"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[QUOTE=ColoHobbyist;6412763]Exactly. This is the way.

Truth is, if I find a girl where we click, that's obviously the goal. But if it's not good, generally the worst case is I've had a nice meal with some pleasant (or at least visually pleasing) company.

If it's going horribly off the rails, I can usually tell well before food is ordered. I've definitely dropped a Ulysses or Benjamin with the waiter and bailed, but that's been a couple or three times in almost a decade of playing this game. On the other hand, I've found myself having an unplanned (and unpaid) after dinner tryst far more frequently and I say that as a fat, middle-aged, guy who's primary charms are humor, knowledge, and manners.[/QUOTE]Agree with 100% of what you said, If you drop $80 for a lunch & another $250 for a couple hours of banging a mid 20's coed bareback then it's a great investment. Even if the $80 lunch / dinner only works half the time. My first date off of SA I took there, she never asked for money, my first anal experience, my first strange in over 25 years, woke me up with a BBBJ to completion which was the first in several years for me, one of the reasons why I now look for bbbj to completion.

This was my favorite spot in Savannah when I lived there, the booths were great as it was very private plus very upscale. I took around 20 girls to this place over 3 years, & only struck out once.

[URL]https://www.yelp.com/biz_photos/tangerine-fusion-sushi-bar-savannah[/URL]

[QUOTE=TylerDurden07;6412732][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9542c322-f72b-4690-97d7-f149ebe57bcb[/URL]

Great conversation so far. Great pics too. Pretty agreeable on allowance. Still, something seems off. Like, you can only text her in the morning. Anytime after that, any texts I send are not delivered. Then, the next morning, the process repeats itself. We're supposed to meet next Sat, but my spidey senses are activated.

Anyone have experience with her?[/QUOTE]Just meet her for coffee, check Id, over 18 off to fuck city.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/075bd0a7-d47b-49a8-8d7f-d8ee08c47e02[/URL]

Scammer, avoid.

I talked to her under a different profile a little while back and my spidey senses were activated as well. The language in this profile is pretty much the same as I remember it to be in the other. So right off the bat she's lying about being new to this. I recall in one conversation she said she had just gotten back from her first meet up from the site. They went to dinner and shopping. After a while she stopped responding to my texts after I tried to set up a meeting. Maybe keep the meeting on the books and keep talking just to see what happens. Hopefully you've asked to meet in a public location first.

[QUOTE=TylerDurden07;6412732][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9542c322-f72b-4690-97d7-f149ebe57bcb[/URL]

Great conversation so far. Great pics too. Pretty agreeable on allowance. Still, something seems off. Like, you can only text her in the morning. Anytime after that, any texts I send are not delivered. Then, the next morning, the process repeats itself. We're supposed to meet next Sat, but my spidey senses are activated.

Anyone have experience with her?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SeekingHead;6412891]Agree with 100% of what you said, If you drop $80 for a lunch & another $250 for a couple hours of banging a mid 20's coed bareback then it's a great investment. Even if the $80 lunch / dinner only works half the time. My first date off of SA I took there, she never asked for money, my first anal experience, my first strange in over 25 years, woke me up with a BBBJ to completion which was the first in several years for me, one of the reasons why I now look for bbbj to completion.

This was my favorite spot in Savannah when I lived there, the booths were great as it was very private plus very upscale. I took around 20 girls to this place over 3 years, & only struck out once.

[URL]https://www.yelp.com/biz_photos/tangerine-fusion-sushi-bar-savannah[/URL][/QUOTE]Nothing wrong with a lunch date instead of a simple coffee date and it can payoff vs paying $10 for coffee. I've been high dollar dinner scammed a few times so I avoid the "expensive dinner date" requests on a first meeting. Alot of girls on vanilla dating apps do the dinner scam crap too I've read so it's pretty common.

[QUOTE=LouisHernandez;6413826] Alot of girls on vanilla dating apps do the dinner scam crap too I've read so it's pretty common.[/QUOTE]I assume you're referring to the scam where they choose a restaurant that they are in cahoots with and run up a massive tab?

I never let them choose the place. I have had some go so far as to even make a reservation at a place without talking to me about where we're going, but of maybe three times that's ever happened that I can recall, I just politely said I had already chosen a place and met them at that place instead. But it's worth mentioning that the girl should never be allowed to choose the place, just to be safe. Her friend could work there and if nothing else convey your real name if you pay with CC (I recommend cash).

About the closest I've gotten to a dinner scam is maybe every now and then a girl orders an extra side that she knows she won't eat at the table so she can have some food to go. I'm not going to complain about another $11 or whatever in the quest for pussy.

[QUOTE=OliverNP;6414226]I assume you're referring to the scam where they choose a restaurant that they are in cahoots with and run up a massive tab?

I never let them choose the place. I have had some go so far as to even make a reservation at a place without talking to me about where we're going, but of maybe three times that's ever happened that I can recall, I just politely said I had already chosen a place and met them at that place instead. But it's worth mentioning that the girl should never be allowed to choose the place, just to be safe. Her friend could work there and if nothing else convey your real name if you pay with CC (I recommend cash).

