"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

SBs are attracted 1st to the best looking guys in their proper designated age group who have the most intriguing profile. We do the same thing with them except we men are more equal opportunity carousers. Have pussy will travel.

So Dog Rice, the difference between you and Hollywood for example, might be appearance or profile writing style. There's nothing you can do about your looks other than present your visage in the best possible light. (I'm nor saying you aren't dashing and debonaire, but it's presentation that counts.

For me personally I know my age is a huge limiting factor and accept it. Usually if I can get to the meet I can overwhelm her with my $incerity.

Can't agree more about presentation. Also, my status, married, does reduce chances. Search continues.

[QUOTE=FredMoore; 1762216]SBs are attracted 1st to the best looking guys in their proper designated age group who have the most intriguing profile. We do the same thing with them except we men are more equal opportunity carousers. Have pussy will travel.

So Dog Rice, the difference between you and Hollywood for example, might be appearance or profile writing style. There's nothing you can do about your looks other than present your visage in the best possible light. (I'm nor saying you aren't dashing and debonaire, but it's presentation that counts.

For me personally I know my age is a huge limiting factor and accept it. Usually if I can get to the meet I can overwhelm her with my $incerity.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FredMoore; 1762216]SBs are attracted 1st to the best looking guys in their proper designated age group who have the most intriguing profile. We do the same thing with them except we men are more equal opportunity carousers. Have pussy will travel.

So Dog Rice, the difference between you and Hollywood for example, might be appearance or profile writing style. There's nothing you can do about your looks other than present your visage in the best possible light. (I'm nor saying you aren't dashing and debonaire, but it's presentation that counts.

For me personally I know my age is a huge limiting factor and accept it. Usually if I can get to the meet I can overwhelm her with my $incerity.[/QUOTE]I don't know your age. But as far as I can tell at 59 I am attracting more girls than ever. And its not the dollars, because I got less of them than before. Way less. Confidence is a huge factor. I lost 20 lbs, started working out and got a better haircut. It works

Shame to me comparing to you, HG. I am 38 and in good shape (flat stomach, muscle). Still getting shit.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1762729]I don't know your age. But as far as I can tell at 59 I am attracting more girls than ever. And its not the dollars, because I got less of them than before. Way less. Confidence is a huge factor. I lost 20 lbs, started working out and got a better haircut. It works[/QUOTE]

I just checked my stats on SD4me and I messaged 592 girls in the last 6 months. I got one new regular for my efforts. That works out to about 3 messages a day. And damn is she worth it. And I did do maybe 20+ face to face interviews. Rejection doesn't mean shit. Every no just puts you one step closer to a yes.

[QUOTE=Dog Rice;1762737]Shame to me comparing to you, HG. I am 38 and in good shape (flat stomach, muscle). Still getting shit.[/QUOTE]Well then just try the haircut. But don't change your aftershave. Your SO might get suspicious. LOL

My Advantages.

- I'm a relatively young SD (mid 30s). This makes it easier to attract and somewhat relate to 18-21 year-olds because I'm more or less still in their generation.

- I'm in good shape. While I don't have a six pack, I have a good athletic physic. Unless the girl is used to dating Calvin Kline models, my body won't be turning anyone off.

- Nice persona. I naturally give off a nice vibe whether it's digital communication or face-to-face. I never give girls an aggressive or creeper vibe.

- Decent income. I'm not rolling in it. But I make enough where I can treat a low middle income girl to nice things and she'll be very appreciative.

My Disadvantages.

- I'm a relatively young SD (mid 30s). This makes it difficult for me to attract girls over the age of 27. In fact, I've never had a SB older than 24. So there's a large segment of SBs (the MILF SBs) that I simply don't have access to. Not until another 10 years or so.

- I'm African American, so it makes it almost impossible to get Asian SBs. I don't have too much problems with other races, but Asians have been very difficult just to get conversations going. They tend to want white SDs almost exclusively. This wouldn't be such a big deal if Asian girls weren't one of my favorites.

