"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

As an experiment I continued to chat. Two fantastic moments "what would you do if I took out my IUD" and "can you buy me a diamond ring to wear"? Oh and she was totally comfortable saying she loves me. Sight unseen.

[QUOTE=GuyInTheCorner;3206810]POT has a breeding fetish. Ok I can handle that. And it's an excuse to go BB, since she has an IUD. As we are enjoying the dirty talk she asks "well what if I get pregnant for real?" I let her go first and she says she wants to keep it because she doesn't believe in abortion. And then proceeds to talk about being my secret family and totally getting off on it. This is an educated professional 20-something white girl.

Though I am ashamed to admit the sheer level of crazy is kind of a huge turn on. I may have egged her on to see how far down the rabbit hole she would go. (The answer is that she wants me to get two other friends / SDs to join us for the BB breeding sessions.

This has made me realize that it's time to get out. Some of these girls are truly wacko. And I am getting turned on by seriously dangerous shit. At least this girl is open about it. The one that doesn't say anything is the real problem.

Later boys. Stay safe and sane. It's been real.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GuyInTheCorner;3214208]As an experiment I continued to chat. Two fantastic moments "what would you do if I took out my IUD" and "can you buy me a diamond ring to wear"? Oh and she was totally comfortable saying she loves me. Sight unseen.[/QUOTE]You're SURE she's not a catfish?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3214253]You're SURE she's not a catfish?[/QUOTE]Totally sure. Found her real FB Page and it is super populated over many years. She's 100% real.

[QUOTE=GuyInTheCorner;3214255]Totally sure. Found her real FB Page and it is super populated over many years. She's 100% real.[/QUOTE]Sounds like she is a master head game player! Fwiw. Thought most guys liked that kinda thing? Real life Survivor, Big Brother House and Marriage Boot Camp all rolled into one price!

No, the other kind. I have had a lot of luck lately downloading girl's profile pics and then opening them w / a viewing app (Preview on a Mac in my case). With the Inspector command, you get all the meta data connected w / the photo. In about half the cases, I get the GPS data from the iPhone she used to take the selfie. One click and a map opens up w / her location. You don't have to get creepy about it, it is just a way to confirm she is who / what she says.

Others have noted a correlation between the moon and SB activities. We are coming off a new moon, but in about a week we will have a full moon and I expect our action on SA will pick up dramatically. I have now bookmarked a site that shows the phase so I can keep up w / this factor.

This is amazing. Thanks for sharing. I always believed that SA automatically scrubs out any metadata that's on the pics (based off my initial downloads. But sounds like my experience was specific to those users).

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3214966]No, the other kind. I have had a lot of luck lately downloading girl's profile pics and then opening them w / a viewing app (Preview on a Mac in my case). With the Inspector command, you get all the meta data connected w / the photo. In about half the cases, I get the GPS data from the iPhone she used to take the selfie. One click and a map opens up w / her location. You don't have to get creepy about it, it is just a way to confirm she is who / what she says.[/QUOTE]

Wow! Congrats on shedding 40 lbs. Even though you gained some of it back you already know the secret sauce for losing the gut.

After your mention of death grip I figured that's one of my sexual issues as well. And, I didn't know that they have a term for that. LOL.

I did want to buy fleshlight few years ago but did not as the thought of cleanup of the toy was too much for me to go through. But I guess it might worth a try if it could help death grip issue.

Hope you hit your goal weight soon enough and get to dig many many more pussies.

[QUOTE=Tomas247;3212838]I lost 40 lbs last year doing low carb. I had the hardest erections of my life when I was very strict. I did end up gaining 20 lbs back for a net loss of 20 lbs, but I'm going to try to lose 30 total this year, putting me around 175.

When I've cut my masturbation down to 1-2 time per week, rather than daily, and use a Fleshlight, I perform much better with providers. I have a bit of a "death grip" issue, and it got to the point where I couldn't even feel when I was inside sometimes.

