Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[QUOTE=DiscreteGuy888;5286078]Hi,

I'm a lurker here and finally decided to post. Thanks to everyone that's shared their experiences with SA. I guess my question for those that have had successful "arrangements", what is your typical opening line when messaging? I've been on and off SA for about 2-3 years. I generally sign up for a free account, then wait for them to offer a 33% promotion off the regular price membership (generally during holidays like Valentines, St. Patricks, etc). I've sent out so many messages but lately it seems like many girls don't respond at all. Just curious to see what others are using. Sorry not really a "report" but more of a question.

I can tell you that I've had success most recently with "moderndaylolita". She was really attractive and we had a few dates. Has her own place. She's been doing it a while. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f55b5868-4948-45fe-9d1d-46a90c4400d2[/URL].[/QUOTE]First thing is that lots of girls get tons of messages. So, you need some patience. Don't send lots of messages, but definitely follow up after a couple of days.

That said, I only message women that have written at least a few sentences about them. Then, I will try to make a positive comment about something in their profile. Its worked for me as a good conversation starter.

I would not ask to view private pics until you have shared a few messages, better yet, don't ask and have her offer them to you. Thats always a good sign.

Just my opinions. I look for women for something long term. If you want a hookup / short term thing, I would probably be a bit more direct.

[QUOTE=XxMarkXx;5286667]First thing is that lots of girls get tons of messages. So, you need some patience. Don't send lots of messages, but definitely follow up after a couple of days.

That said, I only message women that have written at least a few sentences about them. Then, I will try to make a positive comment about something in their profile. Its worked for me as a good conversation starter.

I would not ask to view private pics until you have shared a few messages, better yet, don't ask and have her offer them to you. Thats always a good sign.

Just my opinions. I look for women for something long term. If you want a hookup / short term thing, I would probably be a bit more direct.[/QUOTE]Be careful when you mentioned things such as short term, or a one time thing, this is how I was banned.

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;5286671]Be careful when you mentioned things such as short term, or a one time thing, this is how I was banned.[/QUOTE]Very true. I never talk any "business" on the site. Only chit chat type ofcsruff. If there is interest, we talk off the site. Everyone should follow a similar approach.

[QUOTE=XxMarkXx;5286658]I have not seen any great reviews of her here. I have tried a few times to get together with her. She is firm on $250 for a meet, I need to host and she only wants to meet on weekday mornings. Given the reviews, I have not pulled the trigger. I would be surprised if she got a lot of interest with those expectations.[/QUOTE]I got her down to 200, but given the reviews decided not to either.

Blue.

[QUOTE=DiscreteGuy888;5286078]Hi,

I'm a lurker here and finally decided to post. Thanks to everyone that's shared their experiences with SA. I guess my question for those that have had successful "arrangements", what is your typical opening line when messaging? I've been on and off SA for about 2-3 years. I generally sign up for a free account, then wait for them to offer a 33% promotion off the regular price membership (generally during holidays like Valentines, St. Patricks, etc). I've sent out so many messages but lately it seems like many girls don't respond at all. Just curious to see what others are using. Sorry not really a "report" but more of a question.

I can tell you that I've had success most recently with "moderndaylolita". She was really attractive and we had a few dates. Has her own place. She's been doing it a while. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f55b5868-4948-45fe-9d1d-46a90c4400d2[/URL].[/QUOTE]If you need to wait for a "sale" on SA to save $30 perhaps you cannot afford a Sugar Baby? Your mindset is not where it needs to be in order to be successful. Scoring SA "Ladies" is a bit different than dating or paying for sex. Poo.

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;5286639]Those prosecutors are trying hard to charge him with Sex Trafficking is ridiculous. Paying sex for a woman!= sex trafficking.[/QUOTE]One of the alleged incidents involves taking a girl from Florida to Georgia, where the age requirement is different for certain crimes. That's a federal crime. So is transporting an underage girl out of the country to a place like the Philippines, where the age of consent is if you have your second teeth. The Mann Act could be involved as well. Dude is in a lot of trouble if any of this is true; he's a rising star in the are party, and a prime target for the opposition.

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;5286632]Can you share here her SA private pictures? I am curious to see how she looks and if it is worth it to sign up.

What do you typically send? Some girls you need to read their bio to see what they are asking for. It depends on the girl, sometimes I throw the old "Lets do an arrangement for x" or "I am interested let me know if you are". This starts up the conversation.

