Take a day off / my penny's worth
I miss one day of reading and I spend an hour trying to catch up. Damn you guys have a slow day or what. I've seen Annie a few times. She has good skills and isn't bad to look at for her age. I'm in my mid 40's and she was conveniently close to my area the few times I visited her. I'd see her here and there but we have had a misunderstanding. So I just stay away now. I like the older ladies they give better service and quality time for my hard earned money. Lady J, Jaxx 2 of the best. The younger ones are qv and hhr romps for me most of the time exception being sincy cinn. I could score ladies my age possible a few younger ones too. But being married and not wanting to lose half of my life savings because a crazy one gets the idea that I want more out of a relationship than a wet hole or 2 to stick my dick in every once in a while keeps me away. Stay safe and keep reporting.
The age vs service dichotomy
[QUOTE=Dillsborodave;4995702]I have been with the really hot young chicks to where it just about to makes you cum just by the sheer beauty. I have been with 30-40 who are still good looking but really know how to cock worship and get into the fucking session. I kind of agree with Kenal to where I gravitate to the mature better service women these days. We all have our own sex theorem that we use to pick where we spend our money. Do you want a young 10 who's service is a 6 rating or do you want a 6 who's service is a 10 rating. Also add to the equation that not all performances are equal.[/QUOTE]Thanks to Kenal, Dave, and others who've responded to my initial question. I've long been confused as to why so many guys on this site seem to actively prefer older and less conventionally unattractive women. This thread has been enlightening.
As I mentioned earlier, this past summer I met two 19 year old SBs who were very aggressive and very willing. I always hear the "age vs performance" thing, but this hasn't been my experience at all. And there's certainly nothing special about me that is making these younger and more attractive girls so eager to please.
I think the bottom line is that some men just don't feel comfortable with very young, very attractive women. All our biological programming is to go for young, fertile women. If you're showing a marked preference for older MILFs and GILFs, then there is something else driving that.
There is, I've noticed, a "TGTBT" mindset in the hobbyist community. Or, if you will, a scarcity mindset. The idea here seems to be: It is only okay for us to do this if we're doing it with women who are older and unattractive.
Last summer, I did a M&G with a young hottie at Starbucks. I'm 52, she was 18. While we were sitting there, I was getting stares like daggers from a group of middle age women at an adjacent table. They didn't know exactly what I was up to, but they knew I was up to *something*. If the woman had been 42 and not very attractive, then the busybodies would have ignored us.
If I'm on a conventional dating site, then I'll go for someone who is roughly my age, and roughly the same level of attractiveness. If I'm paying, though, I'm always going to go for the very best: in looks, youth, *and* performance. No MILFs, GILFs, or fatties for me when I'm paying in cash.
The age vs service dichotomy
[QUOTE=ToddCincy;4997479]Thanks to Kenal, Dave, and others who've responded to my initial question. I've long been confused as to why so many guys on this site seem to actively prefer older and less conventionally unattractive women. This thread has been enlightening.
As I mentioned earlier, this past summer I met two 19 year old SBs who were very aggressive and very willing. I always hear the "age vs performance" thing, but this hasn't been my experience at all. And there's certainly nothing special about me that is making these younger and more attractive girls so eager to please.
I think the bottom line is that some men just don't feel comfortable with very young, very attractive women. All our biological programming is to go for young, fertile women. If you're showing a marked preference for older MILFs and GILFs, then there is something else driving that.
There is, I've noticed, a "TGTBT" mindset in the hobbyist community. Or, if you will, a scarcity mindset. The idea here seems to be: It is only okay for us to do this if we're doing it with women who are older and unattractive.
Last summer, I did a M&G with a young hottie at Starbucks. I'm 52, she was 18. While we were sitting there, I was getting stares like daggers from a group of middle age women at an adjacent table. They didn't know exactly what I was up to, but they knew I was up to *something*. If the woman had been 42 and not very attractive, then the busybodies would have ignored us.
If I'm on a conventional dating site, then I'll go for someone who is roughly my age, and roughly the same level of attractiveness. If I'm paying, though, I'm always going to go for the very best: in looks, youth, *and* performance. No MILFs, GILFs, or fatties for me when I'm paying in cash.[/QUOTE]To add to my earlier comments on this subject, I wasn't saying that the young, "hard" girls don't turn me on. They definitely do. What I was trying to say, and maybe I didn't phrase things as I should have, is that I find older women more in-tune with me, particularly when it comes to GFE skills. I don't monger strictly for the sex. I also like some intimacy and the ability to just talk about fantasies, past experiences and things like that. Most of the younger girls just don't seem to give a crap about that stuff so, with them, I only get half the experience I'm looking for. Again, there are always exceptions but that's generally what I find. I hope that makes some sense.
