[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;6049898]Trying to bring this back up to see if I'll get any help. I've sent her messages but not a single reply.[/QUOTE]Same here, and my profile is more open with real pics etc.
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[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;6049898]Trying to bring this back up to see if I'll get any help. I've sent her messages but not a single reply.[/QUOTE]Same here, and my profile is more open with real pics etc.
[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;6049976]Since the owner keeps raising the price and the number of POTS keeps going down. When I started in 2015 used to communicate with many women but it has been downhill ever since.
Their price is inversely related to the the number of real POTS![/QUOTE]Chicks don't pay.
Quality is down but there is no better alternative right now.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ee710c42-8d11-4fc3-bc24-d3ad15e72d53[/URL]
Any info on this one? Comms have been good, but schedules haven't matched up yet. Wanted to check before I pull the trigger.
[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;6050381]Chicks don't pay.
Quality is down but there is no better alternative right now.[/QUOTE]Once on Bumble a young woman asked me if I was looking for a SB? And then went silent!
On those sites I think it's free if both parties match otherwise you can pay to see who has viewed your profile!
[QUOTE=James808;6050848][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ee710c42-8d11-4fc3-bc24-d3ad15e72d53[/URL]
Any info on this one? Comms have been good, but schedules haven't matched up yet. Wanted to check before I pull the trigger.[/QUOTE]I will be interested to know more. I had messaged her months ago but nothing came of that.
The SB I've been communicating with on SA completely vanished. Even the messages from my inbox with her are gone. Usually when a SB deactivates or is booted off the site, the messages still stay in my inbox.
Here's what happened. I contacted a potential SB. We took the convo off site because she left her number. After communicating offsite for a while, she wanted money for groceries and feminine stuff. To which I declined. Next she sent a pic of her drivers license to say she's not a scammer. I still declined. What happened? Is she a ghost?
[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;6049898]Trying to bring this back up to see if I'll get any help. I've sent her messages but not a single reply.[/QUOTE]Her recent update says Mexico as of yesterday. Maybe lounging at Cancun working on new pics.
[QUOTE=Hiamey;6051990]The SB I've been communicating with on SA completely vanished. Even the messages from my inbox with her are gone. Usually when a SB deactivates or is booted off the site, the messages still stay in my inbox.
Here's what happened. I contacted a potential SB. We took the convo off site because she left her number. After communicating offsite for a while, she wanted money for groceries and feminine stuff. To which I declined. Next she sent a pic of her drivers license to say she's not a scammer. I still declined. What happened? Is she a ghost?[/QUOTE]I think Most probably you have met a person whose life is in complete disarray or are messed up. She might be real. Cross check DL pic with hers and you can google to get pick in her life. Based on info you gather take further call.
[QUOTE=Hiamey;6051990]The SB I've been communicating with on SA completely vanished. Even the messages from my inbox with her are gone. Usually when a SB deactivates or is booted off the site, the messages still stay in my inbox.
Here's what happened. I contacted a potential SB. We took the convo off site because she left her number. After communicating offsite for a while, she wanted money for groceries and feminine stuff. To which I declined. Next she sent a pic of her drivers license to say she's not a scammer. I still declined. What happened? Is she a ghost?[/QUOTE]When a SB blocks you on the site, they do disappear completely. I had one block me accidentally, and there is no way to unblock. We have to communicate off the site.
If you are still interested in your SB, you probably will have to use the phone number if you still have it.
[QUOTE=Hiamey;6051990]The SB I've been communicating with on SA completely vanished. Even the messages from my inbox with her are gone. Usually when a SB deactivates or is booted off the site, the messages still stay in my inbox.
Here's what happened. I contacted a potential SB. We took the convo off site because she left her number. After communicating offsite for a while, she wanted money for groceries and feminine stuff. To which I declined. Next she sent a pic of her drivers license to say she's not a scammer. I still declined. What happened? Is she a ghost?[/QUOTE]In my experience if they get banned then the messages disappear, SA seems to destroy them. So my guess is that is what happened.
[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;6051444]Once on Bumble a young woman asked me if I was looking for a SB? And then went silent!
On those sites I think it's free if both parties match otherwise you can pay to see who has viewed your profile![/QUOTE]I date chicks the regular way too and have had some success with Tinder / Bumble / Hinge. They are harder work but can be worthwhile. I pay for premium on those too. As an older guy you will have an uphill battle trying to score hot young chicks with the limits of the free versions.
