Thank you for the details
[QUOTE=JetSet30;3843326]LOL. I asked Jaybug the morning of our meet if she wanted me to get any drinks she likes. Jaybug asked me to get her favorite beer so I grabbed that before meeting her. She's unable to host so I had to get a hotel room. For those of you who can host, she is willing to travel to you (or at least that's what she said, it could be another lie). As soon as she walked into my hotel room I could tell that she was nervous. That's not out of the ordinary though, even I get nervous when meeting someone new for the first time. Then she told me how I'm the first person she's met and that she's never been an SB before. Jaybug mentioned it was her first time and that she's nervous. I grabbed the beer she asked for out of the fridge and we started talking and drinking to get her more comfortable. Over the next 30 minutes or so, Jaybug talked about her situation with me. I don't know how much of her story, if any, is true. She does cry a little bit during this story.
Jaybug had already downed a couple of beers but was still pretty uncomfortable. She asked me what I like and I told her that I like to start off with kissing. She was still too uncomfortable to do even that. Surprising since when we were messaging each other she said she'd be willing to do just about anything. After a few more minutes of talking and drinking she was comfortable enough for some some kissing. No LFK, DFK, more like pecks on the cheek and mouth. At this point I told Jaybug that I'd give her $ just to leave right now because she was so uncomfortable (which wouldn't be the first time I've done that). She said no because she has rent to pay, etc. Que more uncomfortable and awkward kissing. I gave her the same offer. She said no again. So I said let's get comfortable and I took off my clothes. She took off her skirt but that's it. Her shoes and top were still on. She was finally ok with DFK. After a couple minutes of that she started crying. I let her regain her composure and she finally took her top off. I played with her boobs some but she I could tell she was still very uncomfortable. Finally she just said she'll give me a BJ. She got me to pop with a BBBJ. She put on her clothes and started crying some more. We were still supposed to be together for another 30 minutes or so but at this point I was tired of this shit. I gave her what we agreed on and told her to leave.
Probably in my bottom three experiences of all time, though not quite the worst. I understand that everyone has shit going on in their lives, but I'm not a therapist and I'm not doing this to hear someone's life story. Plus I'm the one who loses out on time and money.[/QUOTE]No surprise but you're not alone in this type of situation. A few years back I had my second session with Julie (who sometimes went by "Kim") at my home and it was similar to what you described. The first time she came over she had brought another provider with her to ensure her safety. She was nervous, I was nervous, plus I didn't know if this other woman was robbing me blind while Julie and I were doing the deed. I needn't have worried, all was good. The second time she came alone and was still nervous though I was doing better than the first time. Before we got started we sat on the sofa making small talk and sharing some wine. I don't recall what triggered her but she started crying and telling me about her relationship with her boyfriend. Oh, boy. Nothing gets you in the mood like a crying woman telling you about someone she actually cares about. (Does this sound familiar to anyone else?) Like you, I offered her a partial donation to end the session right there and she got very upset and for the same reasons you cited. . bills to pay, rent was due, etc. She then looks at me, really pissed, and says, "Look, I'll suck your cock, we'll fuck and then I'll leave but I want the full amount. " Oooh, boy. Now I'm REALLY in the mood but I said, "Okay, let's get started. " It was INCREDIBLE! Julie blew my socks off and I wound up tipping her generously. She became a semi-regular that I kept secret from my actual regular (those were the days!) and we saw each other every month or so for the next eight or nine months before she vanished, never to be seen again. My regular of five years moved out of state about a month afterward and it's been slim pickin's since then. But, alas, that's another story for another day.
Sorry for your experience, JetSet, but consider yourself in good company.
SCanyon.
New profiles. Old friends
Leanna who has been reported here often is now mariaa1900.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/dca9beea-db7c-44a9-8902-cc4153ccbf41[/URL]
And you may remember Megan, one of the G'ville Hooter's girls who was luring guys to come in, give a big tip, and skate with the cash. I had a long text exchange with her and was close to meeting. She has serious GPS and got VERY nasty when I wouldn't pony up. Wanted five Bens just to hang out. She is a Clemson student with a serious BF. I have her FB.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1547ce5c-200e-4099-b968-553b8f9028f7[/URL]
More non-meets and potential meets
NinaPynkRichie: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7f859174-5237-4bf2-bdbf-c5bd3f340dd6[/URL].
I talked to her some more, though she took about a week to respond to my last message. I decided not to meet her since she wants $$$ for non-GFE and everything covered.
420 Nicki: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/60dd07a1-abbd-4d59-bcd3-fda9ed444f8b[/URL].
She messaged me first. She recently had a baby and said she's working off the weight now. I declined to meet her.
VelvetKisses1: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/766b2c82-16b8-4e82-8614-f4ec526d02d3[/URL].
She didn't want to discuss anything before meeting in person. I let her know I'm not driving over an hour and half without ironing out some details in advance. Her private pics aren't anything revealing though they do make me want to meet her. I'll likely try to set up something with her again.
BethanyD: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/667e272a-91d1-40cb-a86a-d3a9bbd829dd[/URL].
She seems like a nice person. I get the feeling that she wants a more traditional type relationship, though I could be wrong about that. One of you may have better luck with her.
MrsFluffy22: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/dc15ef31-7918-4d11-90e8-430f898a448a[/URL].
I was interested in meeting her at first, then I asked for full body pics. She texted me some and I lost interest.
MissJayRabbit: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8f02cfb1-a2fb-766b-6e57-6a544336e5b3[/URL].
Has anyone here met her? I get George Costanza type fantasies when I see her pics.