"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[QUOTE=PornRider;6390331]I just got a call from a former sugar baby that I had seen for maybe 4-6 weeks who I stopped seeing a couple of weeks ago. She said that she is pregnant with my kid and wants an abortion, but she's only willing to do a surgical abortion where she's under anesthesia in North Carolina. She's asking for $3200 for the procedure. And she refuses to take the abortion pill or any other procedure.

I want to believe her, but I'm worried that I'm being scammed. Does anyone have advice on what I should do?[/QUOTE]Can you confirm you were the only one she was fucking with or not? Why does a chick that is 4-6 weeks pregnant need a surgical abortion? Why acknowledge her request in the first place? This abortion can be done by taking one of those pills or they suck the dam baby out. Cost no where near that price. You know it is a scam yet your believing it for some odd reason. The baby is that big that it requires a surgery? Question everything yourself. Next time you decide to cream. Maybe insure she is taking a contraceptive. Chick is traveling and wants your money. After that will want more.

[QUOTE=BobeSugar;6390838]It seems highly suspicious to me. I would take her to a pregnancy test place and make sure she is pregnant. Nowadays, they can also do DNA test. I think she just wants to scam you.

That's the problem with these SBs. So shortage of scams in their mind. A friend of mine faced similar situation 10+ years ago. He spent so much money on the kid and loved the boy as his own. Turned out the kid was from someone else, she just needed someone who is reliable and makes money to take care of her and the money. Found out about it after asking for DNA test. So first, check her pregnancy. Second, ask for DNA. They can check DNA inside mother.

P.S. I really want to have a child. If I were in that situation, I would ask her to keep the baby. But that's my situation.[/QUOTE]It's not cheap to do an in-utero DNA test, but it's cheaper than what she's asking for with the abortion, and much cheaper than 18 years of child support.

Current situation. I am 53 years old and one of my currents (9-10 months) has recently started an only fans account. This has allowed her (27 year old) to quit one of her two jobs and she has been making pretty good money at it. Most of her requests lately have been to fuck on camera. She asked me to be the guy in the video and she has managed to keep my face and voice out of her production. Since we started this. Her account has tripled. Not because of me, but because the demand for that is much greater than just nudes and masturbation. She suggested to me that maybe I look into Viagra or Cialis to be able to go twice back to back. This would us allow to film a couple of videos per session. I have never partaken of the stuff and was wanting some feedback. My questions are:

1. Do you lose sensation?

2. Do you last longer?

3. Can you go back to back pretty quickly?

4. Are there side effects to deal with?

There are already several good explanations on your question. I just wanted to add my experience with it all since taking.

I am 58 Years old and having been using the Generic for Viagra for about 8 years now started using at 50 mg 1/2 a pill and eventually graduated maybe 3 years ago to a whole 100 mg pill.

For me I can go about 20 minutes. I actually wear out- get winded sometimes before I can finish. Take a 10–15-minute break and go again till finish.

I have no problem same day about 6-8 hours later getting hard again for a second round and pop.

I really believe almost everyone is different on the effects of the 2 pills. Like Cialis works for me but I can't go as long as I can when on Viagra- I think I lose some sensitivity with Viagra that Cialis doesn't cause me to lose. I don't get a stuffy nose unless I am getting a massage with my face down in the donut hole for a while- then I get a stuffy nose. But it clears up pretty fast once I roll over.

My biggest suggestion to you is to call around. Don't take it to your pharmacy and just fill it- you will be amazed at the price differences. I have a friend that gets his at Publix without insurance 30 pills for $30.00 - I get mine at the Medicine shop for 15 pills for $18.00 Just depends on how you fill it- I like to keep fresh pills so I don't fill more than 15 at a time.

Kind of jealous of your situation with the 27-year-old. Good Luck to you!!

