Safe Sex Information and Advice

[QUOTE=GoldDust58;5356454]Note: not attacking you, this is for the entire forum in general.
One. This crazy STD talk needs to stop. Mentioning details about someone private business concerning STD I believe is against the forum rules too. I even got a text from a provider and a booker asking which girl has an std. Someone in here needs to stop sharing so much.[/QUOTE]Come on GoldDust. This is not crazy talk or a private business. STD's are a reality and playing Ostrich doesn't help anybody. Kudos to the OP for coming out. I am in this hobby since 2010 and caught Gonorreah twice (2 days until symptoms show) and Chlamydia once (10 days until symptoms show) and I am only seeing 2-3 k-girls a month. I am sure that many on this board caught multiple STD"s as well. But guess what, very few actually man up and don't have the after moi le deluge attitude. I understand the moderators position that STD's can be weaponized. No need to mention provider's names on the board, just request pm's for details. How about facing the reality? How many times did you GoldDust and all of you other guys (especially the sport fuckers) on here get an STD from a k-girl? Come on guys, honest coming out time.

[QUOTE=Midwest865;5355679]Follow the attached CDC link. If you think you might have had sex with a HIV positive person, use PEP (post-exposure prophylaxis) as soon as possible. Do not wait for tests results.[/QUOTE]Agreed. Exposure to HIV can and will take months for you to test positive! Don't risk it!

[QUOTE=Midwest865;5355679]Follow the attached CDC link. If you think you might have had sex with a HIV positive person, use PEP (post-exposure prophylaxis) as soon as possible. Do not wait for tests results.[/QUOTE]Is the fact that the major risk of exposure is borne by the receiver and not the giver. In the case of someone who has some sort of skin abrasion on his penis, there are exceptions to this rule. However, bodily fluids must enter the system of one's partner, and the best chance of that happening comes from tiny tears in the rectum which can be caused by anal sex. If the skin on your schlong is fissure-free, you're fine. If you tore that ass up and are HIV positive, she's the one who needs to worry. Short of either of those two things being the case, there's no issue here.

I was wondering if anyone caught any types of STDs because of mongering activities. Even though DI provides CFS, it is still possible to get genital herpes, warts from vaginal fluids or skin-to-skin contacts. Plus, BBBJ can be a reason for some STDs. Bareback is good but when thinking about the number of the guys having sex with those ladies, it’s seems impossible to me that they are STDs free.

Be safe out there folks. ;)

[QUOTE=Ramses12;5379594]I was wondering if anyone caught any types of STDs because of mongering activities. Even though DI provides CFS, it is still possible to get genital herpes, warts from vaginal fluids or skin-to-skin contacts. Plus, BBBJ can be a reason for some STDs. Bareback is good but when thinking about the number of the guys having sex with those ladies, its seems impossible to me that they are STDs free.

Be safe out there folks.[/QUOTE]Bellflower and repeat.

As the title say what about non curable STDs like Herpes? Isn't there a danger of contacting them?

[QUOTE=JDRedBull;5405312]Same here. CIP would be great with her. In my mind. But to be real. No Fing way. Just too risky. She also is in the hood. So I would not bring my me Mercedes to her place. Also Not only A but H and W. I still have an SF at home. So it's really mind boggling. I mean seriously. You think these chicks don't pass needles with their nice clean BF. Or your mashing some other dudes stuff in her. They see guys left and right. Why do you think you are waiting? I am sure you could offer the right amount money to most and get it. If they are advertising they probably already have something and don't care now. So BBBJ might be 1 in 50. But CIP is probably 1 in 10 maybe less. To catch a new friend that doesn't want to leave you. Just my thoughts. To each is own.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Vitalogy1980;5405290]Not knocking her or you. She's hot as fuck. Who wouldn't want to ride her bare? Just, I never heard of that with these girls a couple years back and now it's. Well maybe not common, but you hear of it. And obviously not just with some broke-down chick in her last days before rehab or the coffin. Normal-enough providers are doing it, even real cuties like this girl. Again, who wouldn't go for it. As a guy, you aren't the one who really has to worry. But these girls, they catch a bad load, that's some serious shit. I'm just asking here. Have there been medical advancements I'm unaware of? These chicks don't care about the big A? That just not a concern anymore? I'm just curious. Because I'd definitely want to bone that little honey without anything on too. I just can't believe it's on the menu. What is going on with these chicks? A meteor heading to Earth I ain't heard about?[/QUOTE]

As someone stated in reply to these posts: Lack of education. That goes both ways - those who aren't aware of the risks of catching STDs and those who are not up on the level of risk "unsafe" sex provides. Yes, there are medical advancements. But also, most people are pretty bad at evaluating risks and managing risky behavior. Its a normal human tendency.

If one searches this forum, several years ago (5? 7? 10?) there was a dude who dug into the medical research and posted the "risks" associated with a male BBFS with an infected girl and the chances of contracting various STDs. What was surprising is that the "chances" (risks) of F2M transmission are quite low.

As a more recent poster noted, as long as the skin of your dick is in good shape, it is a pretty good barrier to entry by viruses and bacteria, etc. Of course getting up right after sex, urinating and washing your dick might help a small bit. But the point is one off with an HIV positive girl isn't going to be a 100% chance of getting infected. Transmission rates from female to male are VERY Low. Nurse at STD clinic told me that the cases of HIV+ they have seen are from someone who has regular repeated sex with and HIV+ person, not a one off, or drunken stupor fuck.

