Thanks very much, Dr. Monger! Your comments are insightful! I definitely treat them nice and respectably. But like you suggest, going forward, I think I'm going to take a little more time in trying to develop things.
[QUOTE=Dr. Monger; 1084399]Wow. So many mistakes in one encounter. Since you took the time to post, I will offer you some advice. NEVER agree to take another girl along. Lets assume you and "Star" do get naked for a romp. How do you know fugly girl will not be going through your wallet while you are distracted? You could have lost a lot more than $$.
The not paying up front is trickier, but definitely don't pay until at least some clothing has come off, and make sure you are in control at that point. Never EVER give the girl money before she is in the room with you. Many girls will insist. Too bad. Show her the money. Once you are in the room, put it on the counter, or put half on the counter and the rest in your pocket, to be delivered after services are rendered. Make sure it is out of her reach. Make it clear to the girl that a deal is a deal. Also, be clear up front about what you are getting. I. E. An hour, or two pops, whatever your deal is. She gets paid after the deal is completed. These rules may change once you know a girl. I had an ATF who used to ask for a small bit up front when I would pick her up at her house. She would run it inside the house, but usually leaving her bag full of outfits, etc in the car. Recently another regular asked me for the cash up front. I was none too happy, since I had seen her on multiple occasions, and been very good to her. But is was in a situation where I was in total control, so I gave it to her. She performed beautifully, perhaps the best ever with her. One of the beauties of the regular hookup with a Blockette is they often do see you as a an ATM, and they want to make sure the cash keeps flowing. Thus they try and make sure you enjoy yourself. Treat them nice and the rewards can be great. Most of my regulars usually call me, not the other way around.
The final caveat is that almost 100% of the Blockettes who do takeout are on drugs, usually heroin. A small few on crack. If you see her going downhill, that is when you need to be careful. Some seem to maintain a consistent level. They go in and out of rehab. But if they slide far enough, no matter how good the relationship you have developed, they will steal from you or worse to get what they need.
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