[QUOTE=Sinful Dreams; 1705545]Yes it is true. Today is National Steak and Blowjob Day.
[ATTACH=CONFIG]235715[/ATTACH][/QUOTE]I thought today was Pi day. 3.14
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[QUOTE=Sinful Dreams; 1705545]Yes it is true. Today is National Steak and Blowjob Day.
[ATTACH=CONFIG]235715[/ATTACH][/QUOTE]I thought today was Pi day. 3.14
[QUOTE=Nday Guy;1705829]Nice pic. Is that a new friend?[/QUOTE]It's probably Tobi in the pic.
[b]This is NOT the Tee you think she is. I know who you are talking about and she is not the one I wrote about.
Unfortunately there are #3 or #4 SW's name Tee in that small area. All use a separate second nickname to know who is whom.
Your TeeBaby hangs close to the corner store around York or that little Trailer Store on the side of someones building. It has a very bright blinding light at night in front of it.
So for now she is not the one I posted about. Do you know someone on this forum named DollPhace. I got a PM from her about this issue. I told her the samething.
I still have not seen Pocahontas, so that is a Good & Bad sign. It is Good she is cleaning up her life, but Bad because she was one of the better SW's / BSW's in WE / OTR are anywhere else. She is a HOTTIE. I am glad to see her cleaned up, but I will miss her.
Glad after her #3 baby she is cleaning up again. She has had a hard life to be so young.
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[QUOTE=Bill Fanta;1705373]I know her and am sad to read your report. I know her as Tee or TeeBaby or Tarsha. Picked her up twice and thought she was an OK time. She was friendly and didn't rush. But as you say, it tends to be a downhill spiral.[/QUOTE]
Arent all street walkers strung out on some shit an thats why they suck dirty dick for a 20 spot? Sooner or later the addiction takes control an any bounderies that did exist are lost an they will do anything for the next hit.
I just wanted to throw this out there that I am back.
I will be contacting my few favorites. You were missed!
Be Safe QD!
[QUOTE=Caligulaxxx;1706484]Arent all street walkers strung out on some shit an thats why they suck dirty dick for a 20 spot? Sooner or later the addiction takes control an any bounderies that did exist are lost an they will do anything for the next hit.[/QUOTE]Sir that is a stereotype and you should be ashamed of yourself for saying that. I've found that only 99. 9% of the SW's I know are strung out or addicted to some type of drug. Oh and by the way I wash my dick / cock / penis / schlong. If you have a problem finding water and soap ill let a brother monger use some of mine. Lmao
Happy St Paddys Day too all.
Hunt, Capture, Release. It's just like fishing boys.
EFU
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I would have to say the factors of drug use is even lower. The street SW's are divided into many groups and the % of hardcore drugs users are what is seen out front, but many work out of sight, and go unnoticed.
You see many of the crack & heroin SW's are what you see, but 50% of the SW's out there don't walk the streets nor hang on the corners.
They can be found but you have to make an afford to find them. They sometimes have day jobs, and are referred to by others.
Many friends share the men that pay for their service.
It gets complicated to write about, and would need a long post to explain it all. I know you are writing in a response to someone else's post, and what he said, but I can understand where he was coming from when he said it. It seems often it is that way.
Still the facts bare a bit of the truth. No all SW's out there are drug users. I do exude the use of Weed in this. If I included weed almost everyone would be drug users.
Many SW's are looking to pay the bills, and often get White Knights who help them do this, which keeps them off the streets. Some have Boyfriends who help them, and they Trick in Secret. It is of course all about the MONEY!
Don't exclude a great portion of the SW's crowd, who simply work the Clubs / Bars in the same manner as the Casino girls in Vegas. They are often the younger crowd, and they go straight for it. They will tell you directly it is $$ for XXX, and if you can't do it now in the car or somewhere, then here is her number, and you can get with her later.
Having Kids is a Big Factor too. It is many reasons and some it is just a way to be satisfied Sexually and to get paid for it.
So really only about 30-35% of the SW's out there are on Hard Drugs Users, and those are the ones you see walking the streets or standing on the corner. The vast majority like to stay hidden in the background, and keep their Secret under the Radar.
But this is nothing most don't already know, and I would bet it has been posted many times before. I am saying nothing New!
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[QUOTE=EnufForU; 1707324]Sir that is a stereotype and you should be ashamed of yourself for saying that. I've found that only 99. 9% of the SW's I know are strung out or addicted to some type of drug. Oh and by the way I wash my dick / cock / penis / schlong. If you have a problem finding water and soap ill let a brother monger use some of mine. Lmao
Happy St Paddys Day too all.
Hunt, Capture, Release. It's just like fishing boys.