Also make sure you have pics.[/QUOTE]I will PM the pics to you of her. As for what I send, typically I compliment their looks and try to reference something from their profile. I do have pics but they are private except for my main picture which doesn't show my face. I typically will share my private pics after I message someone.

[QUOTE=XxMarkXx;5286667]First thing is that lots of girls get tons of messages. So, you need some patience. Don't send lots of messages, but definitely follow up after a couple of days.

That said, I only message women that have written at least a few sentences about them. Then, I will try to make a positive comment about something in their profile. Its worked for me as a good conversation starter.

I would not ask to view private pics until you have shared a few messages, better yet, don't ask and have her offer them to you. Thats always a good sign.

Just my opinions. I look for women for something long term. If you want a hookup / short term thing, I would probably be a bit more direct.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the feedback. I'll usually send 1 message and leave at that. I'll try to be more direct. I definitely don't request pics right away either.

[QUOTE=ILoveThatPoo;5287129]If you need to wait for a "sale" on SA to save $30 perhaps you cannot afford a Sugar Baby? Your mindset is not where it needs to be in order to be successful. Scoring SA "Ladies" is a bit different than dating or paying for sex. Poo.[/QUOTE]I'd rather spend the money on taking them out the first time. Personally I can afford the $90 a month membership but I also feel like that's too much for a month membership. Plus, I'll generally get a few numbers and work those leads for a few months until I get bored. Maybe its the "wrong" approach but it's just how I've been doing it for 2-3 years. I've used sites like Eros before but what I enjoy on SA is that there aren't time constraints. I like that it feels more real texting during the day etc. Everyone has their reasons.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/8ea63ebd-4434-4450-b4c2-4cffaeb2c868[/URL]

Emilyyybabes. Waterbury.

She's requesting a 50 deposit to "hold your appointment".

I reported the profile for trying to scam people.

Here is the link:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a97b6123-5687-4dfd-9622-e548e8319d86[/URL]

Swm11 you shared your messages url link not the actual member.

[QUOTE=Swm11;5290187][URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/8ea63ebd-4434-4450-b4c2-4cffaeb2c868[/URL]

Emilyyybabes. Waterbury.

She's requesting a 50 deposit to "hold your appointment".

I reported the profile for trying to scam people.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DiscreteGuy888;5289496]I will PM the pics to you of her. As for what I send, typically I compliment their looks and try to reference something from their profile. I do have pics but they are private except for my main picture which doesn't show my face. I typically will share my private pics after I message someone.[/QUOTE]She changes up the pics, and I don't have a profile now on there but these were some that she had on there before.

[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5107685]This one, name Kelly ("Better Beginnings" 31 New Britain) messaged me just a week ago. We chatted a little and and exchanged digits, but I didn't think it would go anywhere. She kept texting and I ignored her over the weekend. Monday I told her I had been sick. Nothing Tuesday, I figured she gave up, no big loss. Wednesday around 11:00, she texts me "I'm horny"(turns out she was drinking and playing with herself). We go back and forth and I tell her I could meet at a motel in Naugatuck. She says "We haven't even met, yet". I say "I was just trying to help you out and now I'm really horny, too". Well, that's all it took. She suggests We meet someplace near the motel and she will get in the car nd talk to me to see if she feels comfortable. We meet at my office, and she gets in the car and says she's never done this and maybe it wasn't a good idea. I look at her and say "I thought yo were horny". She replies "Let's go!" On the way down I had called the Comfort Inn on Rt 63 in Naugatuck (next to the fleabag many of the Waterbury STG girls use. I was full- ("SHIT" I called the Courtyard Marriott in Waterbury $80. So, back to Kelly- on the way over she says "We never discussed an amount! Damn! I said "I thought we were just helping each other out?" She mumbles a little bit. I tell I have $100 on me and she says she usually get $250. She asks me about going to an ATM, I look in my wallet saying "I don't think I have my card. NOPE!" By then we are at the Marriott. She says "What are we going to do?" I say the magic phrase again!- "I though you wee horny?" "Get the room", she replies! She is thicker than I like, but we had a really good time! She came during and loved the DATY. Her oral skills are great. She came again while I was fingering as she gave me a BBBJ to get me going. I stopped her to do MISH (she was surprised when I grabbed a condom, so bareback is on the table) but she wasn't as into it as she had been. Turns out she can only cum twice, so I went back to the BBBJCIMSW. I went down on her again and she was right, she could only cum twice! It was getting late so we headed out, both of us satisfied. I. "managed" to find another $50, so she felt better. I won't repeat only because she is thicker than I like.[/QUOTE]Is she 32 or 22?