- I'm married. This is probably the biggest hindrance. I just don't have a lot of free time to go on a ton of meet and greets. I also have very few slots available in the week for SBs, so I have to plan very carefully. Also flying in SBs is not really an option.

- I don't travel. My business does not have any travel, so I don't get to enjoy the out of town excursions that many you guys get to enjoy. My range of SBs is pretty much limited to a 2 hour radius of where I live.

I reported on this excellent new find earlier. Usually strippers do not make good SBs for all sorts of reasons we know about. This one is the exception that proves the rule. She is compactly cute, sweet, sexually worships me and is happy with $ a visit. Plus I get to hear all about the guys she encounters stripping. That is entertaining between cups. It doesn't get too much better than this my brothers!

She is HOTT. But what I can't stand with many babies is. They are F'nd slobs. My current baby is not, hell....she even cleans my house sometimes. DAMN I am going to miss her when she moves back home.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1762803]I just checked my stats on SD4me and I messaged 592 girls in the last 6 months. I got one new regular for my efforts. That works out to about 3 messages a day. And damn is she worth it. And I did do maybe 20+ face to face interviews. Rejection doesn't mean shit. Every no just puts you one step closer to a yes.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1762803]I just checked my stats on SD4me and I messaged 592 girls in the last 6 months. I got one new regular for my efforts. That works out to about 3 messages a day. And damn is she worth it. And I did do maybe 20+ face to face interviews. Rejection doesn't mean shit. Every no just puts you one step closer to a yes.[/QUOTE]Your experience parallels mine. It's funny how that in life the harder you work the luckier you get.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1762729]I don't know your age. But as far as I can tell at 59 I am attracting more girls than ever. And its not the dollars, because I got less of them than before. Way less. Confidence is a huge factor. I lost 20 lbs, started working out and got a better haircut. It works[/QUOTE]Both are important but I couldn't agree with you more that personality trumps looks with most females. I am in my 40s and average looking. No 6 pack. Have love handles. It is my confidence and charm that is the most attractive bait as far as I can tell. Not that losing some weight, dressing sharper and getting a new haircut wouldn't help. Maybe even a better cologne. I have no SO to be suspicious about such improvements.

[QUOTE=PartyTimeGuy;1762936]Your experience parallels mine. It's funny how that in life the harder you work the luckier you get.[/QUOTE]This is exactly what we do in sales. We're just converting leads into sales and then you have to keep the customer happy with ongoing support. More leads = more sales. I've hit the 400 mark for ladies I've contacted at SA in the last 2. 5 weeks since I've joined.

I have a cute 18yo that I am done with from SA. PM for details and line up for an exchange.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1762729]I don't know your age. But as far as I can tell at 59 I am attracting more girls than ever. And its not the dollars, because I got less of them than before. Way less. Confidence is a huge factor. I lost 20 lbs, started working out and got a better haircut. It works[/QUOTE]HW, I am 60, look 48 to 52 according to females, tall, slim and muscular, attractive, personality very good in a one on one, educated, blah, blah, blah.

Negatives :

Separated but still hiding from public disclosure.

60 (to a 20 yr old 60 might as well be 80)

No picture on SA, fake pic on SDFM.

Very picky.

Budget limited by separation scrutiny.

Probably uninspiring profile.

Recently I decided to check out the SD websites to see how it was, and so far I am enjoying it. I've yet to meet an SB.

I received some interest from the ladies, some I was interested in others not so much. I responded back to a few who sent me.

A message and I responded back letting them know that the interest was mutual. I included my contact number and suggested.

That we could chat via texting or phone. I want to know was it to quick and early to send my contact info or should I have sent.

Messages back and forth first?

Newbie here

[QUOTE=Llhacara; 1763138]Recently I decided to check out the SD websites to see how it was, and so far I am enjoying it. I've yet to meet an SB.