EFU[/QUOTE]
Spent more time recently with this seriously hot mid 30s MILF between Dayton and Cinci. True spinner body with some of the nicest enhanced perky C / D sized boobs ever to be seen. Always a great attitude and always aims to please, she hits my sweet spot right on the money. She currently has a real need to raise funds and would like to see seniors in good standing or regulars with enough reports to verify they are legit. Sparkle is super UTR and wishes to keep it that way. For those who may have already seen her she has new digits as of early Feb.
Seniors and regulars in very good standing PM for info.
I haven't been to the new casino yet but was wondering if anyone else has visited it yet? If you did does it look like its brought in any new talent?
[QUOTE=Geminii1959; 1708740]Spent more time recently with this seriously hot mid 30s MILF between Dayton and Cinci. True spinner body with some of the nicest enhanced perky C / D sized boobs ever to be seen. Always a great attitude and always aims to please, she hits my sweet spot right on the money. She currently has a real need to raise funds and would like to see seniors in good standing or regulars with enough reports to verify they are legit. Sparkle is super UTR and wishes to keep it that way. For those who may have already seen her she has new digits as of early Feb.
Seniors and regulars in very good standing PM for info.[/QUOTE]She has been and continues to be one of my ATF's. No I am not a senior yet but for those of you who know me I am certainly no newbie or rookie. This young lady can be as good as they come. Like Geminii said she can use some company, and like those before me have said, she is not only the real thing, she may easily become your main visit. Treat her well and the rewards are indescribable. Yes I am a bit biased but you will be too.
As you can see I keep post to a minimum but wanted to vent on a recent experience. Recently I made an appoint with a very welled and respected provider. Communication was by PM here and text. References were provided and she checked. I know this because one ref (who is a well known provider who has limited services) texted me asking if I was not interested in her now, she offered to increase services. I confirmed appoint with original provider for the next day by text and she replied that I'm checked out and we were good to go. Next day comes I texted and called without success, nothing from her. I know things happen so I didn't make a big deal out of it. I did send a PM to make sure things were ok but no response. This week I thought I would try again and sent PM thru this site and she agreed to appoint the next day. Within 10 minutes I rec text from the second ref I provided her the first time wanting to know if I wanted see her. Provider 1 had not requested ref this time so she must have kept info. Next day same story no response after texting and calling. I'm not providing names here because I know how things get blown out of proportion here but will share via pm. Not sure if ref tell provider to decline to keep their clients or what but thought I would seek out thoughts from wiser people than me.
Save your money and pay in cash.
BTW, I thought you paid taxes? If you paid taxes, there's your proof of self employment income.
Once I decided to get a new car, I just hunkered down, worked my ass off (pun intended), and got it taken care of in around 5 weeks.
JB,
Haven't we met previously? I'm certain that we have, only once. If I am correct, I will gladly provide a reference at any time you need one. I don't have my new phone up to date with all of my numbers etc to know for certain.
I wanted to add this as well. This is for the providers.
When a gentleman gives your name as a reference, you should provide just that. I'm sure they ask ahead of time if they may use you as a reference. Why feel the need to contact the gentleman and ask why he isn't interested in you or why he feels the need to see someone else? That's unacceptable. I think so anyways. Provide the reference and leave it at that. If he wants to come back and see you, then he will. Do not hassle them because they are meeting with someone else. I just think that type of behavior is unacceptable. Inappropriate to say the least.
Some of these men like variety, some find their atf and stick with that one gal.
They shouldn't be harassed because they asked for a reference. If you don't act like that, they'd probably come back and see you again. Acting like that probably turns them away from seeing you again.
I honestly think this type of behavior should be made known and which providers do it. Its silly. Maybe if the gentlemen make it known, they will stop the games.
I believe we all should provide references. I sometimes worry when someone simply replies with a yes. It makes me wonder if they don't really recall the gentleman. When I get a simple yes as a reply, that worries me. Please be honest if you don't remember. We can't remember them all! Hence above. Me asking JB if we've met. LOL.
We all need to be safe. There's no need to be petty or childish.
Peace,
Dawn
[QUOTE=Jbncinci;1711783]As you can see I keep post to a minimum but wanted to vent on a recent experience. Recently I made an appoint with a very welled and respected provider. Communication was by PM here and text. References were provided and she checked. I know this because one ref (who is a well known provider who has limited services) texted me asking if I was not interested in her now, she offered to increase services. I confirmed appoint with original provider for the next day by text and she replied that I'm checked out and we were good to go. Next day comes I texted and called without success, nothing from her. I know things happen so I didn't make a big deal out of it. I did send a PM to make sure things were ok but no response. This week I thought I would try again and sent PM thru this site and she agreed to appoint the next day. Within 10 minutes I rec text from the second ref I provided her the first time wanting to know if I wanted see her. Provider 1 had not requested ref this time so she must have kept info. Next day same story no response after texting and calling. I'm not providing names here because I know how things get blown out of proportion here but will share via pm. Not sure if ref tell provider to decline to keep their clients or what but thought I would seek out thoughts from wiser people than me.[/QUOTE]
Dawn,
That's why you are a "top notch" provider. This hobby only works when "we all" try and work toward the common goal, safe and exciting play without drama.