[QUOTE=Gamisi;5290361]Is she 32 or 22?[/QUOTE]Jeezzzee, I posted this 3 months ago and I can't even open her profile! I said 31 in my post. Why are you asking this now?

Blue.

[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5291441]Jeezzzee, I posted this 3 months ago and I can't even open her profile! I said 31 in my post. Why are you asking this now?

Blue.[/QUOTE]Was thinking of meeting her and profile says 'So my profile says I'm 32 I think, idk how to change it I'm actually 22'.

Just wondering?

[QUOTE=Gamisi;5291898]Was thinking of meeting her and profile says 'So my profile says I'm 32 I think, idk how to change it I'm actually 22'.

Just wondering?[/QUOTE]Does it really matter? I remembered later, that I blocked her because she wanted to see me 4 or 5 times a week and pay her each time.

Blue.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a3ef0eb4-f86b-412d-ba7c-9d6b23237646[/URL]

[URL]https://hartford.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/asian/latina/766327341074[/URL]

Looks very similar, anyone have info?

[QUOTE=MyHobby;5292790][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a3ef0eb4-f86b-412d-ba7c-9d6b23237646[/URL]

[URL]https://hartford.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/asian/latina/766327341074[/URL]

Looks very similar, anyone have info?[/QUOTE]Not the same person.

The one from seeking I've had a video chat with. She looks exactly like her pictures, except the pictures have more personality than she does.

I jumped on WYP looking for something young and interesting after a longgggg quarantine.

Hopefully something will turn up.

I was hoping the agencies would be back by now, but like everything else, got to wait.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;5292790][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a3ef0eb4-f86b-412d-ba7c-9d6b23237646[/URL]

[URL]https://hartford.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/asian/latina/766327341074[/URL]

Looks very similar, anyone have info?[/QUOTE]One of them has a mole next to her nose, the other does not.

I asked this one where she was in CT and she immediately wanted to go offsite. Then w start texting and she says she is in Hartford and wants some naughty fun. I ask how much and she says 300. I ask if she can host and she says no. I tell her 300 is too much especially if I have to get a room. I tell her I pay 150 to someone who hosts, that I'll meet her on the Berlin Tpke for 100. She immediately says okay. I ask for a photo and she goes silent since Sunday night. Probably TGTBT. Has anyone gotten any more from her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/eb3eff95-aee9-4371-bf8f-ecd567de1af4[/URL]

Blue.

[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5294258]I asked this one where she was in CT and she immediately wanted to go offsite. Then w start texting and she says she is in Hartford and wants some naughty fun. I ask how much and she says 300. I ask if she can host and she says no. I tell her 300 is too much especially if I have to get a room. I tell her I pay 150 to someone who hosts, that I'll meet her on the Berlin Tpke for 100. She immediately says okay. I ask for a photo and she goes silent since Sunday night. Probably TGTBT. Has anyone gotten any more from her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/eb3eff95-aee9-4371-bf8f-ecd567de1af4[/URL]

Blue.[/QUOTE]TGTBT, correct.

Her account is only a few weeks old. Typically, when their location is CT, CT, it's usually a spammer. That's strike two. When they go silent after asking for a pic or meeting at a public place, that calls their bluff and it's game over for them and they know it.

It's likely had you strung out the texting, you'd have heard a hard luck story then a request for a cash advance. She does look great, tho!

BMD.

[QUOTE=OliverPolska2;5294070]I jumped on WYP looking for something young and interesting after a longgggg quarantine.

Hopefully something will turn up.

I was hoping the agencies would be back by now, but like everything else, got to wait.[/QUOTE]I recently bought some credits on WYP, just to see. There are only a few younger, non bbw types that are somewhat active. A few offers got accepted, but only 1 is actually interacting. Trying to setup a date with a UConn girl, but its very dead for me overall.

Has anyone seen her in a while. I saw her last summer but then heard she had some health issues and was banned from SA.

