Rants and Stupid shit in Orange County

[QUOTE=BSouthgate;7017669]<<SNIPPED>> I advised a brother who mistakenly thinks he has sex addiction to square with his wife. I understand why you disagree with that advice. She may be so overwhelmed with cultural mores about sexual fidelity and she may find it impossible to allow that both the brother, her husband, and she, the aspiring princess, are just physical beings that need sex but actually love each other with a pure love that can liberate them from cultural bonds.

In my long life, I have found it better to be honest in my truly intimate relationships with spouses and children; that may not work for everyone.[/QUOTE]Not attacking you, but I hope no one reading this runs off and overshares with their significant other that they are fucking hookers. I think it's a terrible idea. The fact that you mention you are on wife number three should be enough to convince everyone reading that you may not be the best source of advice regarding marital matters.

My advice. Deny, deny, deny if you want to stay married. If not, simply get divorced on the best possible terms and go fuck all you want.

[QUOTE=RogerOver;7018125]Not attacking you, but I hope no one reading this runs off and overshares with their significant other that they are fucking hookers. I think it's a terrible idea. The fact that you mention you are on wife number three should be enough to convince everyone reading that you may not be the best source of advice regarding marital matters.

My advice. Deny, deny, deny if you want to stay married. If not, simply get divorced on the best possible terms and go fuck all you want.[/QUOTE]Note that when my second wife and I got divorced, it was not because I shared that I was fucking ******. She found out and we got divorced because she she was puzzled as to how she had contracted HPV infection. She figured it out. That is the tragedy I hope does not happen to any other brothers here. Of course I could have just denied denied denied and told her she got infected from a toilet seat.

BTW, two thirds of American marriages end in divorce. So the prevalence of twice divorced males is high.

Now, I am married to a woman who allows my sexual freedom and takes care of me. Not a bad end for an 80 year old!!

[QUOTE=BSouthgate;7018261]Note that when my second wife and I got divorced, it was not because I shared that I was fucking ******. She found out and we got divorced because she she was puzzled as to how she had contracted HPV infection. She figured it out. That is the tragedy I hope does not happen to any other brothers here. Of course I could have just denied denied denied and told her she got infected from a toilet seat.

BTW, two thirds of American marriages end in divorce. So the prevalence of twice divorced males is high.

Now, I am married to a woman who allows my sexual freedom and takes care of me. Not a bad end for an 80 year old!![/QUOTE]So the tragedy was barebacking hookers and then barebacking your significant other, in my opinion. That was poor decision-making regarding where and how you're managing your dick, not a need to mitigate the problem by telling the wife.

But given that you managed to give your wife an HPV infection, the result would likely have been the same regardless of whether you denied it or not. Anyway, I've said my piece. Everyone will make their own decisions—best of luck to all.

[QUOTE=BSouthgate;7017669]From experience with three wives, dozens of gfs, scores of casual encounters and hundreds of hookers, I have some idea what goes on in their heads.

There are two levels: physical and cultural.

Physical. Women, like men, have libido or sexuality. They want sexual release ten times a day, one time a week or not at all. Like men, they masturbate. According to research, more frequently than we do. A guy, who posted on a porn site, worked as a hotel night clerk. He put hidden clock cameras in some of the hotel rooms. He recorded single women occupants masturbating. He revealed in a PM that the majority of females hotel room occupants masturbated at least once a night. Some masturbated several times each night. Some not at all.

Hetero women do not just get off by themselves. They also like to fuck with men. Of my three wives, the first was hypersexual and wanted sex several times per day, more than I did. That is one of the reasons we separated and divorced. The third wife does not like sex hardly at all. The second liked it once or twice per week.

Women also have different sexual preferences. Some like to have one partner; some two; some several.

All of the above describe women's physical sexuality. These features are largely genetically programmed and not learned.[/QUOTE]Where do you get a job at that hotel? But with our society, a hidden camera like that will probably get you more jail time than hiring a hooker. But those videos would be nice to see.

There are also women who can go 5-10 years without sex, and who prefer cuddling. And on the other end of the spectrum there are something like 10% of women who get off on anal sex. There is much more variety in women than there is in men. We are more alike than we like to think.

[QUOTE=DarkRoomDaddy;7019401]Where do you get a job at that hotel? But with our society, a hidden camera like that will probably get you more jail time than hiring a hooker. But those videos would be nice to see.