[QUOTE=Gentleman70;6041465]She is very legit. And very real. I see her regularly when I can. She does talk a lot and into cars. Drives a Camaro that she loves. She's good to go.[/QUOTE]That's good to know she's real! I would have def passed that one by as fake.
G'ville is so far out there though. This give me hope that there could be some better Raleigh locals. Keep posting any other real finds, and I'll do the same once I find something noteworthy.
Any intel?
Started having great convos with most of these girls, and then they die on me. With read messages, not sure if they can't keep up with juggling messages or already found an arrangement. If anyone has met one or more of them, maybe I'll continue to message or try again before blocking.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bed0492b-0810-4205-b587-69a3189dc6d0[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ff3094f-6f20-4678-a3c2-d286762d32a7[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9433b918-59d5-4f03-95f1-84f142b4748b[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/194eb798-4517-4e74-8369-793cbd587e8f[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bdcef2d6-8b80-460f-a14d-219b31d64563[/URL]
I've have had scammers block me once we start chatting off line. I'm sure that's to prevent you from reporting them once you realize it's a scam. The more important thing here is that you're not convinced this POS was scamming you. If she asks for money before meeting, it's 99.7% chance it's a scam. You knew well enough to decline sending money but, if that's the case, why do you still want to communicate? There are 10 scammers for every 1 real person on SA. When I know it's a scam, I get them off line and block them first. Doesn't do any good to report them unless they mention sex or money in the DMs on the site. You have to provide evidence they broke the the rules. They all have multiple accounts going at once so, it's like "wack-a-mole" trying to get rid of them. I have only chatted with one girl that wanted a "deposit" but had confirmed reviews. She was legit but good and bad feedback, including "no show" after deposit.
[QUOTE=Hiamey;6051990]The SB I've been
communicating with on SA completely vanished. Even the messages from my inbox with her are gone. Usually when a SB deactivates or is booted off the site, the messages still stay in my inbox.
Here's what happened. I contacted a potential SB. We took the convo off site because she left her number. After communicating offsite for a while, she wanted money for groceries and feminine stuff. To which I declined. Next she sent a pic of her drivers license to say she's not a scammer. I still declined. What happened? Is she a ghost?[/QUOTE]
Haven't met or chatted with any of these. The accounts are been around for a while except #4 (too new to pursue). But if you look at their last activity, if it's a week old or longer, they are going to be slow communicators and not extremely motivated. Also note, when they go days without checking in, they'll have hundreds messages to sift through. It's a numbers game, blast it to multiple chicks and see what sticks.
[QUOTE=Acruza;6053832]Any intel?
Started having great convos with most of these girls, and then they die on me. With read messages, not sure if they can't keep up with juggling messages or already found an arrangement. If anyone has met one or more of them, maybe I'll continue to message or try again before blocking.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bed0492b-0810-4205-b587-69a3189dc6d0[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ff3094f-6f20-4678-a3c2-d286762d32a7[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9433b918-59d5-4f03-95f1-84f142b4748b[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/194eb798-4517-4e74-8369-793cbd587e8f[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bdcef2d6-8b80-460f-a14d-219b31d64563[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Acruza;6053832]Any intel?
Started having great convos with most of these girls, and then they die on me. With read messages, not sure if they can't keep up with juggling messages or already found an arrangement. If anyone has met one or more of them, maybe I'll continue to message or try again before blocking.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bed0492b-0810-4205-b587-69a3189dc6d0[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ff3094f-6f20-4678-a3c2-d286762d32a7[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9433b918-59d5-4f03-95f1-84f142b4748b[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/194eb798-4517-4e74-8369-793cbd587e8f[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bdcef2d6-8b80-460f-a14d-219b31d64563[/URL][/QUOTE]Met the last one on your list (Kate) a few years ago, so can confirm she is real and pics are accurate. She is very beautiful and has an awesome little body. Unfortunately for me, I like more of a GFE and she was pretty robotic and not really into it.
[QUOTE=Acruza;6053832]Any intel?