V helps a lot with that though. I actually get it from ADC and I get the 100 MG "Manly" branded generic. It works freaking great for me and makes it easier to go 2 pops in an hour. Shipping takes 3 weeks to VA though, and you have to be home to sign for it, which sucks. But it's legit.

Good luck on your goals. Last year I lost 8-10 lbs per month doing strict low carb <20 g per day.[/QUOTE]

Thanks JZL. Appreciate the precise and specific inputs on what needs to be done. Your point about urge to overdo working out is so very true. Six months ago I signed up for crossfit and pushed myself too hard to go from low-fit to super-fit too soon. Within few weeks I sustained tendon injuries that forced me to get off the program or be able to do any fitness exercise. Now that my injuries have mostly healed I am ready to get back on to an exercise schedule. But this time I will be extra careful not to overdo it. There is perhaps one more important point to add to your excellent summarization on sexual health. Adequate rest and sleep. From time to time I have suffered from insomnia due to work related travel. Reduced / inconsistent sleep has had a direct impact on my recovery as well as sexual performance. I guess a conscious planning and prep for one's rest and sleep is as important as planning for one's activities during the day.

[QUOTE=JZLizard;3213601]Think of your heart as the power supply for your dick, so basically intense cardio is probably going to give you the most bang for the buck while fucking (in terms of erection performance and overall physical endurance). Running is one of the more intense cardio activities (or at least it can be depending on how fast and for how long a duration). Someone once said the longer and harder you run the longer and harder you'll be. If your body is not used to very intense workouts you should plan on working up to it slowly, this applies to anything not just running. 15 lbs over probably won't take you very long to lose depending on many factors, but keep in mind until the weight is gone you shouldn't run as intensely as possible, 15 extra lbs is actually a lot of extra weight to lug around and can increase your chance of injury. Weight training is essential too, it helps boost your testosterone. Again though if you're not used to working out regularly, your initial challenge is probably going to be resisting the urge to overdo it while you get started. Start slowly and work your way up. If I were 15 lbs over, I'd probably go for lighter jogging (meaning sustained heart rate in the "weight loss" range rather than intense cardio for not too long a duration), and high-repetitions with lower weight amounts. Then by the time you get between 4-5 lbs of your target body weight, increase the intensity (faster running, longer durations). Your risk of injury is lower once you've gotten the first 10 or so lbs off so you can turn it up a bit. With weights your goal here is just to maintain proper form, don't do anything that results in an injury or pain beyond mild muscle fatigue and soreness. The purpose here is not to go for measurable strength increases, gain muscle mass or anything like that. For purposes of banging girls the reason to do it is because of the benefits of higher testosterone production, and you don't have to take crazy risks to do that. There are a lot of different ways to work out that would get you to the same place but cardio is key one way or another.

Diet gets really subjective because of individual preferences, so I'll just say there's a lot of good info on diet on the net. Fish & poultry, veggies, fruits, etc. If I'm feeling 3-4 pounds over where I want to be, I'll eat something like a broiled salmon salad after a workout and it seems like I'm back to my ideal self. Even wearing an extra 5-6 pounds and I can start to feel the hit on my sex life. Once you get where you want to be you can usually stray a bit as long as you work out a few times a week. Your body just kind of accepts that you're committed to working out regularly at some point, and just won't fall too far out of shape even if you eat pizza and beer occasionally.[/QUOTE]

Thanks! And since I kept track of my weight daily, I know exactly how it should fall off over the next few months. That 20 lbs that I gained back should be gone by mid February. A lot of it is water weight from eating carbs.

And yes, deathgrip is a serious issue. Some people have issue with porn desensitizing them to sex, but not me. My issue has always been tugging too tight to the point that you can hardly even feel when you're inside a real pussy. Thus, you just lose your erection.

So basically, to cure it, you need to lay off wanking it for a bit. At least a week. And then, when you start back, ALWAYS use the Fleshlight. It's not that hard to clean. I just squirt some soap in it, run warm water through it, dry it slightly, and put it back into hiding LOL. I've had the original one for over 8 years, and I even use silicon lube with it, and it's in as good of condition as the day I bought it. I think the original, super tight, feels better than any other sleeve I have, including the STU. It feels just like some tight asian pussy!

