From hygiene to cucumbers to hpv
OK I can swallow the whole scenario about Lexie. Here is my only question. If her ex is such a cocksucker that he created a profile about her on a site like that, then why all of a sudden would he be a cool guy and immediately remove it after a link was posted on here? A link supposedly he posted to ruin her? You need a username and password on that site I'm sure so why would he post it to bash her then immediately remove the page in question? I really hope its not true cause she's a sweetie, but to many questions for me. LEXI needs to get on here and defend herself. But I just don't think she can
Phoebe. A good choice for MILF lovers
I saw this one a while ago when she was with an agency:
[url]http://tropicofphoebe.escort-site.com/services.phtml[/url]
I see that she has now gone independent.
As many of you know, MILFs are not my thing, but this one came about as close to making me happy as any 40-ish woman likely could. For those of you who like the older ladies, you can't go wrong with this one. She is very well educated, and super-enthusiastic.
I would describe Phoebe as attractive for an older woman. The pics are her. But they do portray her in the best possible light.
Soccer-mom lovers, this one is for you!
Phoebe. Cincinnati's Finest
She is definitely one of Cincy's finest; regardless of her age. You will be hard pressed to do better. She does not advertise here, but is well known and very appreciated on another site. She has been an independent for some time. Tall, nice body, pretty eyes, great breasts, highly skilled, pretty and intelligent. Menu is very extensive. Her rate has moved up a little, but she is worth every cent.
[QUOTE=Todd Cincy; 1343653]I saw this one a while ago when she was with an agency:
[url]http://tropicofphoebe.escort-site.com/services.phtml[/url]
I see that she has now gone independent.
As many of you know, MILFs are not my thing, but this one came about as close to making me happy as any 40-ish woman likely could. For those of you who like the older ladies, you can't go wrong with this one. She is very well educated, and super-enthusiastic.
I would describe Phoebe as attractive for an older woman. The pics are her. But they do portray her in the best possible light.
Soccer-mom lovers, this one is for you![/QUOTE]
Why not put what I wrote?
That is nuts that someone would change the words in my post. When Massagefreak texted me, and I still have the text, he said,"U never liked. Me? How sad. Liked me enough to take my money. But all working girls are like that I guess. Your the one with the problem not me" For one, that is pretty fucked up that you would even say a thing like that to someone that has had something happen to them and trying in the best way to deal with it. Not as an adult but as a young child. And this happened my my natural father. One thing about the relationship between me and my mother, we are close and I share EVERYTHING with her. She knows what I do and when I do it. But when all this happened to me as a child, she told me was lying. I've had so much resentment towards her over the years and I have finally been able to let that go some. She has been tearing my ex a new asshole.
Also, has anyone figured out who this KySafe person is? I know someone said that they signed up the day that they posted what they posted.
[QUOTE=KySafe; 1343035]There might be a reason Lexi does not allow DATY.
Close inspection might reveal some than you wish to know.
[url]http://www.stdfriends.com/EatinCrayons[/url][/QUOTE]
Beware of a member. JimSails
JimSails recommended a girl that ripped me off for 75. Silly me.
He is also reommending the "van" experience. BE CAREFUL!
The ripoff? Rosalee. Beware.
Be Safe.
Driftwood
Yes, Let's Give it a Rest.
Come on guys, please give it a rest. Lexi has agreed to getting tested. It's freaking Christmas maybe she has some responsibilities that take precedence right now, let her get the tests done and we all will have the answer.
I don't believe that things have changed in the good ol' USA and someone is still innocent until proven guilty. So far we have just one, unsubstantiated claim from a member who has only one post, the one in which he makes the accusation.
How would we all like it if one of our ex-SOs found out about us hobbying, then signed up as a provider claiming that we gave her HPV, Herpes or God forbid HIV? The accusation is not as damaging to us, because we don't earn our living by our cocks. The ladies don't pay us. We still can go to work, we will still have the cash needed to provide a good Christmas. All that this has really done is made Lexi's business dry up until she can get tested and can post the results.
So leave the girl alone. Unless you performed oral sex on her (she admits that there have been a few gentlemen who have) or had BBFS with her, cool out and let her get tested so that she can get passed this BS.
Massagefreak, you state that "LEXI needs to get on here and defend herself. But I just don't think she can." Well she has tried to, but you just don't seem to want to believe her, but will believe SafeKY instead. Where is SafeKY now? Is he stepping up to provide proof of his statement? I think not. Like anyone with an agenda to bring down someone through baseless internet postings, he is quietly hiding behind his computer, watching as you become a "Messagefreak", which is what he intended in the first place.
