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Her email had her real name in it, so I searched it and she is the girl in the photos, and also has 70 mutual friends on FB with me. Including several who are close / best friends of mine. I haven't met her before, or seen her, but she's cute as hell and it looks like I should probably stay away.
I'm single, no kids, etc, but I don't know if I want to deal with the possible drama.[/QUOTE]She risks being seen as a ***** by those friends. You are just looking to get laid.
It seems like SA has FINALLY found the key to the castle on prepaid cards. I just renewed my membership with a OneVanilla Prepaid Visa Debit card. They now have a checkbox down at the bottom of the payment window that you are using a prepaid debit card, and my charge for a 1-month renewal went right through. I have accumulated over 30 nice messages while traveling over the past 2 weeks with no membership or access. We'll see if they turn into anything great.
[QUOTE=Gesab69;3198646]I apologize if this has been asked before, but after plenty of searching, I am not really coming up with a definitive answer. Do you use a real profile picture in your account? Seems like most only send a pic if asked.[/QUOTE]Don't use a real photo of yourself, find someone on the internet who looks sorta like you and use that photo. Modify it (flip to the mirror image or something) so it can't be found by reverse image search. Take out any virtual data associated w / it. If you are communicating w / someone, you have to send them a real photo.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3199328]Don't use a real photo of yourself, find someone on the internet who looks sorta like you and use that photo. Modify it (flip to the mirror image or something) so it can't be found by reverse image search. Take out any virtual data associated w / it. If you are communicating w / someone, you have to send them a real photo.[/QUOTE]So I found this topic interesting. I am not married, no SO, no kids so completely single. I do use my picture because at the end of the day you will be meeting up with them face to face. I don't want any drama if I show up and I look northing like my picture. I hate it when SB use fake pics and I get pissed. However, I understand if there are guys out there who are married, have SO and what ever. Because I am completely single I do use my real pics. However, I keep them private and only allow access to select SB after we have communicated for a while and plus I don't let them have access for too long. Maybe for 24 - 48 hours.
[QUOTE=Ltnric;3199394]So I found this topic interesting. I am not married, no SO, no kids so completely single. I do use my picture because at the end of the day you will be meeting up with them face to face. I don't want any drama if I show up and I look northing like my picture. I hate it when SB use fake pics and I get pissed. However, I understand if there are guys out there who are married, have SO and what ever. Because I am completely single I do use my real pics. However, I keep them private and only allow access to select SB after we have communicated for a while and plus I don't let them have access for too long. Maybe for 24 - 48 hours.[/QUOTE]I don't post a pic at all. I send real pic when asked or get to texting stage. Seems guys love to bash girls for not using a real pic or something close but its fine for them to do so.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3199328]Don't use a real photo of yourself, find someone on the internet who looks sorta like you and use that photo. Modify it (flip to the mirror image or something) so it can't be found by reverse image search. Take out any virtual data associated w / it. If you are communicating w / someone, you have to send them a real photo.[/QUOTE]Thank you for the answer.
[QUOTE=CarltonW;3198167]Be on the lookout for WallFlowerPetal.
JMU undergrad with some cute photos with nice bod.
Recently changed some of her photos to reflect the scam photos she is emailing around in exchange for $$.
She forgot to take down the one profile photo linked to her Facebook. Parents are super strict military types, so we was quick to refund.[/QUOTE]She's not a scam as I've met her. It took some work to get from online to in person.
Merry Christmas you filthy animal.
[QUOTE=BrazzerToFive;3199902]She's not a scam as I've met her. It took some work to get from online to in person.
Merry Christmas you filthy animal.[/QUOTE]She seemed promising but then sent two sets of pics for some $$, all of which were demonstrably not her in the least.
[QUOTE=BrazzerToFive;3199902]She's not a scam as I've met her. It took some work to get from online to in person.
Merry Christmas you filthy animal.[/QUOTE]She is now advertising as Panty Queen.
I want to thank each and everyone on this forum. The facts you have provided on how to be in the bowl have been in valuable to me as I ventured in the Sugar world.
I look forward to sharing my experiences with you and seeking your advice. I have had at most 4 in rotation this summer and now I am down to just two as of today.
Might be down to one if the discussion I need to have with my favorite does not go well.
I have noticed and uptick in young ladies on the site during the winter break.
I need the wisdom of the elders to address my temptation. I work 45 min from my home, teaching at a college. I have focused some effort on POTs from that town, b / c I can see girls there with the least risk of discovery by the SO. I have a few I am chatting w / who seem amenable, but now I am getting worried that our being at the same place (tho w / 20000 students) could risk my blowing my cover. I did not pursue a hot earlier POT b / c she is an employee of the college and I worried she could stumble upon me. The current POTs are in way different fields than mine and likely never show up in my area of the campus.
[QUOTE=Thresh;3197165]Magic wands are a HUGE hit, one I would recommend every SD bring to the FC. To elaborate a bit more; I carry a tool box (2' wide) stuffed with all sorts of toys. While most are your standard sex toys, I have some rather unique ones in there that solicits a raised eyebrow. It is a great icebreaker and it intrigues both young and old SBs. They become enamored and intrigued with experiencing something new.