I received some interest from the ladies, some I was interested in others not so much. I responded back to a few who sent me.

A message and I responded back letting them know that the interest was mutual. I included my contact number and suggested.

That we could chat via texting or phone. I want to know was it to quick and early to send my contact info or should I have sent.

Messages back and forth first?

Newbie here[/QUOTE]Despite having had more than 100 SBs I am a relatively new poster to this site. However, I will have to say that the contributors here offer some very wise and helpful advice on the subject of SBs. A compilation of the advice in this thread would make quite a useful publication for all SDs.

Gentlemen,

Well, given the law of averages, it had to happen sooner or later. I was browsing the recent babies in New Orleans on SA this morning in anticipation of a possible trip at the end of the month to visit my youngest daughter, and I ran across a profile of one of my older daughter's college roommates! Now this is a girl I have had a huge and entirely inappropriate thing for since I first met her almost 6 years ago when visiting my daughter at college for parent's weekend. I mean it was chemical, at least for me, to the point that I had to put a little distance between us if we hugged so she wouldn't feel Scottie at full attention. I spent many a happy afternoon fantasizing about fucking her, and I have to be honest in saying that this latest discovery does not help matters at all.

I know the answer to this in my rational brain, but what would you all do? She will see, if she looks at who viewed her profile, that I looked at hers, but I have no public pictures, thank you baby Jesus, and my details are off just enough that she probably won't put two and two together, but I am feeling a very pleasant buzz of adrenaline running through my veins, and wonder what I would do if she contacted me, thinking I was just some horny dude from Chicago.

Has anyone ever successfully navigated these treacherous shoals? How did it turn out? Anyone who is in NOLA or goes there, I might share the profile, but you have to promise to take pics and videos! She is not a "classic" beauty, think more of an ethereal beauty in a painting by Vermeer, but I have always found her irresistable, no more so than now, unfortunately.

On the side of rationality, there's no guarantee that if I did contact her and reveal myself, that she would be anything other than repelled at the thought of fucking her best friend's father, but oh, my brothers, how often have I imagined that wondrous day when I would be settled between her thighs, looking down on her as she pulled me close!

In other news, I am balls deep in babies at home, but a wondrous one, who I thought had moved on, has recently come on strong, and honestly has driven all thoughts, (with the exception of the above) out of my head. She is funny, smart as can be, quick-witted, sassy, naturally beautiful, and for some strange reason seems to be totally into me! Our time together so far has been effortless, and we are scheduled for some "quality time" on Monday, at her instigation. At our lunch date today, she insisted on paying! And she is a gorgeous 27 yo who had our waiter drooling shamefully. What a wonderful world we live in, no? So far we have only kissed discretely, but I think she is still getting used to the whole idea. She is an intoxicating mix of sexy and virginal.

I await your advice on the NOLA roommate.

Scott

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1763515]Gentlemen,

Well, given the law of averages, it had to happen sooner or later. I was browsing the recent babies in New Orleans on SA this morning in anticipation of a possible trip at the end of the month to visit my youngest daughter, and I ran across a profile of one of my older daughter's college roommates! Now this is a girl I have had a huge and entirely inappropriate thing for since I first met her almost 6 years ago when visiting my daughter at college for parent's weekend. I mean it was chemical, at least for me, to the point that I had to put a little distance between us if we hugged so she wouldn't feel Scottie at full attention. I spent many a happy afternoon fantasizing about fucking her, and I have to be honest in saying that this latest discovery does not help matters at all.

I know the answer to this in my rational brain, but what would you all do? She will see, if she looks at who viewed her profile, that I looked at hers, but I have no public pictures, thank you baby Jesus, and my details are off just enough that she probably won't put two and two together, but I am feeling a very pleasant buzz of adrenaline running through my veins, and wonder what I would do if she contacted me, thinking I was just some horny dude from Chicago.

