Question for the Assembled Brain Trust Here
[QUOTE=HenryT458;6014869]Typical appearance fee scammer. Should be on What's your price.
We were supposed to meet and greet today. She asks to be paid. Nope. Next.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=OverKill418;6014304]This one wants part of her allowance in advance via cashapp only. Next!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/2f5c78e0-1f1b-47f0-a92f-0d7e95be7db7[/URL][/QUOTE]So it is good that guys are NOT paying advances or NOT paying for meet and greets! That's good for the guys to not get rinsed.
But me thinks the young ladies need to understand that said approach is not viable or is not the norm. But that only comes when the reality is presented to them. Now the natural instinct is to toss it in her face or be snarky in a reply. But what these girls need is an "education" or perhaps to hear the same thing over and over, until it sinks in. As OP posted, if there are no takers for the product on offer then one needs to look for different approaches. But in today's "cancel culture" it would seem that delivery and or style is the key to any message being "heard. "
So that begs the question:
[B][color=red]What specifically does one say to a girl, in a polite way that her "money up front" scheme won't fly here?[/color] [/B]
How do we word things so we don't offend, yet let her know we are open to an arrangement if the money up front part goes away?
[I][font=times]We catch more flies with honey than vinegar. And we may not catch this one, but we can do our part to "educate" her along the way.[/font][/I]
No money upfront and no one over 400.
[QUOTE=HenryT458;6014869]Typical appearance fee scammer. Should be on What's your price.
We were supposed to meet and greet today. She asks to be paid. Nope. Next.[/QUOTE]Yeah she contacted me. I just laughed at her. Told her you must not have read my profile. I state on my profile description. Absolutely no money before meeting. I just recently was texting a girl that looks gorgeous atleast 8 maybe 9. She wanted 500 and 100 dollars upfront. I told her no way. She texts back ok 400 and 100. I said I never pay anything up front. I told her to go scam someone else. See text back 300 and 100 upfront and free meetings after that. I told her that she must think I am stupid. I said for All I know you could be some guy using some girls pics. And I blocked girl.
Next. What to pay?. You guys do what you want but seriously. But I would bever pay 500 or more. Maybe for meeting 2 or 3 girls at the same time just for kicks. I actually was going to set up a 3some with 2 girls in there mid twenties for 300 but they were an hour away. They said if I paid for uber they would come. I told them. If they can get to where I am at I will reimburse them. But I will never pay anything before meeting that's it. Well they said they won't do it. Blocked and moved on. I am at most, have middle class income. I can do 150 to 250. So most times I will float around the site and wait until they contact me. Its usually easier to negotiate if they contact you.. As they must see something they like.. oh my pics are plane.. meaning no palm tress, nothing to make me look rich.. unless you are really bad looking i would rather play down the money..
If someone really has my eye. I may send a message and be upfront and say hey I am interested and looking for something steady. But I am not Donald Trump. If what you want is reasonable I am sure we can hang out once a week. Never give money numbers on the site. If they respond. Say you want to discuss what works in more detail but say its better if we text or talk about this off this site as its just not safe on here plus the site is ban happy. After that say I pay 300 or 200 or 400. Depending on what you can afford. I usually say 200. But say that would be every week. If they say they don't drive. I usually say if you can be pick up by me ok. If they insist on Uber. Say Ok I will pay the uber driver when you come or reimburse you. Also if you can't host. I usually say I could have done 200. But since I have to get a room and that cost money. I say I can only do 100 or 150. I do say that upfront before meeting. I say I am sure you are worth way more but that's all I am able to do and beside I want us to focus on having fun time and money is just a bonus. If the girl is not a scammer. That seems to work for me 40 to 60 percentof the time. I had 2 arrangements that last months for 100. One for 150 still going on. And I another that's a little pricey at 250. But she is gorgeous and 21. She actually wanted 500. But she must have seen something in me because she kept texting me 450 I said nope 400 I said nope. I told her seriously I can do 300 and that's my max. She agreed I saw her once. The next day she asked if I could see her again. I told her if want it steady I can do 250. Which is really high for me. But man she has no kids. And you hear of new car smell. Well she has young pussy smell. Very very light musty but slightly sweet smell. Clear wetness which very slippery but drys to slightly sticky to nothingness. Now that's some premium pussy and everything is bare. I am sorry but I am not sharing. I don't want her pussy to get contaminated by some dirty dick. After we part ways sure. I wish I had info of the last few that I had arrangements with. But I dont even see there profiles. Some moved on to more traditional relationships..
Thats is what works for me. Maybe its not for you or maybe someone has something better. Be safe and happy hunting.
