Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

We all know, us lady providers, that certain providers talk crap about us during their appointments with the gentlemen. It has been going on for a while. In the beginning, I was upset and wanted to lash out at her on the forums. I didn't. I wanted to more so when she personally called me complaining and making stupid childish statements. Then, when she went on another forum and stated that I threatened to " beat her up " because I was sooo jealous, well. I then did make one post.

I've had, recently, another provider out me on facebook. Not only did she do that, but she had nerve to tell my daughter that I am a prostitute. She also sent fabricated stories to hobbyists regarding me and asked them why they were seeing me and not her. Let's not forget the calls to children services, of which I fully believe that this provider placed. She yet again made more threats of making calls. Yes, this provider is related to me. Family is the worst of them all. Who needs enemies when you have family like that, right? All of that because she is jealous and because I caught her red handed stealing stuff. Well, I had allowed her to stay at my place for almost a month because I felt sorry for her and because she is family and the whole time she was stealing things out of my home and taking them to hers. Clothes, shoes, one of my Coach purses and a pair of very expensive Coach sunglasses. Heck, she even stole some my daughter's clothes, shoes and even her underwear! All out of jealousy and being bitter.

I've learned that one cannot help another anymore. It just doesn't pay off in the end. You end up getting screwed over. Gone are the days where people actually know and understand what respect is and they can give a sincere thank you for helping them. Everyone is out to get everyone else. They are out to hurt others because they are miserable and bringing children into the mix is just one of the worst things that they do. I just don't understand some people. I guess I never will.

I just don't understand why people have to be so hateful and so negative. They can be pretty on the exterior, but it is what on the interior that counts.

Why all of the back and forth bickering?

Honestly, I rarely even log into USA anymore because it is mostly just people arguing with one another and being spiteful.

It's so silly.

I guess what I really want to say here is this:

Be careful with some of these chicks because some of them definitely have their wires crossed and they need severe mental help. They are unstable and when one is dealing with someone unstable, who knows what they will do or try to do.

It is best to just ignore their attempts of sabotaging your business. I know that can be hard to do, but try.

The only thing that they are accomplishing is showing their clients their REAL level of class. Anyone can be anyone or anything they want to be on the net. They can say they are great people and awesome until they are blue in the face, it is their actions that show just how they really are. Sitting and talking bs about us just shows she is catty, jealous and bitter. That's it.

As hard as it may be, and trust me it is, ignore her / them. Do not give them the satisfaction of lashing back or getting into a net cat fight on the forums. Just let it go. I have started doing so. In fact, I just giggle when I hear what someone is saying about me. I know I have class, I know that I respect others, I know that I am definitely not jealous. It actually feels good to know that I have started to mature, LOL. Everyone who knows me, knows that I am someone who has no problem saying what I want, when I want and back in the day (before I turned 31, LOL) I would've ripped her apart on here, but really. What does that accomplish? It just makes me look as childish and immature as it makes her come across as being.

Sabotage, jealousy, client hoarding, etc etc comes with the job. It happens.

Just know that you are doing something right for these girls to be so threatened by you that they have to start spreading rumors.

Just keep being you and smile. Stay pretty, stay sexy and smile.

It gets better and eventually she / they will grow bored and move on to talking about someone else.

Sorry about the lengthy report! LOL. I can never just type one sentence.

Let's all enjoy what's left of this beautiful weekend. .

Kisses and Hugs,

Dawn.

You are a true lady, both inside and out. I admire your professionalism, and I truly value our friendship. It's amazing what jealousy can cause another person to do.

No one's children should be dragged into our business, regardless of the differences between the adults. I can't even begin to fathom how much that situation has hurt you personally, and I would never wish that to happen to my worst enemy.

I sincerely wish these 'Jerry Springer' episodes will stop, and that we can all go back to the good old drama-free days. I did send out a 'warning' to Nashville, and that should be my last post on my 'Jerry Springer' drama, that is, if I have managed to teach a certain 'forum advertiser' a lesson in proper provider etiquette.

Kisses,

Molly.

PS: We all missed being blessed with your lovely presence at July's Provider Picnic / Spinner's Club meeting. Hopefully you can join us at the next one, in August.

SHE said that YOU were going to beat HER up? I know you have a reputation for being feisty, but she is 3 times your weight. That would not be a fair fight, not even in the OCTAGON. No one would believe her.

