"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=Falar;3152175]Good day, it's nice to see some of the old guys posting again. It would be nice to see what Big Tigger is up to these days.

I have a question my membership on SA is about to expire. I've been talking to a few females but they don't have premium membership.

I sent a message to them giving out my email address and phone number to contact me. Would they still be able to view my last message, if they don't log on before my membership expires?[/QUOTE]Once the membership expires they won't be able to read it.

Magic, I've found most babies prefer sds who have been on the site for a while. The new ones want someone to show them the ropes, the ones who have been on for a few months don't want a newbie who is more likely to get cold feet and flake. Yes, I've been to plenty of m&gs where pots are complaining of potential sds getting cold feet.

Lots of girls out there are truly attracted to older guys for the experience they have in life. Think the dos equis commercial guy.

Long story short, the longer the better. No pun intended.

[QUOTE=MagicRat;3151689]I had read more than a few times about passing over Babies who have been on SA for a longer period of time, and I understand that. What about our profiles there? Do you guys make up a new profile after a while or just let it ride? While not super active on SA, I did sign up a few years ago. Have any of you ever gotten a comment from a Baby about the length of time since joining?[/QUOTE]

I have a few POTs including SouthernMILF (25). Had one arrangement. The M&G w / was great. Very upbeat and nice, a bit bigger butt than I could tell from SA photos, about as pretty, not a genius. In my car after, in a strip mall parking lot, she was very kind / empathetic, seemingly guileless. Hmm. Then she starts kissing me. Wow! Great!, some of the best in my memory. If kissing is any indication of the sex. I'm into it. One sticking point, says she works at my employer (a big organization); of course I have given a different work story, but I'm worried she will run into me or see my familiar car and break my secret identity. I have a SO.

I am sufficiently interested in this girl, I bought a 1-month membership in PeopleSmart (recommended by StormyTuesday) for $20. I get to search 5 phone #s in the month, and believe that I found her. The report only gives you a name and cities, not an actual address, so I paid another $25 to get the full report. It includes a couple of court records that have no real info, and I wasn't going to pay even more to look at those. I heard on USASG recently there is a free site for that, and now I have her real name. The report also gives all her licenses (cosmetology), which began in 2005 and ended in 2013. I presume you need to be 18 to get licensed, so she is actually at least 29, not the 25 of her profile. NBD.

The range of girls on SA and what they are going through is amazing. I have been in touch w / 2 POTs in their 20's in the past 24 h who are single moms. They got knocked up by 1) a guy they had no intention of any relationship w /, or 2) turned into a deadbeat / drug addict / ne'er-do-well. They get no child support, nothing. These are very beautiful, hot girls, both worked in the beauty industry. One has a job and car at least, the other has neither (and guess what. She has a high lifestyle expectation). They both respond nicely to be treated well, but I don't know if I want to take on their responsibility.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3153905]The range of girls on SA and what they are going through is amazing. I have been in touch w / 2 POTs in their 20's in the past 24 h who are single moms. They got knocked up by 1) a guy they had no intention of any relationship w /, or 2) turned into a deadbeat / drug addict / ne'er-do-well. They get no child support, nothing. These are very beautiful, hot girls, both worked in the beauty industry. One has a job and car at least, the other has neither (and guess what. She has a high lifestyle expectation). They both respond nicely to be treated well, but I don't know if I want to take on their responsibility.[/QUOTE]My experience has been bad with girls who require complete support. There are always disasters that pop up -the car craps out, is towed, rent due, electricity turned off, etc. If you care a little for them it is difficult to let them fail-hence you are resentfully putting out money for their failed lifestyle. Don't get involved if you can resist them.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3153217]I have a few POTs including SouthernMILF (25). Had one arrangement. The M&G w / was great. Very upbeat and nice, a bit bigger butt than I could tell from SA photos, about as pretty, not a genius. In my car after, in a strip mall parking lot, she was very kind / empathetic, seemingly guileless. Hmm. Then she starts kissing me. Wow! Great!, some of the best in my memory. If kissing is any indication of the sex. I'm into it. One sticking point, says she works at my employer (a big organization); of course I have given a different work story, but I'm worried she will run into me or see my familiar car and break my secret identity. I have a SO.[/QUOTE]With all the girls on the site, why on earth would you risk everything to be with that one? Imagine her being the unstable type and running into her at a company function while there with your SO. There goes life as you know it. Good luck!