A lesson from the Lexi drama
I agree that Lexi is a fundamentally good person who seems to have some personal problems. I hope she is able to work them out.
However, I think there is a lesson here. We all know that Lexi routinely engaged in BBJCIM. (I am not betraying any trust here, as this has been noted on various boards, including this one.) This sort of activity, compounded over time, is asking for health problems.
Yes, I can be as foolish as anyone else when the wrong mood strikes me. I partook myself-about 1 year ago. At the moment I thought it was great. But then I spent the following three weeks checking my equipment for anything strange. For me, the thrill of of the "GFE" aspect wasn't worth the anxiety and potential health problems.
On the other hand, a few weeks ago I saw this lady:
[url]http://www.discreetdesires.org/Brooke.htm[/url]
Very upscale. Not cheap. She did not allow either DATY, nor BBJ. Everything by the book and covered.
In the heat of the moment, I would have liked a more GFE experience. But, after I was done with this one, I didn't have to worry about what I had caught from any one of the last ten customers she was with.
There seems to be a contingent on this board that likes providers to be cheap, nasty, and completely uninhibited. (I cringe when I look at some of the crackheads that are in circulation on the SW board.) Recently there was a heavier one in NKY who apparently performed BBJCIM, much to the delight of her fans on this board.
Going with an older / plainer / heavier provider may enhance the illusion that these are your wives and / or girlfriends. But gentlemen, these women are *not* your wives or girlfriends. This is another reason why I like the younger, hotter ones who are a bit standoffish. Yes, the menu with the more upscale providers is sometimes limited, but you don't have to worry as much about nasty stuff like this afterwards.
No drama just a great person Lexi
I had the pleasure of seeing Lexi and you all should be ashamed she is very clean a true GFE a 10 out of 10. Just becouse of some jelouse people you all put her thrue hell. Why don't you go get a full std test I have so I don't endanger any provider if your so worried about stds you need another hobby. As far as no DATY I don't want somone as old as my grandma blowing me its just gross so I'm sure its the same for the girls its bad enough they have to act like they like us and then shower and cry for what they have to do to get by you all need to get over it pay for your time together have fun and go home.
Still won't put what I wrote.
Why do they keep changing what I wrote? Its not "working girls" its W*HO*R*E*S!
Big Mack, fortunately it didn't affect me that way. Myself, in the counseling that I have had, which was very little, I've learned about myself that I am one that gains the pleasure of the feeling of being "wanted".
"If the connection between abuse and "love" is made early in life, the feelings of shame and anger, which naturally happen as a consequence of the abuse, are interpreted as feelings of love and passion. People who have been abused may not realize other ways of feeling in relationships are possible. They believe they are feeling love for their abuser, so when they are later abused in an intimate relationship, they perceive the familiar feelings of shame and anger as love and passion."
There are so many different feelings that one can have over being sexually abused.
Todd Cincy. There is not one man on this board or any other board for that matter that can say I have TOTALLY partook in BBJCIM. But even the littlest part, (pre-cum) , with ANY provider, is possible unfortunately. Those small ways are ways that I have not even thought about, honestly. After reading what you posted, I don't even know what to say.
You need to take a valium dude
This is a service industry. Women have the right to choose what they want to do and not do. We have a right to see them based on their service likes. We are all waiting for the results of her test. No guy cares whether you have one or not but some of us do get tested depending on activities. I have been in this almost 2 decades and never heard of one woman who took a shower and cried after she gave service based on her parameters. It is about service and needs. If you make a friend along the way you are way ahead. Take a chill pill I am glad you had a good time with the lady. Her likes are fine for some but not for others. True of most on here. Don't play white knight. It isn't well liked and and makes most look like a"holes who try it. Don't think that is what you want. Have a Merry Christmas and wait for the paper to come out through PFD He is one of the best on here and he will get to the bottom of a major concern on here. Let it happen but mostly STFU for now. Glad she got a good review from you but like most guys until the results are in this man will wait. It is up to each to make their own decision. Mack
NOT Another Safe Sex Lecture. Spare us Brother.
And here I thought this type of post was forbidden by the rules of posting.
