OK guys, and yes I mean GUYS! If I sort ads by female escorts and I'm still seeing dicks in profiles, it PISSES ME OFF! Contrary to what the feel-good crowd tells you, your are NOT female. You have a dick. You're a dude. Stick to advertising on the TS boards for guys that are into that thing. Quit trying to fool people. It might not end well.
Ok, rant over.
Random thoughts: What do fellow hobbyist usually prefer. If you're in a position to host, do you usually go that route? Why or why not?
I'd love to be able to look at places in my location and remember the deeds I've done there but, all things considered, this business is all about the money and would hate to be set up for a home invasion (I always go to worst common denominator. I'm not loaded but I really like my TV and PS4 would rather keep those here).
If I have a hotel room, hosting is less of an issue. Lock your valuables in the room safe and be vigilant of any cohorts. BFs, pimps, partners. Rarely do I host at my own place, but when I do, it's usually with a gal I've met before and feel comfortable with. Even then, I'm cautious with my personal valuables locking in a personal safe and keeping them out of sight. In addition, try not to be a show off. Example of what not to do: Hey pretty girl I just met and know nothing about, checkout all the cash I keep under my mattress and I'm so organized the keys to my cars and home are right here for easy access.
[QUOTE=NightMove;4238709]Random thoughts: What do fellow hobbyist usually prefer. If you're in a position to host, do you usually go that route? Why or why not?
I'd love to be able to look at places in my location and remember the deeds I've done there but, all things considered, this business is all about the money and would hate to be set up for a home invasion (I always go to worst common denominator. I'm not loaded but I really like my TV and PS4 would rather keep those here).[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=NightMove;4238709]Random thoughts: What do fellow hobbyist usually prefer. If you're in a position to host, do you usually go that route? Why or why not?
I'd love to be able to look at places in my location and remember the deeds I've done there but, all things considered, this business is all about the money and would hate to be set up for a home invasion (I always go to worst common denominator. I'm not loaded but I really like my TV and PS4 would rather keep those here).[/QUOTE]Never ever ever invite a stranger to your home to engage in illegal activity. Not ever. Just compare the upside with the downside. The absolute best thing that can happen is you have great sex with a beautiful woman. If you've been in the game for any amount of time, you've already done that several times. The downside is only limited by your imagination. Losing your TV and gaming console would be getting off easy. One man's opinion and worth exactly what you paid for it.
[QUOTE=Triptogamont;4239837]Never ever ever invite a stranger to your home to engage in illegal activity. Not ever. Just compare the upside with the downside. The absolute best thing that can happen is you have great sex with a beautiful woman. If you've been in the game for any amount of time, you've already done that several times. The downside is only limited by your imagination. Losing your TV and gaming console would be getting off easy. One man's opinion and worth exactly what you paid for it.[/QUOTE]I usually do incall since so many of these ladies are flakes. I'd be perturbed to rent a room and get no action. With that said, there are exactly three ladies who have been, and are always welcome to visit me at my house. In each case, I know their real name, where they live, and many verifiable details about their personal life. In other words, I'm not worried about them showing up later and robbing me. Randos off the internet? Hell no.
[QUOTE=NightMove;4238709]Random thoughts: What do fellow hobbyist usually prefer. If you're in a position to host, do you usually go that route? Why or why not?
I'd love to be able to look at places in my location and remember the deeds I've done there but, all things considered, this business is all about the money and would hate to be set up for a home invasion (I always go to worst common denominator. I'm not loaded but I really like my TV and PS4 would rather keep those here).[/QUOTE]I'm an incall kind of guy. In addition to protecting your anonymity, where the location is can tell you a lot of about the sex worker. I've had a couple come to a hotel room but that's kind of dicey since again you're giving your personal details to the hotel. I've seen a couple of outcall only chicks who have been willing to use their I'd to get the room.
