"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3197120]What's making girls suddenly desperate on SA? Full moon? I don't have an active membership and I have had many messages coming in. Some new people, some old. I've tried to go without a paid membership b / c it can be so distracting, but the messages and photos I've been sent are sure intriguing - I may need to pay to read them.[/QUOTE]Same thing here dude. I needed a break from that place but the messages keep coming and I may have to pay for a month just to read all the messages I've received recently. Some intriguing for sure.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3197120]What's making girls suddenly desperate on SA? Full moon? I don't have an active membership and I have had many messages coming in. Some new people, some old. I've tried to go without a paid membership b / c it can be so distracting, but the messages and photos I've been sent are sure intriguing - I may need to pay to read them.[/QUOTE]One thing I have to learn is to stay away from SA when I'm not carrying an active membership. I'm flooded with messages and "favorites" from women who want to get to the next step. Arrgh!

Magic wands are a HUGE hit, one I would recommend every SD bring to the FC. To elaborate a bit more; I carry a tool box (2' wide) stuffed with all sorts of toys. While most are your standard sex toys, I have some rather unique ones in there that solicits a raised eyebrow. It is a great icebreaker and it intrigues both young and old SBs. They become enamored and intrigued with experiencing something new.

As I correspond with new POTs, I will mention "the toolbox" in passing, not as a main topic, but enough to tease them a bit and raise their curiosity. It's funny to see them circle back around after the subject is changed wanting to know more about what's inside.

Cheers: Thresh.

[QUOTE=Dsprdo;3196393]It was awesome. She's a little thicker than I go for, but a 20 year old can carry it well. She was nervous at first, so we sat and chatted for a while until she was comfortable. I eased her into the FC and we had a lot of fun. I found out she had never used a vibrator so I introduced her to Mr. Magic wand, it was a big hit. I finally had to kick her out after about 5 hours, she was showing no signs of being ready to leave. We never discussed allowance, she never asked, at the end I slipped 120 into her purse. She has already texted me a couple of times since, so we'll be getting together again soon.[/QUOTE]

I've seen the same flurry of activity. I'm pretty sure it is a rush for Christmas cash.

It kind of pushes them into our arms! LOL.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3197120]What's making girls suddenly desperate on SA? Full moon? I don't have an active membership and I have had many messages coming in. Some new people, some old. I've tried to go without a paid membership b / c it can be so distracting, but the messages and photos I've been sent are sure intriguing - I may need to pay to read them.[/QUOTE]

Don't buy a knockoff cheap wand! The hitachi never disappoints! Take the show on the road with the rechargeable model!

My first long term sb was a gem! The first thing she did before we had even met was give me a toy wishlist. Leather restraints, gem plug, hitachi, dildos! Of course I added to the list and we had a huge box of toys for out first weekend date. We basically didn't leave the hotel room for two days except for dinner on sat night. Which the remote wireless buttplug was buzzing throughout dinner. For my bday my naughty little girl gave me / her a lush and we-vibe that she would get off on while in her while a classes at college 250 miles away.

[QUOTE=Thresh;3197165]Magic wands are a HUGE hit, one I would recommend every SD bring to the FC. To elaborate a bit more; I carry a tool box (2' wide) stuffed with all sorts of toys. While most are your standard sex toys, I have some rather unique ones in there that solicits a raised eyebrow. It is a great icebreaker and it intrigues both young and old SBs. They become enamored and intrigued with experiencing something new.

As I correspond with new POTs, I will mention "the toolbox" in passing, not as a main topic, but enough to tease them a bit and raise their curiosity. It's funny to see them circle back around after the subject is changed wanting to know more about what's inside.

Cheers: Thresh.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;3197636]I've seen the same flurry of activity. I'm pretty sure it is a rush for Christmas cash.

It kind of pushes them into our arms! LOL.[/QUOTE]Exactly! THAT and lots of free time since Finals are done and school is out for the time being.

