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Interesting. I sent you a PM with Cathy's info including the link to her website. Obviously, you didn't read all this information or go to her site. These questions are already answered there. If you had read her site you'll see where you can email her and she will answer you.

Today, at 10:30am you sent me a PM wanting me to introduce you to two SW's and how things with SW's work. An hour later you're back here wanting more info on Cathy. You don't even thank people for what they do yet you don't have a problem posting for information.

By glancing through your forum posts it appears as though you've been confronted on this before. You, in your own words, admitted to it. Information is a two-way street. You need to learn and practice that better.

[QUOTE=Cupin Dude; 1117242]Wow. Cathy must be something else.

So, who wants to give me details? Outcall? Multiple pops? Greek? Can she dt? Rules? Blah blah bla.

Feel free to pm or post here. Either is fine. What / who ever I end up dreaming about I will most definitely provide a full report.

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[QUOTE=Richmond Fotog; 1117406]Interesting. I sent you a PM with Cathy's info including the link to her website. Obviously, you didn't read all this information or go to her site. These questions are already answered there. If you had read her site you'll see where you can email her and she will answer you.

Today, at 10:30am you sent me a PM wanting me to introduce you to two SW's and how things with SW's work. An hour later you're back here wanting more info on Cathy. You don't even thank people for what they do yet you don't have a problem posting for information.

By glancing through your forum posts it appears as though you've been confronted on this before. You, in your own words, admitted to it. Information is a two-way street. You need to learn and practice that better. [/QUOTE]First of all, I can't very well share info on your town when I haven't been there yet, so I'm only half way down the " two way street". When I get the rest of the way I will gladly report back on my travel. (I already stated that in a previos post).

Second, the info you gave me, which I read, was very informative and I appreciate it, but did not answer the questions below. I would rather ask for info here first, instead of bombarding a (new to me) provider with 20 questions. That is, after all, part of what this forum is for.

Third, I Pm'd you info about a certain SW becouse I didn't think you would want to post that here for everyone to see. I don't think I'm the only one on here that likes both higher end pro's in the $$.5 range and also fancy's a good. 2 BJ from a lowend SW, so I'm not really sure why you called me out on that one.

And last but not least, I do in-fact "Thank people" if you scroll down and read my last few post you will see that most of them contain words like " thanks mongers" and "thank you Richmond" I am grateful for this site it helps everyone out. I am very thankful for members like yourself whou share very usefull info. I apreciate it. If you had asked me for info that I had, I would have gladly given it to you, but you didn't.

The longer I am on this forum, the more I learn. And one thing I have learned and "practice" is patience. So next time you get a wild hair up your ass and you think someone is out of line, try sending a PM to see if you are correct with your assumption before blasting them out in front of everyone.

Thank you.

[QUOTE=Cupin Dude; 1117465]First of all, I can't very well share info on your town when I haven't been there yet, so I'm only half way down the " two way street". When I get the rest of the way I will gladly report back on my travel. (I already stated that in a previos post).

Second, the info you gave me, which I read, was very informative and I appreciate it, but did not answer the questions below. I would rather ask for info here first, instead of bombarding a (new to me) provider with 20 questions. That is, after all, part of what this forum is for.

Third, I Pm'd you info about a certain SW becouse I didn't think you would want to post that here for everyone to see. I don't think I'm the only one on here that likes both higher end pro's in the $$.5 range and also fancy's a good. 2 BJ from a lowend SW, so I'm not really sure why you called me out on that one.

And last but not least, I do in-fact "Thank people" if you scroll down and read my last few post you will see that most of them contain words like " thanks mongers" and "thank you Richmond" I am grateful for this site it helps everyone out. I am very thankful for members like yourself whou share very usefull info. I apreciate it. If you had asked me for info that I had, I would have gladly given it to you, but you didn't.

The longer I am on this forum, the more I learn. And one thing I have learned and "practice" is patience. So next time you get a wild hair up your ass and you think someone is out of line, try sending a PM to see if you are correct with your assumption before blasting them out in front of everyone.

Thank you. [/QUOTE]Not to seem too critical, but I believe the correct metaphor is "wild hare up your ass!".

I requested info a few days ago on a young lady going by the name Laelonni. There was no response of any encounters so I decided to take a shot. Glad I did. She's no more than 5'2, very petite build, but a killer body. Looks like the fresh faced, innocent girl next door, but when she takes her clothes off she knocks your socks off. Decent CBJ and great cowgirl. She rides like her life depends on it.

