Boss Lady back at it again
Just like her recent STG says, she's at it again. Had a dream with her back before she went to the gray bar. She was sober and lucid and we had a good time. Things were a little different this time. She visited me Saturday. It took over 3 hours from arrangement to arrival. I should have called it quits after 2 hours of waiting but I wanted to take her for another spin. When she arrived she was full of apologies and reasons for the delay. Plus she had groceries that required refrigeration, no big deal, but then she spent an hour 'getting ready' in the bathroom. During which time, she talked a lot about circumstances during the last few months. Including a really bad experience she had at the hands of someone who she thought was trying to help her out. The things she told me had me convinced that most women would just get out of the hobby at that point, but the habits she has are stronger than her circumstances. The dream itself was very nice, and she still has an awesome spinner body and great skills. Told her afterwards that if we were o have a date again, to be prepared upon arrival, but I don't think those skills are in her wheelhouse right nowl. Buyer beware.
My dilemma with seeing Della update
With my recent comments on if Della would be worth a visit I decided to reach out to her while I was in the Melbourne area and had some time to travel a bit farther south. Hell I was on a roll (see my reports on UTR Charlotte and LSME Marcie) and thought I would see if I could keep it going with Della. For a little bit of context on my comments on Della I will tell you that I have always enjoyed her look and have a very high opinion of her business model of charging a bit more and sticking to her guns on some of her rules. (shows that she is not in need of any new business) With that being said I have never seen her because I've never felt that she would ever loosen up some of her rules for me or at the very least make me think that some things that I enjoy would become available with subsequent visits. As was stated in the comments on her being one of the most divided opinion providers, some people love her and some people hate her, I find myself willing to spend a little time and donations to make up my own opinion of where I stand on her. (nothing worse than sitting on the sidelines making comments about someone without having actually meet with the person your commenting on) So I looked up her ad and got her number and made a note of the fact that her ad said outcall only but still decided to contact her and ask if she was available and if the option of incall could be a possibility.
Now before I go any farther if you are reading this to hear some juicy review of my encounter with Della I will save you the time and tell you that I didn't see her so don't get your hopes up but what I will tell you is that she surprised me with her communication and has got me thinking a little differently about the Della dilemma.
The first thing that crossed my mind and probably yours when I said that her ad said outcall only and I was asking her to see me with a incall was that I either wouldn't get a response (as she's deleting my request and calling me a dumbass for not reading her ad) or she would respond calling me a dumbass for not reading her ad. LOL. Neither of these happened (or at least the dumbass text response didn't happen) instead I got a immediate reply saying "sorry outcalls only". I responded "thank you and hopefully I will get the opportunity to see you soon". Now this doesn't seem like much but if you think about it there's no benefit to her responding to my inquiry as her ad clearly says outcall only but the fact that she would communicate the obvious to a new unknown potential client tells me that their may be some wiggle room with her not being so structured in her business. It's enough to keep me interested in trying to see her and find out if she could fall somewhere in between my most recent reviews of Marcie and Charlotte.
Excellent point on Della!
[QUOTE=BeachRunner51;5822976]Now before I go any farther if you are reading this to hear some juicy review of my encounter with Della I will save you the time and tell you that I didn't see her so don't get your hopes up but what I will tell you is that she surprised me with her communication and has got me thinking a little differently about the Della dilemma.
The first thing that crossed my mind and probably yours when I said that her ad said outcall only and I was asking her to see me with a incall was that I either wouldn't get a response (as she's deleting my request and calling me a dumbass for not reading her ad) or she would respond calling me a dumbass for not reading her ad. LOL. Neither of these happened (or at least the dumbass text response didn't happen) instead I got a immediate reply saying "sorry outcalls only". I responded "thank you and hopefully I will get the opportunity to see you soon". Now this doesn't seem like much but if you think about it there's no benefit to her responding to my inquiry as her ad clearly says outcall only but the fact that she would communicate the obvious to a new unknown potential client tells me that their may be some wiggle room with her not being so structured in her business. It's enough to keep me interested in trying to see her and find out if she could fall somewhere in between my most recent reviews of Marcie and Charlotte.[/QUOTE]That's been one of my points on Della all along, Andrea as well. At least with me, their comms have always been good. While they've both responded to me at times to say they weren't available, I appreciated the fact that they responded, and usually rather promptly. I remember sometime back where I was trying to schedule with Andrea. I reached out to her 4 different times and each of those times she was unavailable, but she replied to let me know and she promised to make it up to me when we could finally coordinate our schedules. Conversely, and I'm sure I'm not the only one this has happened to, it's an all too frequent occurrence where I reach out to a provider and get no response. Maybe no response ever or, if I do get a response, it's hours later, maybe even a day later. That's a horrible business model. If you reply, even if to say you are not available, I at least appreciate the courtesy and I'll remember that down the road.
