"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3037724]One of the big deals about getting a hotel room is the need to show some kind of I'd. College kids get fake IDs all the time to buy alcohol. Why isn't there some reasonable source of fake I'd for SDs so they can use their fake name to check into a hotel with a prepaid card. Some of my SBs don't have credit cards to get the room for me.[/QUOTE]Open an account with a bank and use your work address only. Then use that for your SD activities. A debit card will come with it. If your SO doesn't monitor your credit, you can have a credit card sent to your work address also.

Even without that you can use your SD email address and a visa / mc gift card to reserve a room online and check in / pay once you get there. You can even pay with cash and use the card for incidentals.

BigTigg.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3035349]Literally wants / needs to do a midnight escape. A[/QUOTE]Dangerous, you are not invested enough to turn into Bonny & Clyde. She has desperation written all over her, so your chances of drama rise very high, especially considering her age.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3035349]Admitted to escorting for a couple months during her first semester to pay bills, but claims she is now clean.[/QUOTE]Another red flag as an escorting attitude can lead to a number of drama issues for you later.

And why can't you get a room? With Visa / MC gift cards and cash, not sure how your SO would know you rented a room? The risk of her finding that out is much less than getting busted for public indecency because your are too cheap or too lazy to get a room.

BigTigg.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3037971]I am finding my gym is a very helpful piece of the puzzle in the bowl. Elsewhere, in the highlights, there is discussion of why keeping in shape helps our game, etc. A couple of other points. I inquired of my physician about my T levels, and he mentioned several common behaviors that raise it. Including having sex (we're all doing our part there), hanging out with guys (we virtually do that here), and working out. In my gym, in an upscale coastal California county, there is so much hot pussy walking around, that is an even greater effect. Definitely motivating to get into the bowl. My dream would be to find someone I see in my gym on SA.

What I particularly like about the gym is it gives me a reason / excuse to be out of the house, where I can access my burner without worry and I can establish an 'alibi'. They have a check-in scanner and on my account on their website I can see the days and times I have been there. If it is not too far out of my way, I can head there on my way to see a SB just to establish I was 'working out', not stepping out. I slip out a back exit and hop right back in the car to head to the FC. I also established a pattern of going there after work on certain days. I can then take afternoon time off to hit a hotel right at check-in time, spend a few hours with the SB, then go to the gym for at the least a deep shower, if not an actual workout. That cleans me up and provides a reason for me to be out of the clothes I wore with the SB, and cuts the risk there will be evidence.[/QUOTE]Not sure if any of my older posts inspired you or if great minds just think alike, but if you want confirmation of all the above, read here:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not&p=2908948&viewfull=1[/URL]#post2908948.

The gym I go to is always wall-to-wall pussy, stunners everywhere you look. It's too close to home, so I never try to meet women at the gym, but MY GOD the motivational aspect of being surrounded by all that pussy while I workout is worth the membership fees.

About my PM I freed up a slot for you but I have a lot of stuff that I want to keep in there for reference and don't want to archive, so due to the inbox limits I don't want to get in the habit of a lot of PM back and forth, please use sparingly.

[QUOTE=BigTigger;3038383]Open an account with a bank and use your work address only. Then use that for your SD activities. A debit card will come with it. If your SO doesn't monitor your credit, you can have a credit card sent to your work address also.

Even without that you can use your SD email address and a visa / mc gift card to reserve a room online and check in / pay once you get there. You can even pay with cash and use the card for incidentals.

BigTigg.[/QUOTE]Every time I check into a hotel these days they want a drivers license and credit card. I could do a prepaid card, but if the DL doesn't match the name on the reservation, how does that work?

Indeed, I was referencing your earlier post, just adding my own spin. You must also be in an upscale area.

Also, understand about the PM, but it didn't go through. Don't know why.

[QUOTE=JeezLizard;3038404]Not sure if any of my older posts inspired you or if great minds just think alike, but if you want confirmation of all the above, read here:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not&p=2908948&viewfull=1[/URL]#post2908948.

The gym I go to is always wall-to-wall pussy, stunners everywhere you look. It's too close to home, so I never try to meet women at the gym, but MY GOD the motivational aspect of being surrounded by all that pussy while I workout is worth the membership fees.

About my PM I freed up a slot for you but I have a lot of stuff that I want to keep in there for reference and don't want to archive, so due to the inbox limits I don't want to get in the habit of a lot of PM back and forth, please use sparingly.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3038618]Every time I check into a hotel these days they want a drivers license and credit card. I could do a prepaid card, but if the DL doesn't match the name on the reservation, how does that work?[/QUOTE]I can't help you with that one. I don't see the need to check in to the hotel anonymous. Hotels by nature pride themselves on discretion. They are actually on your side from that perspective.