Message me if you need more info, but her contact info are in the links below. I'm definitely going back for a second round.

[url]http://richmond.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/andgtfun-and-sexyandlt-21/4373324[/url]

[url]http://richmond.eroticmugshots.com/?pid=4317465&loc_id=343&city=richmond[/url]

[QUOTE=Big Virginian; 1118404]I requested info a few days ago on a young lady going by the name Laelonni. There was no response of any encounters so I decided to take a shot. Glad I did. She's no more than 5'2, very petite build, but a killer body. Looks like the fresh faced, innocent girl next door, but when she takes her clothes off she knocks your socks off. Decent CBJ and great cowgirl. She rides like her life depends on it.

Message me if you need more info, but her contact info are in the links below. I'm definitely going back for a second round.

[url]http://richmond.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/andgtfun-and-sexyandlt-21/4373324[/url]

[url]http://richmond.eroticmugshots.com/?pid=4317465&loc_id=343&city=richmond[/url]

[/QUOTE]She sure is cute but for that kind of money I would have to have mps and velvet hat trick. I love those little bits, but I need more than a little bit if kicking $$ or more for an hour. Just don't have it like that and rarely kick it like that when I do or have had it like that. Two cent's.

Happy Hunting

[QUOTE=Jimmyjams; 1118481]She sure is cute but for that kind of money I would have to have mps and velvet hat trick. I love those little bits, but I need more than a little bit if kicking $$ or more for an hour. Just don't have it like that and rarely kick it like that when I do or have had it like that. Two cent's.

Happy Hunting[/QUOTE]I only did the 1/2 hr for 120. I actually wish I had done the hr. I have a feeling that negotiation is possible, but it's just a feeling.

This add on BP features two girls, I think its may be or LE, or for sure bait in switch, the girl on the bottom is Tiffany

Star from Philly, I plan on doing some more research, if I'm wrong I will be sure to report back to you fellows and let you know. Like alway, have fun, be safe, but most of all watch your back.

Almost called Alice, [url]http://richmond.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/blonde-beauty-i-do-and-anything-else-27/4435239for[/url] The $ for 30, Can't always swing the $.5 most hot providers are asking. Did I miss te economy improve? I first did a Google search on the number, but I could not find any information. Anyone have any information on this one? It just doesn't seem right so be careful with this one.

[QUOTE=SettleDown; 1118934]This add on BP features two girls, I think its may be or LE, or for sure bait in switch, the girl on the bottom is Tiffany

Star from Philly, I plan on doing some more research, if I'm wrong I will be sure to report back to you fellows and let you know. Like alway, have fun, be safe, but most of all watch your back. [/QUOTE]

Looks like Alice removed her ad, but no fear, I copied it to keep the number for future reference. Please see attached WORD document. Stay Safe.

[QUOTE=Clitlicker2; 1119208]Almost called Alice,

[url]http://richmond.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/blonde-beauty-i-do-and-anything-else-27/4435239for[/url]

The $ for 30, Can't always swing the $.5 most hot providers are asking. Did I miss te economy improve? I first did a Google search on the number, but I could not find any information. Anyone have any information on this one? It just doesn't seem right so be careful with this one.[/QUOTE]

Alice did not remove her ad. You're posting the wrong URL. The "for" at the end of of what you posted needed to be removed.

The correct one is:

[url]http://richmond.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/blonde-beauty-i-do-and-anything-else-27/4435239[/url]

[QUOTE=Clitlicker2;1119779]Looks like Alice removed her ad, but no fear, I copied it to keep the number for future reference. Please see attached WORD document. Stay Safe.[/QUOTE]

As promised, here is some info on Charlottesville. I posted it here becouse it's a short drive and this one is worth it!

Alyse is coming to cville on the 18th. Hotalyse can be found on "E" and the new southern Dixie as whel as her website (google hotalyse)

She is a swimsuite model. All pics accurate, BBBJ, msog and even though she doesn't advertise it she offers a 1/2 hr for $.5.

I wool go for the hour though, she is a 10 on any scale!

Happy hunting & thanks for all the info so far. I can't wait to meet Cathy. BTW, does anyone know if she speaks greak?

No. She is way too small and petite! LOL.

