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[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;3756184]Anyway it's disappointing. And I'm not going to give out her contact info, because I don't want her to be rewarded for insulting me. I guess there were some red flags with her along the way but nothing major. But I just had to share that, even though not really useful intel.[/QUOTE]You're actually rewarding her by not letting us know who to avoid. Just setting up a fellow man to come across this headache of a woman.
I got to say if you are on here it is to get or share info or reports about the experiences we have with these women, not to use it to get what others are getting. You need to know that YMMV. This not to be shared to these ladies on what is being said about them. Specially because it seems that more BP girls are coming up in SA and most SB are being told how much to play. I have a SB (sorry fellas can't share her details yet) that one night we were together actually told me if there was a site where people post what happens with experiences in SA. So I just got to say stop bringing this site up with SBs or providers.
Don't know if I should have posted it here or on the other section. So mybad about expressing this again even though it has already been said before.
[QUOTE=TheJasonator;3756803]I got to say if you are on here it is to get or share info or reports about the experiences we have with these women, not to use it to get what others are getting. You need to know that YMMV. This not to be shared to these ladies on what is being said about them. Specially because it seems that more BP girls are coming up in SA and most SB are being told how much to play. I have a SB (sorry fellas can't share her details yet) that one night we were together actually told me if there was a site where people post what happens with experiences in SA. So I just got to say stop bringing this site up with SBs or providers.
Don't know if I should have posted it here or on the other section. So mybad about expressing this again even though it has already been said before.[/QUOTE]Yes it is a little dicier sharing info about SBs, because some seem to be regular girls (and at least not pros), so you don't really want to post too much about their personal sex life online. But there's a way it can be done to help the guys here and also help them (to get more interest and more $). However I'm like you and would not share SB details until I am done with her and then maybe a little time has passed. And you definitely don't want to tell girls about this site or just likely creates headaches for everyone.
Anybody try Secret Benefits? I am seeing some of the same girls on SA on there. Also what do ya'll message on the first message?
[QUOTE=PeterJohnson;3756184]I have had mostly good experiences on SA, but never forget many women are just plain nuts. I was talking to this one in North Ga earlier this year and seemed laid back and cool and a lot of fun. She sent me nude pics without me even asking, and then we talked about getting together. I was asking her about possible BBFS and she said I needed to use a condom at first, but then later in the conversation said "It's ok. You can nut in me".
I wanted to get up to N GA and do some hiking, so have been trying to wait for nice weather (and also when I wasn't banging one of my other SBs). I figured I would get a room and pick her up and take her there and back. We talked a lot at first and then just maybe once a week since then, but she was always cool. Well, she did ask me to send her some $ a couple of times, but I said no and would give her $200 allowance for the visit when we met up. She told me last week that she hadn't met anyone from SA yet, despite being on there at least three months.
So looks like I could finally meet her in a couple of days, and I messaged her and suddenly she goes off on me:
"Well I honestly don't even know if I want to mess around anymore. You're not serious about it or you would have already sent me some money. I sent you pictures of my body for free. You didn't even offerme 5 dollars. You've been playing with me. So I think I'm going to pass. I've been talking to you for months and you haven't sent me anything. You aren't much of a sugar daddy. I'm not wasting anymore time on you. Sorry. ".
WTF.
"I have men give me 200 dollars just to speak to me. I'm not sellinmyself short. I'm sorry but you're a cheap fuck. There is no way Iwould take just 200 dollar. That wouldn't pay one of my bills. 😬 so I have to find someone who has more time is closer and isn't so cheap. Good luck".
What a crazy chick. She doesn't even have her own place and has no car and she has no use for $200. Somehow I think it would take a good chunk out of one of her bills or just put it towards saving up for transportation. And she's not that hot either, although her body did look good.
It was just surprising and makes me think she is scared to actually meet someone in person. Or maybe she did just get annoyed that I wasn't sending her money for nothing the last couple of months. I can look at pics of naked women online for free, and I'm not going to pay for it. Well maybe if I was already seeing someone and was an excuse to send them more funds, while seeing some hot pics, I would do it, but not in this situation.
Anyway it's disappointing. And I'm not going to give out her contact info, because I don't want her to be rewarded for insulting me. I guess there were some red flags with her along the way but nothing major. But I just had to share that, even though not really useful intel.[/QUOTE]Well, dealing with females 20 somethings, going to have stuff like that, could have caught her on the red color. I think these girls are chatting on forums way more than most guys do. It's not about need money for a lot of them, they want good NSA sex and some fun, like she said the money is comparison and ego based.
Someone could be very happy with their salary and paying bills just fine, but let them find out another guy is making 30 k more a year for the same job and they go through the roof.
[QUOTE=GeralToFrivia;3754142]Pumped up the Fun fund, and now I have arrived on SA. Can anyone provide any recommendations or advice on hwo to message the girls? I've been reading some comments but I figure you dogs are keeping the prizes to yourselves! LOL.[/QUOTE]I'm with Jay, never bring up money, let them do it. I've taken SB's to dinner and then to bed and not discussed money, but was fair with them.
I suggest reading the profiles well and put some thought into the messages, refer to something in the profile make them feel special. I think some quality messages to a few is better than saying "Hey" to 100 girls. Keep the chat light and use some humor if you have it. If you are liking them, give them your number, sometimes they will message, sometimes they will respond with their number for you to contact. At some point drop "I would really love to meet you soon as possible. ".