"No Safe Sex Complaints Forum Members wishing to criticize other Members for not following what they consider to be safe sex procedures may do so only in the Safe Sex Thread. Members may not comment upon, criticize or confront other members on this subject in the general discussion threads. Any such "safe sex complaints" posted in the general discussion threads will be deleted without comment."
Brother, if you don't wish to run the risk of catching something then keep it in your pants. But if you, I or the next guy decides to stick our meat somewhere, or somehow, it ain't none of anyone else's business. And as O'Riely says,"That's a memo".
One last note. If you somehow think that you aren't at risk because you are paying more to a provider, well. You are living in fairytale land for sure. Just because a provider does, or doesn't do a certain act (covered or uncovered) with you in a certain way, does in no way guarantee that this is what she does with everyone. In case you hadn't thought of it this way before. If you are engaged with a pro in any fashion, the odds of your concern just went up. Now lets drop this shite from here on out unless you KNOW something specific in nature to the topic; (which to this point has been mostly off base). The poor gal deserves some slack and an apology by a few.
[QUOTE=Todd Cincy; 1344826]I agree that Lexi is a fundamentally good person who seems to have some personal problems. I hope she is able to work them out.
However, I think there is a lesson here. We all know that Lexi routinely engaged in BBJCIM. (I am not betraying any trust here, as this has been noted on various boards, including this one.) This sort of activity, compounded over time, is asking for health problems.
Yes, I can be as foolish as anyone else when the wrong mood strikes me. I partook myself-about 1 year ago. At the moment I thought it was great. But then I spent the following three weeks checking my equipment for anything strange. For me, the thrill of of the "GFE" aspect wasn't worth the anxiety and potential health problems.
On the other hand, a few weeks ago I saw this lady:
[url]http://www.discreetdesires.org/Brooke.htm[/url]
Very upscale. Not cheap. She did not allow either DATY, nor BBJ. Everything by the book and covered.
In the heat of the moment, I would have liked a more GFE experience. But, after I was done with this one, I didn't have to worry about what I had caught from any one of the last ten customers she was with.
There seems to be a contingent on this board that likes providers to be cheap, nasty, and completely uninhibited. (I cringe when I look at some of the crackheads that are in circulation on the SW board.) Recently there was a heavier one in NKY who apparently performed BBJCIM, much to the delight of her fans on this board.
Going with an older / plainer / heavier provider may enhance the illusion that these are your wives and / or girlfriends. But gentlemen, these women are *not* your wives or girlfriends. This is another reason why I like the younger, hotter ones who are a bit standoffish. Yes, the menu with the more upscale providers is sometimes limited, but you don't have to worry as much about nasty stuff like this afterwards.[/QUOTE]
Merry Christmas to All and to All a Good Night.
On this whole subject until after the New Year or until Lexi wants more to be posted.
Lexi- If part of your posts are being edited, then they must be violating the rules of the board. I would assume as a Provider you can not attain Senior Member status so your posts might be reviewed before being released like those of Regular male members. Send what you wrote with someone like WT. He would have a better feel for the reasoning behind the edits.
The hobby is filled with risks. BBBJ vs. CBJ, No Kissing vs. DFK and of course the grand daddy of them all CFS vs. BBFS. We all decide a level that we are comfortable with, one that will allow us to go away from the appointment with a clear conscience and sleep at night. Much of the level of comfort is derived from the "vibe" we get from the provider. Before you all attack me, I know that is not a trustworthy gauge of safety, but apart from carrying a lab in my back pocket it is all that I have to go by. I also feel that whatever level of safety that I employ is between my "partner" and myself. That it is of no business of anyone on this board or any other board.
Again, all we can do is wait and see. In the mean time I will simply go about the next week or two doing what I had planned to do, that is celebrate family and friends, love and life and hope and health, with the desire that we all have these things in our New Year.
PFD
Chrystal the girl next door.
Much has been said about how good, Chrystal, is on the board. Decided to give her a visit today. Email her around noon and got a reply quickly. Follow by a couple of text messages and a time was set.
Easy to find location. The minute I had walked into her home it was GFE time. Chrystal is passionate, affectionate, and enthusiastic the whole time I was with her. She can puts you competely at ease. Great time with her. Will be seeing her again.
Harpo
Playtime With Tattoo Delilah
Had a date with the Beautiful & Sexy Tattoo Delilah last night. Nice clean incall & candles to set the mood. She is very clean, great attitude, and superior skills. Her body is to die for with Tattoo's & Piercings. Her ass is to die for super firm & a beautiful kitty. I will repeat.