[QUOTE=Cupin Dude; 1119964]As promised, here is some info on Charlottesville. I posted it here becouse it's a short drive and this one is worth it!

Alyse is coming to cville on the 18th. Hotalyse can be found on "E" and the new southern Dixie as whel as her website (google hotalyse)

She is a swimsuite model. All pics accurate, BBBJ, msog and even though she doesn't advertise it she offers a 1/2 hr for $.5.

I wool go for the hour though, she is a 10 on any scale!

Happy hunting & thanks for all the info so far. I can't wait to meet Cathy. BTW, does anyone know if she speaks greak? [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Cupin Dude; 1119964]As promised, here is some info on Charlottesville. I posted it here becouse it's a short drive and this one is worth it!

Alyse is coming to cville on the 18th. Hotalyse can be found on "E" and the new southern Dixie as whel as her website (google hotalyse)

She is a swimsuite model. All pics accurate, BBBJ, msog and even though she doesn't advertise it she offers a 1/2 hr for $.5.

I wool go for the hour though, she is a 10 on any scale!

Happy hunting & thanks for all the info so far. I can't wait to meet Cathy. BTW, does anyone know if she speaks greak?[/QUOTE]Her website says she does not see AA men. White only over 35. Good looking girl but racist none the less.

I understand a woman's right to choose who she sees even down to race but all money is green and spends all over the world, to turn down money due to skin color. Could be for any sorts of reason but turn off to me. Too bad, hot girl and if that 1/2 hour special with msog is correct, I don't see how you could go wrong. On website 1/2 hour listed as $$.25 full hour $$$.5. Have fun whites only! What year is this?

Thanks Cville

[QUOTE=Guywoodson;1120038]No. She is way too small and petite! LOL.[/QUOTE]Greek is the best with the small petite ones (: I just got a PM that said she use to offer it. I hope she still does and it's not an arm and a leg!

[QUOTE=Cupin Dude;1120204]Greek is the best with the small petite ones (: I just got a PM that said she use to offer it. I hope she still does and it's not an arm and a leg![/QUOTE]Sorry to sound utterly uninformed, but can you clue me in to greek?

Thanks for the help with the URL posting Richmond Fotog. By the way, do you have any info on her? I would be interested in the 30 for $ if she is legit.

[QUOTE=Richmond Fotog; 1119847]Alice did not remove her ad. You're posting the wrong URL. The "for" at the end of of what you posted needed to be removed.

The correct one is:

[url]http://richmond.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/blonde-beauty-i-do-and-anything-else-27/4435239[/url][/QUOTE]

I think you need to do a little reading. You may want to look around the site a little more. There are a lot of resource links you may find helpful.

[url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?1897-Terms-and-Abbreviations-List[/url]

[QUOTE=ToMuchTime;1120302]Sorry to sound utterly uninformed, but can you clue me in to greek?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Richmond Fotog; 1120496]I think you need to do a little reading. You may want to look around the site a little more. There are a lot of resource links you may find helpful.

[url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?1897-Terms-and-Abbreviations-List[/url][/QUOTE]That's funny.

Hey "jimmyjams" it may have something to do with the apparent ignorance that comes with it, I wouldn't see you either. You can go f%k yourself.

[QUOTE=Jimmyjams; 1120055]Her website says she does not see AA men. White only over 35. Good looking girl but racist none the less.

I understand a woman's right to choose who she sees even down to race but all money is green and spends all over the world, to turn down money due to skin color. Could be for any sorts of reason but turn off to me. Too bad, hot girl and if that 1/2 hour special with msog is correct, I don't see how you could go wrong. On website 1/2 hour listed as $$.25 full hour $$$.5. Have fun whites only! What year is this?

Thanks Cville[/QUOTE]

Thats right asshole. You think?

[QUOTE=Jimmyjams; 1116974]Well damn, Cathy is like a door knob, seems everyone has had their turn. Good for her!

Sorry Tshark for being skeptic but would be so again from someone with so few post but board members got it straight.

I seldom delve into the $$-$$.5 range and I can only think of once when it was well worth it. For those that have it like that, congratulations. I might give ole Cathy a turn myself if I was better prepared to do so based upon her support.

Happy Hunting[/QUOTE]

I've never "touched up" my face dumbass. What do you look like? Can I see a pic of you? LOL this should be good.

