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Definite Scam
Not really understanding this post and not trying to hate but... headline to your post says "Potential Scam". She took $40 deposit from you without showing up, tried to extort even more out of you before ghosting. That's a definite scam. Can't even see the post on your link because it got deleted. You say you're an 'experienced hobbyist' who's been scammed before. How many times do you have to lose $10/$20/$40 deposits before you learn? You’ve twisted the logic to make it sound like you saved $40 by not paying the full deposit like he/she demanded. That scammer is happy as hell to to take whatever you give them and move on to the next schmuck. Don’t pay deposits.
[QUOTE=Robert1744;5287226]I got the itch for the first time in a loooooong time and saw this ad this morning on SKG.
[URL]https://raleigh.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/special-offer-1h-1802h-240shor/543828968497[/URL]
Erika is SO my type, girl-next door looks. The phone number doesn't pop up in other cities, she seems legit. We start texting and agree on an $80 QV. She asks for some money upfront. I don't mind this given the amount. A lot of these girls do get scammed by the guys. So I cashapp half of it and she comes back asking for full payment before we can schedule anything.
Nope. I walked. I told her that's not how I do business and that I've been scammed. I told her if she wants to see an experience hobbyist who tips, let me know and I'll bring the rest of the donation. But I absolutely don't mind losing $40 to not risk losing another $40 and told her that.
My gut tells me she probably isn't scamming. She's cute and used to getting what she wants. Not from me. The customer always sets the rules. If I can't lose $40 to abide by that, I've got no business playing this game.
YMMV.[/QUOTE]
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My 2 cents
My advice, and I'm sure a lot of guys would disagree with me on this, is to sign up for one month of Seeking Arrangement. Wait til you find a promo code so you're not paying $90 or whatever they charge. Get as many phone numbers as you can in that 1 month. Still have to look out for scammers, not so much thieves, but the quality of girls you're looking for is there. You probably won't be able to get the white / sorority college girl for the price you're looking for but you can find single moms in their 30's, older milfs, younger black / hispanic girls for 100-250 per meet. It's very 'hit or miss', a lot of it depends on you making the effort but I think you'll have better success with SA than on STG / Eros.
[QUOTE=Shadows1517;5286822]Any of you fellow hobbyists know of a way to cut through the crap of all the scammers and thieves to find a decent provider with moderate (read as not streetwalker inexpensive, but not Eros high-end ladies. At least high end prices) rates for their time. My ideal is to find someone who wants a regular who doesn't have sugar a daddy wallet? Just a fair dream at a fair price with someone not high every time you see her, and not located in a New Bern Sting target motel?
Any suggestions of providers you may know who fit this description would be great. If you care to share them. PM me if so.
Thank guys!
Shadows.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=PartTimeMonger;5284225]I've seen her. She's a very sweet girl and I thought she was prettier than her pics.
Regarding BKS, maybe you have to see one of their people before you get full access.[/QUOTE]After first dream you get the VIP access. Look for specials as well once you have VIP access.
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Thanks Badger
[QUOTE=AzBadger7;5287690]My advice, and I'm sure a lot of guys would disagree with me on this, is to sign up for one month of Seeking Arrangement. Wait til you find a promo code so you're not paying $90 or whatever they charge. Get as many phone numbers as you can in that 1 month. Still have to look out for scammers, not so much thieves, but the quality of girls you're looking for is there. You probably won't be able to get the white / sorority college girl for the price you're looking for but you can find single moms in their 30's, older milfs, younger black / hispanic girls for 100-250 per meet. It's very 'hit or miss', a lot of it depends on you making the effort but I think you'll have better success with SA than on STG / Eros.[/QUOTE]Definitely a thought I hadn't hit on myself. I know there are scammers out there and read about guys falling prey every day here. Just getting so tired of how difficult it has become to find someone who will respond, meet, and then deliver as promised. All of the possibilities you called out are fine by me. I'm not getting any younger, and the older milfs are likely still younger than me. Race is less important than attitude and personality these days. A hook-up should just be fun. Period.
Thanks again! Other ideas welcomed as well.
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[QUOTE=Sam2050;5287562]I posted a review on BKS but how do you let them know? Just text back or something?
I was disappointed as well, as the session was more of a 'I am doing you a favor' then anything else, even though there were some moments she was getting in but overall she wasn't.[/QUOTE]Exact feeling I got as well, plus a very cold attitude. As soon as we were done, I started to get the feeling she wanted me out of there. I just text BKS and told whoever the person was on the other end. I guess leaving a review on their site may have unnecessary consequences.
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Sweet in the Middle?
Seems like 20% of the providers out there are using Sweet in the Middle in their Ad Tag Line. Anyone know if this is just a nod to the song Sweet in the Middle by Davido?
I mean, I get it we all target the middle, one side or the other, but this makes it harder to spot the same girl on multiple sites. Which I try to do to add to my confidence they are real girls.
Any thoughts? Anyone else notice this. Especially lately?
Thanks. Shadows.
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[QUOTE=ILoveDeams;5287915]Exact feeling I got as well, plus a very cold attitude. As soon as we were done, I started to get the feeling she wanted me out of there. I just text BKS and told whoever the person was on the other end. I guess leaving a review on their site may have unnecessary consequences.[/QUOTE]I met Adonna late last year and got the same treatment. It was good at the beginning but felt I was being rushed out and my whole stay was less than an half hour.