Started having great convos with most of these girls, and then they die on me. With read messages, not sure if they can't keep up with juggling messages or already found an arrangement. If anyone has met one or more of them, maybe I'll continue to message or try again before blocking.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bed0492b-0810-4205-b587-69a3189dc6d0[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ff3094f-6f20-4678-a3c2-d286762d32a7[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9433b918-59d5-4f03-95f1-84f142b4748b[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/194eb798-4517-4e74-8369-793cbd587e8f[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bdcef2d6-8b80-460f-a14d-219b31d64563[/URL][/QUOTE]The second one is real. Met her through another sb. Not my taste and can't comment on how much fun she is, but she is 100% legit.
Do not try this one. Asks for money up front, doesn't have a cell phone, doesn't reply for hours, weighs about 75 pounds!
Seriously you have been warned.
Goes by Nikki33 in Wake Forest.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/af5ab62a-9201-421a-a676-a44ae89204d9[/URL]
Has anyone had had experience with these ladies. PM with any info.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0b45c86e-ac1b-488c-98db-9af79d779f2b[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d415cbb4-eafa-4529-95ea-b79dc48348d1[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/03dbf920-6905-458d-b0e3-aa50a88f7b25[/URL]
Any intel on the below SB. Moved fairly quick and exchanged numbers. Pretty good comms and set a date. Now, there is radio silence when I asked her for $. Thank you in advance.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5f404f95-c897-4321-8409-8c72f0aadf65[/URL]
[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;6058306]Has anyone had had experience with these ladies. PM with any info.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0b45c86e-ac1b-488c-98db-9af79d779f2b[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d415cbb4-eafa-4529-95ea-b79dc48348d1[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/03dbf920-6905-458d-b0e3-aa50a88f7b25[/URL][/QUOTE]I no longer have an account there so I can't see the profile, but if "Addison" is a blonde chick who lives in Cary then Avoid. She is not real and will go out of "her" way to waste your time (and money if you're foolish enough to send any in advance).
She didn't get me for my money thankfully but I did lose out on 2+ hours of the day driving to meet them in public just to be blocked on snapchat and on SA. After which I had to take my sorry ass back home with nothing to show for it. She even texted me all the way to me arriving at the location. Waiting until I told her I got there to block me. Likely a troll account that gets off on wasting our time.
Just an FYI her accounts on SA get banned all the time. I know this because when I was on there I used to always see a new account with the same picture pop up every week or two with a similar name; so I'm clearly not the only guy to deal with her. Report her on sight.
[QUOTE=Itsaparadise;6058398]Any intel on the below SB. Moved fairly quick and exchanged numbers. Pretty good comms and set a date. Now, there is radio silence when I asked her for $. Thank you in advance.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5f404f95-c897-4321-8409-8c72f0aadf65[/URL][/QUOTE]Dude those pics look so foreign and fake. You have to recognize that there could be something off there and proceed with caution.
I would take note to the area code of # she sent. If it's local try to look it up. If it's out of area then it's prolly a fake.
Asked for upfront expenses. And was insulted I compared her to a Nigerian scammer. Don't waste your time.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/be8575f6-4d11-44c1-bbb9-9d4e4128974f[/URL]
[QUOTE=Itsaparadise;6058398]Any intel on the below SB. Moved fairly quick and exchanged numbers. Pretty good comms and set a date. Now, there is radio silence when I asked her for $. Thank you in advance.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5f404f95-c897-4321-8409-8c72f0aadf65[/URL][/QUOTE]We met for a drink after a similar experience but I never asked about money. I found her narcissistic, abrasive and condescending so called it a night and didn't proceed but I can at least verify that she's a real person. I wouldn't be too sad about her disappearance though, consider it a blessing.
[QUOTE=WpbDude;6056838]Do not try this one. Asks for money up front, doesn't have a cell phone, doesn't reply for hours, weighs about 75 pounds!
Seriously you have been warned.
Goes by Nikki33 in Wake Forest.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/af5ab62a-9201-421a-a676-a44ae89204d9[/URL][/QUOTE]Second that. Big waste of time.
[QUOTE=Banger12;6060016]Dude those pics look so foreign and fake. You have to recognize that there could be something off there and proceed with caution.
I would take note to the area code of # she sent. If it's local try to look it up. If it's out of area then it's prolly a fake.[/QUOTE]Actually, pics are 100% real. I've met her.