[QUOTE=Richmond Fotog; 1116389]I'll vouch for the comments on Cathy-Carly to be accurate. She's been around for awhile and certainly earned a good reputation and pretty good reviews. Anyone that's seen her would vouch for her skills and libido.

I will say that even though the photos she's using on her site are of her and fairly accurate, they have been heavily retouched, especially in her face. She's not the prettiest girl around, but if you like the A-cup spinners with an athletic build and great skills then she's for you.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jimmyjams; 1120055]Her website says she does not see AA men. White only over 35. Good looking girl but racist none the less.

I understand a woman's right to choose who she sees even down to race but all money is green and spends all over the world, to turn down money due to skin color. Could be for any sorts of reason but turn off to me. Too bad, hot girl and if that 1/2 hour special with msog is correct, I don't see how you could go wrong. On website 1/2 hour listed as $$.25 full hour $$$.5. Have fun whites only! What year is this?

Thanks Cville[/QUOTE]Jimmyjams,

Today's world is a world of preferences and choices. I am sorry if you don't understand that. I saw nothing racist or discriminatory in her website. Attacking her personally is uncalled for, even if it was in a information sharing way. You should apologize to the lady and your fellow board members.

As any business owner may tell you."We have the right to refuse service to anyone".

[QUOTE=Cathy27;1120510]Hey "jimmyjams" it may have something to do with the apparent ignorance that comes with it, I wouldn't see you either. You can go f%k yourself.[/QUOTE]First, I didn't ever try to see you or that other skank. P-ssy is not gold there is an abundance of it. You speak of ignorance but can barely speak in complete sentences. I never cursed you or her. In fact I never said anything negative about you period. I actually congratulated you on being so popular and apologized to a board member for doubting his review. Remember heifer,"When the last ho falls, pimpin' still stands tall". You are in no position to judge or curse anyone. Do your thing, get your scratch, and stay off this board. Your lame opinion and 2 bucks might get you a cup of coffee. I'd gladly buy you a cup of "shut the f-ck up"!

[QUOTE=Ride00; 1120602]Jimmyjams,

Today's world is a world of preferences and choices. I am sorry if you don't understand that. I saw nothing racist or discriminatory in her website. Attacking her personally is uncalled for, even if it was in a information sharing way. You should apologize to the lady and your fellow board members.

As any business owner may tell you."We have the right to refuse service to anyone". [/QUOTE]I'm not sure why you felt it necessary to even go there. What I said was my opinion and informative. You are sadly incorrect if you believe that any business owner "has the right to refuse services to anyone". Check your history and the law. Business may not refuse service to someone solely based on their race, creed, religion. They can find some other reasons but they can't say that. So your argument is very poor. Businesses can no longer put up a sign that says "WHITES ONLY". Are you from this country? Now in her field she can do that because she is not bound by the laws that would prevent her from doing that obviously as her business is, well you know, I'm sure. The underlying principle however is the same. Don't make assumption about my race. She would see me I'm sure if I showed her the $$$. I just was stating that kind of vibe is a turn off for me. If you don't think "Whites Only" is not racist or discriminatory well that's your opinion but I have nothing to apologize for and one is not forthcoming.

[QUOTE=Jimmyjams;1120498]That's funny.[/QUOTE]Notwithstanding condescension, thanks

First let me give you my opinoin, if a provider wants to see a certain race only for whatever the reason may be that is her business, she does not want my money fine with me there are plenty of holes out there to choose from, and I don't think there is any need of an apology either.

Let me tell you guys if you ever in need of a spicy petite indian girl worth every penny seniors pm me, but she is nova though for $$$. Great girl.

Lets not fight in here waste time and #posts with useless stuff!

Stay safe,

S2568

Don't want to even get in on this, but couold someone give me a link to this lady's webite so I can see what all the fuss is about? Damned if I can find it.

