An honest discussion with a SB
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6323100]I simply dismiss the idea that there are lots and lots of guys out there giving average girls thousands per date, and that is what is driving up GPS. There is, like in many aspects of the world, too much BS on social media, and the readers (=POTs) are too gullible. Girls have come to think that is what they deserve, but they are sitting at home, and because they haven't ever had a real arrangement, this is OK w / them.
IK that great short term (I did well when I visited Chicago on a business trip) and ongoing (3 6 mo+) arrangements are still available from the site. At price points I am able to pay, hiding the $ from my SO.[/QUOTE]The girl that I am mostly currently seeing told me about the guy she was seeing before me who would fly into Chicago and pay her $1,000 per visit, 3 X a month. She did not spend the night, just hang out and of course, FS. There are guys out there that will just throw the money out there because they don't care. Personally in the past, I too have paid $1,000 because she was just that hot, (Karli, mentioned the other day) and almost that much when I saw a certain popular agency girl as an Indy where we had our own arrangement.
IMO This Hobby is a Derrick Coleman Quote.
It ain't about how good you are or how much someone thinks you are worth, it's about how much you can get. The equation is pretty simple to me, in general women on SA are trying to get as much as they can for as long as they can while doing as little as possible. The guys are the reverse, paying as little as they can but trying to get a such as they can. If she can get $1 k or more and simply spend time or go to a paid dinner in return she will take that in a heartbeat. However depending on the situation she may also take $250 and FS. Just depends on the situation, the girl, and the person talking to her. It's fluid and sometimes you hit a 7 or 11 and sometimes you crap out! But either way I doubt any guy in this site could coordinate to get enough guys for a critical mass to somehow lower expenses overal, just ain't going to happen.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6323100]I simply dismiss the idea that there are lots and lots of guys out there giving average girls thousands per date, and that is what is driving up GPS. There is, like in many aspects of the world, too much BS on social media, and the readers (=POTs) are too gullible. Girls have come to think that is what they deserve, but they are sitting at home, and because they haven't ever had a real arrangement, this is OK w / them.
IK that great short term (I did well when I visited Chicago on a business trip) and ongoing (3 6 mo+) arrangements are still available from the site. At price points I am able to pay, hiding the $ from my SO.[/QUOTE]
The odds are forever in their favor
[QUOTE=Razorthin2011;6324778]It ain't about how good you are or how much someone thinks you are worth, it's about how much you can get. The equation is pretty simple to me, in general women on SA are trying to get as much as they can for as long as they can while doing as little as possible. The guys are the reverse, paying as little as they can but trying to get a such as they can. If she can get $1 k or more and simply spend time or go to a paid dinner in return she will take that in a heartbeat. However depending on the situation she may also take $250 and FS. Just depends on the situation, the girl, and the person talking to her. It's fluid and sometimes you hit a 7 or 11 and sometimes you crap out! But either way I doubt any guy in this site could coordinate to get enough guys for a critical mass to somehow lower expenses overal, just ain't going to happen.[/QUOTE]We all know the facts of life. For a man to walk in a room and have every woman there instantly want to bed him, he basically has to run the world. For a woman to have every man in a room instantly want to bang her, she just needs to walk into the room.
The girls just need to keep throwing out their demands and odds are they'll eventually find someone dumb, desperate, or deep pocketed enough to pay that much. Those of us who don't want to pay that much for these experiences are stuck in tricky negotiations, getting ghosted or flamed, or settling for lower quality. Sometimes it works out, but I bet there are many times more girls landing big paydays than there are us guys finding ideal arrangement partners for reasonable donations. It's still worth it when it works out, but it's not easy.
