[QUOTE=OcBeachGuy;2655267]Sorry if this is a dumb question but I've been lurking on this site for years and finally went to an AMP in Tustin a few days ago. I understand most are legit in that area so I was surprised when she removed the towel and worked on my ass for quite a while but not really teasing the boys (much to my dismay). She did however straddle my arms with her legs when working from the side. Also sat next to me on the table and put my leg in her lap for ass massage.
So did I blow it? No talk of extras, on flip same thing.
I didn't ask but is this a sign I should have picked up on?[/QUOTE]Maybe you did, maybe you didn't but either way don't get discouraged. This is the best hobby in the world and you will get the hang of it. I have been at it for a long time and made plenty of mistakes as I learned the ropes. Every monger has a different approach and a different skill set.
As others have mentioned, a quick massage of her leg followed by a little pat on her ass will tell you her intentions. If she moves away, no go. Enjoy the legit massage and don't go back. If she stays put and allows you to roam a little, you are on your way to a nice session. Once you have made it past the initial test, don't be bashful. I think a lot of guys are timid about asking for what they want. You need to gently take the lead and show her / tell her what you want. You may not get it but your odds are a hell of a lot better if you make your desires clear.
One last observation. You may have to go back a few times to a particular shop to get to the BBBJ or FS level. If the mamasan or provider views you as no threat (I. E. Not LE) they will usually be far more accommodating for you.