[QUOTE=Jimmyjams;1120680]I'm not sure why you felt it necessary to even go there. What I said was my opinion and informative. You are sadly incorrect if you believe that any business owner "has the right to refuse services to anyone". Check your history and the law. Business may not refuse service to someone solely based on their race, creed, religion. They can find some other reasons but they can't say that. So your argument is very poor. Businesses can no longer put up a sign that says "WHITES ONLY". Are you from this country? Now in her field she can do that because she is not bound by the laws that would prevent her from doing that obviously as her business is, well you know, I'm sure. The underlying principle however is the same. Don't make assumption about my race. She would see me I'm sure if I showed her the $$$. I just was stating that kind of vibe is a turn off for me. If you don't think "Whites Only" is not racist or discriminatory well that's your opinion but I have nothing to apologize for and one is not forthcoming.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jimmyjams;1120680]I'm not sure why you felt it necessary to even go there. What I said was my opinion and informative. You are sadly incorrect if you believe that any business owner "has the right to refuse services to anyone". Check your history and the law. Business may not refuse service to someone solely based on their race, creed, religion. They can find some other reasons but they can't say that. So your argument is very poor. Businesses can no longer put up a sign that says "WHITES ONLY". Are you from this country? Now in her field she can do that because she is not bound by the laws that would prevent her from doing that obviously as her business is, well you know, I'm sure. The underlying principle however is the same. Don't make assumption about my race. She would see me I'm sure if I showed her the $$$. I just was stating that kind of vibe is a turn off for me. If you don't think "Whites Only" is not racist or discriminatory well that's your opinion but I have nothing to apologize for and one is not forthcoming.[/QUOTE]I got to have my say in this, I seem to see the race card issue only come up when it is a girl that doesn't want to see black men. I have seen adds by girls that will not see Mexican's, will not see whites, and so on. It does not make her racist to not want to be with someone of a particular race or to only want to be with someone of a particular race. As for racism, and yes I will make a lot of people angry but I see it more from the black community towards the white than vice versa, and no I am not white. I am also not Black, I am for the most part Native American, so I know a little about not being excepted, do I see everyone as racist no. Do I take exception when I am excluded again no, I roll with it and move on. As for what else I am, like most Americans I am mixed Irish, Dutch, and if I go far enough back and look hard enough a few others I am sure. My real point here is why play the race card, do you really know what your ancestry is, the choice is yours or theirs of who to see or not to, based on the color of skin of the attitude you portray when making contact, it is a choice and the given right of all Americans. Does it make it right or wrong that is not for me to judge. Let's just try and get along forget the race and remember we are here to help each other not condone or condemn based on what we feel.

I personally have never seen a provider that stated "no Mexicans" or "No Whites" if I did see a provider that had that as a part of her add or site, I would feel the same way and very likely post the same post. They can do what they want but it is a turn off to me and I felt the information was useful so that some not waste there time if they are the excluded race are also turned off by a provider that thinks and advertises that way. Very simple.

You want to open up a can of words on who is discriminated against more often etc. I'm sure you can find a board with some folks that are highly educated on the subject that can hold their own. I could actually do very well myself but recognize this is not really the time or place.

[QUOTE=Lone Wolf;1120903]It does not make her racist to not want to be with someone of a particular race or to only want to be with someone of a particular race.[/QUOTE]That's kinda exactly what is meant by "racism". I firmly believe we're all racists to one degree or another. I'm not attracted to black ladies, big ladies, big black ladies, or (and I don't really understand this one) girls who aren't black but try talking "black" (whether they are big or not).

I'd buy an apple from them and let them have my seat on the bus and give them a ride if it was raining, but my dick isn't going to get hard for them so it's really not worth my time or money to see them in this hobby.

Jimmyjams has a point and a principle here in not seeing women who openly state they wouldn't see a man of any race. I wasn't offended and he doesn't owe anyone an apology.

Stay safe.

[QUOTE=Dodgeboy27; 1120979]That's kinda exactly what is meant by "racism". I firmly believe we're all racists to one degree or another. I'm not attracted to black ladies, big ladies, big black ladies, or (and I don't really understand this one) girls who aren't black but try talking "black" (whether they are big or not).

I'd buy an apple from them and let them have my seat on the bus and give them a ride if it was raining, but my dick isn't going to get hard for them so it's really not worth my time or money to see them in this hobby.

Jimmyjams has a point and a principle here in not seeing women who openly state they wouldn't see a man of any race. I wasn't offended and he doesn't owe anyone an apology.

Stay safe. [/QUOTE]I wasn't asking for an Apology, and personal preference in my opinion does not make on racist. The belief that it does is why we have so many race issues now. In the military we are all American it doesn't matter race religion sex or what we look like, you learn to count on those people as your Brothers and Sisters, they are family. To think of them any other way is what gets you or them killed. I have hate in many forms from different people racism is a form of hate, an attraction to one person or another is not. And for record I said everyone has the right to their preference, maybe when you walk the field side by side you learn another way of looking at the people you meet. Or maybe I am just getting old and my mind thinks in it's own way.

