The Rat Trap

[QUOTE=AshleyMonroe;2246875]I'd be down for a meet and greet party. I've been to one in Lauderdale where they set it up as a pool party and the only request was that men see at least 3 girls at $ per girl. There was food games and tins of fun. They also hold bigger group parties just so people whom have not met get to merry face to face and chat for comfortability. Actually brought providers together to meet as well. This larger gathering was are ally at a club or convention center type of deal. My first one I went to was a bit scarey for me but I met tons of cool people and became relaxed very quickly. Idk definitely be down if we can figure out how to do this. Maybe even get a room at west gate with the Jacuzzi in the room. Keep it simple set time and date. Let well trusted people know and hell just have tons of fun. I know we have more takers than just me ladies.[/QUOTE]So you pay 1 at the door then 3 for 3 girls?

Hi all, greetings from the about to be snowy state of Ohio. I read the Rat Trap for the entertainment value from time to time, and I just noticed you guys talking about a meet and greet. With money involved. I hope you are aware that you should be a bit more circumspect about these discussions, as you just set up a massive sting operation without thinking about it. You might mention a get together, but do not discuss money, time, location, or anything like who will be there except in private message with well, and I mean well trusted long term members. I would be happy to discuss why I say this via PM with any well trusted member who would like to chat about it.

Best regards,
Cheech.

[QUOTE=Cheech1;2249209]Hi all, greetings from the about to be snowy state of Ohio. I read the Rat Trap for the entertainment value from time to time, and I just noticed you guys talking about a meet and greet. With money involved. I hope you are aware that you should be a bit more circumspect about these discussions, as you just set up a massive sting operation without thinking about it. You might mention a get together, but do not discuss money, time, location, or anything like who will be there except in private message with well, and I mean well trusted long term members. I would be happy to discuss why I say this via PM with any well trusted member who would like to chat about it.

Best regards,
Cheech.[/QUOTE]I am working to set this up with no door fee. And then if anything occurs after that it's between the invited parties. We will meet in a public discreet place and go from there.

[QUOTE=Intrigued;2249188]So you pay 1 at the door then 3 for 3 girls?[/QUOTE]This is now. I am simply setting up the meeting (no door fee) and then you guys figure it out from there. BTW what do you guys think of the Relax grill?

I wouldn't say crazy, we been friends for over a year now. Your just misunderstood and people feel threatened you have confidence in yourself.

I am glad your honest and upfront with your age. Some providers have to lie. If they lie about simple as an age, what else can they lie about??

Trp out!

[QUOTE=Swaganna;2249938]You can't tell anyone that already knows everything. I'm with ya but it's a lost cause. But what do I know, I'm bat shit crazy.
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Some providers may not put all their personal info out there for all to see for that simple reason, it is personal. I go to great lengths ro keep discretion at the paramount of my business. Once I am confortable with someone I most likely let them in on the what I feel they need to know. If the pics are real and current and hobbyist can make a decision on whether the provider is what they are into. There's a line between discretion and deception. Deception is fake pics, old pics that one states is current, lying about your measurements, your living arrangement, management, drivers, rates, etc.

Someone stated not long ago how the providers are just out there, all our info, unlike the mongers who can hide behind a handle. That is very true. So I do not see anything wrong with a provider not putting all there exact or personal info in an ad. Especially if no one I complaining about the provider or their services. Some providers don't care about ALL their business and info out there for all to see. Some of us go to great lengths to protect it.

Just shedding some light.

Have a nice day everyone and stay safe.

Xoxo.

Paige.

[QUOTE=PaigeSweetStuf;2250306]Some providers may not put all their personal info out there for all to see for that simple reason, it is personal. I go to great lengths ro keep discretion at the paramount of my business. Once I am confortable with someone I most likely let them in on the what I feel they need to know. If the pics are real and current and hobbyist can make a decision on whether the provider is what they are into. There's a line between discretion and deception. Deception is fake pics, old pics that one states is current, lying about your measurements, your living arrangement, management, drivers, rates, etc.

Someone stated not long ago how the providers are just out there, all our info, unlike the mongers who can hide behind a handle. That is very true. So I do not see anything wrong with a provider not putting all there exact or personal info in an ad. Especially if no one I complaining about the provider or their services. Some providers don't care about ALL their business and info out there for all to see. Some of us go to great lengths to protect it.