MM.
[QUOTE=Delicious Dawn; 1712453]JB,
Haven't we met previously? I'm certain that we have, only once. If I am correct, I will gladly provide a reference at any time you need one. I don't have my new phone up to date with all of my numbers etc to know for certain.
I wanted to add this as well. This is for the providers.
When a gentleman gives your name as a reference, you should provide just that. I'm sure they ask ahead of time if they may use you as a reference. Why feel the need to contact the gentleman and ask why he isn't interested in you or why he feels the need to see someone else? That's unacceptable. I think so anyways. Provide the reference and leave it at that. If he wants to come back and see you, then he will. Do not hassle them because they are meeting with someone else. I just think that type of behavior is unacceptable. Inappropriate to say the least.
Some of these men like variety, some find their atf and stick with that one gal.
They shouldn't be harassed because they asked for a reference. If you don't act like that, they'd probably come back and see you again. Acting like that probably turns them away from seeing you again.
I honestly think this type of behavior should be made known and which providers do it. Its silly. Maybe if the gentlemen make it known, they will stop the games.
I believe we all should provide references. I sometimes worry when someone simply replies with a yes. It makes me wonder if they don't really recall the gentleman. When I get a simple yes as a reply, that worries me. Please be honest if you don't remember. We can't remember them all! Hence above. Me asking JB if we've met. LOL.
We all need to be safe. There's no need to be petty or childish.
Peace,
Dawn[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Sinful Dreams;1712296]I will be. Haven't yet. I don't know if the car dealership would take that, and I would rather something new to where I can keep rebuilding my credit.[/QUOTE]Another good way to build / rebuild credit, have someone you know that pays their credit card on time everytime put you on as an authorized user. Got my credit built up super fast and was able to buy my home.
Well spoken Dawn and MM.
I have only met Dawn one time, not BCD. She carried herself well and we had a nice conversation. Some day I hope to meet her BCD. Every thing she wrote is right on the money. If only the guys could post openly without retaliation from some of the ladies it would be great. I have not had many bad experiences since being in the hobby. One was chaulked up as both of us having a bad day. The other, well, I should have turned around when I was met at the door. I prefer to say away from the drama and have a great time as concenting adults.
Be safe out there!
[QUOTE=Mmslim84; 1712744]Dawn,
That's why you are a "top notch" provider. This hobby only works when "we all" try and work toward the common goal, safe and exciting play without drama.
MM.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Sinful Dreams;1712296]I will be. Haven't yet. I don't know if the car dealership would take that, and I would rather something new to where I can keep rebuilding my credit.[/QUOTE]I once worked at a car dealership selling cars, a lady co signed for her son he had horrible credit her source of income was babysitter she made maybe 200 per week if that but her credit score was aces. File your taxes if you can prove your income they will award you credit. I also sold furniture and actually got somebody approved that collected junk. Again file your taxes and have a good down payment a lot of times the f&I guy (finance) can get you approved if he has enough good deals for the bank. Good luck if you have any other questions feel free to pm me.
[QUOTE=Sinful Dreams; 1711336]So I have a car right now, but it has some mileage on it, and I am putting more into it than I want to continue to do. It is rather hard to PROVE where you work with pay stubs, and I am trying to get out of the buy here pay here, but not sure what to do. I am rebuilding my credit, so it isn't the greatest, but I would rather get one at a dealership, than get ripped off in the long run. If anyone has any ideas, please feel free to share them with me, or pm me.[/QUOTE]Molly's right, pay cash if you can. You'll be much better off in the long run.
Building credit is another matter, one of borrowing money and paying it back timely. According to a family member who works in collections, the only sure fire method for building a good credit score is to borrow money from a reliable lender, a bank, credit union or strong, stable finance companies, like the ones all the auto manufacturers operate, and then pay it back on time and in full. Very early payoffs, such as paying a loan off in the first few months, or never keeping a balance on your credit card, are not going to help you as much, as they don't give any indication of your ability and willingness to pay off a long term loan. Remember, lenders don't make as much money when you pay their loans off early.