I took a long shot and sent Destiny an email wasn't sure here or Dee still checked it. I hadn't had contact with Destiny in almost a year she got out of the business the last she told me. Well for anyone that had seen her in the past and still have email then hit her up. (not sure she has the same number). I will be happy to pass info on when I find out it ok with her. PS. Our shedules haven't clicked this week so I havn't seen her since her return but the pic's still look good and the service was always pretty damn good.

Guys, there are SO MANY points of light here that no one can see the forrest for the trees. Let me start off by saying (if I may even as a "new / regular" member) this. EVERYONE here has a point on some level. As a man that is mentioned (without being mentioned) on many levels in most everyone's post let me say this. I'm a former service member (E-6, DS). There IS RACISM in the US military, believe that. I have encountered women both in the hobby and out that were not "into" black guys. I myself am an African American. Often it is just a fear of the unknown. As in they have never experienced a man of color on ANY level. They often only know what they have heard. Then it depends on where they heard it. The same holds true of people of other races. Sometimes it is based on a bad experience with someone of a particular race. Its only natural to forgive your brother before you forgive your neighbor (it'll make sense when you re-read it). Sometimes there just simply isn't an attraction to a certain race. Remember a large part of this hobby is fantasy based, and it's not always OUR fantasy.

Lets just have fun and stay safe.

BCB

[QUOTE=Dennis Morgan;1120880]Don't want to even get in on this, but couold someone give me a link to this lady's webite so I can see what all the fuss is about? Damned if I can find it.[/QUOTE]Cathy's site is [url]http://sexycathy-carly.com[/url]

I've seen her many times & think she's one of the best. Her photos don't look very 'touched up' to me. She's also one of the friendliest, no BS ladies I've ever met.

[QUOTE=Bananaman1969; 1121393]Cathy's site is.

[url]http://sexycathy-carly.com[/url]

I've seen her many times & think she's one of the best. Her photos don't look very 'touched up' to me. She's also one of the friendliest, no BS ladies I've ever met.[/QUOTE]Well she jumped on here cursing at people and calling names. Didn't seem that friendly to me. No one even said anything that bad about her. If someone was mistaken about a photo touch up, that is no justification to call him a dumb-ss. Calling me an a-hole and I never said anything about her other than she seemed to be popular and I was wrong to doubt review of a newbie. Could it be that is the real her and the "friendliest" is just if you are kicking $$$.

I mean nothing wrong with that it is a game but after she showed her.ss on here I wouldn't dabble or recommend anyone to either. Two cents.

Since I was the one who originally posted about Alyse and that started this hole race issue battle on here, I though I should give my two cents.

I think it is safe to say that opinions are like asshole's. Every body's got one!

I know for a fact that she is not a racist. It is just a preference. If you google hard enough you will find a video of her doing DP with two black men. She also seems to be enjoying herself very much. Making that video was a choice, just like the preference about her clients. Some of you don't like to fuck fat chicks. But I'll bet you have fat friends. You just wouldn't pay to fuck them! Either way it's your choice and it doesn't mean your a fatty hatter!

Throwing the race card around is easy, but at the end of the day it's still just your opinion. You shouldn't call a top notch provider a racist without doing your homework to back it up.

As far as her rates. They use to just say $$.5 on her site and the 1/2 for $.5 is what she quoted me in our first email. Maybe she raised them. That's her choice also and trust me, unless you have something against hot white girls, she is worth it!

On a separate note:

Cathy, if your on here and you read this. I would love to meet you. PM me if you like.

Cheers everyone!

[QUOTE=Bigcity Boy; 1121216]Guys, there are SO MANY points of light here that no one can see the forrest for the trees. Let me start off by saying (if I may even as a "new / regular" member) this. EVERYONE here has a point on some level. As a man that is mentioned (without being mentioned) on many levels in most everyone's post let me say this. I'm a former service member (E-6, DS). There IS RACISM in the US military, believe that. I have encountered women both in the hobby and out that were not "into" black guys. I myself am an African American. Often it is just a fear of the unknown. As in they have never experienced a man of color on ANY level. They often only know what they have heard. Then it depends on where they heard it. The same holds true of people of other races. Sometimes it is based on a bad experience with someone of a particular race. Its only natural to forgive your brother before you forgive your neighbor (it'll make sense when you re-read it). Sometimes there just simply isn't an attraction to a certain race. Remember a large part of this hobby is fantasy based, and it's not always OUR fantasy.

