[QUOTE=IronMan40;6700257]Can't tell since this is a link to your inbox messages on seeking.[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d8c3cf8b-bd3a-40c8-b435-1bcb1b8af280[/URL]
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[QUOTE=IronMan40;6700257]Can't tell since this is a link to your inbox messages on seeking.[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d8c3cf8b-bd3a-40c8-b435-1bcb1b8af280[/URL]
This lady is incredibly beautiful, smokin hot and really nice. Her ask is $1500 PPM, insists on covers, and desires to meet in Ashburn. All 3 are deal breakers for me, but she quickly went to $1 K, so figured I would meet her and continue to negotiate. My goal was $750, no covers w / testing, and meet between Ashburn and Tysons. Drove out to Ashburn and met for coffee. Prior to meeting, she suggested that if we clicked, I should ensure that I had time allotted to play afterwards.
She was firm on condoms until we "got to know each other better" and would not budge off $1 K. She did offer to host at her house (have to work around when she has her kid) and / or she would drive to Tysons. Told her I would consider and departed with a nice hug.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/73c57027-dff3-40ae-a09d-194c8a1a0c92[/URL]
[QUOTE=Eagle7415;6700263][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d8c3cf8b-bd3a-40c8-b435-1bcb1b8af280[/URL][/QUOTE]She's a well known scammer and has had multiple profiles. She's even taken money from a previous SD while in their arrangement. Search "1 bcb1 b8 af280" for most recent reports.
[QUOTE=RudyWellz;6700268]She's a well known scammer and has had multiple profiles. She's even taken money from a previous SD while in their arrangement. Search "1 bcb1 b8 af280" for most recent reports.[/QUOTE]Thank you, won't be seeing her!
Tori is a strange bird. I fucked her back in May, then last month or so, she cash and dashed me. She's run the cash and dash on others as well. Be careful with this one.
Eagle, to find previous reports on POTS, enter the last 12 alphanumeric characters of the POTS Seeking profile in the search bar above.
[QUOTE=Eagle7415;6700102][URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/e1158093-d1aa-4cd5-b70b-7951a4b2eac2[/URL]
Been messaging this lady she is very eager to meet up for a m & g. Any information will be appreciated. Thank you all for your comments on my previous posts, you have saved me $ since they are a waste of time.[/QUOTE]
Bought a Play Card on Amazon then tried to add it to my Google Play account and it keep giving me error.
Anyone have the same problem? Tried on both the laptop and the Play app.
[QUOTE=RudyWellz;6700264]This lady is incredibly beautiful, smokin hot and really nice. Her ask is $1500 PPM, insists on covers, and desires to meet in Ashburn. All 3 are deal breakers for me, but she quickly went to $1 K, so figured I would meet her and continue to negotiate. My goal was $750, no covers w / testing, and meet between Ashburn and Tysons. Drove out to Ashburn and met for coffee. Prior to meeting, she suggested that if we clicked, I should ensure that I had time allotted to play afterwards.
She was firm on condoms until we "got to know each other better" and would not budge off $1 K. She did offer to host at her house (have to work around when she has her kid) and / or she would drive to Tysons. Told her I would consider and departed with a nice hug.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/73c57027-dff3-40ae-a09d-194c8a1a0c92[/URL][/QUOTE]I'm curious if you want to share. Had you gotten her to your goal allowance, was that going to be an ongoing (say 3-4 x a month) or just once? Would she be your only SB? No criticism of any answer. Just gauging the DC habits and ranges.
[QUOTE=SRH59;6700794]I'm curious if you want to share. Had you gotten her to your goal allowance, was that going to be an ongoing (say 3-4 x a month) or just once? Would she be your only SB? No criticism of any answer. Just gauging the DC habits and ranges.[/QUOTE]Interestingly, she actually texted me late yesterday and suggested that we meet for drinks as she's will be in Tysons Corner Christmas shopping this week and I am absolutely going to meet her. To answer your questions, I have a stable rotation of 3 SB's and generally try to see one of them weekly. Also fortunate to have converted 2 former SB's to friends with benefits. If I can get JennaJ down, then she would potentially replace one of my 3 current SB's. Never go in thinking one and done. And JennaJ though she is stunning, it all depends on the fun factor.
[QUOTE=RudyWellz;6701363]Interestingly, she actually texted me late yesterday and suggested that we meet for drinks as she's will be in Tysons Corner Christmas shopping this week and I am absolutely going to meet her. To answer your questions, I have a stable rotation of 3 SB's and generally try to see one of them weekly. Also fortunate to have converted 2 former SB's to friends with benefits. If I can get JennaJ down, then she would potentially replace one of my 3 current SB's. Never go in thinking one and done. And JennaJ though she is stunning, it all depends on the fun factor.[/QUOTE]Let me get this straight, when you say 'I've converted two former SBs to FWBs', when you see them, you give each of them no money or gifts at all? Nada? Nothing?