Has anyone ever successfully navigated these treacherous shoals? How did it turn out? Anyone who is in NOLA or goes there, I might share the profile, but you have to promise to take pics and videos! She is not a "classic" beauty, think more of an ethereal beauty in a painting by Vermeer, but I have always found her irresistable, no more so than now, unfortunately.

On the side of rationality, there's no guarantee that if I did contact her and reveal myself, that she would be anything other than repelled at the thought of fucking her best friend's father, but oh, my brothers, how often have I imagined that wondrous day when I would be settled between her thighs, looking down on her as she pulled me close!

In other news, I am balls deep in babies at home, but a wondrous one, who I thought had moved on, has recently come on strong, and honestly has driven all thoughts, (with the exception of the above) out of my head. She is funny, smart as can be, quick-witted, sassy, naturally beautiful, and for some strange reason seems to be totally into me! Our time together so far has been effortless, and we are scheduled for some "quality time" on Monday, at her instigation. At our lunch date today, she insisted on paying! And she is a gorgeous 27 yo who had our waiter drooling shamefully. What a wonderful world we live in, no? So far we have only kissed discretely, but I think she is still getting used to the whole idea. She is an intoxicating mix of sexy and virginal.

I await your advice on the NOLA roommate.

Scott[/QUOTE]Why risk it? There are too many fish in the sea. Seriously, forget about it.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1763527]Why risk it? There are too many fish in the sea. Seriously, forget about it.[/QUOTE]I think you don't out yourself via SA but casually hit on her IRL and test the waters. If she responds take it from there. But use SA to dialog with her and find out her limits. Don't use your real pic of course.

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1763515]Gentlemen,

Well, given the law of averages, it had to happen sooner or later. I was browsing the recent babies in New Orleans on SA this morning in anticipation of a possible trip at the end of the month to visit my youngest daughter, and I ran across a profile of one of my older daughter's college roommates! Now this is a girl I have had a huge and entirely inappropriate thing for since I first met her almost 6 years ago when visiting my daughter at college for parent's weekend. I mean it was chemical, at least for me, to the point that I had to put a little distance between us if we hugged so she wouldn't feel Scottie at full attention. I spent many a happy afternoon fantasizing about fucking her, and I have to be honest in saying that this latest discovery does not help matters at all.

I know the answer to this in my rational brain, but what would you all do? She will see, if she looks at who viewed her profile, that I looked at hers, but I have no public pictures, thank you baby Jesus, and my details are off just enough that she probably won't put two and two together, but I am feeling a very pleasant buzz of adrenaline running through my veins, and wonder what I would do if she contacted me, thinking I was just some horny dude from Chicago.

Has anyone ever successfully navigated these treacherous shoals? How did it turn out? Anyone who is in NOLA or goes there, I might share the profile, but you have to promise to take pics and videos! She is not a "classic" beauty, think more of an ethereal beauty in a painting by Vermeer, but I have always found her irresistable, no more so than now, unfortunately.

On the side of rationality, there's no guarantee that if I did contact her and reveal myself, that she would be anything other than repelled at the thought of fucking her best friend's father, but oh, my brothers, how often have I imagined that wondrous day when I would be settled between her thighs, looking down on her as she pulled me close!

In other news, I am balls deep in babies at home, but a wondrous one, who I thought had moved on, has recently come on strong, and honestly has driven all thoughts, (with the exception of the above) out of my head. She is funny, smart as can be, quick-witted, sassy, naturally beautiful, and for some strange reason seems to be totally into me! Our time together so far has been effortless, and we are scheduled for some "quality time" on Monday, at her instigation. At our lunch date today, she insisted on paying! And she is a gorgeous 27 yo who had our waiter drooling shamefully. What a wonderful world we live in, no? So far we have only kissed discretely, but I think she is still getting used to the whole idea. She is an intoxicating mix of sexy and virginal.