Be leery of anybody who claims to be able to build your credit without actually taking out a loan in your own name. Many of the "companies" that make this claim are scams who just want to either loan you money at exorbitant interest rates, or have you deposit [I]your [/I]money in an account that doesn't earn interest, in order to "secure" a credit card or other loan instrument. The problem arises when they don't report the results to the credit reporting agencies, which many of them don't, because it costs [I]them [/I]money to do so, which means you get no benefit at all with regard to credit rating, and have spent a bunch of money doing it.
The best way to build credit also happens to be the simplest. Go to a bank and get their credit card, even if it has a crappy interest rate. Most of these cards have a minimum payment that is either a percentage of the outstanding balance or some hard dollar amount like twenty-five dollars, whichever is higher. Buy something that will take you six months to pay off at that minimum amount, then pay it off in six months and check your credit score. Then do it again. Check your credit score again, it should be pretty decent by that time.
If you have no choice but to borrow money for a car, go to a bank, or a major brand new car dealer, even if you don't buy a new car, for a loan. The bank may want a co-signer, and the dealership will give you a crappy interest rate if you have no credit at all. Make sure there are no pre-payment penalties, and then pay it off no sooner than six months, and no longer than twelve. The six month window is for credit building, and the twelve month limit is to reduce interest charges, if your interested in that. If you get good terms, you should let it go longer, as that will only help your credit score. Remember, they don't really [I]want [/I]you to pay it off early, no matter [I]what [/I]the loan officer says. (: The bank will definitely take your tax return as proof of income, especially if you have more than one year's worth, and the new car dealership almost certainly will do so.
The advantage to having a new car dealer or bank write the loan is that they will faithfully report it to the credit agencies, both good and bad. Billy Joe Bubba's Used Cars will sell your loan to (or contract with to take it in the first place) a finance company. Most of those will diligently report when you fuck up, but some are not as diligent about reporting the good part, the regular payments. These folks may take your tax return, but I wouldn't bet on it.
I'm also skeptical of the claim that adding oneself as an "authorized user" to another person's loan will work. If you're not the one who is legally responsible for paying back the loan, that is, the person who actually signed the loan document, then you don't get any of the, ahem, credit for paying the loan back.
If you have [I]bad [/I]credit, as opposed to [I]no [/I]credit, these things will still work, especially the credit card one, but they will cost you more.
I have an UTR friend in need of help anyone that is lookin PM me.
I found a mid thirty's lady at reasonable rates who has a incall, her and a friend share a apt in a private area and her place is clean
She offers FS, BBBJWcim She has nice B size titties good oral skills and a tight pussy.
She likes to keep a low profile she 5 ft tall a little belly she's average looking no drugs but does smoke but the place didn"t stink. Her place is around winton and North Bend Road. Service was unrushed. And she took direction very well. Treat her nice and you will enjoy yourself she charges. 50BBBJCIM and FS. 75 take your own condom.
Cman.
I just want to apologize to the Group and and Ladies for posting in the Escort Classified Ads No Reviews or Commentary thread. I made the dreaded newb forum mistake by answering someone that posted without paying total attention where I was at the time. Ill say a couple our fathers and Hail Marys for my sins as well as help out a SW or provider in need and all ill say is that I'm damn glad I pay attention while out on the prowl to where LEO lurks and will be on my p's and q's here in the forum just like when hunting from now on.
Hunt, capture, release.
[blue]Go and sin some more my son.
A2[[/blue]
[QUOTE=SirLiXxx;1710699]I haven't been to the new casino yet but was wondering if anyone else has visited it yet? If you did does it look like its brought in any new talent?[/QUOTE]Yea. Good question.
[QUOTE=Geminii1959; 1708740]Spent more time recently with this seriously hot mid 30s MILF between Dayton and Cinci. True spinner body with some of the nicest enhanced perky C / D sized boobs ever to be seen. Always a great attitude and always aims to please, she hits my sweet spot right on the money. She currently has a real need to raise funds and would like to see seniors in good standing or regulars with enough reports to verify they are legit. Sparkle is super UTR and wishes to keep it that way. For those who may have already seen her she has new digits as of early Feb.
Seniors and regulars in very good standing PM for info.[/QUOTE]I too have seen this lady and I can tell you she IS sexy. Get her motor running and she will give you your money's worth. My ATF for sure!