[QUOTE=Banger12;6060016]Dude those pics look so foreign and fake. You have to recognize that there could be something off there and proceed with caution.
I would take note to the area code of # she sent. If it's local try to look it up. If it's out of area then it's prolly a fake.[/QUOTE]She's also French so good eye.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/65e95f8e-7e60-4a84-be51-7c2d6f89140a[/URL]
Lives in Holly Springs and wanted 5 for me to drive to her. I countered with 3 and she said okay.
She never asked me my name or asked to see my pictures so I'm not actually going to see her.
[QUOTE=Itsaparadise;6058398] radio silence when I asked her for $.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=GentleGiant78;6060176]We met for a drink after a similar experience but I never asked about money. [/QUOTE]Pretty sure her ploy is to avoid talking about $ until right before the deed and then pretend she just realized you forgot to talk about it, then start negotiating while your little head is in control. Best counter is to only have your max amount on you.
[QUOTE=Banger12;6061758][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/65e95f8e-7e60-4a84-be51-7c2d6f89140a[/URL]
Lives in Holly Springs and wanted 5 for me to drive to her. I countered with 3 and she said okay.
She never asked me my name or asked to see my pictures so I'm not actually going to see her.[/QUOTE]I've come to believe that when they don't put a city in their profile they are usually a scammer. Not saying this one is, just my experience on the site. They are either fake, or want money upfront and will more than likely not show for the meeting. Just my $0. 02 worth.
Things I think are red flags:
Recent member date.
General state location not city.
99+ Wishlist.
1 Picture or 1 picture that hides a face, tricky because some girls might just only care to post one pic, ideally I rather see one pic and a ton of private pics.
No about me or seeking description.
Pictures that look TGTBT.
Them favoriting you first.
Pic with a blurred face could be a scammer trying to make it look like they are being cautious by having their fake picture's face blurred.
SN: Never send money before meeting, feel for that trick once even after adding someone on snap, everything checked out even pics sent to me, and I made that mistake.
Sometimes someone could be real with all of the above, but just my thoughts of red flags.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5712913d-5e8f-44ae-9d75-e7c71c60a83d[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/09ede96d-f475-4d04-8b6d-51e83070c8ed[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/41252a09-4c3c-4c5d-83c9-f89642378039[/URL]
Anyone talk to the three above, never got a reply from them.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e39059d7-94e1-499c-b4ef-3c63734a7c7d[/URL]
Talked to her seems real lives with parents, and doesn't mind PPM to monthly allowance.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1bbf8a74-8c53-4e15-ae7d-c0f021137f21[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bed0492b-0810-4205-b587-69a3189dc6d0[/URL]
Talked these two above a bit and then they stopped responding, seems real and just busy or overwhelmed with the site or doesn't check often.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/04be4baa-a779-4514-ab14-d0e42e4afaba[/URL]
Talked to her in the past, I think I saw a review on here maybe even on an escort site, but once I asked if she hosted I got blocked on her other account.
Very transactional speaking.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9ee60282-df5e-41fb-89bc-3690df6be665[/URL]
I've seen this one post on either tryst / eros and a few accts on SA and WYP, any one ever met her before?
Any intel on these below, was going to message next?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a4d7b697-f1f5-437e-a2f8-cbe4a45bf59c[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a78b78ab-3ba2-438f-90b1-66eb266d346c[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/842411ae-2430-4908-9fc0-cdf7ae6094c5[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/63e3b3cf-4c26-45bb-a952-199291766a76[/URL]
[QUOTE=Banger12;6061758][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/65e95f8e-7e60-4a84-be51-7c2d6f89140a[/URL]
Lives in Holly Springs and wanted 5 for me to drive to her. I countered with 3 and she said okay.
She never asked me my name or asked to see my pictures so I'm not actually going to see her.[/QUOTE]You dodged a bullet. I drove to her, she met me outside her apartment complex and got in my car with door open and demanded money upfront I refused, she wouldn't leave til I gave her money. Finally paid $50 so she would leave. She is a robber, hope karma gets her soon.
https://members.seeking.com/member/04be4baa-a779-4514-ab14-d0e42e4afaba
Chatted with this one for a couple of weeks (if you want to call it chat). The night I was in town, she could. Only meet after 9:30 pm. That's not too late for me but I lined up another that could meet earlier. Ended up asking if she wanted to meet in the am around 9 at my hotel. Agreed to three $ (and she didn't put up and fight, which raises flags usually). I over slept cause I was up late with the other one but she did text the next morning to see if we were. So may be real but, as mentioned, comms are. Short and direct. Very transactionional so that, more than anything scared me off. Oh yeah, I asked for a picture that wasn't on Seeking and her reply was "nope". If she's real, I can't believe she's any fun.