I guess I equate it all to the same amount of strangers I'd met off Tinder / etc and had back over to my place. I think the same when I'm invited over to someone's home barely after knwoibf them: is this a set up? How do they know if I am or not? Shit like that. Except, as you all mentioned, illegal and, assumedly, with more nefarious ideals.
I kept it to a hotel away from the never visit streets I don't trust like capital / saunders / etc, same skepticism I would show to meeting anyone, hahah.
[QUOTE=NightMove;4238709]Random thoughts: What do fellow hobbyist usually prefer. If you're in a position to host, do you usually go that route? Why or why not?
I'd love to be able to look at places in my location and remember the deeds I've done there but, all things considered, this business is all about the money and would hate to be set up for a home invasion (I always go to worst common denominator. I'm not loaded but I really like my TV and PS4 would rather keep those here).[/QUOTE]This is not like having an installation done in your home by Lowe's. Your inviting a ho and all her history into your home. Maybe she's good. But maybe she's not. Or she's good but then she gets mad at you. Or she inadvertently mentions your 50" flat screen in a convo to one of her associates. No way never invite strange ho into your home. SB or an escort you've established a relationship MIGHT be ok. Personally. I would never do it.
[QUOTE=NightMove;4241529]I guess I equate it all to the same amount of strangers I'd met off Tinder / etc and had back over to my place. I think the same when I'm invited over to someone's home barely after knwoibf them: is this a set up? How do they know if I am or not? Shit like that. Except, as you all mentioned, illegal and, assumedly, with more nefarious ideals.
I kept it to a hotel away from the never visit streets I don't trust like capital / saunders / etc, same skepticism I would show to meeting anyone, hahah.[/QUOTE]I'd say that at least in the US the chances of someone from Tinder coming over to rob you are considerably less than a hooker coming over to rob you or worse. Either way it's a risk so buyer beware.
How does someone get the senior member rating if they don't know how to search for a girl?
At least I am assuming they don't know how. Or maybe they are just too lazy to look them up? Easier to ask then search?.
[QUOTE=NooneAtal;4255031]How does someone get the senior member rating if they don't know how to search for a girl?
At least I am assuming they don't know how. Or maybe they are just too lazy to look them up? Easier to ask then search?.[/QUOTE]Probably lots of posts asking for info about girls.
Ang not Meth! You know one from the hill? Did a Pornhub search Raleigh, NC browse adult bookstores most recent took awhile to navigate, who the hell is Silk? Dude was killing that pus**why. Then thar she blows, glory be the star in living color, cleaning some dudes pipe. It was a bbbjw hold it in walk fast to spit. Amen to the girls of Hill!
Numerous times I have taken a "bad review" of a girl on here as my personal conquest. I have to say only once did I get the results that were posted on here and that was because I went at night and she was cracked out already. I enjoy contacting these women after you guys have trashed her on here. I'm not going to say who these women are but I will say that its been a lot of them from a lot of different mongers over a long period of time. My approach is always what I call "the southern gentleman. " Hello. How are you? Yes Ma'am'. No ma'am Please. Thank you. Your very sexy. Pretty. I like your look. You seem nice. And eventually they come around and the subject of your bad review comes up. I don't cast doubt or throw out names or even participate in her monger bashing. Again with the southern gentleman. Sorry that happened to you. That must be frustrating. Contention sucks. And by the time we are done talking I am on my way to what for the most part, other than that one is a decent session. In fact I usually hear I wish more men were like you. So apparently why'all are hookin me up with some great sessions and didn't even know it! I guess it could be called "make up sex" LOL I've said it before gentlemen. If you treat these women with respect you'll get better results than if your going in to pound one out attitude. Just like you these women are checking you out on the first visit. Very seldom is my 5th visit the same as my 1st. In fact with the southern gentleman approach sometimes I see a complete transformation happen right before my eyes on the first visit. Thats rare tho. Very rare. So in summation, I will continue to get good sex from these women that why'all have pissed off. In all fairness now and as a disclaimer this is not the case with all of them. Sometimes I'll text and they are so wound up over the instance they can't see straight. Then I know its time to move on. So maybe that's why when I hear why'all say this market sucks I'm like... Really? I have pretty good luck. Especially in Fayettevile. This post is not meant to call anyone out or offend anyone. We all do what we think is best. Food for thought gents. Food for thought. BTW- the "southern gentleman" approach with an added smile and wink in public will get you free pussy. Guaranteed.