WTD
So I saw a provider earlier tonight. We texted and set things up. I stop by a Wal-mart on the way to the incall local. Just to be nice I text the provider and ask if she needs me to pick her up anything. I'm thinking cigs, or a coke or something. The weather was bad so I could have even gotten her some milk or something. I was thinking I was being a pretty swell guy. So she finally texts back after I had checked out and was back out in my car. I call her. She proceeds to tell me she wants me to pick up a certain silk robe, on a certain rack, in a certain size. Then she needs toiletries, and certain brands. She wants me to pick up some specific storage containers from the school supply section. Ok, so I am thinking maybe if I go to all this trouble she will be extra accommodating. When I get to her room at the location she tells me that she was leaving the same Wal-Mart when I called, and had me go back in for a few extra things she wanted. This kind of irritated me, because I spent $25 bucks and had to go back, and go all over Wal-mart to find this crap. So anyway, we are chatting and she asks me if I am looking for a regular provider. She says she would like me to be a regular and only see her from now on. LOL. So we get to it. She is not GFE as decribed. Their is no kissing etc. She was not into it at all. She just layed there like a dead fish. Thirty seconds in during mish I say,"So do you think since I went to all that trouble to get that stuff at Wal-Mart, could I (GOD FORBID) get an extra pop." She sternly says,"No, I only allow "one pop" per session." Keep in mind that I was only quoted one flat rate. At no time was there any discussion about hhr's or hr rates.
Ugghhhh. This so irritates me. When I am with a provider I am pretty excited about being intimate with someone new. I really like to pop right away. After a minute or two I like to change cover and go for literally 3-8 more minutes to pop again. WHY IS THIS SUCH A PROBLEM LADIES? So just to note, I DO NOT ever go back to "one pop" only providers. All my regulars are more than happy to let me get two pops in during a 15-20 min hhr. Session.
This was similar to my experience with Delicious Dawn a year ago. She was basically the hottest provider I had ever seen. She was fantastic, all over me, totally into it. When I asked her if I could get two quick pops, I get a stern,"No, only one pop, I don't "do" multiple pops" for an answer. I am suppose to pay double for the hr rate to get the extra 5 min pop. Had she let me pop twice per my routine, I would have never gone to any other provider again. I seriously probably would have spent thousands over the last year on Dawn. Needless to say, I haven't seen Dawn since. Unfortunately, many providers lose good regulars because they will not under any circunstances allow for two pops during their hhr sessions. I wish providers would quote rates by the pop instead of 15 min is this much, hhr is this much, hr is this much etc. Why can't they say one pop hhr is this price, two pop hhr is this price. Two pop hr is this price. What do you think ladies?
[QUOTE=BahamaMama; 1716307]So I saw a provider earlier tonight. We texted and set things up. I stop by a Wal-mart on the way to the incall local. Just to be nice I text the provider and ask if she needs me to pick her up anything. I'm thinking cigs, or a coke or something. The weather was bad so I could have even gotten her some milk or something. I was thinking I was being a pretty swell guy. So she finally texts back after I had checked out and was back out in my car. I call her. She proceeds to tell me she wants me to pick up a certain silk robe, on a certain rack, in a certain size. Then she needs toiletries, and certain brands. She wants me to pick up some specific storage containers from the school supply section. Ok, so I am thinking maybe if I go to all this trouble she will be extra accommodating. When I get to her room at the location she tells me that she was leaving the same Wal-Mart when I called, and had me go back in for a few extra things she wanted. This kind of irritated me, because I spent $25 bucks and had to go back, and go all over Wal-mart to find this crap. So anyway, we are chatting and she asks me if I am looking for a regular provider. She says she would like me to be a regular and only see her from now on. LOL. So we get to it. She is not GFE as decribed. Their is no kissing etc. She was not into it at all. She just layed there like a dead fish. Thirty seconds in during mish I say,"So do you think since I went to all that trouble to get that stuff at Wal-Mart, could I (GOD FORBID) get an extra pop." She sternly says,"No, I only allow "one pop" per session." Keep in mind that I was only quoted one flat rate. At no time was there any discussion about hhr's or hr rates.
Ugghhhh. This so irritates me. When I am with a provider I am pretty excited about being intimate with someone new. I really like to pop right away. After a minute or two I like to change cover and go for literally 3-8 more minutes to pop again. WHY IS THIS SUCH A PROBLEM LADIES? So just to note, I DO NOT ever go back to "one pop" only providers. All my regulars are more than happy to let me get two pops in during a 15-20 min hhr. Session.
This was similar to my experience with Delicious Dawn a year ago. She was basically the hottest provider I had ever seen. She was fantastic, all over me, totally into it. When I asked her if I could get two quick pops, I get a stern,"No, only one pop, I don't "do" multiple pops" for an answer. I am suppose to pay double for the hr rate to get the extra 5 min pop. Had she let me pop twice per my routine, I would have never gone to any other provider again. I seriously probably would have spent thousands over the last year on Dawn. Needless to say, I haven't seen Dawn since. Unfortunately, many providers lose good regulars because they will not under any circunstances allow for two pops during their hhr sessions. I wish providers would quote rates by the pop instead of 15 min is this much, hhr is this much, hr is this much etc. Why can't they say one pop hhr is this price, two pop hhr is this price. Two pop hr is this price. What do you think ladies?[/QUOTE]My only question is given her absurd demands and refusal to accommodate your reasonable request, why don't you post her name? You did after all call out Delicious Dawn for the same deficiency.