I found if you waiting more than a few days to meet is not ideal.
I figured out that the ones with simple, "want to have fun" type profiles are best to target. If her whole profile talks about getting spoiled and money etc, and doesn't mention anything about what she brings to the table. I will pass.
Ideally you want to find the girls that truly like sex and sex with older guys and want to have some fun and the money is just a perk. Trust me they are out there. That said, early on I was with a few that where mainly into the money, never as fun.
[QUOTE=Leep12;3757528]Well, dealing with females 20 somethings, going to have stuff like that, could have caught her on the red color. I think these girls are chatting on forums way more than most guys do. It's not about need money for a lot of them, they want good NSA sex and some fun, like she said the money is comparison and ego based.
Someone could be very happy with their salary and paying bills just fine, but let them find out another guy is making 30 k more a year for the same job and they go through the roof.[/QUOTE]I just started chatting with a chick from North Ga, says she just moved back. She use to stay in Midtown. I hope this isn't the same chic.
I got to say. SA delivers. I signed up for a Premium account yesterday morning and was bare-backing a young lady just over 24 hours later at a reasonable price. This was more of a "likely pro" sort of situation, but a good start. I appreciate all the tips on how best to attract SBs and what to look for. I look forward to testing the waters on some different experiences and working my way in to the pure non-pro young ladies.
Thanks, guys!
[QUOTE=Kloop;3754889][URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/37d3a353-40b2-0910-62e7-b9f175d948ea[/URL]
Got in contact with this one and she is DTF. Quoted 1. 5. I'm passing but one of you guys may be interested.[/QUOTE]You got to come back with a counter offer. She'll take 120. I was hitting that before she came to this site. She use to have the best tits in the world till her new born suck them flat and dry. LOL.
[QUOTE=TroyWess;3757974]I got to say. SA delivers. I signed up for a Premium account yesterday morning and was bare-backing a young lady just over 24 hours later at a reasonable price. This was more of a "likely pro" sort of situation, but a good start. I appreciate all the tips on how best to attract SBs and what to look for. I look forward to testing the waters on some different experiences and working my way in to the pure non-pro young ladies.
Thanks, guys![/QUOTE]You're more than welcomed. Thanks for taking and not giving. Your a fine addition to this site, young man. Keep it up.
[QUOTE=Apollo007;3758136]You got to come back with a counter offer. She'll take 120. I was hitting that before she came to this site. She use to have the best tits in the world till her new born suck them flat and dry. LOL.[/QUOTE]Chic's been on backpage and craigslist for 2-3 years now. She has reviews on the other site. She used to only do white men. I wonder if that's changed since she's now postering as a SugarbBaby. LOL.
[QUOTE=Kloop;3754889][URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/37d3a353-40b2-0910-62e7-b9f175d948ea[/URL]
Got in contact with this one and she is DTF. Quoted 1. 5. I'm passing but one of you guys may be interested.[/QUOTE]Old news! Backpage and Craigslist hag. She let's you videotape though, so that's a positive.
Jesus. In one week of being on SA, I've seen three girls.
One was an average chick but OMG did she let me do any, and I mean anything with her for 400.
Next was a girl who was a bit like a did fish, not a lot fo chemistry but wants to meet again. Probably not going to. 300.
Then a girl who was in college who wants to meet, stays overnight for 200.
All BB.
I'm in heaven.
I have to agree about never going back to BP. I've only had the one experience so far, but it was a threesome, so does that count as two? I have three more meets lined up this week, two for what we're all here for, and one for "long term". I'm talking with three others that I could push to meet at any time, and all of them save one seem pretty casual about the whole thing. The one who isn't casual seems to be all about the $, but her body looks so good I don't care. She's the one that will disappoint, I'm sure.
I'll share some more details after the other encounters.
[QUOTE=GeralToFrivia;3758910]Jesus. In one week of being on SA, I've seen three girls.
One was an average chick but OMG did she let me do any, and I mean anything with her for 400.
Next was a girl who was a bit like a did fish, not a lot fo chemistry but wants to meet again. Probably not going to. 300.
Then a girl who was in college who wants to meet, stays overnight for 200.
All BB.
I'm in heaven.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JohnnyMapalo;3758199]You're more than welcomed. Thanks for taking and not giving. Your a fine addition to this site, young man. Keep it up[/QUOTE]Hey now. OK, that's fair.
How about "sincere thanks to everybody for the insight on SA. I look forward to helping add to the knowledge" ?
This lady is in Kennesaw though her profile says Atlanta. I met her for drinks a couple of weeks ago and it seemed like nothing would come of it. I decided to text back and see if she was interested and she was into it. We arranged a time and I was checking in with her before heading her way when suddenly there was a delay. I asked for clarification of her schedule and never heard back. I was wondering if anyone else has seen or talked with her.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ce0cdde9-77cd-aa93-13c7-39a05023e2a1[/URL]
I never made it past the allowance with this one. Wants $2 k month for once a week. Her profile sounds like fun but that's not remotely in my ballpark.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/3ba3d45e-534f-4ae2-88e6-82278c0a504a[/URL]