[QUOTE=Acruza;6062977]Things I think are red flags:
Recent member date.
General state location not city.
99+ Wishlist.
1 Picture or 1 picture that hides a face, tricky because some girls might just only care to post one pic, ideally I rather see one pic and a ton of private pics.
No about me or seeking description.
Pictures that look TGTBT.
Them favoriting you first.
Pic with a blurred face could be a scammer trying to make it look like they are being cautious by having their fake picture's face blurred.
SN: Never send money before meeting, feel for that trick once even after adding someone on snap, everything checked out even pics sent to me, and I made that mistake.
Sometimes someone could be real with all of the above, but just my thoughts of red flags.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5712913d-5e8f-44ae-9d75-e7c71c60a83d[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/09ede96d-f475-4d04-8b6d-51e83070c8ed[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/41252a09-4c3c-4c5d-83c9-f89642378039[/URL]
Anyone talk to the three above, never got a reply from them.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e39059d7-94e1-499c-b4ef-3c63734a7c7d[/URL]
Talked to her seems real lives with parents, and doesn't mind PPM to monthly allowance.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1bbf8a74-8c53-4e15-ae7d-c0f021137f21[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bed0492b-0810-4205-b587-69a3189dc6d0[/URL]
Talked these two above a bit and then they stopped responding, seems real and just busy or overwhelmed with the site or doesn't check often.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/04be4baa-a779-4514-ab14-d0e42e4afaba[/URL]
Talked to her in the past, I think I saw a review on here maybe even on an escort site, but once I asked if she hosted I got blocked on her other account.
Very transactional speaking.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9ee60282-df5e-41fb-89bc-3690df6be665[/URL]
I've seen this one post on either tryst / eros and a few accts on SA and WYP, any one ever met her before?
Any intel on these below, was going to message next?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a4d7b697-f1f5-437e-a2f8-cbe4a45bf59c[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a78b78ab-3ba2-438f-90b1-66eb266d346c[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/842411ae-2430-4908-9fc0-cdf7ae6094c5[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/63e3b3cf-4c26-45bb-a952-199291766a76[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=GutterMind4;6066057]https://members.seeking.com/member/04be4baa-a779-4514-ab14-d0e42e4afaba
Chatted with this one for a couple of weeks (if you want to call it chat). The night I was in town, she could. Only meet after 9:30 pm. That's not too late for me but I lined up another that could meet earlier. Ended up asking if she wanted to meet in the am around 9 at my hotel. Agreed to three $ (and she didn't put up and fight, which raises flags usually). I over slept cause I was up late with the other one but she did text the next morning to see if we were. So may be real but, as mentioned, comms are. Short and direct. Very transactionional so that, more than anything scared me off. Oh yeah, I asked for a picture that wasn't on Seeking and her reply was "nope". If she's real, I can't believe she's any fun.[/QUOTE]She's real, she's fun and $300 is her usual PPM. I've been with her twice but while friendly there's still some distance so I moved on.
[QUOTE=Galleydude;6063666]You dodged a bullet. I drove to her, she met me outside her apartment complex and got in my car with door open and demanded money upfront I refused, she wouldn't leave til I gave her money. Finally paid $50 so she would leave. She is a robber, hope karma gets her soon.[/QUOTE]I had this happen with a different girl. I did what a cop friend told me to do: say you're going to call the cops, then do it. When she saw me starting to dial, she got up and left.
This only works if you're not wanted for anything, because if you do end up calling the cops will come and ask questions.
[QUOTE=LikesGirls;6066756]She's real, she's fun and $300 is her usual PPM. I've been with her twice but while friendly there's still some distance so I moved on.[/QUOTE]She is not for me. Heavy smoker who hot boxes right before she meets. Literally walked in and started stripping down. No connection at all and I legit said no thanks and she left.