By the way, given your inviolable rule on multiple pops, which I would say should be mandatory given that the women are being compensated for their time not your powers of restraint, you should always require a definitive response in advance on this aspect of their service. No surprises!
[QUOTE=BahamaMama; 1716307]So I saw a provider earlier tonight. We texted and set things up. I stop by a Wal-mart on the way to the incall local. Just to be nice I text the provider and ask if she needs me to pick her up anything. I'm thinking cigs, or a coke or something. The weather was bad so I could have even gotten her some milk or something. I was thinking I was being a pretty swell guy. So she finally texts back after I had checked out and was back out in my car. I call her. She proceeds to tell me she wants me to pick up a certain silk robe, on a certain rack, in a certain size. Then she needs toiletries, and certain brands. She wants me to pick up some specific storage containers from the school supply section. Ok, so I am thinking maybe if I go to all this trouble she will be extra accommodating. When I get to her room at the location she tells me that she was leaving the same Wal-Mart when I called, and had me go back in for a few extra things she wanted. This kind of irritated me, because I spent $25 bucks and had to go back, and go all over Wal-mart to find this crap. So anyway, we are chatting and she asks me if I am looking for a regular provider. She says she would like me to be a regular and only see her from now on. LOL. So we get to it. She is not GFE as decribed. Their is no kissing etc. She was not into it at all. She just layed there like a dead fish. Thirty seconds in during mish I say,"So do you think since I went to all that trouble to get that stuff at Wal-Mart, could I (GOD FORBID) get an extra pop." She sternly says,"No, I only allow "one pop" per session." Keep in mind that I was only quoted one flat rate. At no time was there any discussion about hhr's or hr rates.
Ugghhhh. This so irritates me. When I am with a provider I am pretty excited about being intimate with someone new. I really like to pop right away. After a minute or two I like to change cover and go for literally 3-8 more minutes to pop again. WHY IS THIS SUCH A PROBLEM LADIES? So just to note, I DO NOT ever go back to "one pop" only providers. All my regulars are more than happy to let me get two pops in during a 15-20 min hhr. Session.
This was similar to my experience with Delicious Dawn a year ago. She was basically the hottest provider I had ever seen. She was fantastic, all over me, totally into it. When I asked her if I could get two quick pops, I get a stern,"No, only one pop, I don't "do" multiple pops" for an answer. I am suppose to pay double for the hr rate to get the extra 5 min pop. Had she let me pop twice per my routine, I would have never gone to any other provider again. I seriously probably would have spent thousands over the last year on Dawn. Needless to say, I haven't seen Dawn since. Unfortunately, many providers lose good regulars because they will not under any circunstances allow for two pops during their hhr sessions. I wish providers would quote rates by the pop instead of 15 min is this much, hhr is this much, hr is this much etc. Why can't they say one pop hhr is this price, two pop hhr is this price. Two pop hr is this price. What do you think ladies?[/QUOTE]Sounds like the music industries one hit wonders. My questions to you sir is that did you take that shit back to Walmart, after all you did have the receipt didn't you? You can't be a nice guy to some peeps it's makes them think you're weak as it did in this instance. Especially with a new provider. You got to keep your pimp hand strong my brother. This is why I really like Allie who has been MIA but I recently found out she is on vacation. She has never rushed me whether an hh or full hour and I have been able to pop as many times as I've wanted as I'm sure others that have seen her has as well. Anyway to clarify not calling you weak at all just saying that I guess this young lady thought she had a sucker just because you were being nice after all you got the last laugh and we know what that entitles. He who gets the last laugh, laughs best. BTW didn't get the providers name so I can put in my watch list to see how others rate her.
Happy hunting to all and to all a good night.
