Sugar Daddy Sites

Those two scenarios are true textbook definition of Sugar daddy. The name of this blog should be titled much differently. I agreed with GMs first reply but second one is just as predatory. Just lying to ladies to get "free to lunch money sex" for unlimited time selling them a dream that can't be bought.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2754532]I don't doubt that as I have read many of his posts. But working on an SD site and blowing through dozens or even hundreds (in my case thousands) of girls doesn't always leave time for the niceties that would assuage or persuade a prospect to do what you want them to do. Especially on a walmart budget. Love you guys. Lets keep the stories and advice flowing.

I know there are a lot of guys that read this thread but do not contribute, as I get a few PM's here and there from them. So chime in guys. There is no requirement for membership except a desire to bang more pussy.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Christophe1;2756078]I've had two friends that were sugar babies. The first one had a day job making about 3 K a month, where she worked with an industry person that bought her an Escalade and paid for her $2 k / month rent. He only wanted to see her about 2 x / week in his Hollywood Hills house where she got to spend the night. She got lots of gifts and he helped her advance in her daytime career by referrals. This allowed her to explore her passions. Like dancing, acting, singing, standup, etc. I always admired her freedom to try new things.

Another lady was a massage therapists. She got an admirer who bought her an MP. Then he gave her 10 K / month. I asked her if this guy was crazy? SERIOUSLY, he didn't want her to quit the MP gig. She fucked lots of guys for a hundred and was highly requested when she worked. The guy had been retired forever, and just sat at home alone (her story). Whatever their arrangement, it made them both mutually happy. I always wondered why she continued to work, but never asked her why.

Today, I hung out with a 27 year old single mom that just scrapes by to live. She is smart, okay looks, and her mom told her to get a sugar daddy. I was at a crossroads of sorts. I didn't want her to be used up and spit out by a hardcore monger, but I also thought, what a good mom. Her mom told her that she deserves a better life. Get a sugar daddy and maybe you can...

I'm starting to think this sugar baby thing is a good deal. My 2016 goal is to get a 20 to 30 year old with money to wine and dine my poor ass. I want to be private jetted around and at her beckon command to fuck her everywhere when she wants. I'll eat out her pussy when desired. My personality and hard cock shall prevail.

Namaste[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=OneOfTheBest;2756128]Those two scenarios are true textbook definition of Sugar daddy. The name of this blog should be titled much differently. I agreed with GMs first reply but second one is just as predatory. Just lying to ladies to get "free to lunch money sex" for unlimited time selling them a dream that can't be bought.[/QUOTE]I originally named it Sugar Daddy Sites as the focus at the time in my mind was to talk about girls met on an actual SD website. But SB prospecting could be at the mall, a club, in school, etc. As the availability and awareness of the possibilities on the POT side has increased, any and all location sites should be discussed. Online or Offline.

Maybe I should have named it "Sugar Daddy Sites, Sights & Insights".

I was being sarcastic since the threads aren't by definition textbook Sugar daddies and the ladies aren't textbook sugarbabies. Splenda / Trick daddy title sounds more fitting.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2756810]I originally named it Sugar Daddy Sites as the focus at the time in my mind was to talk about girls met on an actual SD website. But SB prospecting could be at the mall, a club, in school, etc. As the availability and awareness of the possibilities on the POT side has increased, any and all location sites should be discussed. Online or Offline.

Maybe I should have named it "Sugar Daddy Sites, Sights & Insights".[/QUOTE]

I can't really go on SA for a few days due to some dental work I am getting done tomorrow. And there are a ton of new girls in just the last few days. A ton. Like this crazy amount. It's endless. No one could have all those girls, And there is no competition. Practically zero. I have rarely see such an awesome buyers market.

[QUOTE=GoldenMan;2754715]ESPECIALLY for those of you guys on a WalMart budget, you need to STOP treating sugar babies and non-pros like escorts.

What so many mongers fail to understand is that SBs and NPs offer the best of all worlds, and should be treated so much differently than hookers.

.[/QUOTE]This is excellent advice. I kind of do a combo of this and HG's approach and have been very successful. In the last month I have been with 9 different women and never spent more than $ on average. I have one that has basically become a FWB and it is exactly as GM describes it. I think I will approach more with the long term goal now that I have so many reliable girls that will come over with just a little notice. I am a writer so I am able to pull a lot in by my texts.