Just shedding some light.

Have a nice day everyone and stay safe.

Xoxo.

Paige.[/QUOTE]When people in this forum need to remind others that we are all concerned about protecting our identity. All of us. Maybe not amuses, but confuses.

[QUOTE=PaigeSweetStuf;2250306]Some providers may not put all their personal info out there for all to see for that simple reason, it is personal. I go to great lengths ro keep discretion at the paramount of my business. Once I am confortable with someone I most likely let them in on the what I feel they need to know. If the pics are real and current and hobbyist can make a decision on whether the provider is what they are into. There's a line between discretion and deception. Deception is fake pics, old pics that one states is current, lying about your measurements, your living arrangement, management, drivers, rates, etc.

Someone stated not long ago how the providers are just out there, all our info, unlike the mongers who can hide behind a handle. That is very true. So I do not see anything wrong with a provider not putting all there exact or personal info in an ad. Especially if no one I complaining about the provider or their services. Some providers don't care about ALL their business and info out there for all to see. Some of us go to great lengths to protect it.

Just shedding some light.

Have a nice day everyone and stay safe.

Xoxo.

Paige.[/QUOTE]It takes all kinds to make the world go round. Sometimes it's best to just sit back and be amused. Although we're all in the same boat, some of us might have more to lose than others if the ship goes down. One of the reasons I've remained in the shadows for more than a year now.

Paige, I've always enjoyed your posts, and that one is no exception, obvious or not to some.

(Yeah, I know, crappy first post, but I decided to get a little closer to dropping the "spectator only" tag. I'll probably regret the handle choice in a year or two, but for now it fits.).

[QUOTE=TRowePrice;2250128]I wouldn't say crazy, we been friends for over a year now. Your just misunderstood and people feel threatened you have confidence in yourself.

I am glad your honest and upfront with your age. Some providers have to lie. If they lie about simple as an age, what else can they lie about??

Trp out![/QUOTE]Keeping it pimping.

Quick question for the ladies, and SM if you want to chime in.

For the same reason as most of us, I have a very vested interest in staying safe and doing a little screening.

I'm attached and somewhat public in the social media.

I'm a biz owner that legitimately hires models to wear a tshirt or two for sale on occasion.

Modeling agency = $400/ hr.

BP escort = $150-200/ hr.

Wallet says, no brainer, right?

Seems like a win-win. I get to meet and greet for a few bills of legitimate work, provider makes their hourly rate for just standing there, wearing a tshirt, and chatting, and I'm thinking I get to pre-screen for a possible dream on the future next meeting.

I figure aunt LEO ain't going to waste her time modeling tshirts for an hour on the first date with no hope of success when there's so many OBT fish in the sea.

So what went wrong?

I called a half-dozen BP ads, and I get the brush-off / hang-up as soon as I say "modeling job".

WTF?

Half of these providers have their face pics on their BP ads, so why the runaway from a legitimate, safe and legal job offer?

Please enlighten me, so I can finally schedule a short nap.

I've been tired for too long.

On a sidenote: Why do my posts get separated into double-spaced lines? None of the other posts I see here get broken up this way. This post looks stupid. A2, when you get the chance, point me in the right posting grammar direction, will ya?

[QUOTE=Swaganna;2250895]Initially it sounds great. However, when a lady puts herself in a setting that initially has no adult activities a chance to let her guard down is now in effect. During the meeting she may get comfortable with the gentleman and questions like this may come up " I am interested in taking the next step, what are your do's and don't's". Then you may ask " The donation is same or what is the donation for a multiple hour dream". Something that would connect sexual acts with money. Now the girl is facing legal issues and possible other things. But The provider you chimed in on is great with newbs and may be willing to help you. Good luck.[/QUOTE]Thanks Swaganna.

As much as the OTT batcrap jokes go on here, you have always been both a solid provider with solid reviews, and a very valuable forum contributor.

If anyone deserves a gold star and participation ribbon around here, it's you.

Thanks again for taking the time to answer my noob post, and maybe someday I'll get to thank you personally in my dreams.