I finally met Delicious Dawn
After much emailing back and forth, I finally had the pleasure of meeting Delicious Dawn yesterday for a carefree shopping spree afternoon. Dawn is very nice and pleasant to be around. She is drama free, drug free, and seems genuine that her heart is in the right place. Therefore, I will personally bend over backwards and help her anyway I can with advice, screening, organization skills she may need etc... because I remember how overwhelming it was when I first started emails are coming in from different directions and the hours on the computer of reading them and the screening process can be like pulling teeth. I still receive a lot of brief info emails from people who just leave messages with their name and number and then ask if they can meet up that afternoon. Then I have to respond back to each and ask for referencing info and I let them know we may be emailing back and forth for awhile until I am able to verify that you are genuine and thank them for their patience. No one knows how overwhelming it can be unless they have done it themselves. It takes awhile to get fully organized to learn how to handle everything so you know exactly what is going on at all times.
Some members on the board have mentioned how great they thought Dawn was based on her great personallity and performance alone (the reviews were not based on her screening abilities or organizational skills to handle all of the new buisness). I am not bi so I don't know about her performance, but I will agree that she seems like a genuine person and has entered for all the right reasons and that is why I want to help and take her under my wing. She does not work for me and is independent, so I want to make that clear.
Mainly, I am posting this message to remind everyone that Dawn is new and therefore I'm sure she feels overwhelmed at times so please be patient with her as many were patient with me when I initially started. She is a smart girl and is currently working on becoming more and more organized and I will help give her direction, advice, and show her the ropes as much as I can.
So don't hesitate to meet her, just please be patient as she is new and still getting into the swing of things. There are still many things she has to learn. For example, making ALOT of posts (too many thank you replies etc) on the forum board makes it appear to some your trying to over advertise yourself when that board is mainly for hobbyist relating their pro's and con's experiences and to exchange info about rip offs (it's also area for providers to share info to hobbyist or a defense response if felt needed). She genuinly didn't know and was not trying to over advertise herself when she is already trying to get more organized with what she has. She just thought it was polite to thank everyone for any positive comments they wrote about her, it's sweet of her, but yes, wrong place and not necessary. I can see where some may have gotten the wrong idea and thought she was trying to over advertise, but now she knows. I think her genuine sweet personality, clean environment, drama free, and drug free make her a good choice and worth our support, patience, and encouragement in the hopes that she stays safe, screens well, and provides good quality time.
Thanks,
Sara
Tonguetwister
I have a solution that will hopefully work
A select few know that I was receiving threatening emails from someone I am familiar with and whom was irritated by my success and threatened to post lies about me on the board. These emails were coming in just a few days before I saw Bucks posts and naturally I assumed Bucks was in ties with the person sending me the threatening emails to post lies about me on the board. This is why I completely took Bucks post the wrong way about his mention of how I climbed the ladder through the "financial" support of Whodeyman and Wingman-when really Bucks just meant that they have seen me many times, in which is very true. It is the reason I went into a lengthy post to make it clear that I am independent and work for no one. It was not a response to a bad review.
Also to make it clear Bucks was not in anyway associated with the person who was sending the threatening emails.
Anyway, I did not mean to cause any drama on this board as I usually read but don't make too many posts here until recently where I was trying to clear things up. I was not responding in defense to anyone's review of me as I feel that honesty is important in writing about the pro's and con's so that hobbyist know what to excpect upon considering making a visit to a provider. After reading many email threats from this paticular person, I am at fault for jumping the gun and thinking Bucks was a fake name this person used to try and post lies about me and certain others read into Bucks post the same way because of the way it was written-which was not Bucks intentions. (I'd like to thank those again for coming to my defense anyway:)
I have since then spoken with and met Bucks, we kissed and made up, and turns out that he is a great guy.
I hate to see everyone leaving this board and I hope my misinterpretation of identiy or ("drama" or whatever you want to call it) is not part of the reasoning for some of the members retirement: (
I am generally a positive person who always likes to look for the bright side or finder of solutions to simplify problems. So, I have an idea and others please let me know your thoughts on this if you think it may help or if you have a better idea because normally this site has always been a valuable source of info to many.
My idea is this- I think the escort review board should only be used for that in which it was meant for- pro's and con's, personal experiences, info search questions and answers all of which on that paticular board (or thread) pertains only info on providers from fellow hobbyist to fellow hobbyist.
Any other odd and end reports not pertaining to the above mentioned should be listed under general reports. Does that sound like a plan that may help this situation? Let me know your thoughts or ideas.
I just had a great idea :) I fully understand there are sometimes two sides of the stories that need to be told as provider's may read reports about them that they feel are inaccurate or untruthful or that they need to expand on.
So with that being said, I will start a thread strictly for provider's where they can expand on their side of the story and call it Escorts Defense-The 2nd side of the story... Or something along those lines. So, if an escort see's a report about her under the Escorts review thread that she feels is untruthful or wants to defend herself in anyway for whatever reason, she will have an area to express her side of the story.
Instead of cluttering the escorts review board (thread) with lengthy escort defense explanations, an escort can simply attach a simple quote under a hobbyist review noting " please see my response to this post under the thread Escorts Defense-The 2nd side of the story.
Does anyone agree with this solution? Or please give feedback if you have an even better idea. I am hoping my ideas may help to resolve some of the recent conflict many have had with this board and we can all continue to use this website for it's valuable resources.
Thanks in advance for your thoughts and opinions,
Sara aka Tonguetwister
Sara...we all can learn so much from you...
I think that's a great idea. How brilliant of you to have come up with that.
It is definitely something that should be done.
I posted my last comment on the other thread but I had my reasons. It's pretty sad when I had to debate if I wanted to or not for fear that someone would take it other ways. I won't post there again as I know some may take that as advertising myself when that is not my intention. I really honestly don't even want to post on this board to be honest. However, I will continue to pm others and read the threads. The drama, cattiness, and bs is just too much. No wander some have stepped back, retired, whatnot. It's completely dumb and childish, but those are just my thoughts.
I do think that's a great idea. I will read the threads as I like to hear what other providers have to say, etc. That gives us insight into the men as their posts gives insight into us.
I want to add this little important info. If a member wants to set a meeting with me, be prepared for a screening and have references available. I will ask for them. I usually won't even make an appt with you if you cannot provide me with any references, etc. I am sorry if that upsets anyone but I have to be that way.
I am now going under the radar so to speak.
Dawn