One thing that caught my attention was she told me she had no idea what was being advertised on BKS for example she was not 24 and not from Colombia. I don't know what happened between her and BKS but the info BKS gave out does not match the actual date.
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The Force
[QUOTE=Tawayem;5287049][URL]https://raleigh.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/clean-wet-pussy-gfe-anal-blow/988692766215[/URL]
Any idea if legit?
Deposit kinda makes it a no-go anyway, but still.[/QUOTE]The penis is strong with this one.
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[QUOTE=ILoveDeams;5287915]Exact feeling I got as well, plus a very cold attitude. As soon as we were done, I started to get the feeling she wanted me out of there. I just text BKS and told whoever the person was on the other end. I guess leaving a review on their site may have unnecessary consequences.[/QUOTE]Same thing happened to me. First visit with Adonna was awesome. Went back about 2 months later and it was like I wasn't even there. Very cold and unresponsive. I think I could have left once she got her toy out and she wouldn't have even noticed. Such a waste. Beautiful body but piss poor attitude.
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Warning Deposit Scam
[URL]https://adultsearch.com/north-carolina/raleigh/female-escorts/2290029[/URL]
Don't have the time to tell the entire story right now, but this is one of the most bullshit 'Oh by the way' deposit scammers I have ever had the joy of seeing ply their trade. Will fill in details later but trust me, avoid this one like the plague.
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Swim
[QUOTE=Shadows1517;5287917]Seems like 20% of the providers out there are using Sweet in the Middle in their Ad Tag Line. Anyone know if this is just a nod to the song Sweet in the Middle by Davido?
I mean, I get it we all target the middle, one side or the other, but this makes it harder to spot the same girl on multiple sites. Which I try to do to add to my confidence they are real girls.
Any thoughts? Anyone else notice this. Especially lately?
Thanks. Shadows.[/QUOTE]It's funny I just googled the song and lyrics. In addition to "Sweet in the middle " more than one provider has used the word "swim" which can be an acronym for Sweet In the Middle.
I hope someone can provide definite information.
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[QUOTE=TheyLoveMe;5287348]So they are real? & clean and safe? And is it a select girls I can choose from?[/QUOTE]These are not real pics.
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Stephanie, is she legit?
This girl.
[URL]https://raleigh.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/sexy-stephanie/560434458301[/URL]
I searched her images, they didn't appear on any non-escort sites. I did, however, find another potential review, but, I dunno how credible the source is considering this is my first time hearing of it.
[URL]https://tosluts.com/forums/showthread.php/3996101-984-235-8263-Charming-Unforgettable-Lady[/URL]
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Cheyenne in sandford
Have anyone heard anything about her or have seen her lately in sandford seems she has drop of the map in that location.
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Toy / alicee
Its been a while since this happened to me, but in case you are planning to visit this one I recommend you to stay away. Here is the link.
[URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/northcarolina/raleighdurham/60497078/[/URL]
New face, I thought I will give it a try. I texted this morning and I got a reply within 30 min indicating availability. 120 HH was the dream and once I got there, I was told to park in the driveway of a house. A guy comes up and ask for the roses upfront and gave me instructions to go straight to the last room of the house and don't say anything. I should probably turn around, but as always, I f* up and went in.
I opened the door and there are 5 other guys spread on what it was the living room and the dining room / kitchen. "Toy" is standing on a chair (yes, standing). I have seen her before, and even though she is good, things can go wrong with her because I honestly think she is bipolar. The last 2 times her mood changes were a factor why I would not call her anymore. At this point I knew I screwed up because the donation was handed to the dude, and Toy recognized me and jumped to greet me. People there started laughing and she started saying we go way back and she knows me and I was a loyal customer, yada yada. Dude that took the money comes in and joins to the conversation. We chatted for 2-3 minutes. She asked me where I was and how I was doing, etc.
Dude that took the donation told her not to make me wait and grabs her hand and some roses went there. She asked me what was the agreed dreamed and I answered. She look at him and straightened her hand asking for the 'rest'. At first everyone was laughing, and they were going back and forth about this.
Dude that received the donation tells me to go to the back as planned and everything will be taken care of. I was waiting in a room with a sofa only for about 7 minutes. I could tell the argument started escalating to a new level because now people were raising their voices. At that point, I was debating whether to leave, but I wanted to do it in a way that won't make them mad. I knew the rose donation was lost at that point, but I did not care. Then, Toy comes in and tells me come with her because she wanted to say something. So I followed her to the living room, and now there is another lady with the guys out there.
She opens her hand and says I just want to let you know you are a loyal customer and I am basically doing this for zero roses, but I am doing this only for you. She pointed few people that I guess took part of the roses and said that was not fair. People there started questioning her, and I interrupted saying that I was leaving because I had to be somewhere else, and I don't want them to argue because of this. Of course, I won't ask for the roses back.
Dude that took the donation tells me I don't have to do that, and asked me to following him again and told me to wait and things will be taken care of. After waiting for 3 minutes, I noticed the discussion was not going to stop so I walked back to the living room and told them I have to go. Dude that took the donation told me not to, and business is business and go back. I told him the truth. Hey man, I came in, we all started laughing now all are arguing with each other and I feel it is my fault. I am walking out, and I hope you guys have a good day. I left with no dream and with no roses. Apparently, the lady with glasses in the link supposed to be there, but she was not responding to his call, so Toy came in.