[QUOTE=Ripvan12;6390833]Man it sounds like you are in a pickle. You hear about women all the time planning an exit strategy as a way to cash out on an arrangement so they can come out ahead. I try to follow common sense. Who would want to travel 2-3 states away for a surgical procedure that's invasive instead of just popping a pill? Then the cost seems high, extremely high. Almost seems as if she expected more money out of the arrangement, it ended abruptly and now she's trying to make sure she makes her bank and cash you out. Tread carefully. Ripper.[/QUOTE]Yeah, that's what my suspicions are as well. I told her that I'm not comfortable giving her thousands of dollars blindly, and now she's barraging me with texts and threats. She wrote that she'll be reaching out to my side of the family, and job, etc. It looks like I made a really bad decision hooking up with this one. This whole experience has made me regret going into this lifestyle. Stay safe out there, boys.

[QUOTE=PornRider;6391331]Yeah, that's what my suspicions are as well. I told her that I'm not comfortable giving her thousands of dollars blindly, and now she's barraging me with texts and threats. She wrote that she'll be reaching out to my side of the family, and job, etc. It looks like I made a really bad decision hooking up with this one. This whole experience has made me regret going into this lifestyle. Stay safe out there, boys.[/QUOTE]Hopefully you never gave her your real name.

Is she still claiming to be pregnant in her barrage of texts and threats? I bet not. It sounds like she's just trying every angle to scam some extra money.

Who is she? Please share the link or a picture or both. The rest of us need to know who to avoid.

[QUOTE=PornRider;6391331]Yeah, that's what my suspicions are as well. I told her that I'm not comfortable giving her thousands of dollars blindly, and now she's barraging me with texts and threats. She wrote that she'll be reaching out to my side of the family, and job, etc. It looks like I made a really bad decision hooking up with this one. This whole experience has made me regret going into this lifestyle. Stay safe out there, boys.[/QUOTE]I knew this pregnancy thing was a scam. Do you have friends in law enforcement? If not, I suggest reaching out to a good lawyer. Those lawyers can be as intimidating as law enforcement. Under no circumstances give her any money because it will be just the beginning. It's best to deal with this situation using a lawyer or a friend in law enforcement. I have a friend who was guest of the government in federal house, I always keep him close just in case. I also have a friend in law enforcement. They serve as insurance.

Hopefully things will get resolved. I feel for you. Things have really changed. It seems that every girl on the corner is just trying to scam us.

[QUOTE=PornRider;6391331]Yeah, that's what my suspicions are as well. I told her that I'm not comfortable giving her thousands of dollars blindly, and now she's barraging me with texts and threats. She wrote that she'll be reaching out to my side of the family, and job, etc. It looks like I made a really bad decision hooking up with this one. This whole experience has made me regret going into this lifestyle. Stay safe out there, boys.[/QUOTE]Hang in there! It's probably nothing, especially with no proof!! Recently, I got a text from a random unsaved # stating that they would inform my girlfriend that I pay for massages with happy endings, and that she had texts of me booking with her, but she never even included any of them. Claimed if I sent her $1,000 that she would stay quiet, but all she used to try to scare me was possible booking texts, which really doesn't even incriminate me in any way, and my girlfriend has already seen my texts and doesn't care because she doesn't like to rub my back anyway.

[QUOTE=PornRider;6391331]Yeah, that's what my suspicions are as well. I told her that I'm not comfortable giving her thousands of dollars blindly, and now she's barraging me with texts and threats. She wrote that she'll be reaching out to my side of the family, and job, etc. It looks like I made a really bad decision hooking up with this one. This whole experience has made me regret going into this lifestyle. Stay safe out there, boys.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=NewAnonymousName;6391445]Who is she? Please share the link or a picture or both. The rest of us need to know who to avoid.[/QUOTE]Telling the rest of us who she is will help us but you need to know everything about her you can find out to protect yourself. In my experience these gals always assume they have no skin in the game and sometimes need a reminder that who loses the most is a relative concept. Know her real name? Address? Criminal background? If so, then there is the Muutally Assured Destruction (MAD) option where you simply gently remind her that if she decides to sink your boat then she better be willing to tread water with a cinderblock tied to her ankle. I had a gal once threaten me after I cut things off; but when I responded saying that while I could not stop her from doing what she was going to do, I could make sure that if it went bad for me I would be legally obligated to respond to LE's "has anyone threatened you" question with her legal name, where she worked and the fact that I overheard someone mention that she had an outstanding warrant. . . . never heard from her again.