Lets just have fun and stay safe.

BCB[/QUOTE]

I would not normally say anything but, I feel this issue has been talked about enough and will not be solved here. We all have choices and if you do not like a provider for any reason do not see her, I have seen this same debate on this board and others and it is never settled.

The fact is there are ladies that will not see blacks some that will not see whites, some that will not see big guys, etc. It's a fact and you're not going to change the way they feel by bitching and moaning about it, you may change it by being respectful and polite.

The one strange thing that I will point out is: I have never heard or seen a white guy complaining about a black woman that will not see whites, and yes they are out there at every level of the game, on the street, on BP, etc. So let's let this go and get back to pussy.

[QUOTE=VAJimbo; 1121610]I would not normally say anything but, I feel this issue has been talked about enough and will not be solved here. We all have choices and if you do not like a provider for any reason do not see her, I have seen this same debate on this board and others and it is never settled.

The fact is there are ladies that will not see blacks some that will not see whites, some that will not see big guys, etc. It's a fact and you're not going to change the way they feel by bitching and moaning about it, you may change it by being respectful and polite.

The one strange thing that I will point out is: I have never heard or seen a white guy complaining about a black woman that will not see whites, and yes they are out there at every level of the game, on the street, on BP, etc. So let's let this go and get back to pussy.[/QUOTE]You are the second if not third person that has said there are providers out there that expressly advertise they will not see Whites. Again I have never seen that. Show me. Also again I would feel the same way about her and it would be a turn off. I would likely post the same informative post and likely refer to her as racist. You see preference and bias is fine we all have them. But when you refuse money and deny service solely based on someones race, by definition that is racism. It is what it is. She doesn't have to be a racist but that behavior is. I don't dislike her or knock her hustle, I just would not be interested in supporting her. That's my choice. Just rubs me wrong, all money is green and if someone is a good person and wants some good service what difference should their race make? I'm a business man and I don't deny service to anyone that has the money. Now if someone is a PITA then I might say I don't want your business or money but has nothing to do with race.

And why is it when someone wants to defend doing or saying something racist they alway defend by saying or imply they have friends in the group they are offending."She's in DP video with blacks and enjoying it" So what? I'm sure she was paid well? I'm still not interested. And again I am 99. 9% sure I would have no problem seeing her if I showed her the $$$. Something about seeing WHITES ONLY in print from someone trying to get money for f-cking just seemed wrong to me. Just me, my opinion, not knocking her, wish her the best, whatever. As far as letting it go. I had let it go long time ago. I was not and am not trying to win an argument. It just seems the apologist have come out of the woodwork trying to defend race discrimination. Wonder why? Would it be okay if a spa in a high end hotel that had hot women giving massages had a sign that said WHITES ONLY? Not only would not be okay but would be illegal in this country.

[QUOTE=Cathy27;1120513]I've never "touched up" my face dumbass. What do you look like? Can I see a pic of you? LOL this should be good.[/QUOTE]So what rat went and told cathy about comments here? Onec again rats think they will get free pussy by snitching.

[QUOTE=Dodgeboy27; 1120979]That's kinda exactly what is meant by "racism". I firmly believe we're all racists to one degree or another. I'm not attracted to black ladies, big ladies, big black ladies, or (and I don't really understand this one) girls who aren't black but try talking "black" (whether they are big or not).

I'd buy an apple from them and let them have my seat on the bus and give them a ride if it was raining, but my dick isn't going to get hard for them so it's really not worth my time or money to see them in this hobby.

Jimmyjams has a point and a principle here in not seeing women who openly state they wouldn't see a man of any race. I wasn't offended and he doesn't owe anyone an apology.

Stay safe. [/QUOTE]Actually. Sexual preference is NOT racism. Racism is ascribing specific traits or behaviors to a a person based soley on their race. Assuming a black man has a big dick. Thats racism. Assuming a white guy has money, thats racism. Etc etc. A simple statement that a provider does not see white guys or will not see black guys is not on its face, racism. It may be bigotry. But thats a different animal from racism. The term gets thrown around way too much these days.