier than her profile pic. I attached the selfie she sent me.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6247ef49-89ba-4b0b-8ff9-8cc5dcbacc03[/URL]

For a mere $1 k, the menu is wide open.

I told her that's not happening and she's insane.

She replied that she gets that amount "All the time".

[QUOTE=HoldenPierson;5305171][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6705fa21-033b-40f7-9b17-684b9d77a807[/URL]

Very responsive, went to text to discuss details almost immediately, wanted to meet tonight. And I should have known then she was TGTBT.

Everything covered, no GFE. I didn't even bother asking about allowance.

Told her that doesn't work for me. To her credit, she acted like she understood and hasn't blocked me yet.[/QUOTE]Are you trying to discuss the issue of covered / non covered over text? Sorry but that is so unwise. I have never ever had anyone once they walked in my house walk out of here when I told them I don't do covered. One and only one out of 20+ was not comfortable initially but later one after a drink asked me to just pull out b / c was not on BC. Plus I do have latest STD tests which I always show. Discussing this over text is kind of fruitless I think and will cause you to lose a lot of prospects.

I'm just trying to see how many of you guys are trying to call it quits on SA. Lately the amount of time / energy I put in on this site is extremely disproportionate to what I am getting out of it. Tons of flakes, chicks afraid to meet in person, virtual, catfish, and on top I feel like every time SA sends out a discount for premium like they did last month, that brings droves of men to the site making things worse. I wonder if after the st patty discount membership expires if men in general will exit SA and make this site a little more manageable.

[QUOTE=Djapa1234;5308055]I'm just trying to see how many of you guys are trying to call it quits on SA. Lately the amount of time / energy I put in on this site is extremely disproportionate to what I am getting out of it. Tons of flakes, chicks afraid to meet in person, virtual, catfish, and on top I feel like every time SA sends out a discount for premium like they did last month, that brings droves of men to the site making things worse. I wonder if after the st patty discount membership expires if men in general will exit SA and make this site a little more manageable.[/QUOTE]By the end of the month I will have dumped my profiles at all SB sites. Between GPS, site baiting you with fake messages, fake ads, and what ever BS you have to put up with, they are all a waste of time. I still have some game left in me so I'm back the bars, gym, grocery store, where ever snatch can be found.

[QUOTE=Crewzin;5308534]By the end of the month I will have dumped my profiles at all SB sites. Between GPS, site baiting you with fake messages, fake ads, and what ever BS you have to put up with, they are all a waste of time. I still have some game left in me so I'm back the bars, gym, grocery store, where ever snatch can be found.[/QUOTE]I like that attitude. I feel like showing up dressed well at rooftop bars / upscale lounges would draw attentions of potential sugar babies out in the wild or even just regular vanilla chicks wanting to date up.

A lot of the hotter women in charlotte don't use this site I know but are aware of the sd / sb dynamics. If you ever want to join the forces out there in the wild, please dm me. I am also sick of dealing with uneducated, average AT BEST, GPS trashy women.

Anyone remember a profile like this on SA? Average Debster or something like that? I've been texting with her off and on for a while. Trying to meet up tomorrow but she does keep asking me to cashapp her a few bucks for some pics she's sent. Just not sure if she's legit and don't want to waste time driving if she's going to ghost.

Anyone have any experience with her?

[QUOTE=Djapa1234;5308013]Are you trying to discuss the issue of covered / non covered over text? Sorry but that is so unwise. I have never ever had anyone once they walked in my house walk out of here when I told them I don't do covered. One and only one out of 20+ was not comfortable initially but later one after a drink asked me to just pull out b / c was not on BC. Plus I do have latest STD tests which I always show. Discussing this over text is kind of fruitless I think and will cause you to lose a lot of prospects.[/QUOTE]Opposite experience. Have hosed my chum into countless off SA and I always, always establish that I will be doing so beforehand. Sometimes they say they don't want cum in them, and then I clarify if I can finish with head. Most of the time that's how it goes.

[QUOTE=OrdinaryJohn;5308953]Anyone remember a profile like this on SA? Average Debster or something like that? I've been texting with her off and on for a while. Trying to meet up tomorrow but she does keep asking me to cashapp her a few bucks for some pics she's sent. Just not sure if she's legit and don't want to waste time driving if she's going to ghost.

Anyone have any experience with her?[/QUOTE]Ok this has been discussed 1000's on times, you're thinking with "the little one". Here it goes for the 9000th time. The likelihood of you scoring by sending a cashapp is almost ZERO. Most likely you are sending your cash to a big fat ugly guy who is funding his game, so both of you get screwed, bet he enjoys it more.

[QUOTE=OrdinaryJohn;5308953]Anyone remember a profile like this on SA? Average Debster or something like that? I've been texting with her off and on for a while. Trying to meet up tomorrow but she does keep asking me to cashapp her a few bucks for some pics she's sent. Just not sure if she's legit and don't want to waste time driving if she's going to ghost.