[QUOTE=Delicious Dawn; 1815661]We all know, us lady providers, that certain providers talk crap about us during their appointments with the gentlemen. It has been going on for a while. In the beginning, I was upset and wanted to lash out at her on the forums. I didn't. I wanted to more so when she personally called me complaining and making stupid childish statements. Then, when she went on another forum and stated that I threatened to " beat her up " because I was sooo jealous, well. I then did make one post.

I've had, recently, another provider out me on facebook. Not only did she do that, but she had nerve to tell my daughter that I am a prostitute. She also sent fabricated stories to hobbyists regarding me and asked them why they were seeing me and not her. Let's not forget the calls to children services, of which I fully believe that this provider placed. She yet again made more threats of making calls. Yes, this provider is related to me. Family is the worst of them all. Who needs enemies when you have family like that, right? All of that because she is jealous and because I caught her red handed stealing stuff. Well, I had allowed her to stay at my place for almost a month because I felt sorry for her and because she is family and the whole time she was stealing things out of my home and taking them to hers. Clothes, shoes, one of my Coach purses and a pair of very expensive Coach sunglasses. Heck, she even stole some my daughter's clothes, shoes and even her underwear! All out of jealousy and being bitter.

I've learned that one cannot help another anymore. It just doesn't pay off in the end. You end up getting screwed over. Gone are the days where people actually know and understand what respect is and they can give a sincere thank you for helping them. Everyone is out to get everyone else. They are out to hurt others because they are miserable and bringing children into the mix is just one of the worst things that they do. I just don't understand some people. I guess I never will.

I just don't understand why people have to be so hateful and so negative. They can be pretty on the exterior, but it is what on the interior that counts.

Why all of the back and forth bickering?

Honestly, I rarely even log into USA anymore because it is mostly just people arguing with one another and being spiteful.

It's so silly.

I guess what I really want to say here is this:

Be careful with some of these chicks because some of them definitely have their wires crossed and they need severe mental help. They are unstable and when one is dealing with someone unstable, who knows what they will do or try to do.

It is best to just ignore their attempts of sabotaging your business. I know that can be hard to do, but try.

The only thing that they are accomplishing is showing their clients their REAL level of class. Anyone can be anyone or anything they want to be on the net. They can say they are great people and awesome until they are blue in the face, it is their actions that show just how they really are. Sitting and talking bs about us just shows she is catty, jealous and bitter. That's it.

As hard as it may be, and trust me it is, ignore her / them. Do not give them the satisfaction of lashing back or getting into a net cat fight on the forums. Just let it go. I have started doing so. In fact, I just giggle when I hear what someone is saying about me. I know I have class, I know that I respect others, I know that I am definitely not jealous. It actually feels good to know that I have started to mature, LOL. Everyone who knows me, knows that I am someone who has no problem saying what I want, when I want and back in the day (before I turned 31, LOL) I would've ripped her apart on here, but really. What does that accomplish? It just makes me look as childish and immature as it makes her come across as being.

Sabotage, jealousy, client hoarding, etc etc comes with the job. It happens.

Just know that you are doing something right for these girls to be so threatened by you that they have to start spreading rumors.

Just keep being you and smile. Stay pretty, stay sexy and smile.

It gets better and eventually she / they will grow bored and move on to talking about someone else.

Sorry about the lengthy report! LOL. I can never just type one sentence.

Let's all enjoy what's left of this beautiful weekend. .

Kisses and Hugs,

Dawn.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Nday Guy; 1814707]Crissy,

You're a good person.[/QUOTE]Now that I'm on the shit list looks like you get front door service buddy!

Brown noses are the new black!

[QUOTE=Strolnarnd; 1817470]Now that I'm on the shit list looks like you get front door service buddy!

Brown noses are the new black![/QUOTE]YOU'RE WRONG. I've not been back to see her since the last fiasco.

She's a inherently a good person. Just a someone who does not have any customer service skills. (and I am [B]NOT [/B]talking about sexual services).

CurvyCrissy gets too involved in other peoples dealings and it screws up her own business.

I have changed my phone number multiple times, asked providers not to contact me, and they still do. I've seriously been through 3 phone numbers and they keep calling me. It's not just 1 provider but a couple providers. Ladies, some of you, not all, need to let the guy call you. Some of us are married, have kids, or nieces and nephews that play games on our phones. It's unprofessional to contact someone when they have not contacted you first. For this reason, and this reason alone, I will no longer see any providers. I'm out!

