Streetwalker Reports

[QUOTE=Badboy1968;1630810]Last night, from sunset until about 10:00 there was hardly a soul to be seen. Ritchie Highway, including the notel, were as quiet as could be. Two unfamiliar faces were seen briefly on Pontiac. Fairhaven and Pennington were desolate. This pattern has become the norm on this loop lately. Has anyone seen or heard of which girls are making it out on the stroll these days?[/QUOTE]If the two girls where a black girl and one white girl with red hair, then those where the decoys that I was speaking of previously.

[QUOTE=Thundra89; 1630599]Idon't mean to throw in the towell or do I. I don't know if it's the cold weather, my busy schedule, my budget, or if my conscience is catching up with me, I went searching both yesterday and today for nearly 2 hours each time and NOTHING, About a month Ago was my wife and I's aniversary and I felt so guilty for what I have done in my past. However the past couple days I've been craving to possibly go back out there. Obviously my luck was rusty the past couple days. I erased all but one contact from my phone after an hour and a half of seaching today I texted the One Contact I will not reveal her name for Her Protection and mine but She has been reported here and many of my Senior Mongers Probobly Know who I'm talking about. She first responded, asking me for a time and I told her within 10 Minutes I waited half an hour while still searching, at that point I was wasting more time decided to do More Christmas Shopping.

Okay now folks I don't know exactly what to do? I sometimes feel as if I'm living a lie. The question is which life is the Lie?

The loving husband and father that I am most of the time?

Or.

The Monger that goes picking up SW's while forgetting the kids and wife and wanting to score with different typres W's for what my Wife won't do?

This is why I think a little Hiatus might do me good. I'm not saying I'm qutting. Or am I maybe I'm Weening myself off or I'm still traumatized from THAT PERSON from last summer if you catch my drift.[/QUOTE]If you are having those kinds of thoughts then a break might be good for you. You will know when it is time to return or to leave it alone for good. If you are thinking about your family and the consequences of your actions then it is time IMO to give it a break until you get your mind right. Of course like what the others have said, it is a individual choice to do so or not to do so. I can not say that I had that problem because when I was married it was the wife, but when divorced or girlfriends breakup, it was balls to wall on the WSW scene. It took the place of the sexual part of a relationship. Just think about it clearly and I am sure that you will come up with the right choice for your position at this time.

Of course we know who you are speaking of, that is her pattern at this time and she is making life hard on herself.

As I approached my second marriage, I told myself that my mongering days were over. In fact, I told myself that so many times that I believed it. That approach lasted 5 days after my marriage. Then I decided: "I am what I am."

[QUOTE=Shithead06;1630582]This looks a lot like a young lady I found near the circle. Hmm I would have sworn that she said her name was Erin. These ladies wouldn't change their names around would they? Anyway Erin was very pleasant and I had a nice deep BJWC, no rush at all and lots of attention to the boys. All for the standard price of admission.[/QUOTE]Erin is a different girl. Way skinnier, not as tall.

[QUOTE=Thundra89; 1630599]Idon't mean to throw in the towell or do I. I don't know if it's the cold weather, my busy schedule, my budget, or if my conscience is catching up with me, I went searching both yesterday and today for nearly 2 hours each time and NOTHING, About a month Ago was my wife and I's aniversary and I felt so guilty for what I have done in my past. However the past couple days I've been craving to possibly go back out there. Obviously my luck was rusty the past couple days. I erased all but one contact from my phone after an hour and a half of seaching today I texted the One Contact I will not reveal her name for Her Protection and mine but She has been reported here and many of my Senior Mongers Probobly Know who I'm talking about. She first responded, asking me for a time and I told her within 10 Minutes I waited half an hour while still searching, at that point I was wasting more time decided to do More Christmas Shopping.

Okay now folks I don't know exactly what to do? I sometimes feel as if I'm living a lie. The question is which life is the Lie?

The loving husband and father that I am most of the time?

Or.

The Monger that goes picking up SW's while forgetting the kids and wife and wanting to score qith different typres W's for what my Wife won't do?