[QUOTE=PornRider;6391331]Yeah, that's what my suspicions are as well. I told her that I'm not comfortable giving her thousands of dollars blindly, and now she's barraging me with texts and threats. She wrote that she'll be reaching out to my side of the family, and job, etc. It looks like I made a really bad decision hooking up with this one. This whole experience has made me regret going into this lifestyle. Stay safe out there, boys.[/QUOTE]Did she give off any red flags to indicate this behavior? How many times did you hang out with her?

I've popped in a few crazies during my time, I'm just lucky this has never happened to me. When I was hitting a 2 or 3 a month back in the day I was changing my phone number every few months, maybe that helped.

Anyway no more CIP anytime soon for me. I just got scared stiff. Thanks

[QUOTE=LouisHernandez;6391491]Did she give off any red flags to indicate this behavior? How many times did you hang out with her?

I've popped in a few crazies during my time, I'm just lucky this has never happened to me. When I was hitting a 2 or 3 a month back in the day I was changing my phone number every few months, maybe that helped.

Anyway no more CIP anytime soon for me. I just got scared stiff. Thanks[/QUOTE]More like scared soft.

Tip your waitresses. I'll be doing standup here all week.

[QUOTE=NewAnonymousName;6391445]Hopefully you never gave her your real name.

Is she still claiming to be pregnant in her barrage of texts and threats? I bet not. It sounds like she's just trying every angle to scam some extra money.

Who is she? Please share the link or a picture or both. The rest of us need to know who to avoid.[/QUOTE]I don't have a link to profile on SA, but I do have pictures I can share. These are the photos that she used on her SA account.

And DM me for the phone number she uses, because I don't think we're allowed to share personal information on this board. She says she works as a nurse.

[QUOTE=LouisHernandez;6391491]Did she give off any red flags to indicate this behavior? How many times did you hang out with her?

I've popped in a few crazies during my time, I'm just lucky this has never happened to me. When I was hitting a 2 or 3 a month back in the day I was changing my phone number every few months, maybe that helped.

Anyway no more CIP anytime soon for me. I just got scared stiff. Thanks[/QUOTE]I didn't see any red flags in the beginning other than that she was DTF, but she asked for recent STD results and we were good. We met up like 4 times, maybe 5 times maximum, and the last time was back in the beginning of the month. I didn't even cum in her that time, because she said she had switched birth control. Obviously, it is still possible that she got pregnant, but lower likelihood. But it is possible. She was never a great lay, usually in and out, so I cut her loose.

She kept messaging me to meet, and I dodged her until I finally told her that I found someone else. Then the toxic behavior started to occur with the pregnancy thing over the last few days. If she is really pregnant her behavior has been very suspicious. I hope my story is a cautionary tale for everyone else to be careful. She started texting me photos from a new phone showing me that she found my personal information.

[QUOTE=PornRider;6391895]I didn't see any red flags in the beginning other than that she was DTF, but she asked for recent STD results and we were good. We met up like 4 times, maybe 5 times maximum, and the last time was back in the beginning of the month. I didn't even cum in her that time, because she said she had switched birth control. Obviously, it is still possible that she got pregnant, but lower likelihood. But it is possible. She was never a great lay, usually in and out, so I cut her loose.

She kept messaging me to meet, and I dodged her until I finally told her that I found someone else. Then the toxic behavior started to occur with the pregnancy thing over the last few days. If she is really pregnant her behavior has been very suspicious. I hope my story is a cautionary tale for everyone else to be careful. She started texting me photos from a new phone showing me that she found my personal information.[/QUOTE]She may go quiet if you ignore her for a couple days. If she continues, you should consider telling her that what she's doing -- extortion -- is a serious crime, you're saving her threatening texts, and you're going to the cops to have her arrested and prosecuted if she continues down this path.

Maybe you should let the rest of us know here user name so we stay away.

[QUOTE=PornRider;6391891]I don't have a link to profile on SA, but I do have pictures I can share. These are the photos that she used on her SA account.

And DM me for the phone number she uses, because I don't think we're allowed to share personal information on this board. She says she works as a nurse.[/QUOTE]Oh man. No wonder. She's smoking hot.