I await your advice on the NOLA roommate.

Scott[/QUOTE]My suggestion is to stay away from your daughter's former roommate. There are plenty of chicks out in the world. Why create any possible friction. Can a 27 year old be trusted to keep her mouth shut? My fuck buddy introduces me as her boyfriend to her family and the people she works with at her strip club. I've asked her specifically not to do this, but no luck. Can a 27 year old be trusted?

Sometimes I entertain risks like that because "Hey, you only live once!". But I'd let this go. If you were getting divorced or separated in the very near future, then maybe go for it. But if you plan to still preserve your marriage, then banging your daughter's roommate is a no-no. You would have no "deep cover" and you would be completely exposed and have no leverage on her to keep her mouth shut. Now IF she was married, then you might have enough leverage to keep her discrete. Short of that, she would have you by the balls on day one. In fact, simply contacting her (and she rejects you) , she would have you by the balls.

Instead just find a SB who looks just like this roommate and live out your fantasies that way.

[QUOTE=John G Smith; 1763753]Sometimes I entertain risks like that because "Hey, you only live once!". But I'd let this go. If you were getting divorced or separated in the very near future, then maybe go for it. But if you plan to still preserve your marriage, then banging your daughter's roommate is a no-no. You would have no "deep cover" and you would be completely exposed and have no leverage on her to keep her mouth shut. Now IF she was married, then you might have enough leverage to keep her discrete. Short of that, she would have you by the balls on day one. In fact, simply contacting her (and she rejects you) , she would have you by the balls.

Instead just find a SB who looks just like this roommate and live out your fantasies that way.[/QUOTE]The upside? You get to live out a fantasy. The downsides? Potential to poison every important relationship in your life AND MAYBE WORSE! Let's suppose this girl even keeps her mouth shut about it while you are seeing her. And that is a big IF since we know that females love to blab about anything to anyone who will listen. She most certainly will talk about it after it is over, and, trust me, it will be over at some point. She is personally connected to you. It violates the very first rule of having a SB: to stay incognito as much as possible! This is just a time bomb waiting to go off. Dream about it, jerk off to the idea of it. But DON'T DO IT!

My horny married big-titted MILF. Not exactly a 10 by any stretch but good enough for regular stress relief. I used to throw her $ every now and then but now she just enjoys getting some on the side. She even pays for the hotel room, LOL. She loves to suck cock and ride cock and get called every manner of nasty name while she does it. Last time she sucked my dick for almost an hour while I called her a naughty fat **** and every other nasty thing I could think of. She loved it! Now she has a married gf she fools around with every now and then who wants to join us in a threesome. A nice change of pace and variety from my other regular SBs. Life IS good my brothers.

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1763515]Gentlemen,

I know the answer to this in my rational brain, but what would you all do? She will see, if she looks at who viewed her profile, that I looked at hers, but I have no public pictures, thank you baby Jesus, and my details are off just enough that she probably won't put two and two together, but I am feeling a very pleasant buzz of adrenaline running through my veins, and wonder what I would do if she contacted me, thinking I was just some horny dude from Chicago.[/QUOTE]Scott, no offense, but I will say this bluntly to be sure it sinks in: Don't be stupid!

[QUOTE=Flirting Guy;1763603]I think you don't out yourself via SA but casually hit on her IRL and test the waters. If she responds take it from there. But use SA to dialog with her and find out her limits. Don't use your real pic of course.[/QUOTE]I'd add if you're married and want to remain so then don't touch. I was suggesting under the premise that you are divorced and your daughter is ok w / you dating girls her age. Unlikely I guess. LOL