[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;3197758]Exactly! THAT and lots of free time since Finals are done and school is out for the time being.[/QUOTE]Well, crap. This is a great opportunity but circumstances are really putting a crimp into my action. I can't as easily get out of the house as my work is shutting down for the holidays. Even seeing my regular SB is going to be tough. Caught a bad cold on my last trip, though. Makes me feel like I just OD'd on viagra.

You guys know you can deactivate, right? This will keep your account (it will reactivate next time you log in) but basically remove you for purposes of communications (you won't be tempted by ongoing messages, don't have to worry about the girls feeling you're ignoring them by not responding). I'm not sure if there's a time limit on how long you can stay deactivated or not.

Do you get a new set for each new SB? I remember getting one for one of my first SB's, and took it out of the package before she came over. She had a fit that I wanted to use something that had been in another woman. Of course, this was the same woman that got a plug in one and melted it down using it so much that it caught on fire about a month later.

[QUOTE=Thresh;3197165]Magic wands are a HUGE hit, one I would recommend every SD bring to the FC. To elaborate a bit more; I carry a tool box (2' wide) stuffed with all sorts of toys. While most are your standard sex toys, I have some rather unique ones in there that solicits a raised eyebrow. It is a great icebreaker and it intrigues both young and old SBs. They become enamored and intrigued with experiencing something new.

As I correspond with new POTs, I will mention "the toolbox" in passing, not as a main topic, but enough to tease them a bit and raise their curiosity. It's funny to see them circle back around after the subject is changed wanting to know more about what's inside.

Cheers: Thresh.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Beachesnole02;3198085]Do you get a new set for each new SB? I remember getting one for one of my first SB's, and took it out of the package before she came over. She had a fit that I wanted to use something that had been in another woman. Of course, this was the same woman that got a plug in one and melted it down using it so much that it caught on fire about a month later.[/QUOTE]They are kind of pricey, so not a new one every time. This girl actually asked me if it was clean, but most haven't said a thing. Once I touched her with it, no more questions! The look on her face when I started was priceless.

Be on the lookout for WallFlowerPetal.

JMU undergrad with some cute photos with nice bod.

Recently changed some of her photos to reflect the scam photos she is emailing around in exchange for $$.

She forgot to take down the one profile photo linked to her Facebook. Parents are super strict military types, so we was quick to refund.

[QUOTE=Thresh;3197165]Magic wands are a HUGE hit, one I would recommend every SD bring to the FC. To elaborate a bit more; I carry a tool box (2' wide) stuffed with all sorts of toys. While most are your standard sex toys, I have some rather unique ones in there that solicits a raised eyebrow. It is a great icebreaker and it intrigues both young and old SBs. They become enamored and intrigued with experiencing something new.

As I correspond with new POTs, I will mention "the toolbox" in passing, not as a main topic, but enough to tease them a bit and raise their curiosity. It's funny to see them circle back around after the subject is changed wanting to know more about what's inside.

Cheers: Thresh.[/QUOTE]Take it to the next level and get a machine or 2 or 3.

A girl the town over messaged me on SA. I asked her if she would like to chat by email rather than on SA and so she sent me her email.

Her email had her real name in it, so I searched it and she is the girl in the photos, and also has 70 mutual friends on FB with me. Including several who are close / best friends of mine. I haven't met her before, or seen her, but she's cute as hell and it looks like I should probably stay away.

I'm single, no kids, etc, but I don't know if I want to deal with the possible drama.

[QUOTE=JZLizard;3198018]You guys know you can deactivate, right? This will keep your account (it will reactivate next time you log in) but basically remove you for purposes of communications (you won't be tempted by ongoing messages, don't have to worry about the girls feeling you're ignoring them by not responding). I'm not sure if there's a time limit on how long you can stay deactivated or not.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I do that sometimes, when I don't want a regular SB to know I'm on the site. But she has deactivated hers and I trust her (yeah I know), and I find it irresistible. I have 20 messages worth keeping in the inbox from just 2 days on the site. Deleted many more wackos.

I apologize if this has been asked before, but after plenty of searching, I am not really coming up with a definitive answer. Do you use a real profile picture in your account? Seems like most only send a pic if asked.