Anyone have any experience with her?[/QUOTE]Don't waste your time or $$.

[QUOTE=Crewzin;5310202]Ok this has been discussed 1000's on times, you're thinking with "the little one". Here it goes for the 9000th time. The likelihood of you scoring by sending a cashapp is almost ZERO. Most likely you are sending your cash to a big fat ugly guy who is funding his game, so both of you get screwed, bet he enjoys it more.[/QUOTE]Oh I am well aware of that. I have not sent any money and will not send any money before meeting. I have had a couple of girls in the past ask for that before we met and I declined. But they still ended up being real and we met and had a good time in person. But obviously if they can milk some money out of you without meeting that is their preference. Not going to happen with me. The reason I asked about her is that We have been texting on and off for quite a while and she does not push trying to sell pictures before she will meet. But I have heard from a couple of members that caused think she is fake so I will move on and not waste an hour drive to find out.

In my experience, when a girl asks for money before meet, they are in one of the 3 following categories:

1. Outright scammers (may very well be a big fat guy, or a guy in Nigeria) taking advantage of simps willing to do anything to touch a girls ass. You will be blocked after you send money. Majority falls into this category.

2. The rinsers laying the groundwork for milking money from you without giving out any sugar. Once they establish you are vulnerable, they will ask for a paid meet & greet. Once you realize what's going on and you wise up, they will disappear.

3. Girls that have been misinformed (by friends, tiktok etc) that only way to make sure a guy is serious is get them to send money upfront. This is a way to make sure you are real, serious and have the means for sugaring. Most of the girls new to the sugaring may take that approach.

I never give a dime to any of these girls before panties hit the floor. But my point is if you outright rule out a girl as a scammer when they ask money upfront you may be missing some legit ones. Of course I am not going to spend time on category 1 or 2. One or two follow up questions are enough to weed out those. I have taken many girls in the category 3 to FC after convincing them I am serious and real and making sure they are comfortable. I understand more than 90% of girls of the site know how to manipulate a guy. They is a small fraction of girls that are genuine and want to get into a mutually beneficial arrangement, but are misguided by social media etc. Once you find them and agree for a meet & greet without upfront pay, your chance of success is very high. I have done it many times. Just my perspective on this.

Play Safe.

Dr. S.

[QUOTE=OrdinaryJohn;5310358]Oh I am well aware of that. I have not sent any money and will not send any money before meeting. I have had a couple of girls in the past ask for that before we met and I declined. But they still ended up being real and we met and had a good time in person. But obviously if they can milk some money out of you without meeting that is their preference. Not going to happen with me. The reason I asked about her is that We have been texting on and off for quite a while and she does not push trying to sell pictures before she will meet. But I have heard from a couple of members that caused think she is fake so I will move on and not waste an hour drive to find out.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=OrdinaryJohn;5310358]Oh I am well aware of that. I have not sent any money and will not send any money before meeting. I have had a couple of girls in the past ask for that before we met and I declined. But they still ended up being real and we met and had a good time in person. But obviously if they can milk some money out of you without meeting that is their preference. Not going to happen with me. The reason I asked about her is that We have been texting on and off for quite a while and she does not push trying to sell pictures before she will meet. But I have heard from a couple of members that caused think she is fake so I will move on and not waste an hour drive to find out.[/QUOTE]I discovered she was using pics off the internet of some model. I confronted her about it and she wouldn't own up to it. Scam all the way. . .

[QUOTE=Djapa1234;5308550]I like that attitude. I feel like showing up dressed well at rooftop bars / upscale lounges would draw attentions of potential sugar babies out in the wild or even just regular vanilla chicks wanting to date up.

A lot of the hotter women in charlotte don't use this site I know but are aware of the sd / sb dynamics. If you ever want to join the forces out there in the wild, please dm me. I am also sick of dealing with uneducated, average AT BEST, GPS trashy women.[/QUOTE]Yeah I am not having a great time either. Had an average looking 21 yo girl from Columbia ask for a 500 ppm yesterday and I told her that's a lot. She said I should probably try to find an escort for cheaper. I told her she is right and probably much a better looking one than her LOL. Another girl who just turned 18 asked me to buy her concert tickets which are 2 k before we meet. Almost every profile on SA has a describes themselves as goddesses and we should worship them for their attention. Guess the demand is high.

I think if you find a good SB you like, keep her long term. I have a regular SB I see every other week she is not perfect but she is prompt and really sweet. I like the excitement of something new but the effort and time is getting ridiculous to be worth it.

I don't have a lot of game since even though I am young (early 30's) and fit as I am introverted not tall but I would be open to be a wingman if you guys are looking for any.