Yaya.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3153269]I am sufficiently interested in this girl, I bought a 1-month membership in PeopleSmart (recommended by StormyTuesday) for $20. I get to search 5 phone #s in the month, and believe that I found her. The report only gives you a name and cities, not an actual address, so I paid another $25 to get the full report. It includes a couple of court records that have no real info, and I wasn't going to pay even more to look at those. I heard on USASG recently there is a free site for that, and now I have her real name. The report also gives all her licenses (cosmetology), which began in 2005 and ended in 2013. I presume you need to be 18 to get licensed, so she is actually at least 29, not the 25 of her profile. NBD.[/QUOTE]A few years back, a fellow monger who was involved in various parts of LE and the legal system educated me. Seems like all states have some requirement from the Feds to put all or part of their court records as accessible on the net. I know for a fact that one can search the databases of the state next door, while my state does allow searches, one just has to "sign up" for an I'd in order to gain access. So if one has a good real name, then one usually can do some free searching on those databases. I. e. No need to pay!

For the College going SBs out there, I'd be shocked if they had hits on those databases. But hey, sometimes "life happens" and one gets "charges put on them. " There is a difference between charges and convictions however. Er, at least last I check. But then again, in this PC-ism world everyone so readily accepts, it doesn't matter what the facts were (innocent or guilty) just the seriousness of the charge.

Anyway, who cares if a MILF, 29 yo SB has some minor charge when she was 18 or 19?

The point of any "background search" is to determine she is a real person and not some scammer or LE. Digging too much into her background is creepy and unnecessary.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3153217] One sticking point, says she works at my employer (a big organization); of course I have given a different work story, but I'm worried she will run into me or see my familiar car and break my secret identity. I have a SO.[/QUOTE]There is an old saying that might be applicable here: Don't Sh*T where you eat!

[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;3154591]There is an old saying that might be applicable here: Don't Sh*T where you eat![/QUOTE]To both CL and Yaya. I get it. Posting may just be my way of release. If anyone in the inland empire wants her profile, though.

[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;3154589]A few years back, a fellow monger who was involved in various parts of LE and the legal system educated me. Seems like all states have some requirement from the Feds to put all or part of their court records as accessible on the net. I know for a fact that one can search the databases of the state next door, while my state does allow searches, one just has to "sign up" for an I'd in order to gain access. So if one has a good real name, then one usually can do some free searching on those databases. I. e. No need to pay!

For the College going SBs out there, I'd be shocked if they had hits on those databases. But hey, sometimes "life happens" and one gets "charges put on them. " There is a difference between charges and convictions however. Er, at least last I check. But then again, in this PC-ism world everyone so readily accepts, it doesn't matter what the facts were (innocent or guilty) just the seriousness of the charge.

Anyway, who cares if a MILF, 29 yo SB has some minor charge when she was 18 or 19?

The point of any "background search" is to determine she is a real person and not some scammer or LE. Digging too much into her background is creepy and unnecessary.[/QUOTE]Yeah, no argument there, just put the facts out there for other people who might want to use PeopleSmart. The info StormyTuesday gave a while back needed updating, especially on specifics of what you get. Of course, often you get a lot of info just from finding a social media account via phone # or email. Some girls aren't as worried about being identified as we are.

Hooked up with a 19 year old From SA, she is a nursing student in Maryland. Closer to DC meant more allowance that I am used to, $$$ Did I mention that she is a AA spinner? Amazing lips (very kissable and looked outstanding swallowing my cock), very very tight pussy that squeezed me as she came.

Next goal, 18 why / o.

[QUOTE=VeryBigBuck;3155121]Hooked up with a 19 year old From SA, she is a nursing student in Maryland. Closer to DC meant more allowance that I am used to, $$$ Did I mention that she is a AA spinner? Amazing lips (very kissable and looked outstanding swallowing my cock), very very tight pussy that squeezed me as she came.

Next goal, 18 why / o.[/QUOTE]Congrats, Buck. Yep, it's a pretty damn cool world that allows us to do this. My first one 1/3 my age was pudgy but cauc, then I graduated to my current baby, OCHottie I've posted about. Other guys would say ATF but I've hardly been in the bowl long enough to make that meaningful.

Its interesting the occupations showing up a lot on SA. Definitely nursing, nanny, and of course server / bartender.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3155259]Congrats, Buck. Yep, it's a pretty damn cool world that allows us to do this. My first one 1/3 my age was pudgy but cauc, then I graduated to my current baby, OCHottie I've posted about. Other guys would say ATF but I've hardly been in the bowl long enough to make that meaningful.

Its interesting the occupations showing up a lot on SA. Definitely nursing, nanny, and of course server / bartender.[/QUOTE]I laugh at the supposedly pre-med students. (I am sure there may be some, but not the numbers that claim to be).

One of my sb's a super cute fit 18 year old spinner is going down the wrong path. Should I give her some knowledge or guidance or just a good spankin' ? Haha! When we met she was premed in her first semester excited to be trauma doctor. Since then she has been on three day acid bender. Decided she's isn't in the medschool mindset. Which is totally cool. I told her to stay in school and get liberal arts degree. Then she got car in car accident. Then car impounded for having bong and booze. Now she is stripping and I've seen too many young naive girls go down the wrong road with cocaine and even worse meth. What would you do?