There are also women who can go 5-10 years without sex, and who prefer cuddling. And on the other end of the spectrum there are something like 10% of women who get off on anal sex. There is much more variety in women than there is in men. We are more alike than we like to think.[/QUOTE]Totally agree that women are extremely variable. Men are also variable but less so.

Regarding the hotel clerk who video recorded clients, he posted on one of major tube sites that starts with x. He made loads of videos of women masturbating in their rooms. His videos have been taken down and I have not seen them on the lesser sites like p. Zog. If I see them, I will let you know.

He responded to my PMs for a while explaining how he made the videos and how often single women would masturbate. I remember him saying that most single women did self love and some did it several times before retiring. But some women stayed multiple nites without touching themselves.

[QUOTE=RogerOver;7019009]So the tragedy was barebacking hookers and then barebacking your significant other, in my opinion. That was poor decision-making regarding where and how you're managing your dick, not a need to mitigate the problem by telling the wife.

But given that you managed to give your wife an HPV infection, the result would likely have been the same regardless of whether you denied it or not. Anyway, I've said my piece. Everyone will make their own decisionsbest of luck to all.[/QUOTE]Thanks for your comment Roger.

I never barebacked FS hookers. HPV is very contagious. You can contract it from a BBBJ.

[QUOTE=BSouthgate;7019788]Thanks for your comment Roger.

I never barebacked FS hookers. HPV is very contagious. You can contract it from a BBBJ.[/QUOTE]This is correct, I have made 5 PSA posts about Gardasil 9. HPV is the #1 preventable problem, warts and cancer. Genital herpes being the #1 std that can't be avoided (there is no vaccine despite many attempts). You can get genital herpes with fully protected sex, because during sex your scrotum can touch the woman's pussy. That's what happened with me.

Bacterial infections, you treat after.

It cannot be understated how important Gardasil 9 is if you are 45 or under, or to beg for an exception from your doctor if you are over.

[QUOTE=FreeWally;7024284]This is correct, I have made 5 PSA posts about Gardasil 9. HPV is the #1 preventable problem, warts and cancer. Genital herpes being the #1 std that can't be avoided (there is no vaccine despite many attempts). You can get genital herpes with fully protected sex, because during sex your scrotum can touch the woman's pussy. That's what happened with me.

Bacterial infections, you treat after.

It cannot be understated how important Gardasil 9 is if you are 45 or under, or to beg for an exception from your doctor if you are over.[/QUOTE]I've looked around, I don't see any path for those of us over 45 for Gardasil 9.

Who has gotten it after 50 here?

[QUOTE=OcAmper;7044399]I've looked around, I don't see any path for those of us over 45 for Gardasil 9. Who has gotten it after 50 here?[/QUOTE]Based on my research, if you're over 50 like me, there's probably not much reason to get vaccinated with it at this point. Meaning that if you've had more than just a few sexual partners in your life (and most of us guys here have had more than a few), then you were likely exposed to HPV more than a minute ago. IMHO, not worth fretting about and, more importantly, guys who play in AMPs, escorts, K-orgs etc, understand that the ROI comes with those possibilities. But as a contributing member to our community, I'm preaching to the choir here.

Looks like one of the c org locations in Irvine (cypress village nearby Irvine Blvd and Jeffrey) was busted. Go check out instagram Irvine police page.

[QUOTE=CryMoarHoar;7070840]Looks like one of the c org locations in Irvine (cypress village nearby Irvine Blvd and Jeffrey) was busted. Go check out instagram Irvine police page.[/QUOTE]This was my detailed warning on corgs and lax safety just 3 days ago:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?31932-Asian-Providers&p=7067143#post7067143[/URL]

Even Chinese people prefer korgs. Corgs are for FOBs and people who can't get properly screened. corgs will never stop cutting corners on safety. It's been just 3 weeks since the 7 c-org bust in Arcadia. And a few months since the Albertine incident in SD. I called it on the SD one before it happened, that place was "anyone can just show up", not even just FOBs. wtf

[QUOTE=Sticker;7044632]Based on my research, if you're over 50 like me, there's probably not much reason to get vaccinated with it at this point. Meaning that if you've had more than just a few sexual partners in your life (and most of us guys here have had more than a few), then you were likely exposed to HPV more than a minute ago.[/QUOTE]

I think there is much basis for that, but to be clear there are 9 strains of HPV covered. Some cause genital warts. Some cause cancer. They are different strains (there are well over 50 strains of HPV but most are 'harmless'). Certainly we are likely to have been exposed when younger, but probably not all. I was exposed when I was around 15 and got a small wart (not genital, HPV also causes skin warts) that was later removed. I got it from kissing a similar aged girl. I was still a virgin.