[QUOTE=BahamaMama; 1716307]So I saw a provider earlier tonight. We texted and set things up. I stop by a Wal-mart on the way to the incall local. Just to be nice I text the provider and ask if she needs me to pick her up anything. I'm thinking cigs, or a coke or something. The weather was bad so I could have even gotten her some milk or something. I was thinking I was being a pretty swell guy. So she finally texts back after I had checked out and was back out in my car. I call her. She proceeds to tell me she wants me to pick up a certain silk robe, on a certain rack, in a certain size. Then she needs toiletries, and certain brands. She wants me to pick up some specific storage containers from the school supply section. Ok, so I am thinking maybe if I go to all this trouble she will be extra accommodating. When I get to her room at the location she tells me that she was leaving the same Wal-Mart when I called, and had me go back in for a few extra things she wanted. This kind of irritated me, because I spent $25 bucks and had to go back, and go all over Wal-mart to find this crap. So anyway, we are chatting and she asks me if I am looking for a regular provider. She says she would like me to be a regular and only see her from now on. LOL. So we get to it. She is not GFE as decribed. Their is no kissing etc. She was not into it at all. She just layed there like a dead fish. Thirty seconds in during mish I say,"So do you think since I went to all that trouble to get that stuff at Wal-Mart, could I (GOD FORBID) get an extra pop." She sternly says,"No, I only allow "one pop" per session." Keep in mind that I was only quoted one flat rate. At no time was there any discussion about hhr's or hr rates.
Ugghhhh. This so irritates me. When I am with a provider I am pretty excited about being intimate with someone new. I really like to pop right away. After a minute or two I like to change cover and go for literally 3-8 more minutes to pop again. WHY IS THIS SUCH A PROBLEM LADIES? So just to note, I DO NOT ever go back to "one pop" only providers. All my regulars are more than happy to let me get two pops in during a 15-20 min hhr. Session.
This was similar to my experience with Delicious Dawn a year ago. She was basically the hottest provider I had ever seen. She was fantastic, all over me, totally into it. When I asked her if I could get two quick pops, I get a stern,"No, only one pop, I don't "do" multiple pops" for an answer. I am suppose to pay double for the hr rate to get the extra 5 min pop. Had she let me pop twice per my routine, I would have never gone to any other provider again. I seriously probably would have spent thousands over the last year on Dawn. Needless to say, I haven't seen Dawn since. Unfortunately, many providers lose good regulars because they will not under any circunstances allow for two pops during their hhr sessions. I wish providers would quote rates by the pop instead of 15 min is this much, hhr is this much, hr is this much etc. Why can't they say one pop hhr is this price, two pop hhr is this price. Two pop hr is this price. What do you think ladies?[/QUOTE]. I have always understood a half hour to be a one pop an if a fella wants multi pops he gets more time thats how iv always understood the hobby to be an most girls operate by that guidline.
[QUOTE=Caligulaxxx;1716407]. I have always understood a half hour to be a one pop an if a fella wants multi pops he gets more time thats how I've always understood the hobby to be an most girls operate by that guidline.[/QUOTE]Cali.
I agree with you thats the way I've understood the hobby for most girls. HHR is one pop and add more time for more pops.
JG
[QUOTE=Zomby; 1713550]Molly's right, pay cash if you can. You'll be much better off in the long run.
Building credit is another matter, one of borrowing money and paying it back timely. According to a family member who works in collections, the only sure fire method for building a good credit score is to borrow money from a reliable lender, a bank, credit union or strong, stable finance companies, like the ones all the auto manufacturers operate, and then pay it back on time and in full. Very early payoffs, such as paying a loan off in the first few months, or never keeping a balance on your credit card, are not going to help you as much, as they don't give any indication of your ability and willingness to pay off a long term loan. Remember, lenders don't make as much money when you pay their loans off early.
Be leery of anybody who claims to be able to build your credit without actually taking out a loan in your own name. Many of the "companies" that make this claim are scams who just want to either loan you money at exorbitant interest rates, or have you deposit [I]your [/I]money in an account that doesn't earn interest, in order to "secure" a credit card or other loan instrument. The problem arises when they don't report the results to the credit reporting agencies, which many of them don't, because it costs [I]them [/I]money to do so, which means you get no benefit at all with regard to credit rating, and have spent a bunch of money doing it.
The best way to build credit also happens to be the simplest. Go to a bank and get their credit card, even if it has a crappy interest rate. Most of these cards have a minimum payment that is either a percentage of the outstanding balance or some hard dollar amount like twenty-five dollars, whichever is higher. Buy something that will take you six months to pay off at that minimum amount, then pay it off in six months and check your credit score. Then do it again. Check your credit score again, it should be pretty decent by that time.
If you have no choice but to borrow money for a car, go to a bank, or a major brand new car dealer, even if you don't buy a new car, for a loan. The bank may want a co-signer, and the dealership will give you a crappy interest rate if you have no credit at all. Make sure there are no pre-payment penalties, and then pay it off no sooner than six months, and no longer than twelve. The six month window is for credit building, and the twelve month limit is to reduce interest charges, if your interested in that. If you get good terms, you should let it go longer, as that will only help your credit score. Remember, they don't really [I]want [/I]you to pay it off early, no matter [I]what [/I]the loan officer says. (: The bank will definitely take your tax return as proof of income, especially if you have more than one year's worth, and the new car dealership almost certainly will do so.