I thought I would provide an update on my progress in dipping into the bowl. This spring I was out of town for an extended period for work. I decided to try the Sugar world out for amusement while I was gone. I had minor success there, but was really to busy with work to devote much time to it. I had signed up for three months on SA, so it seemed like the only thing to do was to try and set up some potentials for when I returned home for the summer. I discovered that the attention span of many of these babies is not long. I thought that a month before I was back in town would be a reasonable period to email or chat and build a rapport, but that was way too long. Most of the girls I started out chatting up drifted off to other daddies or decided to give this up altogether. So, as time approached for me to get back home I started on a new wave. I am subscribing to the strength in numbers approach that HG and others have recommended. I have sent out about 60 opening salutations in the past couple of weeks. My response rate has been lower than I would like. I confess I didn't put a lot of effort into my profile when I signed up, so my next step is to overhaul it. I am also experimenting with different versions of my greeting letter. I have a private photo on SA that I allow access to when asked for a pic. It is not a very good one, taken myself, need to do something about that as well. I think I am also going to put together a simple spreadsheet to track my efforts and results (I've already found that it's hard to remember every SB's profile that I reached out to). Anyway, here are the results to date.

NavyBrat: 27 yo AA (7/5/9) She is a nursing student & single mom, had newly signed up on the recommendation of a friend of hers. I contacted her on her first day and she responded right away. We emailed back and forth a few times, then texted, and finally agreed to lunch the same day. Total time from first contact till panties on floor 6 hours. She had no clue as to what kind of arrangement she wanted. I ended up giving her $ when I dropped her off. She's a sweet girl with a pretty smile, but the body was post baby and a little heavier than I expected (I hate those deceptive pics!). She has already texted me about a repeat, but probably not a keeper.

Amazon: 21 yo redhead. 6' tall, voluptuous (8/7/7). I generally go for the tiny little spinners, so this is another one that's not right up my alley, but I am intrigued by the legs. We have a M&G set for this evening, and all indications are that we will go directly from drinks to BCD. She has been pretty up front that she is ready for that, and also has not mentioned dollars, other than to say that she likes presents from time to time. She is employed, lives at home, is close by. If things go well she may be in the rotation for a while.

MedStudent: 27 yo Latina (7/7/8) , very bright, was upfront about wanting a NSA relationship, too busy with school for much else. Thought she was locked in. Then got a text when I got home saying she had started to feel bad about having casual sex. Wasn't going to do it anymore.

Cali Blond: 23 yo white hardbody (8/9/6). Had a previous SD. Has agreed to a M&G. Probable serious case of GPS, but she is awfully hot. Not sure if I can get her in the budget, but hey, its worth a try.

I have 3-4 others that are in the exploratory stages, hope to firm something up this week. I appreciate all the great info on this thread, I think I have found the area of this sport that I need to be in.

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1763515]Gentlemen,

Well, given the law of averages, it had to happen sooner or later. I was browsing the recent babies in New Orleans on SA this morning in anticipation of a possible trip at the end of the month to visit my youngest daughter, and I ran across a profile of one of my older daughter's college roommates! Now this is a girl I have had a huge and entirely inappropriate thing for since I first met her almost 6 years ago when visiting my daughter at college for parent's weekend. I mean it was chemical, at least for me, to the point that I had to put a little distance between us if we hugged so she wouldn't feel Scottie at full attention. I spent many a happy afternoon fantasizing about fucking her, and I have to be honest in saying that this latest discovery does not help matters at all.

I await your advice on the NOLA roommate.

Scott[/QUOTE]The brothers have spoken. Suicide

My perspective is this. My daughter is the target age for most of us and she constantly harasses me about my "inappropriate attention I give her hot friends."

You would lose your daughter in a flash if this exploded.even forgetting the wife.

Gentlemen,

Well, there seems to be 100% consensus on the foolishness of contacting my daughter's ex-roommate, but I will keep thinking about her nonetheless, and it will be interesting to talk to her the next time she comes to town to visit, knowing in the back of my head that she is in The Bowl.