[QUOTE=RudyWellz;6701363]Interestingly, she actually texted me late yesterday and suggested that we meet for drinks as she's will be in Tysons Corner Christmas shopping this week and I am absolutely going to meet her. To answer your questions, I have a stable rotation of 3 SB's and generally try to see one of them weekly. Also fortunate to have converted 2 former SB's to friends with benefits. If I can get JennaJ down, then she would potentially replace one of my 3 current SB's. Never go in thinking one and done. And JennaJ though she is stunning, it all depends on the fun factor.[/QUOTE]Thanks for sharing. You're playing the long game well. That, plus a little luck and timing seem to be what it takes to land a rotation of 2-3 gorgeous / quality SBs. I'm not looking for one and done either, but obviously that happens. DC is such an imbalanced market with high ppm asks from so many that don't warrant it. Then, for the much smaller group who are serious, not jaded, and objectively hot, they're inundated. I'm talking to a few standouts who breathe just enough life in the convo for me to stay in the hunt, but I'm clearly tier-2 atm. But for each one in this smaller group that I've landed as an SB it was from playing the long game. Being respectful, patient, never pushy, consistent, reasonably generous, listening when they start opening up, and having great sexual chemistry are hallmarks of what made it work. I also think it works when they realize how important these qualities are vs. strictly getting the highest ppm being offered.
I'm also with you on the fun factor vs. stunning. It just doesn't work long term if the chemistry doesn't blossom, no matter how hot she is. Good luck with JennaJ.
[QUOTE=OldChineseGuy;6701442]Let me get this straight, when you say 'I've converted two former SBs to FWBs', when you see them, you give each of them no money or gifts at all? Nada? Nothing?[/QUOTE]Yeah that's actually possible. You have to be savvy with language. I've met ladies off seeking where we just went straight to fwb and I never paid to see them.
Also had some where we started as pay for play and then they just stopped asking or expecting allowance and we were fwb. One of them I would throw her gas money here and there but that's it. One I gave a couple benjies when she needed help and I didn't even see her, but I had seen her so many times for free I still came out ahead.
I know some dudes will disagree cause we all see ladies for different reasons and to scratch certain itches, but never lead with your wallet. Try to connect and see if there's any chemistry first. Of course it's easier if you're single. Married or involved dudes may not be able to do that cause they have to watch out for the warden and it's easier to just pay and keep the lines clear.
Feel like I'm certain I've seen her pics show up under a different profile before, but the current one doesn't show any hits when searching the url digits. If anyone might have had experience seeing her before, would be curious if she's legit and / or what the experience was like.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dbeb7656-8df3-4c97-83b0-8a6ed7da8128[/URL]
[QUOTE=NovaDaddy69;6704440]Feel like I'm certain I've seen her pics show up under a different profile before, but the current one doesn't show any hits when searching the url digits. If anyone might have had experience seeing her before, would be curious if she's legit and / or what the experience was like.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dbeb7656-8df3-4c97-83b0-8a6ed7da8128[/URL][/QUOTE]That's Ella / Ellis or whatever she wants to call herself. Everyone's had a ride. Some complained of a smell. Her socials are remarkably easy to find using that profile photo, and her current photos look like crap. I wonder if her husband has any idea what a massive cuck he is.
[QUOTE=Itfcd;6704492]That's Ella / Ellis or whatever she wants to call herself. Everyone's had a ride. Some complained of a smell. Her socials are remarkably easy to find using that profile photo, and her current photos look like crap. I wonder if her husband has any idea what a massive cuck he is.[/QUOTE]Ah. Very helpful indeed. Much appreciated. Sounds like one to avoid in favor of less traveled rides.
First I want to make sure I clarify that I am referring only to girls on sugar sites like Seeking and SB, not Tinder, Bumble etc. While I agree that different guys are on sugar sites are for different reasons, almost all the girls are there for only one reason, MONEY, period. I have been on Seeking more than 6 years, and met in person close to 200 girls and fucked closer to 100. I am yet to find a girl who is not expecting money or something that has value (material-wise). Having said that, I agree you should not lead with your wallet, make a connection and make the experience enjoyable to both and respect each other. I am very upfront about being realistic and that I am not a filthy rich guy. The type of girls I reach out appreciate the honesty. But I make sure at the beginning, that they will get a compensation (or allowance whatever we want to call it) and they can expect it every time we meet. And I reiterate that this is only a casual thing nothing more than that. There are few girls that I got so close, I could have definitely tried to get it without paying, but never wanted to do that. I am a firm believer that there is nothing called "free pussy". I am single and I have nothing to worry about blackmailing etc, but this approach kept me from worrying about clingy girls, stalkers, and all the drama. The minute you take out the money aspect, all these are going to pop up. I never had any issue with any girl so far (despite me hanging out with girls at my house, sometime spending the night), and I want to keep it that way.
Obviously there are some who will disagree with me. But, I am just being realistic.
Play Safe.
Dr. S.
[QUOTE=BobDingle10;6701827]Yeah that's actually possible. You have to be savvy with language. I've met ladies off seeking where we just went straight to fwb and I never paid to see them.
Also had some where we started as pay for play and then they just stopped asking or expecting allowance and we were fwb. One of them I would throw her gas money here and there but that's it. One I gave a couple benjies when she needed help and I didn't even see her, but I had seen her so many times for free I still came out ahead.
I know some dudes will disagree cause we all see ladies for different reasons and to scratch certain itches, but never lead with your wallet. Try to connect and see if there's any chemistry first. Of course it's easier if you're single. Married or involved dudes may not be able to do that cause they have to watch out for the warden and it's easier to just pay and keep the lines clear.[/QUOTE]