[QUOTE=Lebruno;3215917]Wow! Congrats on shedding 40 lbs. Even though you gained some of it back you already know the secret sauce for losing the gut.

After your mention of death grip I figured that's one of my sexual issues as well. And, I didn't know that they have a term for that. LOL.

I did want to buy fleshlight few years ago but did not as the thought of cleanup of the toy was too much for me to go through. But I guess it might worth a try if it could help death grip issue.

Hope you hit your goal weight soon enough and get to dig many many more pussies.[/QUOTE]

Newly registered member here. I've been lurking for a while reading the forum, but wanted to chime in now that I've pulled the trigger and opened a SA profile. Thanks to this forum and plenty of experiences to read about, I'm feeling pretty confident as I enter this game. The SA account has been surprisingly productive so far. Only been on the site 2 days and I have plenty of POTS that I've already begun talking with, exchanging numbers with. I do travel, so I'm excited to see how well this works in various places. Anyways, my post is a bit off the trending topic, just wanted to say thanks.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3215148]Others have noted a correlation between the moon and SB activities. We are coming off a new moon, but in about a week we will have a full moon and I expect our action on SA will pick up dramatically. I have now bookmarked a site that shows the phase so I can keep up w / this factor.[/QUOTE]Careful trying to get to sucked in to causality.

I saw a huge spike in SB activity, but I attribute it to -- girls on break from college needing spending money and having some time; New Years resolutions to get out of debt or more out of life; women overspening at the holidays; mid-20's / early 30's gals annoyed by their families asking why they aren't married / depressed not having NYE dates, being alone for the holidays.

While after proximity to other women, lunar cycles is a high ranking impact on menstrual cycles, I don't think the moon is what's driving the recent spate of horny babes.

At least at the moment you can use NY resolutions as the excuse, but sudden weight loss / interest in fitness is a high ranking sign someone is cheating.

[QUOTE=Cbcb2226;3216370]Newly registered member here. I've been lurking for a while reading the forum, but wanted to chime in now that I've pulled the trigger and opened a SA profile. Thanks to this forum and plenty of experiences to read about, I'm feeling pretty confident as I enter this game. The SA account has been surprisingly productive so far. Only been on the site 2 days and I have plenty of POTS that I've already begun talking with, exchanging numbers with. I do travel, so I'm excited to see how well this works in various places. Anyways, my post is a bit off the trending topic, just wanted to say thanks.[/QUOTE]Welcome to the forum and to the Brotherhood of the Bowl.

Always nice to see one who is willing to read the history and learn from it. That is why some post- to leave tracks for others. I learned the various forms of mongering from reading here AND asking questions. Many knowledgeable & helpful gents around. Have been pleased to cut down on the "experiential learning" due to the kindnesses here.

So stop in from time to time, share some experiences, ask a question or just tell a story!

Stay safe & play hard!

Need some advice gentlemen. This is a SB I've been talk to for several weeks. She's been out of town on winter break, and we've just been getting to know each other over text and stuff. We're planning to meet when she gets back to town in a week or two.

A few days ago I mentioned to her that I was looking for an intimate arrangement to which she replied that intimacy is something that is expected and that she enjoys, but friendship is also important to her. And regarding expectation she said.

"In terms of motivations and expectations, I'm not desperate for money, but college is expensive and it's nice to occasionally be able to buy nice things. I set financial expectations as "practical" which has a numerical value somewhere on this site. As I'm aware that most people favor a "per meeting" arrangement, it's still a decent guideline depending on how frequently you'd like to meet and what you think my time is worth.

I was thinking about telling her that I generally budget $100-200 per intimate meeting, depending on the circumstances, several times per month. Do you all think this is reasonable? This is my first attempt with a SB, so I'm trying not to screw it up.