Arrangement Reports

Hi everyone.

Thank you all for the valuable information and advice. FruitNinja, Jasse1 and TheMidwestExec have especially been helpful for orientation. I'm looking forward to getting started!

It sounds like the following are important: 1) prepaid VISA to pay for membership 2) burner phone for privacy 3) some way to deal with self photos.

I've come across a few methods on these forums for dealing with self photos: 1) use Badoo to find a look-a-like photo 2) use one real photo, that is not on any social media site, keep it private, and only show it once you are in communication with a SB 3) use a real photo, make it public, but blur your face. In any case, it sounds like once you are in communication with a SB over text or app (such as Kik), then it is okay to send a couple real photos. Am I summarizing this correctly? Any other tips for maximizing privacy, while still being effective on the site?

What do you all normally use to book a hotel while maintaining privacy? Do you use a pseudonym?

Thanks again for all these value-packed posts.

Incidentally, a while back I randomly met a girl at a bar in the city. During conversation she mentioned her "friend" is on SA. A few days later, we went on a date for drinks. She came clean and said it isn't her "friend", but herself that is on the site. Even more recently, about six months ago, I met another girl at a late-night bar, and again it came up in conversation that she is on SA. This girl was cute, but kind of a mess, and we didn't hook up. But it goes to show how many girls are signed up! Quite amazing.

[QUOTE=Bamboo99;3899438]

Incidentally, a while back I randomly met a girl at a bar in the city. During conversation she mentioned her "friend" is on SA. A few days later, we went on a date for drinks. She came clean and said it isn't her "friend", but herself that is on the site. Even more recently, about six months ago, I met another girl at a late-night bar, and again it came up in conversation that she is on SA. This girl was cute, but kind of a mess, and we didn't hook up. But it goes to show how many girls are signed up! Quite amazing.[/QUOTE]Often, the way to other girls is through the ones you meet on the site. I've never had a SB that didn't say something along the lines of [I]"do you know some other guys that might be interested in meeting my friend?"[/I] I'm thinking like, "Yeah. [B]Me[/B]".

[QUOTE=EricLex;3782765]Gents, beware. There is a cutie girl on SA by the name Rosalove24. I never thought I'd get hit with something like this, but I'm a victim of attempted extortion.

Fellas, be aware that you're meeting girls you never have met before. After this experience, I don't know how to proceed on SA or whether I'd like to engage in any of this at all. Gauge the texts, see for yourself, and just try to be careful. I've got to deal with this now.

I can't view her profile anymore since I reported her through SA (it automatically blocks the person upon report), so this is the only picture from her profile that I could get. I won't be surprised if she already deleted her profile/blocked me. I'm sick to my stomach right now.


https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/961cc944-427c-412d-8c74-87c4fc4977b2[/QUOTE]Not really here to point fingers but there is a resemblance there.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f6e7ba22-32ae-4b72-be3f-39701c197fdf[/URL]

[QUOTE=ChicagoGoer;3900948]Not really here to point fingers but there is a resemblance there.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f6e7ba22-32ae-4b72-be3f-39701c197fdf[/URL][/QUOTE]Same chick who tried extorting anyone she met up with. You should steer clear unless you want to put up with that.

I have been messaging this one: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/956794fc-bce5-4a4d-9852-c4c940cd5423[/URL].

Anyone have experience with her? Her profile says "If you think that you will be giving gifts or monies in exchange for sex, you are mistaken. I am looking for a legitimate connection!" Is that a psychological defense mechanism against the reality of the situation? Or should I stop messaging her? My profile makes it clear that I'm looking for something casual and implies NSA sex without actually saying it.

A couple of girls have asked, "tell me a little more about yourself. " How do you answer that? My profile is fairly complete, playful, and clear. I'm thinking the girls want to know standard small-talk type information, for their comfort, which is totally fine. Or am I missing something here?

[QUOTE=EricLex;3900981]Same chick who tried extorting anyone she met up with. You should steer clear unless you want to put up with that.[/QUOTE]But did you meet with her and besides the extortion was she worth it?

[QUOTE=Samath2624;3898372][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/407cf22a-8b7c-4488-9cb9-cf85534cb346[/URL]

Was Looking at this further and her last location was Latvia. I'm a bit new to this scene, but isn't that a red flag? Especially on a fairly new profile?

Happy to learn more about the significance of this.[/QUOTE]The changing location may be because she's using SA as a phone app. Unless you turn it off, the app reports back your location to HQ, and then it's shown in the profile.

[QUOTE=AlMelrose;3901110]But did you meet with her and besides the extortion was she worth it?[/QUOTE]I don't understand how you can ask that, given the intel I provided on her already.

No she wasn't worth it, and no I wouldn't even think of seeing her again. She will extort you, and she is a sociopath. I am not exaggerating. Do as you please, though.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8488689f-2118-42c4-85a5-0c45c98a5b93[/URL]

This one claims to be Jo Jo Kiss, and in town for 3 weeks. Asking $400 per hour, but $200 up front. Told her nothing up front, and she squaked at that saying too many no shows. I think she is full of shit with stolen pics off web. Has anybody else risked the plunge and it really is her? I totally doubt it, but never hurts to ask. In the highly unlikely case it is, it would be a bargain because Jo Jo Kiss is very fucking hot. Thanks.

[QUOTE=BudLover99;3902289][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8488689f-2118-42c4-85a5-0c45c98a5b93[/URL]

This one claims to be Jo Jo Kiss, and in town for 3 weeks. Asking $400 per hour, but $200 up front. Told her nothing up front, and she squaked at that saying too many no shows. I think she is full of shit with stolen pics off web. Has anybody else risked the plunge and it really is her? I totally doubt it, but never hurts to ask. In the highly unlikely case it is, it would be a bargain because Jo Jo Kiss is very fucking hot. Thanks.[/QUOTE]She messaged me but I doidn't reply. If you send her $ you can kiss it goodbye.

[QUOTE=FruitNinja;3902637]She messaged me but I doidn't reply. If you send her $ you can kiss it goodbye.[/QUOTE]Yep Totally agree. Where did she tell you she was hosting? Just curious. Because she told me it was really close to me.

[QUOTE=FruitNinja;3902637]She messaged me but I doidn't reply. If you send her $ you can kiss it goodbye.[/QUOTE]Never mind. You were smart enough to not even reply. Duh.

[QUOTE=BudLover99;3902753]Yep Totally agree. Where did she tell you she was hosting? Just curious. Because she told me it was really close to me.[/QUOTE]I never engaged. I was just commenting about sending money. Money up front in this game is not a good idea.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2429a8bd-9e0d-4594-ac87-57766dc55a6d[/URL]

"Hey there!! Are you interested in a short term arrangement? I live in Chicago the next 2 weeks before I move out to CA so I'm looking to have some mutually beneficial FWB fun in exchange for gifts / allowance. I enjoy red wine, nature, travel, fine dining, spa days, and trying new things Does this interest you at all?

That was her message to me. I have no interest nor did I engage. But her message is that she's DTF. If anyone's interested. I make no guarantees.

Anyone have experience here?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e5d595d6-2085-4a09-9e05-1b9e05227c0a[/URL]

Post says 21 yo and she could be, but messages and profile indicate she is a not looking for anything committed.