[QUOTE=Cmb41;6862016]So I've seen this girl 3 times now, each visit more passionate than the next. After the 2nd visit she asked to exchange numbers and said to text her when I come in next to make sure she's free. After the fun today she asked if I wanted a shower. In the shower we get to talking and she asked if I was off tomorrow. She said she was too and asked if I liked KBBQ. After I said yes she said I should call her and we could go, she knows all the good spots.
I've never met up with a girl outside of the spa. Is it possible she actually enjoys and wants to spend time with me? Or is she fishing for more $$ outside the spa?
I don't want to go in to this thinking I should tip her and she get offended because she actually just wanted to have dinner with me. But I also don't want to do the dinner thing and whatever else thinking it's because she wants too just to find out she sticks her hand out for $$.
Appreciate anyone's help in advance![/QUOTE]My advice is don't overthink it. I've had flings and long terms outside of the spa even when they are married LOL. Just run with it if it feels right, you may have a wonderful time. These girls have plenty of opportunity to make $ if they are attractive so if she is willing to see you outside of work she must genuinely have some chemistry with you or she liked how you fucked her. Have fun while you're alive!