[QUOTE=LargeEss;2758151]This is excellent advice. I kind of do a combo of this and HG's approach and have been very successful. In the last month I have been with 9 different women and never spent more than $ on average. I have one that has basically become a FWB and it is exactly as GM describes it. I think I will approach more with the long term goal now that I have so many reliable girls that will come over with just a little notice. I am a writer so I am able to pull a lot in by my texts.[/QUOTE]I do some writing myself. It's definitely an asset in this game.

I have had the majority of the women that I have contacted, using HG's method, not even want the meet and greet, just to come over and get to business. Yesterday was like that. We exchanged a number of emails and then spoke on the phone. 22 year AF. I knew she was a little overweight. She is, but she has a tight toned ass and with working out she would have a killer body. She likes it all. Women too. She gives excellent head and fucks like a madwoman. Made her come 5 times. She stayed all afternoon. We fucked sucked, ate, and started up again. At the same time I had a extremely hot AF girl get mad at me because she texted me me right before I got to business with my guest saying she had had a fight with her mom and gotten out of the car. She was mad that I hadn't texted her back and that friends didn't act that way. I have never met this girl. So is smoking hot, but pretty certain I dodged a bullet there. Picture is of the one I played with yesterday.

[QUOTE=LargeEss;2758168]At the same time I had a extremely hot AF girl get mad at me because she texted me me right before I got to business with my guest saying she had had a fight with her mom and gotten out of the car. She was mad that I hadn't texted her back and that friends didn't act that way. I have never met this girl. So is smoking hot, but pretty certain I dodged a bullet there. Picture is of the one I played with yesterday.[/QUOTE]Everyone wants what they can't have. She will want you now more than ever.
Or she will ditch you. Either way you are the winner.

And Guys. Let's keep posting those pics!

As of January the 4th of this year I am now adhering to a new Time Management White Paper Report at work, and it has to be followed 100% of the time and beyond. So I actually had to create a spreadsheet, that encompassed every activity that I am required to perform, in every area of my job on a daily, weekly, monthly basis and also for all of 2016 just to get started on the new 5 year plan at work.

This means that it has to come out of the 18 waking hours a day I have to accomplish it. By factoring in every other life activity that will also be taking up my time. I calculated that I need to and can only devote to, 16.66% or 3 hours a day, six days a week for sugaring, defined as being able to balance any and all of the time needed from prospecting to ultimately ending up in the FC.

So since tonite I could not go out, I spent 3 hours online catching up on profiles. Of the 100 or so that I looked at in my saved searches demographic I read maybe 50 of them. Out of those 50 I read maybe 30 of them more closely, and some very very closely. I finally selected 13 young ladies to send my standard opening message to followed by permission to view my private pictures.

This is not the shotgun approach I was using previously. This new more targeted process yielded the 13 prospects which covered only a four day period of me not screening anyone and all the prospects had just signed up during the four day period. So I have now officially finished the pre-screening process. There were more POTS to look at but I had already used up my allotted time.

This tighter pre-screening process now allows me to spend more time (in the advanced pre-qualifying process) per POT that replies (or doesn't reply where I take a second bite at the apple). I estimate that I can conservatively close 46% of the deals in the FC, meaning 6 of the girls. But due to my observation that trying to bed more than one random girl a week could possibly impact other work / life opportunity costs, I will ultimately have to cut out 2 of those girls from the deal this month.

This is not an optimum scenario for me if my goal is to bed as many new girls as possible in the new year. Also inevitably lowering that possibility even more are the POTS that will have the ability to entertain me for a few or more dates which will require lessening the number of meeting new girls even more.

Lucky for me my fun comes from the lower variety of girls spectrum part of the Hobby and not from the competition side to see who can bed the most women regardless of chemistry, common interests and a longer term type of companionship.

Because if it was... I wouldn't be the winner.

My previous post is slowly developing. But to be totally realistic if I found one girl that I could bang consistently I would have to consider that lucky. So I will continue to message maybe 3 new girls a day until it happens. But its my ATF and UTR that I have hit 13 times combined in the first 16 days of this month. Today (Sunday) I have to work from when I wake up till midnite. So no time for anything but some online chatting, eating and still being able to work 12 hours. But that would still leave time to see one of them if they could show up between 5 and 7 pm. But if not. Then oh well.