[QUOTE=BallAllDay;4257827]Numerous times I have taken a "bad review" of a girl on here as my personal conquest. I have to say only once did I get the results that were posted on here and that was because I went at night and she was cracked out already. I enjoy contacting these women after you guys have trashed her on here. I'm not going to say who these women are but I will say that its been a lot of them from a lot of different mongers over a long period of time. My approach is always what I call "the southern gentleman. " Hello. How are you? Yes Ma'am'. No ma'am Please. Thank you. Your very sexy. Pretty. I like your look. You seem nice. And eventually they come around and the subject of your bad review comes up. I don't cast doubt or throw out names or even participate in her monger bashing. Again with the southern gentleman. Sorry that happened to you. That must be frustrating. Contention sucks. And by the time we are done talking I am on my way to what for the most part, other than that one is a decent session. In fact I usually hear I wish more men were like you. So apparently why'all are hookin me up with some great sessions and didn't even know it! I guess it could be called "make up sex" LOL I've said it before gentlemen. If you treat these women with respect you'll get better results than if your going in to pound one out attitude. Just like you these women are checking you out on the first visit. Very seldom is my 5th visit the same as my 1st. In fact with the southern gentleman approach sometimes I see a complete transformation happen right before my eyes on the first visit. Thats rare tho. Very rare. So in summation, I will continue to get good sex from these women that why'all have pissed off. In all fairness now and as a disclaimer this is not the case with all of them. Sometimes I'll text and they are so wound up over the instance they can't see straight. Then I know its time to move on. So maybe that's why when I hear why'all say this market sucks I'm like... Really? I have pretty good luck. Especially in Fayettevile. This post is not meant to call anyone out or offend anyone. We all do what we think is best. Food for thought gents. Food for thought. BTW- the "southern gentleman" approach with an added smile and wink in public will get you free pussy. Guaranteed.[/QUOTE]Your post is a good insight as to how a certain individual handles a first time visit and others to follow. If you think about it the provider and the dude have the same game plan he wants service she wants cash. That said there are generally a few types of providers and dudes 1. Rules rules rules, 2. Nervous, 3. Aggressive, 4. Negotiator (cheap or haggling for more), 5. Relax just want to have fun. Now the trick is to find a match. I agree showing some respect is a good place to start. Because that will give you an idea which way she will go. Find the opposite of what one of you wants = a shitty review. It's all a crap shoot if there are no reviews to weed out the what ifs. Then there are if she has demons whole new subject. Agree Showing some respect though may surprise you.
So there was a provider who had her issues with daemons. Apparently she found a sugar daddy and stopped tricking. Not long after retiring, ads started popping up indicating that she was doing fetish only sessions (no sex). Shortly after that occasionally straight up "escort" ads were appearing. Anyways, she got arrested lately and like most arrest reports an address was listed for her. With little effort you can find out a lot about an address. The address listed was a nice house in Raleigh and some quick googling indicates that it's owned by a guy who is a pretty high up sales manager at one of the largest tech companies in the area. This is a dude with a 20+ year career whose address is now associated with a chick who has heroin and other arrests on her record. If he's divorced with kids, he's now potentially more fucked. If he has a competitor at work who will drag his name through mud he's potentially more fucked. There's tons of ways for this guy to eventually get screwed by this.
Stay in the game long enough and you'll have a favorite. Stay in long enough and you'll find a chick you want to save with every fiber of your being. I won't say to do it or not do it but I will say that unless these chicks are willing to save themselves, you can't do it.