But hey, I recognize everyone has their own level of risk tolerance. That is fine. Everybody gets to chose for them self what risks to take or not.

But what gets me is that the government, in order to stop the spread of HIV in the early days, used scare tactics and that seems to have stuck around, even as medical study has advanced our knowledge. There is nothing out there that will kill you, provided you get proper medical treatment. Herpes and AIDS are manageable chronic diseases these days. Not a death sentence. But again, everyone is free to operate based on their "beliefs" and prejudices with or without upping what they "know" about the subject.

Shoot the CDC even has a "risk estimator tool" available one can use. LOL! That is a start in upping one's education.

[URL]https://hivrisk.cdc.gov/risk-estimator-tool/[/URL]#-sb.

Anyone here have a favorite that protects well but feels good too. Also ones that tastes good for the girls. Just a side note I tend to leave it up to the provider but more and more I think I may invest in my own. I believe I am pretty avg dude but the last couple times the condom was really coking me. Also I remember one time the girl would put if on me but I never seem her actually take it out of the package. So for now on I tell them that I need to see them take it out of the package. I would not put it pass some who actually reuses them. So be safe out there.

Has anyone ever got head and ended up with an std? I haven't just asking for my own piece of mind.

[QUOTE=JDRedBull;5407797]Anyone here have a favorite that protects well but feels good too. Also ones that tastes good for the girls. Just a side note I tend to leave it up to the provider but more and more I think I may invest in my own. I believe I am pretty avg dude but the last couple times the condom was really coking me. Also I remember one time the girl would put if on me but I never seem her actually take it out of the package. So for now on I tell them that I need to see them take it out of the package. I would not put it pass some who actually reuses them. So be safe out there.[/QUOTE]Education on everything condom can be found at CondomDepot:

[URL]https://www.condomdepot.com/[/URL]

"best" is subjective. Some like a thinner condom, others prefer ribbed. Reviews and the Learning Section on that site might help. Sizing charts and help and then each condom is listed with ts dimensions.

I go for the thinnest ones, usually PVC:

Beyond Seven.

Crown.

Kimono.

If you want the thinnest made, you'll have to get them on eBay as I don't think they have gotten the FDA approval:

Sagami Original.

Yes, unless you are VERY rough they hold up.

Avoiding prelubed condoms will get rid of the taste factor. Most condoms have some kind of spermicide (Nonoxynol-9) associated with them, so that gives the bad taste. Er other than the taste of latex itself. Maybe PVC has a lesser taste? Other alternative is natural lambskin.

My preferred is Skyn, it is synthetic natural rubber. I have a latex sensitivity, so w / regular condoms, a day or so after sex, I would feel a little irritation. This was understandably scary. Turns out, it wasn't a STD, but my latex 'allergy' . The variety of Skyn condoms I use are the regular ones, they have a few others. Including ultra-thin. Mine aren't pre-lubricated, but then I only see sugar babies, who give BBBJs, so I don't have to worry about the taste of the lube. I have already checked into the BC status of my girl before sex, so I don't really have to worry about knocking anyone up. I do like to use a lube, but it is just the typical astroglide type.

[QUOTE=Goinchad;5407853]Has anyone ever got head and ended up with an std? I haven't just asking for my own piece of mind.[/QUOTE]Never had any STD per say from oral, but did get an itchy rash once years ago within hours of receiving head. Still not sure what it was. Treated it topically with hydrocortisone cream and followed up with an antibiotic ointment and it went away by the next day. I don't know of anyone personally that has had any problems, however the professionals say you can so I guess it is just a calculated risk we must take if we are to enjoy BBBJ's!

[QUOTE=JustMeForU;5412094]Never had any STD per say from oral, but did get an itchy rash once years ago within hours of receiving head. Still not sure what it was. Treated it topically with hydrocortisone cream and followed up with an antibiotic ointment and it went away by the next day. I don't know of anyone personally that has had any problems, however the professionals say you can so I guess it is just a calculated risk we must take if we are to enjoy BBBJ's![/QUOTE]It's rare but possible not nearly as risky as going bareback FS.

Been stalking this board for a while now and have done my fair share of mongering, however there's one thing that concerns me. I've noticed a good amount of people do DFK and BBJ and I'm wondering how can you know who to trust when it comes to not catching HSV.

[QUOTE=Rudiger;5426893]I'd be willing to bet that Mikki takes extraordinary care of her pussy, douching after every session, and with some industrial-strength, anti-bacterial type stuff, too. We're talking pornstar-level care of her vay-jay. Likewise, there's probably a reason she doesn't shave, either (at least her FUPA area).

Of course, if you asked her about it, I have no doubt she'd never give a straight answer.[/QUOTE]Real talk here. If Mikki is smart, which I think she is, she is probably on PrEP or pre-exposure prophylaxis. Every SP who does BBFS should take it, IMHO. On top of that, she probably visits the health Dept once a month for a test and antibiotic shot for all the curable ailments.

There are actually ways to stay clean and do BB whatever. Most of us mongers have a wife or SO that might ask questions if we started taking a new daily medication.

Be careful out there.