So I was set to have a date tonight and had contacted this gentlemen all throughout the day well long story short he gets there and says hey I forgot the money in my wallet let me go get it needless to say he took off. I soon after called him and asked him why he left he proceeded to call me a lying ***** and that my pictures were not the ones on my ad.

Here's my point this is why it is a problem to have some female using my name I know I don't own it but a lot of people relate silk with the face you see on everyone of my ads. I'm also hearing sassy is telling people that were good friends and that I offered her to work with me. I can tell you both of these are false statements I've never met her and she would be lucky to work with someone as nice and classy as myself. It just upsets me I have work to hard to gain such a good reputation for a newbie to ruin it and spread lies. I'm just tired of losing business because someone thought using my name tagline would benefit them.

[QUOTE=SilkyWetness; 1818279]So I was set to have a date tonight and had contacted this gentlemen all throughout the day well long story short he gets there and says hey I forgot the money in my wallet let me go get it needless to say he took off. I soon after called him and asked him why he left he proceeded to call me a lying * and that my pictures were not the ones on my ad.

Here's my point this is why it is a problem to have some female using my name I know I don't own it but a lot of people relate silk with the face you see on everyone of my ads. I'm also hearing sassy is telling people that were good friends and that I offered her to work with me. I can tell you both of these are false statements I've never met her and she would be lucky to work with someone as nice and classy as myself. It just upsets me I have work to hard to gain such a good reputation for a newbie to ruin it and spread lies. I'm just tired of losing business because someone thought using my name tagline would benefit them.[/QUOTE]I'm kind of amazed that since SilkyWetness advertises here like at least once a day that someone would go to see her expecting the other Silk, who is mostly a BP provider and seems to advertise once a week or so. But, you get too many entries in the burner phone and it can be hard to sort out I suppose.

Otherwise, just kind of amused by all the provider-on-provider verbal violence. It doesn't make any of you look good, no matter who's right. I haven't seen any of these providers, because I don't do the reference thing. This is largely to protect my privacy, and to avoid the hassle of it all. Given all the info that seems to get exchanged in these tussles between reference-seeking providers, my conviction is stronger than ever. There is no reason to get caught in the crossfire between these women, as there are plenty of providers out there just as good with far less drama.

Haven't been here much lately. What I've seen doesn't make me want to come back soon.

[QUOTE=SilkyWetness; 1818279]So I was set to have a date tonight and had contacted this gentlemen all throughout the day well long story short he gets there and says hey I forgot the money in my wallet let me go get it needless to say he took off. I soon after called him and asked him why he left he proceeded to call me a lying * and that my pictures were not the ones on my ad.

Here's my point this is why it is a problem to have some female using my name I know I don't own it but a lot of people relate silk with the face you see on everyone of my ads. I'm also hearing sassy is telling people that were good friends and that I offered her to work with me. I can tell you both of these are false statements I've never met her and she would be lucky to work with someone as nice and classy as myself. It just upsets me I have work to hard to gain such a good reputation for a newbie to ruin it and spread lies. I'm just tired of losing business because someone thought using my name tagline would benefit them.[/QUOTE]So let me get this straight, he showed up and saw gorgeous you, thinking he was seeing the cheap knockoff that comes on here from time to time and uses your brand name, and he is flustered and says he forgot his money as a lame excuse for cold feet? I mean, maybe I am stupid, but looking at both sets of current pictures, he should have been overjoyed and booked for more time. That "OTHER SILK" doesn't hold a candle to you. Maybe you were just so pretty you intimidated him.

[QUOTE=SilkyWetness;1818279]So I was set to have a date tonight and had contacted this gentlemen all throughout the day well long story short he gets there and says hey I forgot the money in my wallet let me go get it needless to say he took off. I soon after called him and asked him why he left he proceeded to call me a lying ***** and that my pictures were not the ones on my ad.[/QUOTE]His loss Hun.

[QUOTE=SilkyWetness; 1818279]So I was set to have a date tonight and had contacted this gentlemen all throughout the day well long story short he gets there and says hey I forgot the money in my wallet let me go get it needless to say he took off. I soon after called him and asked him why he left he proceeded to call me a lying * and that my pictures were not the ones on my ad.

