Deep Fakes & wild goose chases
I agree some of these fakes are getting harder to spot so it's tempting to TOFTT.
But before following Robov down the rabbit hole I'd also suggest you ask for a unique selfie confirmation pic and maybe even mention you'll only pay cash before you jump into your car to TOFTT. It seems there are more and more scammers out there using real pics to lure mongers to a hotel parking lot only to be asked for a $50 cashApp deposit. Even if "she" negotiates down to 5 bucks before giving you her room number DON'T DO IT. It's probably a dude living in his mother's basement running this scam 1000 times a day all across the country. Too many guys feel committed after the drive and will throw good money away in hopes it's legit. Don't fall for it.
[QUOTE=PokerProgr;5434375]LOL. Thanks. Just curious, how did you find out they are fakes?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=RobovDaslav;5435140]Honestly, other than their pics being a little on the "To Good To Be True" side, I actually wouldn't immediately call them fakes, at least the first and last one. I doubt you'd get the bombshells in those pictures coming to the door, but I don't think it would hurt to go down the rabbit hole, with some heavy caution and an exit strategy.
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I will never send a Selfie
[QUOTE=PrivateParts;5435191]I agree some of these fakes are getting harder to spot so it's tempting to TOFTT.
But before following Robov down the rabbit hole I'd also suggest you ask for a unique selfie confirmation pic and maybe even mention you'll only pay cash before you jump into your car to TOFTT. It seems there are more and more scammers out there using real pics to lure mongers to a hotel parking lot only to be asked for a $50 cashApp deposit. Even if "she" negotiates down to 5 bucks before giving you her room number DON'T DO IT. It's probably a dude living in his mother's basement running this scam 1000 times a day all across the country. Too many guys feel committed after the drive and will throw good money away in hopes it's legit. Don't fall for it.[/QUOTE]I wholeheartedly disagree Private Parts. If a monger cannot respect my discretion, I will not add to his picture collection. As far as I am concerned, the only one who would request or even require that I send them a face picture would be a cop. If I send a selfie and it ends up being a sting, that just makes it all the more easy for them to arrest me. Your advice isn't very good because it doesn't respect the provider's need for discretion. Also, you never want to speak of "cash" or even electronic payments directly. They can get you with solicitation even for simply having the conversation to set things up. You don't even have to go through with anything for them to charge you. Stay safe out there guys!
Did you even read his post? Private parts hit the nail on the head with facts.
[QUOTE=AdorableRose;5435267]I wholeheartedly disagree Private Parts. If a monger cannot respect my discretion, I will not add to his picture collection. As far as I am concerned, the only one who would request or even require that I send them a face picture would be a cop. If I send a selfie and it ends up being a sting, that just makes it all the more easy for them to arrest me. Your advice isn't very good because it doesn't respect the provider's need for discretion. Also, you never want to speak of "cash" or even electronic payments directly. They can get you with solicitation even for simply having the conversation to set things up. You don't even have to go through with anything for them to charge you. Stay safe out there guys![/QUOTE]We're not out here asking for selfies with a face photo. We're asking for unique pose to prove authenticity. If they want to send it with a face more power to them it makes our lives easier for finding real legit woman in a place where it's mostly scams and bullshit. To many fakes with fake photos to take chances. If a girl doesn't want to send a verification picture doing something I ask face or no face then she doesn't need my or anyone else's money. The ones who have nothing to hide and are real and legit for the most part have no problem doing so. Also private parts information is perfectly worded and stated for safety. He also wasn't saying to cash app ladies money prior because it's a most likely going to be a fuck you over type situation. He was advising against it. So really your whole post about disagreements with his post is mute and not needed as are most of what else I've read that you've posted. Pretty sure your status on here is advertiser so maybe you should stick to just that. We're out here helping each other stay safe and protected and to not loose money on bullshit and bullshit people. Has nothing to do with discretion we all want discretion and safety that's why we do what we do and steps we take to stay safe.
The Selfie request advice
I appreciate AdorableRose's input. But to be clear I advise that only when I'm reaching out to a complete unknown. It's after I've done all my homework and can't find reviews or other known history on a woman. Especially when the pictures in the ad look like a model.
Asking 20 questions, requesting a confirmation pic, etc from a well known & reviewed provider is a definite faux pa and highly discouraged. I've posted all that in the New Member Guide a number of different times on how to contact a provider without her ignoring you.
And while some real providers may not send a face selfie, many, I mean a vast majority of legit providers will upon request. I understand Roses concern, but this advice is for Mongers to avoid getting scammed or time wasted. Not to mention the simple fact that most escorts already have their face pic and phone number plastered all over the internet in sex ads already. So good luck with that if you are unfortunate enough to get caught in a sting. Your phone will be confiscated as evidence along with 100's of texts supporting the prosecution's case.
[QUOTE=AdorableRose;5435267]I wholeheartedly disagree Private Parts. If a monger cannot respect my discretion, I will not add to his picture collection. As far as I am concerned, the only one who would request or even require that I send them a face picture would be a cop. If I send a selfie and it ends up being a sting, that just makes it all the more easy for them to arrest me. Your advice isn't very good because it doesn't respect the provider's need for discretion. Also, you never want to speak of "cash" or even electronic payments directly. They can get you with solicitation even for simply having the conversation to set things up. You don't even have to go through with anything for them to charge you. Stay safe out there guys![/QUOTE]