You Can't Be Serious! Again!
Tinaa, really sweetheart?
Let me stress that as the son of a LPN, at the Orange County jail, I have a little inside info on how this works. First, when you're booked and into sallyport (LOL, jail slang) you go to see the nurse and check in property as they have to make sure you're healthy, fingerprinted etc. Basically, they identify who you are man! So with charges that are sexual in nature guess what? They swab you and DNA test you!
Look, I don't wish any I'll will towards you but cut the crap if you is or aren't positive that's your business. I understand you're a seasoned vet but everybody won't go for the junky stunts that you're trying to run it's getting old. Don't be upset with me as I, personally, don't know you, but we have a mutual connection that stems back to your winter springs days. LMAO!
Whitelist..........not my cup of tea
I think a white-list listens well. However you can see right in this thread that if a provider is angry she can "go after a monger" and try and trash his reputation. You can see how the monger has to try and defend himself. Since most people believe the negative it leaves the monger in an indefensible position.
There is an inherent risk on both sides in this business and try as we will we cannot eliminate them. The risks are generated by the government, on one side there is the risk of arrest and all that that entails for the girl. On the guys side there is arrest and public embarrassment i.e. O.C.S.O. website. Legal fees etc.
Most of the risk and fear comes from being set up and arrested, not from perverted or sociopathic men as many seem to believe. Yes there is the occasional incident but by and large this is not the problem.
The white list is more about being arrested than anything else. Most of the women who get arrested do so on outcalls and it usually involves greed, they get tricked in to saying incriminating things when offered large incentives for sexual acts. The more involved in drugs they are the easier they are to trick.
Generally a sober girl who has been adequately trained will not get arrested, especially if she takes several precautions that are easily learned. The higher end girls rarely get arrested and many of them want you to be verified and if you cannot do this then move on.
Drop me in any city and I will have a fine time with no verification whatsoever, could I get verified, of course easily. The point is there is room for both.
I don't think this board is the place for monger verification, I think we're opening a can of worm's. If you want to be verified join a service. Most ladies use their inherent intuition on who to accept and in my experience as long as they listen to it it serves them well.
If you telegraph that your an asshole on the phone, with stupid questions etc. they will either blow you off or after they get off the phone their intuition will kick in and they won't answer your second call. You will be pissed and they will not be sure if they did the right thing but they will be safe. If you don't know how to handle the phone the next time you see a girl ask her how she judges her calls,she will tell you--just ask.
Goddess has repeatedly said that she will not see anybody in Orlando unless she has seen them before or they can be verified and yet in her post below she still gets call where guys get pissed because she won't see them without verification. She has made her rules clear. What more can she do? So just respect them.
Verification is not something to be done in such a public place, it could lead to a nasty situation should the wrong people get involved as we've seen lately on this board.
My take is NO to any public white-list----VS
Just Because Someone Said So?
[QUOTE=Tinaa]1st I was arrested with my neighbor a 21 year old girl who didn't have record and was hit with a pimp charge cause she provide me with a ride. She gave them false info in exchange for trying to get her charges dropped[common tactic used by leo. Turning people against each other. Her tactic obviously did NOT work. She lied! ] a dna swab is NOT used as a test and is only taken after you plead guilty to a felony and for the record you don't get a blood draw til after you are found guilty NOT before. Call a lawyer if you don't believe me.[/QUOTE]
Let me get this straight Tinaa. All you have to do is say "Warp has HIV." and they will arrest me for being positive?
You are claiming that your neighbor got you busted for being HIV+ based only on her word, without any sort of test or records that they searched, is this correct?
You keep dancing around this question without answering it.