BigTigg.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3038623]Also, understand about the PM, but it didn't go through. Don't know why.[/QUOTE]I deleted a few more, might try again.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3038618]Every time I check into a hotel these days they want a drivers license and credit card. I could do a prepaid card, but if the DL doesn't match the name on the reservation, how does that work?[/QUOTE]Walmart has money cards, load as much as you want.

In the past I've found it helpful to delete the sent items in your mailbox here. It frees up a bunch of space and what you've sent will be in the string of emails / replies.

Note sure if this still applies. Hope it helps.

[URL]https://images.seekingarrangement.com/prod/photos/89C13CD2FE8A028E978ACE4EAFABAB36TF.jpg[/URL]

Pm with details. Offering incall. But doesn't no language if what I like?

I. e. Daty, dfk? Spider senses up. Would appreciate any Intel before I commit. Thanks and be safe. FW.

[QUOTE=FreeWilly12;3039947][URL]https://images.seekingarrangement.com/prod/photos/89C13CD2FE8A028E978ACE4EAFABAB36TF.jpg[/URL]

Pm with details. Offering incall. But doesn't no language if what I like?

I. e. Daty, dfk? Spider senses up. Would appreciate any Intel before I commit. Thanks and be safe. FW.[/QUOTE]Sex workers know the lingo. Girls getti g into this for the first time will have no idea what that means LOL. Your speaking a foreign language to them.

The link doesn't take us to her profile, so it's hard to judge is she's a true SB or UTR. However, if she's a true non-pro sugarbaby you shouldn't expect, nor even want her, to know the monger acronyms. Believe it or not a lot of these ladies really are fairly innocent by our standards. I never use the acronyms in my communication with sugarbabies.

Good hunting!

Travelin.

[QUOTE=FreeWilly12;3039947][URL]https://images.seekingarrangement.com/prod/photos/89C13CD2FE8A028E978ACE4EAFABAB36TF.jpg[/URL]

Pm with details. Offering incall. But doesn't no language if what I like?

I. e. Daty, dfk? Spider senses up. Would appreciate any Intel before I commit. Thanks and be safe. FW.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TravelinSD;3040278]The link doesn't take us to her profile, so it's hard to judge is she's a true SB or UTR. However, if she's a true non-pro sugarbaby you shouldn't expect, nor even want her, to know the monger acronyms. Believe it or not a lot of these ladies really are fairly innocent by our standards. I never use the acronyms in my communication with sugarbabies.

Good hunting!

Travelin.[/QUOTE]I completely agree, if she knows that lingo, she's probably a pro or pro wannabe. Not a SB. Those are Hobbyist terms and not SB / SD terms.

BigTigg.

[QUOTE=FreeWilly12;3039947][URL]https://images.seekingarrangement.com/prod/photos/89C13CD2FE8A028E978ACE4EAFABAB36TF.jpg[/URL]

Pm with details. Offering incall. But doesn't no language if what I like?

I. e. Daty, dfk? Spider senses up. Would appreciate any Intel before I commit. Thanks and be safe. FW.[/QUOTE]

IF she mentioned she does "incall" she is a pro.

Just tell her you want to be like BF & GF and everything that implies. That should cover it. Part of the "charm" of SB dating is discovering what a girl's limits are. If she really wants to please you she may let herself go beyond boundaries she has in her personal life. I guess you could ask if she is open to exploring once you get acquainted and hit it off? But, getting all of that nailed down ahead of time is like a transaction with a pro or a swinger arrangement. Details like that would probably turn her off if she is innocent..... and that's what you want: young & innocent..... and willing to EXPLORE!

[QUOTE=FreeWilly12;3039947][URL]https://images.seekingarrangement.com/prod/photos/89C13CD2FE8A028E978ACE4EAFABAB36TF.jpg[/URL]

Pm with details. Offering incall. But doesn't no language if what I like?

I. e. Daty, dfk? Spider senses up. Would appreciate any Intel before I commit. Thanks and be safe. FW.[/QUOTE]From my messages with her, she hosts in her apartment near Short Pump. Says she like to be dominated and wanted to know if I had any fetishes. Seems to like taking bubble baths as she wanted to know if I wanted to watch her take one. Messaged me at 630 am one morning wanting me to come by on my way to work as she needed $$ quick. I have never seen her.