Thanks for the advice, even though it was not what I wanted to hear,

Scott

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1764156]Gentlemen,

Well, there seems to be 100% consensus on the foolishness of contacting my daughter's ex-roommate, but I will keep thinking about her nonetheless, and it will be interesting to talk to her the next time she comes to town to visit, knowing in the back of my head that she is in The Bowl.

Thanks for the advice, even though it was not what I wanted to hear,

Scott[/QUOTE]My 30 year old daughter who lives with me has to see a parade of girls (much younger than her) streaming through the house, no problem.

One of her guy friends once banged one of my x SB's, no problem.

What you are / were considering. Thats a problem.

Something about shitting where you eat? Whatever the quote is

I have read many a tale on this site of guys saying "OMG that was best sex, BBBJ, whatever". My question is, was it the best for her?

I will never put an SB on allowance unless I am convinced she needs my dick more than the money. Of course it is the total package. But if you can't control her with dick, hands and tongue no amount of money is going to keep her in line. I have learned this the hard way (so to speak) more than once.

Anything less than this will keep them on a pay per date arrangement.

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1764156]Gentlemen,

Well, there seems to be 100% consensus on the foolishness of contacting my daughter's ex-roommate, but I will keep thinking about her nonetheless, and it will be interesting to talk to her the next time she comes to town to visit, knowing in the back of my head that she is in The Bowl.

Thanks for the advice, even though it was not what I wanted to hear,

Scott[/QUOTE]Glad you're heeding the advice of SDs in this forum who have a lot more experience then I do in the bowl. I, too, have a daughter who has / had many friends in high school and college that I would have given my eye teeth to nail. She has probably more friends now in that category, even though she's 33 and has three kids! But even given the opportunity, one HAS to think with the big head and not the little one.

Well I guess the SDs on this forum are too busy scouring for that next POT SB to read some of the other categories that are here.

Anyone seen this in the News and Media thread? Go there and read about this. Very interesting.

[url]http://www.timesdispatch.com/news/local/crime/article_0854f688-bd5f-11e2-95ac-001a4bcf6878.html[/url]

Goes to show you the necessity of fiercely protecting ones identity when dabbling in the bowl. So for those who like texting your SBs, remember that there is the potential of gleaning a lot of info from just a phone number. You single guys, not so much to loose. You married or attached guys, the world to loose.

ASL

Set my expectations too high and made too many assumptions. The HOT 27yo bartender chick from SA that I met up with this afternoon was late (took an extra 40min to get to the hotel) , did not want to be eaten and to top it off smelled EXTREMELY fishy (only after the deed not before). Damage was $1, and she still wants to hook up after her shift tonight. What to do? I should just call up another SB for the room I have booked.

*sigh*

[QUOTE=AllSeasonLv; 1764349]Well I guess the SDs on this forum are too busy scouring for that next POT SB to read some of the other categories that are here.

Anyone seen this in the News and Media thread? Go there and read about this. Very interesting.

[url]http://www.timesdispatch.com/news/local/crime/article_0854f688-bd5f-11e2-95ac-001a4bcf6878.html[/url]

Goes to show you the necessity of fiercely protecting ones identity when dabbling in the bowl. So for those who like texting your SBs, remember that there is the potential of gleaning a lot of info from just a phone number. You single guys, not so much to loose. You married or attached guys, the world to loose.

ASL[/QUOTE]Or maybe you just lose being in a bad marriage you shouldn't be in anyway. Only my experience. All I know is once I started dabbling outside of my marriage it became very clear to me what I was missing.

[QUOTE=AllSeasonLv; 1764349]Well I guess the SDs on this forum are too busy scouring for that next POT SB to read some of the other categories that are here.

Anyone seen this in the News and Media thread? Go there and read about this. Very interesting.

[url]http://www.timesdispatch.com/news/local/crime/article_0854f688-bd5f-11e2-95ac-001a4bcf6878.html[/url]

Goes to show you the necessity of fiercely protecting ones identity when dabbling in the bowl. So for those who like texting your SBs, remember that there is the potential of gleaning a lot of info from just a phone number. You single guys, not so much to loose. You married or attached guys, the world to loose.