As I correspond with new POTs, I will mention "the toolbox" in passing, not as a main topic, but enough to tease them a bit and raise their curiosity. It's funny to see them circle back around after the subject is changed wanting to know more about what's inside.
Cheers: Thresh.[/QUOTE]So I have a large duffle bag that I keep in the trunk of the car. I find it amazing how many of these girls have never tried toys or other things I keep in the bag. Magic wand. Check, gem plugs. Check (I give these to any of the girls willing to try them, they are pretty and it seems like a reward to them), rabbit vid. Check (they love these things, sometimes more than the magic wand, depends on the girl), 18" double dildo. Check (had some fun with this when one of my girls want to bring her girlfriend to play), and a bunch of other things to play with. I have a couple of recommendations if you get a magic wand, try your best to get a real one, the fakes can catch on fire and they are all over Amazon, but it is worth it. Get the Jopen-vr6 Vibrator, had one girl cum so much with this thing she rolled off the bed. Lots of fun. A good g-spot wand.
I have also been playing with a TENS device, a little electro stimulation. Nothing to serious, just the box and some electro pads. Something to think about.
I also keep lots of lube, condoms, and toy cleaner in the bag.
The other nice thing about the duffle bag is I now have luggage when I check in at the hotel.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3202600]I need the wisdom of the elders to address my temptation. I work 45 min from my home, teaching at a college. I have focused some effort on POTs from that town, b / c I can see girls there with the least risk of discovery by the SO. I have a few I am chatting w / who seem amenable, but now I am getting worried that our being at the same place (tho w / 20000 students) could risk my blowing my cover. I did not pursue a hot earlier POT b / c she is an employee of the college and I worried she could stumble upon me. The current POTs are in way different fields than mine and likely never show up in my area of the campus.[/QUOTE]You are looking at girls too close to your world. Most would be discrete but it only takes one for your worlds to collide. If you worked near the college at something unconnected and then could see girls while in the area, that could work. The problem is you can't protect your anonymity. For Example, Let's say your banging this hot college girl and it goes south. She's pissed. One day she sees you from a distance, follows you or asks others about you. Do you see where this is going? Then she has all the power. Maybe she needs 2000 bucks for "school expenses". Maybe she thinks your an asshole and you need to be outed to the wife or even the school. She has you by the balls then. Do yourself a favor and watch "Fatal Attraction" with Michael Douglas and you will get it.
[QUOTE=RedBaronDaron;3202775]You are looking at girls too close to your world. Most would be discrete but it only takes one for your worlds to collide. If you worked near the college at something unconnected and then could see girls while in the area, that could work. The problem is you can't protect your anonymity. For Example, Let's say your banging this hot college girl and it goes south. She's pissed. One day she sees you from a distance, follows you or asks others about you. Do you see where this is going? Then she has all the power. Maybe she needs 2000 bucks for "school expenses". Maybe she thinks your an asshole and you need to be outed to the wife or even the school. She has you by the balls then. Do yourself a favor and watch "Fatal Attraction" with Michael Douglas and you will get it.[/QUOTE]RBD said it all, what he said is the reason "why" not to. There is also a hint of a request for "how" not to in your message though.
If you're looking for tactics to talk yourself out of it, just imagine the absolute worst that could possibly happen, and think deep on it. Keep replaying variations on the worst case scenario in your mind. Meanwhile distract yourself with other girls that are not involved in any way with your place of employment (that may actually be a little harder than it sounds if your primary playing field is near a decent sized school). It may take a little practice to get the hang of but the combination of the distraction of lower-risk POTS combined with the realization of the worst case scenarios will lower the temptation effect and help you stay on the right path.
Problem is, you don't need a worst case scenario to occur in order to start accumulating a long list of regrets that is difficult to remedy. Once you start getting a few stressful events (close calls) under your belt, you realize that taking risks with your job or marriage are just not worth it. While not as bad as getting caught, getting a taste of what it's like to get caught sucks almost as bad and takes all the fun out the game.
The bowl offers a steady enough supply of pussy that it makes no sense to put yourself at risk of repercussions in your professional or personal life. Being married and playing with girls that are involved in anyway with your job is a double-risk.
Alas, only for those w / o SOs.
[QUOTE=CopperFool;3202681]So I have a large duffle bag that I keep in the trunk of the car. I find it amazing how many of these girls have never tried toys or other things I keep in the bag. Magic wand. Check, gem plugs. Check (I give these to any of the girls willing to try them, they are pretty and it seems like a reward to them), rabbit vid. Check (they love these things, sometimes more than the magic wand, depends on the girl), 18" double dildo. Check (had some fun with this when one of my girls want to bring her girlfriend to play), and a bunch of other things to play with. I have a couple of recommendations if you get a magic wand, try your best to get a real one, the fakes can catch on fire and they are all over Amazon, but it is worth it. Get the Jopen-vr6 Vibrator, had one girl cum so much with this thing she rolled off the bed. Lots of fun. A good g-spot wand.
I have also been playing with a TENS device, a little electro stimulation. Nothing to serious, just the box and some electro pads. Something to think about.
I also keep lots of lube, condoms, and toy cleaner in the bag.
The other nice thing about the duffle bag is I now have luggage when I check in at the hotel.[/QUOTE]