As strict as my new work schedule is they have both agreed to only see me on my off hours with no complaints. So I could just hang with my 2 regulars for months and never have to worry about getting my job done, but we know that isn't going to happen. I will find some new girl to fuck eventually that will want to fit into my schedule. My ATF is here to stay for sure. Its been 15 months already and we are going strong. But any UTR girl (even this new one I have done almost 30 times now) could leave or get replaced by me keeping a steady flow of messages to the new profiles at least once or twice a week until I find someone better than her, or go to three and just reduce my UTR's number of dates per month. Especially if I can find another true SB like my ATF, which is what I really would prefer and will find eventually.

Any new girl is going to have to agree to my new schedule as well, or sorry goodbye. So it is going to be tougher to find the next good girl. But not impossible as there are just too many new girls signing up every day. But my ability to do anything more this year is not going to happen. Work has to come first and this is going to be a busy year. So I have settled into being much less of a monger and way more of just being a traditional SD. Plus I find that my sexual energy is highest at the dinner hour so that was an unexpected bonus.

I never do overnites and no more roommates. Also Uber is my new best friend. My current two don't drive. So its public transportation or uber about 65% of the time now. Mostly in rush hour traffic. Its a huge time saver and totally necessary to make sure I get in my hours. So my famous $ a date limit is still in effect but once you ad in the few extras and uber's the real number is about $.5 per date, which is a good enough trade off for the benefits of working more. As my time is worth far more than what I spend extra to make it easy on myself. Maybe I'm just getting older...lol... but it really is the job thats forcing me to have everything perfectly planned out on an exact schedule.

Well, have to say, thanks to a lot of advice here, I am very pleased. I have developed a number of off-site email or text communications with ladies that I am seeing the need to narrow it down. Have a regular, have another I'm taking to a FC this week, another that I will take to a FC as soon as I can get back into her area (quite a ways away).

Plus 4 or 5 that are serious contenders. One 28 yo Hispanic is stunningly good looking and we have been emailing back and forth a lot. She has agreed to meet and as long as I don't screw it up, I think she could be the winnah. She wants an affair. Money has never been brought up and, lesson learned, I sure ain't going to!

She is in the same dull marital situation as me and needs a mental and physical partner even with this worn out old 50 yo!

Not bad since I was only able to message since the beginning of December. Owe you guys a lot. Have virtually no interest in HX at this point and barely need to log into SA. Have a lot to work with.

I ditched my UTR today, possibly for good. I will ask her if I can give out her number to senior members. I am just too busy to fuck anyone but my ATF for the time being. And I can see her anytime I want. 15 visits including ubers could run me 2 k a month. But I haven't spent that little in over 10 years on a monthly basis, so I will find the time to fuck at least one or two other girls (new girls only). Just not this one anymore.

I will update everyone on her availability hopefully by tomorrow. She is a $ a date and everything is covered. She is far from perfect, but perfectly acceptable at that price. And she will definitely put in some effort towards scheduling and transportation, and will please to the best of her abilities. She is fetish friendly and YMMV.

I have now ditched every single girl I know except my ATF and the occasional visit from my x roomy the Haitian yoga instructor / actress. So now I am hyper targeting and talking to only the most conveniently located and demographically desirable ladies (by age & looks and their willingness to take my $ offer) on SA. This could take quite a bit of time but I am in no hurry and don't really give a shit.

I am now in a traditional and exclusive relationship with my ATF. We have both agreed not to call her my GF, because my GF's come and go like republican candidates for president. Her official title is "Daddy's Little Girl". Because a real Daddy will always take care of his little girl. And there is a lot of comfort in that for both of us right now.

Just a question. For the guys that see girls regularly. Do you see them At your Home, at a Hotel, Or go to their place?

I ask this because my place does not scream Sugar Daddy. So where do you usually bed the women? Favorite Hotels also since well, its not cheap.

[QUOTE=Galaxxxy69;2762013]Just a question. For the guys that see girls regularly. Do you see them At your Home, at a Hotel, Or go to their place?

I ask this because my place does not scream Sugar Daddy. So where do you usually bed the women? Favorite Hotels also since well, its not cheap.[/QUOTE]I am single so once I am convinced that a girl is safe I just bring her to my home. But usually a .7 room will impress any girl enough to be comfortable. And car dates are always a cheap and fun alternative.