This is why I think a little Hiatus might do me good. I'm not saying I'm qutting. Or am I maybe I'm Weening myself off or I'm still traumatized from THAT PERSON from last summer if you catch my drift.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't necessarily listen to everyone who is cheering you on and telling you to just accept being a monger. I've witnessed what happens when men get caught, and it could be the same men who would otherwise tell you they "embrace their mongerism" who cry, beg, and blabber uncontrollably to their wives when the jig is up. This is an easy hobby to advocate when things appear to be going well. But it can also lead to massive regret if your S / O were to find out.

I am in no position to judge anyone here for what they do. However, if someone thinks it's best (and it probably is) to get out of this game or slow it down tremendously for the sake of their relationship or their life, I'll be the first to tell you that it's a better idea than venturing back into the street. As much as I enjoy this hobby, it's bought out the worst in me at times. Eventually I also met a crossroads, and although I haven't quit completely, I've dialed my mongering back significantly (and I don't have a wife or kids). Some people do see the other side and are able to walk away entirely. Don't let getting caught or arrested be the motivating factor to quit.

[QUOTE=Paulnova2;1630899]As I approached my second marriage, I told myself that my mongering days were over. In fact, I told myself that so many times that I believed it. That approach lasted 5 days after my marriage. Then I decided: "I am what I am."[/QUOTE]I have done this hobby for years. I have stopped for maybe 2 months but I'm drawn to it. I guess the thrill of the hunt. It don't matter what venue I take like BP or the streets. Is the idea of a different score every time. It has nothing to do with finance its hard to explain. As they say "stay thirsty my friend".

[QUOTE=Thundra89;1630599]Idon't mean to throw in the towell or do I. I don't know if it's the cold weather, my busy schedule, my budget, or if my conscience is catching up with me, I went searching both yesterday and today for nearly 2 hours each time and NOTHING, About a month Ago was my wife and I's aniversary and I felt so guilty for what I have done in my past. However the past couple days I've been craving to possibly go back out there. Obviously my luck was rusty the past couple days. I erased all but one contact from my phone after an hour and a half of seaching today I texted the One Contact I will not reveal her name for Her Protection and mine but She has been reported here and many of my Senior Mongers Probobly Know who I'm talking about. She first responded, asking me for a time and I told her within 10 Minutes I waited half an hour while still searching, at that point I was wasting more time decided to do More Christmas Shopping.[/QUOTE]It is what it is and you have been doing this for a long time, I'm not sure how you're going to break your pattern. Its like the people who get so drunk and so sick and say they are never going to do it again, but yet are back at it after awhile. Been there done that guilt and all. I think the only thing I can say is be prepared to live with the consequences once you're caught. That means possibly your "crime" showing up on Google when a search done on your name, e. Gl,"Thundra age 42 arrested on frequenting a bawdy house" charge or something similar. Divorce, wife leaving you, (maybe or maybe not. Not sure how women think, but maybe she'll stay with you maybe not) , but be ready for a divorce and a new life. Maybe you do want a divorce, and this is a passive aggressive way of getting out of your marriage? Tons of reasons for mongering, and if you can't quit now, not sure how you're going to go cold turkey.

Also, like a drug habit, be careful of your hobby entering your 'real' life. Happened to me, missing work, got into a car accident on my way to a mongering spot, etc. I compartmentalized it all away and said that wasn't the "real" me. That was a lie. I guess I'm saying keep it under control and if you start taking risks because of your hobby. Time to take a break and reassess. For example, if you can't get to an old reliable provider. Do you scan BP and make random calls without thoroughly checking out the provider? Great way to get caught in a sting.

Good luck with it, have no real answers, just cautionary tales.

DI

I try not to question or judge hobbyists / mongers / whatever term you like, any more than I judge the streetwalkers that I am acquainted with. Objectively considered, the whole lot of us are worthy of contempt by a large slice of the community. Some of us here are sex addicts, some perverts, some voyeurs, etc. Whatever the motivation, this forum is hardly the place to find a cure. Group therapy is done in a venue with structure and professional guidance, and guys, this ain't it! Shouldn't we get back to what we ARE qualified for?