Here's my point this is why it is a problem to have some female using my name I know I don't own it but a lot of people relate silk with the face you see on everyone of my ads. I'm also hearing sassy is telling people that were good friends and that I offered her to work with me. I can tell you both of these are false statements I've never met her and she would be lucky to work with someone as nice and classy as myself. It just upsets me I have work to hard to gain such a good reputation for a newbie to ruin it and spread lies. I'm just tired of losing business because someone thought using my name tagline would benefit them.[/QUOTE]Like someone said, their loss! You are much prettier than than the other "silk". I own businesses and there's always going to be someone trying to take advantage of you, period. Don't worry about it, you have plenty of people who rave about you. I can't wait to see you!

I promise I won't run out, in fact you'll probably have to kick me out. :)

Stay positive!

[QUOTE=SilkyWetness; 1818279]So I was set to have a date tonight and had contacted this gentlemen all throughout the day well long story short he gets there and says hey I forgot the money in my wallet let me go get it needless to say he took off. I soon after called him and asked him why he left he proceeded to call me a lying * and that my pictures were not the ones on my ad.

Here's my point this is why it is a problem to have some female using my name I know I don't own it but a lot of people relate silk with the face you see on everyone of my ads. I'm also hearing sassy is telling people that were good friends and that I offered her to work with me. I can tell you both of these are false statements I've never met her and she would be lucky to work with someone as nice and classy as myself. It just upsets me I have work to hard to gain such a good reputation for a newbie to ruin it and spread lies. I'm just tired of losing business because someone thought using my name tagline would benefit them.[/QUOTE]The guy who stood you up is a moron! There are 2 girls using Silk in there name but that is where the similarities end! One is KY. And One is in Northern Cincinnati! One is a BBW and one is well built maybe a little above what I call a spinner! Even there hair color is different. Maybe the girl should have used a different name but the guy is a dumb ass for not knowing the difference and walking away from a great looking and talented woman! Just my 2 cents!

I will be contacting you soon for an appointment

Yes and now he has posted a false review in escort reviews ya it upset me but I know who I am and what I do his loss because I know how to give a good time and thank all you guys for the nice comments just tired of idiots like this.

While I was working I saw this post.

[quote]So I met up with Ana couple days ago. She is a cute 19 year old brunette with a good body. Works in retail at a clothing shop and is going through hardships recently and she is trying to buy couple stuff. Anyway, I guess you can call this a so so experience for me personally, not to bad but not to great. Acts like a typical teenager who is pretty nieve, was cool but was pretty nervous as this was her first time meeting someone from CL.

I calmed her down and she gave good head and was pretty tight banged several positions. Couple things she didn't want to do but no big deal. Well here is the bad part. While I Was banging away her snatch was bleeding or started to bleed at this point. It wasnt to bad for me because I got it just on my condom (but of course I still washed my self like hell, she's a non pro newbie with little experience so I wasnt to worried) but she was kinda freaking out and kept on apologizing to me and felt very awkward where she said couldn't continue with it because she felt to awkward about it and got dressed and apologized and said to hit her up again to meet. I Asked her to finish me off at least with her mouth she again said no next time, oh well can't force her and she left me hanging ready to nut.

So there you have it! No offense but save your pms and time because no I won't share her contact info because as I said before I only share and trade equal value! Meaning CL non pro only. No street walker or back pagers for me not into that and that's all I have been offered for trade here. Some have attempted to trade CL chicks but I unfortunetly I have already banged them and know them. Example the blonde chick with glasses near the theater on green in prov I was offered but turns out I banged this girl already, so I'm open but tell me something I don't know because I bang these types of non pro girls on CL all the time (the struggling college student or nurse etc) and its hobby and part time addiction.[/QUOTE]No I won't say where it's from but here is my question, at the end he gets all pompous about the "quality" of girls he expects to trade this girls number for. Is he really saying he'll only trade for a number of another chick that gets her period mid session then won't at least give him a BJ and left him hanging? I'm thinking he gets no takers.

Thoughts?

[QUOTE=Admin2; 1819428]While I was working I saw this post.

No I won't say where it's from but here is my question, at the end he gets all pompous about the "quality" of girls he expects to trade this girls number for. Is he really saying he'll only trade for a number of another chick that gets her period mid session then won't at least give him a BJ and left him hanging? I'm thinking he gets no takers.

Thoughts?[/QUOTE]If only they made this board a reality show on HBO.

BTW. I am taking odds on "no takers"