About the closest I've gotten to a dinner scam is maybe every now and then a girl orders an extra side that she knows she won't eat at the table so she can have some food to go. I'm not going to complain about another $11 or whatever in the quest for pussy.[/QUOTE]I don't know about any kind of scam, but a common tactic for some SBs and also girls on vanilla dating sites is called "rinsing. " A "rinser" is basically just looking to rinse as many guys as she can for free dinners / drinks etc without ever putting out. One of the big reasons I do coffee or drinks and usually avoid a full dinner on the first date is it automatically filters out the rinsers. Rinsers have a lot in common with wannabe insta models and influencers. Of course, if you're charming enough a girl who had planned on rinsing you may end up going to bed with you, but that's a low odds game.

I also get the feeling, and this is completely just a guess based on the patterns I've seen doing this over a year, but I suspect rinsing has become slightly less common and most rinsers have moved to trying to get SDs to pay for content instead. That's just speculation on my part.

[QUOTE=GoneForGood97;6414385]I don't know about any kind of scam, but a common tactic for some SBs and also girls on vanilla dating sites is called "rinsing. " A "rinser" is basically just looking to rinse as many guys as she can for free dinners / drinks etc without ever putting out. One of the big reasons I do coffee or drinks and usually avoid a full dinner on the first date is it automatically filters out the rinsers. Rinsers have a lot in common with wannabe insta models and influencers. Of course, if you're charming enough a girl who had planned on rinsing you may end up going to bed with you, but that's a low odds game.

I also get the feeling, and this is completely just a guess based on the patterns I've seen doing this over a year, but I suspect rinsing has become slightly less common and most rinsers have moved to trying to get SDs to pay for content instead. That's just speculation on my part.[/QUOTE]Yes rinsers. And correct never let them choose where to eat. I think sticking to lunch is a safe play. Plus I have more energy during the day for festivities later on if I get lucky.

[QUOTE=DudeNextDoor;6413449]I talked to her under a different profile a little while back and my spidey senses were activated as well. The language in this profile is pretty much the same as I remember it to be in the other. So right off the bat she's lying about being new to this. I recall in one conversation she said she had just gotten back from her first meet up from the site. They went to dinner and shopping. After a while she stopped responding to my texts after I tried to set up a meeting. Maybe keep the meeting on the books and keep talking just to see what happens. Hopefully you've asked to meet in a public location first.[/QUOTE]Pretty sure she's a scammer. Talked to her on other profile as well. Then she disappeared and showed up in California. If you notice the UGA photo does not resemble the other pics. Before she'd swapped out the UGA pic with a University Southern Cal pic. She wants to meet up on Sunday so I'll play along.

Anyone seen her before? We made contact and hopefully if things work out might end up seeing her. She seems legit, but early to get meet asap. I just don't know.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0713ee3e-e0bf-4437-9f96-99a1fc367eb5[/URL]

[QUOTE=Hits79;6414629]Anyone seen her before? We made contact and hopefully if things work out might end up seeing her. She seems legit, but early to get meet asap. I just don't know.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0713ee3e-e0bf-4437-9f96-99a1fc367eb5[/URL][/QUOTE]Dayyum she looks great, cute little hoodrat just be careful if she is legit. Like she seems like she knows bunch of thugs idk possibly jump you when why'all together or something.

[QUOTE=CarmelFight;6414639]Dayyum she looks great, cute little hoodrat just be careful if she is legit. Like she seems like she knows bunch of thugs idk possibly jump you when why'all together or something.[/QUOTE]I leave the little cute hoodrat fantasies to just that. Fantasies -for the exact reasons you state.

[QUOTE=LouisHernandez;6415095]I leave the little cute hoodrat fantasies to just that. Fantasies -for the exact reasons you state.[/QUOTE]Messing around with the hoodrats is a good way to get robbed or dead.

[QUOTE=DudeNextDoor;6413449]I talked to her under a different profile a little while back and my spidey senses were activated as well. The language in this profile is pretty much the same as I remember it to be in the other. So right off the bat she's lying about being new to this. I recall in one conversation she said she had just gotten back from her first meet up from the site. They went to dinner and shopping. After a while she stopped responding to my texts after I tried to set up a meeting. Maybe keep the meeting on the books and keep talking just to see what happens. Hopefully you've asked to meet in a public location first.[/QUOTE]We'll see how it goes. I have serious doubts she's real, but nothing ventured nothing gained. At least she hasn't asked for an advance so I'm only out time & nothing else.

With you, the OP, and myself, that makes 3 of us that she's meeting on Saturday. Plus the guy who is scheduled for Sunday. She's going to be a busy girl this weekend. I'm not sure what to make of it. The texting seems real. No sign of scam or GPS. I guess we're all waiting for the scam to reveal itself.

[QUOTE=TylerDurden07;6415352]We'll see how it goes. I have serious doubts she's real, but nothing ventured nothing gained. At least she hasn't asked for an advance so I'm only out time & nothing else.[/QUOTE]