The advantage to having a new car dealer or bank write the loan is that they will faithfully report it to the credit agencies, both good and bad. Billy Joe Bubba's Used Cars will sell your loan to (or contract with to take it in the first place) a finance company. Most of those will diligently report when you fuck up, but some are not as diligent about reporting the good part, the regular payments. These folks may take your tax return, but I wouldn't bet on it.
I'm also skeptical of the claim that adding oneself as an "authorized user" to another person's loan will work. If you're not the one who is legally responsible for paying back the loan, that is, the person who actually signed the loan document, then you don't get any of the, ahem, credit for paying the loan back.
If you have [I]bad [/I]credit, as opposed to [I]no [/I]credit, these things will still work, especially the credit card one, but they will cost you more.[/QUOTE]As I was reading this, most of its true, BUT.
Whatever you do. DON'T keep going back to check your credit scores.
That will drive down your credit scores if you keep going back checking into it.
And it will also throw up red flags if you have it checked to much. I know this for a fact, it happened to me when I refinanced my house. Because months before I refinanced my house I also bought a new car for my wife, and 2 months before that I co-signed for my daughters car. In essence, I had my credit score checked 3 times in less than a half year. And red flags were thrown up because my score was checked to many times.
What Ally needs is a rich Sugardaddy.
[QUOTE=BahamaMama;1716307]Ugghhhh. This so irritates me. When I am with a provider I am pretty excited about being intimate with someone new. I really like to pop right away. After a minute or two I like to change cover and go for literally 3-8 more minutes to pop again. WHY IS THIS SUCH A PROBLEM LADIES? So just to note, I DO NOT ever go back to "one pop" only providers. All my regulars are more than happy to let me get two pops in during a 15-20 min hhr. Session.[/QUOTE]Dang dude. I wish I had your recovery skills. Consider yourself lucky. I usually have one HARD pop and that's it. Always been that way. And usually have to work hard for it too, to the point where if it takes too long my body becomes bored, even if I'm not, and loses interest then I have to self finish. As someone else said, typically hhr rates are for one pop. Some providers may allow more than one for a hhr session, but a hhr is usually meant to be a "quickie." You will find this to be the case more often than not. If you are only getting one pop, don't race to the finish so fast. Slow down and enjoy yourself then look elsewhere. Or find out up front that way you don't get surprised. Just my 2 cents.
[QUOTE=Caligulaxxx;1716407]. I have always understood a half hour to be a one pop an if a fella wants multi pops he gets more time thats how iv always understood the hobby to be an most girls operate by that guidline.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=Anderson74;1716461]Dang dude. I wish I had your recovery skills. Consider yourself lucky. I usually have one HARD pop and that's it. Always been that way. And usually have to work hard for it too, to the point where if it takes too long my body becomes bored, even if I'm not, and loses interest then I have to self finish. As someone else said, typically hhr rates are for one pop. Some providers may allow more than one for a hhr session, but a hhr is usually meant to be a "quickie." You will find this to be the case more often than not. If you are only getting one pop, don't race to the finish so fast. Slow down and enjoy yourself then look elsewhere. Or find out up front that way you don't get surprised. Just my 2 cents.[/QUOTE]I have seen several posts that are listed h, hh and short stay if hh is understood to be one pop or a quickie what does short stay stand for? And on the matter if bmama pacing himself maybe he needs to settle into his own niche its the whole old bull young bull theory. Take him by the hand and teach him about it LOL.
EFU
[QUOTE=EnufForU; 1716352]Sounds like the music industries one hit wonders. My questions to you sir is that did you take that shit back to Walmart, after all you did have the receipt didn't you? You can't be a nice guy to some peeps it's makes them think you're weak as it did in this instance. Especially with a new provider. You got to keep your pimp hand strong my brother. This is why I really like Allie who has been MIA but I recently found out she is on vacation. She has never rushed me whether an hh or full hour and I have been able to pop as many times as I've wanted as I'm sure others that have seen her has as well. Anyway to clarify not calling you weak at all just saying that I guess this young lady thought she had a sucker just because you were being nice after all you got the last laugh and we know what that entitles. He who gets the last laugh, laughs best. BTW didn't get the providers name so I can put in my watch list to see how others rate her.
Happy hunting to all and to all a good night.[/QUOTE]You are right, this is exactly what happened. For what it's worth as I was leaving I picked up one of my bills off of the nightstand, and said,"I will take this to cover the shit I bought."