Well, I did a quick stroll thru PP / C this morning and wasn't expecting much. I was right, not a soul out & I can't blame them. It was 30* this a. M.

I did 2 loops and called it quits & was heading home on RT. 40 towards Rosedale. I spot this cute llittle blonde walking by the Royal Farms store. The one by the Subway & RodeWay Inn. I can't think of the cross-street.

I caught up with her as she was getting ready to go in. I asked if she needed a ride & she said "She had to get some stuff inside first". I waited for her & she was back out & in my car within 2-3 minutes. We make small talk & fnd out she is working as an escort & dances at the Players Club. I offer a quick pipe cleaning for $20 & she laughed, tellling me that she gets $100 for her services.

I laughed too & was more than heppy to drop her off at her hotel. She counteroffer my offer with $50!

I countered her counteroffer with $30!

DING, DING, DING! We have a winner!

Only thing was the service was covered. I would normally decline a CBJ but I decided to give her a try. MAN, this gal has some serious talent. She was able to get me to pop with her CBJ in like 5 minutes tops! Maybe it was me being backed up but still, that was inpressive. We make small talk on the way back, got her digits for maybe meeting later tonight. I haven't tried out the # yet. She is maybe 33 why. O. 5' 100lbs soaking wet. Small itty bitty titties but nice soft ass, great personality. She said her name was Minera or something to that effect. No pics as she is definitely trying to be UTR so to speak.

Good way to start my BMore visit.

[QUOTE=Rookiemonger; 1630650]Hey there my fine fellow mongers!

It is so good to be back in your fair city. I sure have missed my BMore strolls. I will be venturing out tomorrow in the cold streets of BMore to hopefullly catch up on some fine BMore SW's. I have a few digits from before but I want to hit the streets first to see who is out new and old![/QUOTE]Welcome Back! Tampa here I come.

[QUOTE=Shithead06;1631180]Welcome Back! Tampa here I come.[/QUOTE]Tampa streets have been very miss lately. Check out St. Pete. There's alot more action over that way.

[QUOTE=Badboy1968;1631078]I try not to question or judge hobbyists / mongers / whatever term you like, any more than I judge the streetwalkers that I am acquainted with. Objectively considered, the whole lot of us are worthy of contempt by a large slice of the community. Some of us here are sex addicts, some perverts, some voyeurs, etc. Whatever the motivation, this forum is hardly the place to find a cure. Group therapy is done in a venue with structure and professional guidance, and guys, this ain't it! Shouldn't we get back to what we ARE qualified for?[/QUOTE].

Let 'them judge, I pursue this hobby purely for sport! And this contempt you speak of, usually come from hypocrites anyway, so no sweat off my balls.

I came across Ashley nice brunette with a nice set of boobs fake but still soft not as hard as some. I actually dated her several months back digits went bad so I was hoping I would run into her again. Service was good she is maybe 10 pounds over weight but not fat very pretty face clean no visible tracks and very sociable will repeat says she is into women so ill be trying to set up a threesome.

[QUOTE=Badboy1968;1631078]I try not to question or judge hobbyists / mongers / whatever term you like, any more than I judge the streetwalkers that I am acquainted with. Objectively considered, the whole lot of us are worthy of contempt by a large slice of the community. Some of us here are sex addicts, some perverts, some voyeurs, etc. Whatever the motivation, this forum is hardly the place to find a cure. Group therapy is done in a venue with structure and professional guidance, and guys, this ain't it! Shouldn't we get back to what we ARE qualified for?[/QUOTE]I have to agree. This is a forum for we fellows who are indulging the pleasures of the flesh. Church is for the penitent, and counseling for the chemically challenged. This is for those who have an active libido, like consenting adult sex, w / o the drama attached. There is some drama involved but nothing we can't walk away from.

[QUOTE=NiteTimer;1631330]This is for those who have an active libido, like consenting adult sex, w / o the drama attached. There is some drama involved but nothing we can't walk away from.[/QUOTE]Sophocles could not have said it better!