[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5294258]I asked this one where she was in CT and she immediately wanted to go offsite. Then w start texting and she says she is in Hartford and wants some naughty fun. I ask how much and she says 300. I ask if she can host and she says no. I tell her 300 is too much especially if I have to get a room. I tell her I pay 150 to someone who hosts, that I'll meet her on the Berlin Tpke for 100. She immediately says okay. I ask for a photo and she goes silent since Sunday night. Probably TGTBT. Has anyone gotten any more from her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/eb3eff95-aee9-4371-bf8f-ecd567de1af4[/URL]

Blue.[/QUOTE]The profile linked resembles the pic attached, which is an SA girl in the philly area sometime last year. At the time she said she was in north philly, said she couldn't drive, couldn't host; I was staying nearby, so I said, I can come get you, and she was like, I prefer to be ubered; and I said, sure, send me the address so I can call the uber for you; radio silence. I believe she had added me on kik, and if I remember, she had sent me this pic because the SA pic was not the greatest, so yea, probably somebody fake, using 'stolen' pics.

Anyone seen her. I was texting with her last night and talks a good game but like some real intel if possible before I pull the trigger.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a0b8c1a4-1f3f-480b-a226-02bd2f534aea[/URL]

I was planning a date with a seemingly nice, No BS, older woman on WYP. After doing some homework, I canceled. Turns out she a North Carolina convicted trafficking felon. Not my kind of excitement. ID is MsKay77 in New Britain. She’s also on SA as MsKay7744. Likely using an old or fake pic. Good riddance. Whew!

BMD.

[QUOTE=Kingmaletx;5294989]The profile linked resembles the pic attached, which is an SA girl in the philly area sometime last year. At the time she said she was in north philly, said she couldn't drive, couldn't host; I was staying nearby, so I said, I can come get you, and she was like, I prefer to be ubered; and I said, sure, send me the address so I can call the uber for you; radio silence. I believe she had added me on kik, and if I remember, she had sent me this pic because the SA pic was not the greatest, so yea, probably somebody fake, using 'stolen' pics.[/QUOTE]Resembles, yes, a little. Not the same girl IMHO. Also, if she is the same girl, she would no make a new profile with different photos, she would just change her location to a new place with fresh fish. Think it through.

Blue.

I decided to check this sa site out. Are you guys really paying $100 for 30 days?

Sam accepted my offer of 150 and we have been talking for a few days. Setup a meeting for this afternoon. She asked me if we had already discussed the ppm. My eyebrow raised, I could tell where this was going. She then informed me her ppm is 500. I politely declined and wished her luck. I am thinking of reporting her to the site, but I have already wasted enough time, I think.

[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/Qq4xaMm60Yno9jqAeNyKjY2B[/URL]

[QUOTE=XxMarkXx;5298050]Sam accepted my offer of 150 and we have been talking for a few days. Setup a meeting for this afternoon. She asked me if we had already discussed the ppm. My eyebrow raised, I could tell where this was going. She then informed me her ppm is 500. I politely declined and wished her luck. I am thinking of reporting her to the site, but I have already wasted enough time, I think.

[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/Qq4xaMm60Yno9jqAeNyKjY2B[/URL][/QUOTE]Did you ask her why she accepted the 150? She screwed you over for 30 or 40 points! If you report her, you can make a case to get your points refunded.

I've paid minor fees for a public meet, lunch, drinks, dinner, etc. , but not 150. For 100 and up, I'd assume and ask if there's private time. The big problem is expectations. By the time an offered is accepted, kiss your points goodbye if either party has PMed a phone number or email. I have been able to get refunded points so give it a shot.

BMD.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5298191]Did you ask her why she accepted the 150? She screwed you over for 30 or 40 points! If you report her, you can make a case to get your points refunded.

I've paid minor fees for a public meet, lunch, drinks, dinner, etc. , but not 150. For 100 and up, I'd assume and ask if there's private time. The big problem is expectations. By the time an offered is accepted, kiss your points goodbye if either party has PMed a phone number or email. I have been able to get refunded points so give it a shot.

BMD.[/QUOTE]Yes, she said that her profile says "spoil me" and $150 is not spoiling. She seemed to think the acceptance of the offer was meaningless. I would love to meet the suckers she is reeling in, I have some bridges to sell them.

[QUOTE=Vicr1911;5297928]I decided to check this sa site out. Are you guys really paying $100 for 30 days?[/QUOTE]It used to be 89.95 a few months ago and periodically they'll do a limited sale of 25% off.

