...to all the guys, and especially to the lovely gal, I met tonight at HH. I look forward to more future get togethers.
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...to all the guys, and especially to the lovely gal, I met tonight at HH. I look forward to more future get togethers.
Yeah I know what you're thinking, "this guy's first post and he starts out asking questions. " Sorry.
But how do you keep the unwanted girls away? (I know don't bathe) Here's what I'm talking about.
I get down to Indy a couple times a year and always spend some at Rio or CC, this past trip was no different. Two week ago on a Friday night I was at CC and had a great time with two girls in particular. So much so, I returned Saturday in the hopes of negotiate a little extra.
I arrived rather late with only 2 hours to "work". Even before I can order a drink a dancer asks if she can sit with me. I lie and get rid of her only to repeat the same process several more times. I even had one sit down and ask me to buy her a drink in the first minute. (See note below) I know everyone has experienced this one time or another.
So my question is. How you do refuse or even get ride of someone whose company you do not desire without being rude or pissing her off? I did piss one girl off as she called me a prick. LOL
Note: I'm not really complaining about the attention as I had been to the Rio earlier and even with money on the table was avoided like the plague. Go figure.
Thanks to everyone at HH that I met tonight. Wish I had gotten there earlier. Sorry if I ruined any plans by given the lady a ride home. She was yawning all the way there. Probably my witty personality.
So apologies to anyone that may have been disappointed that she did not make it to the next stop.
Will be heading to BBF on Thursday early evening, hope to see my favorites.
[QUOTE=Bobup]But how do you keep the unwanted girls away?[/QUOTE]My typical line is "no thank you baby, I'm just hanging out". Also, if you tell them you're waiting for a particular girl (or just waiting for someone), they'll go away to avoid the drama of taking some other girl's regular.
Personally, I prefer the places where the girls are aggressive like this. It's always frustrating when I see a girl I want to get a dance with and she sits for hours with a guy and doesn't even seem to be making any money. One good trick for this situation is to give your waitress a few bucks and ask her to tell the girl you want a dance. Then you're not getting in some other guys face.
C
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So apologies to anyone that may have been disappointed that she did not make it to the next stop.[/QUOTE]
That would be me. But I should have known that when a Lion has a tender young morsel of prey firmly in his grasp, he's going to head for a private lair, and not be looking to share.
It was great to meet some new friends and re-connect with others at HH. The crowd thinned more than expected by the time we got to Zeus. Chill and I had to deal with all of those ladies ourselves. BTW, if you haven't been to Zeus lately, I was surprised to see a nicer selection of eye candy than I have on past visits.
[QUOTE=Bobup]But how do you keep the unwanted girls away?[/QUOTE]
As Cmq said, simply tell them you're waiting on someone. Some will push a little, and ask if they can wait with you. A "no thanks, I'm fine" might border on rudeness, but you're not there to make friends with her. Keep your eye on the prize. You might have to be more aggressive than you would like if the vultures come around.
[QUOTE=Bobup]Yeah I know what you're thinking, "this guy's first post and he starts out asking questions. " Sorry.
But how do you keep the unwanted girls away? (I know don't bathe) Here's what I'm talking about.[/QUOTE]I tell them that I just got to the club and I need a couple of beers to relax and to "make me more fun for them" and I tell them to check back after I've "got a couple in me". That way I'm not burning any bridges in case they start looking good a little later on :)
[QUOTE=Bobup]So my question is. How you do refuse or even get ride of someone whose company you do not desire without being rude or pissing her off? I did piss one girl off as she called me a prick. LOL[/quote]I find that giving the gal a couple of bucks and saying "thank you, but right now I just want to watch the show" generally works and keeps the brush off friendly.
[QUOTE=Zugash]I find that giving the gal a couple of bucks and saying "thank you, but right now I just want to watch the show" generally works and keeps the brush off friendly.[/QUOTE]Get a quick table dance at least, then send her on her way.
Thanks for the suggestions, some things I already do, some I will certainly try
[QUOTE=Cmqiu018]Personally, I prefer the places where the girls are aggressive like this. It's always frustrating when I see a girl I want to get a dance with and she sits for hours with a guy and doesn't even seem to be making any money.
C[/QUOTE]I’m with you on places the girls are aggressive. Nothing more aggravating then seeing a hot thing that never comes your way. On the other side of the coin, I have had some dancers sit with me for an extended period of time. Wait, maybe it was my wallet they were sitting with.
I usually just tell the girl I am there to see my girlfriend dance.
If she asks who my girlfriend is, I tell her I haven't decided yet.
[QUOTE=T D Mills]I usually just tell the girl I am there to see my girlfriend dance.
If she asks who my girlfriend is, I tell her I haven't decided yet.[/QUOTE]Nice! I'm going to have to steal that line.
This discussion reminds me of when my son was little, we used to go to a nearby park and feed the ducks...fun, right? Well, yes until the Geese figured out we were giving away food and soon surrounded us. And while I was honestly getting a little panicky over my son being pecked by that honking hoard of birds, he turned his lit up face to me, threw his arms out and said "Look Daddy....they love me!"
Well, it didn't occur to me then but years later I see what a lesson that was. You can forgive a 5 year old for not understanding, but sometimes I need reminding still today...please don't feed the animals!
[QUOTE=Mr Popular]This discussion reminds me of when my son was little, we used to go to a nearby park and feed the ducks...fun, right? Well, yes until the Geese figured out we were giving away food and soon surrounded us. And while I was honestly getting a little panicky over my son being pecked by that honking hoard of birds, he turned his lit up face to me, threw his arms out and said "Look Daddy....they love me!"
Well, it didn't occur to me then but years later I see what a lesson that was. You can forgive a 5 year old for not understanding, but sometimes I need reminding still today...please don't feed the animals![/QUOTE]
This should be engraved on a wooden plaque, like the serenity prayer...