Any information on this one will be appreciated. She appears legit but she's asking for a deposit. Which I refused.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4a4ce9a7-afb9-48a4-9952-5dce545790c8[/URL]
[QUOTE=Svt4628;6068030]She is not for me. Heavy smoker who hot boxes right before she meets. Literally walked in and started stripping down. No connection at all and I legit said no thanks and she left.[/QUOTE]It's been a while, but had a similar experience. She hot, but not really that into it and I don't do smokers.
[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;6049976]Since the owner keeps raising the price and the number of POTS keeps going down. When I started in 2015 used to communicate with many women but it has been downhill ever since.
Their price is inversely related to the the number of real POTS![/QUOTE]As the title states, I have years of hobby experience but a newbie to this board. Surprised to see that there's not much success on SB site. It's been my goto site for the last few years and I typically have success meeting young 20 something coeds on a ppm basis. Now define success. It's like baseball imo, so I would say I'm a league leader batting. 350 or so LOL. One of the things I really like most is the verification video. I am pickier when it comes to a SB compared to a SW so this eliminates some for me. Typically, the ladies don't get dolled up to post the 5 sec video saying "let me be your secret" and you get a realistic glimpse of how they will look after the 2nd visit (they all get comfortable and start visiting in sweats and no makeup). My goto range is typically 300-400 ppm although I paid 500 once to a young Latina waitress that I recognized on the site (S. American and redheads are my weakness).
Couple Things I Have Learned:
1. Is 500 the new 300? Often hear a starting point of 5 but more are holding firm there.
2. I actually prefer ladies / bots that reach out 1st. Respond back quick and you have better odds. It's a numbers game and I want the early at bats.
3. With that said, always expect a con or BS and do not give money before meeting. I don't mind buying lunch as I personally want to see who I'm dealing with.
4. I typically ignore the one's whose profile mentions travel, passports, arm candy or lifestyles. Definitely not what I'm looking for.
5. I do look for words like NSA, FWB, assistance, mutual and sexy. I love a lady that calls herself sexy.
6. I try not to bring up $ until meeting for lunch / coffee. If they bring it up quickly, they are either high dollar or anxious to meet. I can work with knowing that.
7. Set expectations of frequency of visits, texting, and calling before leaving the 1st visit. They often don't even follow but there's also time you will want to know, too. Believe me, there's one out there that will have you consider breaking your own rules LOL.
Here's a couple of recent ones I'm in contact with.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/662c86a2be983260[/URL]
Chatted for a few days then met 400 ppm. Wouldn't budge on her ppm but was dtf from the start. Lives in Gboro but drive to my place in Raleigh.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/18e5eb94be627dc0[/URL]
Met several times over the last year at 400 ppm. Very fun sexually but her life drama will have her stand you up.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/fa5cd035a1f161cd[/URL]
Just started chatting for a few days on-site. Will update.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a60cbf7543666909[/URL]
Been texting off site for over week. Plans to meet for lunch in couple days, we will see.
[QUOTE=AkaToneloc;6069118]As the title states, I have years of hobby experience but a newbie to this board. Surprised to see that there's not much success on SB site. It's been my goto site for the last few years and I typically have success meeting young 20 something coeds on a ppm basis. Now define success. It's like baseball imo, so I would say I'm a league leader batting. 350 or so LOL. One of the things I really like most is the verification video. I am pickier when it comes to a SB compared to a SW so this eliminates some for me. Typically, the ladies don't get dolled up to post the 5 sec video saying "let me be your secret" and you get a realistic glimpse of how they will look after the 2nd visit (they all get comfortable and start visiting in sweats and no makeup). My goto range is typically 300-400 ppm although I paid 500 once to a young Latina waitress that I recognized on the site (S. American and redheads are my weakness).
[/QUOTE]Can vouch for everything in this post. SB can be really good if you navigate it right.
This biggest piece of advice I can give for the site relates to their credits currency. They're stupidly overpriced, BUT there's a couple ways to save money long-term:
- Buy the cheapest credit package when you start. When you're almost out, the site will give you up to 1000 free credits if you buy more.
- Their support will throw credits at you to make you keep your account. I've gotten 2000 free credits just by pretending to ask for my account to be deleted.
- Spend credits on nothing more than unlocking messages. The secret photos are almost never worth paying what amounts to $5 for access, so just don't.