If you do join, use your time to build up your contact list and pic list. Make contact but don't blow the days in there with useless chat. Times are tougher due to COVID and more scammers and spammers but if you watch for the red flags, you'll get better at weeding through the riff raff. It can get time consuming, too.

In the past month, my area has been averaging 5 new users a week, within 25 miles, so not a good time for me to rejoin. You can get these number without joining.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5294727]TGTBT, correct.

Her account is only a few weeks old. Typically, when their location is CT, CT, it's usually a spammer. That's strike two. When they go silent after asking for a pic or meeting at a public place, that calls their bluff and it's game over for them and they know it.

It's likely had you strung out the texting, you'd have heard a hard luck story then a request for a cash advance. She does look great, tho!

BMD.[/QUOTE]I haven't found that CT CT thing to be true. A lot of these girls don't want to give their town and do that. I have had luck with at least 5 that did that. I have had 6 or 8 more that we couldn't come to a price under 200. Some I pay that, but not when I have to travel a good distance AND pay for a room. If you are automatically discounting them you are losing out!

Blue.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5298406]It used to be 89.95 a few months ago and periodically they'll do a limited sale of 25% off.

If you do join, use your time to build up your contact list and pic list. Make contact but don't blow the days in there with useless chat. Times are tougher due to COVID and more scammers and spammers but if you watch for the red flags, you'll get better at weeding through the riff raff. It can get time consuming, too.

In the past month, my area has been averaging 5 new users a week, within 25 miles, so not a good time for me to rejoin. You can get these number without joining.[/QUOTE]In my opinion because of the scams and spammers $100 or even $89 ain't worth the effort. This hobby has turned to shit backpage had a large variety of providers. City x guide was decent. Now there's more fake ads than real ones. Most of the real ones don't even have reviews. We got providers asking for deposits not showing up or asking to join a snap chat / onlyfans in order to get a meet up. Some you go to and they end up being a bad lay even rushing you 5 minutes into the half hour you pay for. Some these dumb girls are Even going as far robbing you with their pimp / boyfriend. I've seen three girls that fucked good since cityxguide was shut down. Two of them I stop swing because I don't want to be around if they od on the shit they use. The other one stopped because she was attacked by a client.

[QUOTE=Vicr1911;5299859]In my opinion because of the scams and spammers $100 or even $89 ain't worth the effort. This hobby has turned to shit backpage had a large variety of providers. City x guide was decent. Now there's more fake ads than real ones. Most of the real ones don't even have reviews. We got providers asking for deposits not showing up or asking to join a snap chat / onlyfans in order to get a meet up. Some you go to and they end up being a bad lay even rushing you 5 minutes into the half hour you pay for. Some these dumb girls are Even going as far robbing you with their pimp / boyfriend. I've seen three girls that fucked good since cityxguide was shut down. Two of them I stop swing because I don't want to be around if they od on the shit they use. The other one stopped because she was attacked by a client.[/QUOTE]It's a sad state of affairs and mining those gems is tougher than ever. I'll usually hit SA and WYP in the cold months when there's not much else going on except cabin fever.

Did any of you ended up enjoying this girl? I'm trying to hit her up but no response. Did she change her number?

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;5125198]It seems I did not put a link to her profile.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9eb459a8-b3fd-43a8-a68c-c07aedaa8b5f[/URL]

Enjoy! Fun young girl, shy at first but wild once she is opened.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;5300520]Did any of you ended up enjoying this girl? I'm trying to hit her up but no response. Did she change her number?[/QUOTE]How long ago? She hasn't logged in since 3-29-21.

I know some of you are having a hard time, so I'm sharing my experience with her.

I met this girl in person and she cool to talk to. There was something about her that turned me off and at the moment I had someone else, so I never ended up trying her out.

She is into the sub / dom lifestyle, and also a poly down for swinger events.

She is also into Consensual Non Consensual (CNC). At the time she asked for $250. She will not host and you will need a place. She is willing to travel down to Hartford. Enjoy.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8ce6dc75-1c43-418b-bec2-3cb2a35d4a04[/URL]

I shared her details (Seeking profile) to everybody here end of 2020.

I tried to reach her personal number in the last 7 days and nothing. I'm trying to get back into it.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5300533]How long ago? She hasn't logged in since 3-29-21.[/QUOTE]