[QUOTE=Sledg77;5310354]Don't waste your time or $$.[/QUOTE]I can confirm that Average Debster is 100% fake. I texted back and forth with her for about six weeks. On two occasions, when it seemed like we were close to setting up a time to meet in person, she asked for money via cash app. I told her I would never send her money in advance, but she still kept texting me. I told her she was being written about on this site about being fake, and she acted like she was surprised and upset. She sends awesome pics showing a well-endowed beauty, but it is not her. I finally stopped texting her and blocked her. Don't let her fool you into sending her any cash.

Has anyone talked to "Fox", she seems to be firm about a minimum 400 ppm. We have a M&G tomorrow. Any intel?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d5d23e69-400d-426b-b70c-dceb8e134396[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4d3034f5-faba-4650-9490-36ed217d99e3[/URL]

But I hope she isn't. Any intel? Thanks.

[QUOTE=Sledg77;5312611][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4d3034f5-faba-4650-9490-36ed217d99e3[/URL]

But I hope she isn't. Any intel? Thanks.[/QUOTE]On three different occasions I got her number, as soon as we texted the conversation died down within 10-15 messages. She ghosts.

Very very chatty on the site and sounds very promising and sounds she will do all sorts of great and sweet things for you and then. Crickets.

34 yo, no kids, a dog mom. Demons.

[QUOTE=Djapa1234;5313031]On three different occasions I got her number, as soon as we texted the conversation died down within 10-15 messages. She ghosts.

Very very chatty on the site and sounds very promising and sounds she will do all sorts of great and sweet things for you and then. Crickets.

34 yo, no kids, a dog mom. Demons.[/QUOTE]She's very verbose in her communications and makes it seem like she just can't wait to meet. We should ask if she'd like two guys at once. LOL.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3dfac1f6-bd5a-414d-a56b-43c69c75b633[/URL]

She's my type, wants 350 per meet and can host. Anyone with any experience?

So is it just me or there's more activity on SA past 3-4 days? I went on a m&g on Monday with a 21 yo and we went back to her place for the night. Surprisingly we just started talking that afternoon. I also have been getting a lot more responses and numbers. No change in my profile LOL. Weird.

[QUOTE=NoBigBang;5312040]Has anyone talked to "Fox", she seems to be firm about a minimum 400 ppm. We have a M&G tomorrow. Any intel?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d5d23e69-400d-426b-b70c-dceb8e134396[/URL][/QUOTE]Any update?

[QUOTE=SeaHawks3751;5314153]So is it just me or there's more activity on SA past 3-4 days? I went on a m&g on Monday with a 21 yo and we went back to her place for the night. Surprisingly we just started talking that afternoon. I also have been getting a lot more responses and numbers. No change in my profile LOL. Weird.[/QUOTE]Spent their stimulus money too quickly?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/41c77f1b-e684-43c4-988b-7963c5a07f54[/URL]

[QUOTE=HoHopper;5314911][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/41c77f1b-e684-43c4-988b-7963c5a07f54[/URL][/QUOTE]She just uploaded a picture of her nasty old pussy right to the profile pic like this is STG LOL.

Hey, guys. So I want to try the SB thing at least once. Is this anything like escorting, or better? Seems prices can be higher for SB. Is it expected to be an overnight visit or hourly? Any insight would be appreciated.

BTB.

I like the idea of joining forces. Most of the SB's in my experience have been convertee's versus off a site. Teaming up works well because then the girls realize they are not the only game in town versus just one on one. When there is a party or group of Sugar Daddy's and plenty of Sugar Babies around, the competitive energy of the women usually take over too.

Uptown is always a good choice too because then the women are not distracted by 20 something dudes all over the place, as in South End.

[QUOTE=Djapa1234;5308550]I like that attitude. I feel like showing up dressed well at rooftop bars / upscale lounges would draw attentions of potential sugar babies out in the wild or even just regular vanilla chicks wanting to date up.

A lot of the hotter women in charlotte don't use this site I know but are aware of the sd / sb dynamics. If you ever want to join the forces out there in the wild, please dm me. I am also sick of dealing with uneducated, average AT BEST, GPS trashy women.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SeaHawks3751;5310753]Yeah I am not having a great time either. Had an average looking 21 yo girl from Columbia ask for a 500 ppm yesterday and I told her that's a lot. She said I should probably try to find an escort for cheaper. I told her she is right and probably much a better looking one than her LOL. Another girl who just turned 18 asked me to buy her concert tickets which are 2 k before we meet. Almost every profile on SA has a describes themselves as goddesses and we should worship them for their attention. Guess the demand is high.

I think if you find a good SB you like, keep her long term. I have a regular SB I see every other week she is not perfect but she is prompt and really sweet. I like the excitement of something new but the effort and time is getting ridiculous to be worth it.

I don't have a lot of game since even though I am young (early 30's) and fit as I am introverted not tall but I would be open to be a wingman if you guys are looking for any.[/QUOTE]Don't fall for the traps. These girls think they are something special! LMAO.