ASL[/QUOTE]Not to be too harsh, as I'm sure she has many other sterling qualities, but who in their right mind would pay money for a BJ from her? Especially where there are so, so many HYBs out there.

On another note, I'm not worried about cell phone info, since I have a burner, bought with cash, and refilled with cash. My only fear is my SO finding it if I leave it lying around one day.

Some of these SBs do not care about their Hygiene. I had a SBs (24 yrs old). In the first couple of visit, she took shower and got ready for me. Love to fuck a fresh young gal. In the last 2 times, she smelled. Arm pit, fishy down there. Big turn off. I called her out. And I was done with her.

[QUOTE=Flirting Guy; 1764357]Set my expectations too high and made too many assumptions. The HOT 27yo bartender chick from SA that I met up with this afternoon was late (took an extra 40min to get to the hotel) , did not want to be eaten and to top it off smelled EXTREMELY fishy (only after the deed not before). Damage was $1, and she still wants to hook up after her shift tonight. What to do? I should just call up another SB for the room I have booked.

*sigh*[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Flirting Guy; 1764357]Set my expectations too high and made too many assumptions. The HOT 27yo bartender chick from SA that I met up with this afternoon was late (took an extra 40min to get to the hotel) , did not want to be eaten and to top it off smelled EXTREMELY fishy (only after the deed not before). Damage was $1, and she still wants to hook up after her shift tonight. What to do? I should just call up another SB for the room I have booked.

*sigh*[/QUOTE]Is this a rhetorical question?

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1764591]Is this a rhetorical question?[/QUOTE]Yes and no. Should I tell her about it? What if it was just an isolated incident? Maybe we should do it in the shower instead.

[QUOTE=Flirting Guy;1765252]Yes and no. Should I tell her about it? What if it was just an isolated incident? Maybe we should do it in the shower instead.[/QUOTE]Showering is not going to help as this is an internal problem stemming mostly from poor PH balance I. E. Poor diet. So it is correctable. Also an hour long salt bath once a week could help (very kosher). No douching, ever. This only makes the problem worse. Probiotics are also helpful.

Gentlemen,

I got a message on SD a few moments ago that encapsulates and epitomizes the essence of the scam profile, and I just thought it would be worth a laugh or two to share. Maybe it would be helpful to us alll if we each posted our most outrageous obviously-bs contact. I am totally seeing a book coming out of this thread. The question is, how would we split the profits? Any lawyers among the brotherhood?

ABOUT ME:

"I am WASILA by name 32yrs old I am wanting to meet someone who will love me for me and always be there for me in good and bad times, I am seeking to meet someone who will not lie or ever cheat on me under false pretenses, I am seeking someone who will show me true love and will stand by me in good and bad times, My heart has bitterly been broken before and I want to take time get to know someone who is true, loyal, faithful and determined, I am willing to relocate to where I will find happiness and peace of mind be with someone who will put a smile on my face till the end of time"

WHAT I'm LOOKING FOR:

"I am seeking to meet someone who will not lie or ever cheat on me under false pretenses, I am seeking someone who will show me true love and will stand by me in good and bad times, My heart has bitterly been broken before and I want to take time get to know someone who is true, loyal, faithful and determined, I am willing to relocate to where I will find happiness and peace of mind be with someone who will put a smile on my face till the end of time. Honest, Care and Love is all I will want to shower with the special someone. I don't care about distance because I know it will just give us time to get to know more and more about each other and what about you? I would like you to tell me more about your general life and what you are seeking for Online"

Ok then,

Scott.

PS: just in case you don't belive me, here is her SD profile name: wasila1z. Member ID: 3803902
I just wish I were clever enough to write this myself. I have only copied and pasted, so it is all totally verbatim.