That said, a solid 1 in 8 kgirls and jgirls I've seen have genital warts. Many more have them but they are not visible. Gardasil 9 covers every strain that causes these problems. HPV is responsible for 99% of cervical cancer, to illustrate how specific some strains are.

Btw if you have skin warts, even genital, they can be removed. Sometimes they go away on their own, while rarely they get worse. See a doctor.

[QUOTE=CryMoarHoar;7070840]Looks like one of the c org locations in Irvine (cypress village nearby Irvine Blvd and Jeffrey) was busted. Go check out instagram Irvine police page.[/QUOTE]See [URL]https://ktla.com/news/2-arrested-for-sex-trafficking-in-irvine-victims-freed/[/URL].

Lift Her Up.

I tried. Anyways. This is why I should leave America until their violent crime and std rates are below 10%. If that takes 20 years? So be it. Seeing as I'm STD / STI clean and a peaceful person, for my own safety, I should be somewhere with similar values until America gets its act together! I'll start raising funds for a long term leave of absence from American Soil starting within the next few days to weeks.

Stds and Stis are fiction. Crime is fiction. However, you guys are providing great lore to use as a reason for leaving to more peaceful, STD / STI free societies, with less obese people while "they" forcefully fix America's problem. Irvine is a terrible place to do anything sketch.

You're going this direction. Don't blame me if you find life to be extreme in the coming years. I'll be a in tent in Nevada or somewhere else.

Cleanse it all from American Society.

[QUOTE=LiftHerUp;7071216]See [URL]https://ktla.com/news/2-arrested-for-sex-trafficking-in-irvine-victims-freed/[/URL].

Lift Her Up.[/QUOTE]I know exactly where this is. This was one of the most advertised places in Irvine. I knew it was just a matter of time. 2+ mil home in one of those new neighborhoods where the homes are right up against each other. Everyone on that street knows what's going on. The guys arrested have logs on their phones with all the contacts. If you've been here, I hope you used a burner phone. Not sure how deep the cops will dig.

[QUOTE=SukijoSeiwaka;7071249]I tried. Anyways. This is why I should leave America until their violent crime and std rates are below 10%. If that takes 20 years? So be it. Seeing as I'm STD / STI clean and a peaceful person, for my own safety, I should be somewhere with similar values until America gets its act together! I'll start raising funds for a long term leave of absence from American Soil starting within the next few days to weeks.[/QUOTE]About STDs, I posted this to the SGV forum to people obsessed with testing often due to relationships:

I get tested once a year. I think more important though is if you bb, you need to not touch a SO and if you get a new relationship, get treated. Regardless of tests. Tests do not look for every bacteria, just the more serious ones. But the minor ones can still cause an STI and show up in your new partner. They are not tested for in STD tests, such tests do not exist. Men are often asymptomatic and can still pass it to a symptomatic partner. Doctors only treat them if they become UTIs, meaning if you have symptoms or the person you passed it to has symptoms. You can see the problem there, it is too late. A doctor's job is not to prevent you from being caught.

Here is a post on getting treated through an online prescription service that sends it to any pharmacy you want (such as CVS who then give you top shelf medicine same as everyone), if you are 'getting out' of bb for a new partner:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?37058-Guides-for-mongering.-Agencies-stds-jgirl-filming-etc.&p=7069411&viewfull=1#post7069411[/URL]

Guide on bb / std strategy, it is more important than the testing which can't find everything:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?37058-Guides-for-mongering.-Agencies-stds-jgirl-filming-etc.&p=7043527&viewfull=1#post7043527[/URL]

Testing does not help you at all on not getting caught passing a UTI. It only detects things like HIV or just a couple of asymptomatic bacteria infections you may have for the public good. They do not test for them all. Such a test does not exist and never will. Of course if you are symptomatic or say you have symptoms, callondoc will issue a prescription. It is really cheap, just don't abuse it. If you go bb again, you restart everything, so wait until you need to quit.

Sukijo, are you still banging JAV stars? It is possible in Japan but it requires you to "rank up" at Tora no Ana. They are the go-to shop for actual A-list JAV stars I recognize. Basically you have to bang Gold tier girls until you can get to the Legends like Aika. Aika is actually available finally after a long break, but listed as "call us" meaning you have to be ranked up VIP. Still cheap comparing to some of your other adventures, especially with the exchange rate. Hope you're having fun still, good luck.