My experience with gansta SB
[QUOTE=CuriousVaMan;6520806]When I stumbled into the SD / SB world and found USASG about 18 months ago, I was advised to review the Richmond SB Forum, starting with Post #1 and reading through to the present. For whatever reason, the Richmond Forum was the premier SD / SB forum featuring contributions from SDs throughout the nation and contained some very useful advice. Lately, I've gone back and read through some of these conversations for a 2nd time.
Back then, there was a contributor named Hernando that devised a scale for classifying SBs, with a "Nando1" being the lowest on the scale. Basically, a Nando-1 was the desperate SB, usually with a tenuous living situation, an unreliable job, maybe a kid or two and always reaching out for monetary help. They might also be higher volume as they command less sugar.
A question for you guys: Do you keep any Nando1's in the rotation? Or do you fuck 'them once and move on?
I have a Nando1 in rotation and just found out she has a rather extensive police record. A search of the VA crime database reveals she's been nabbed for shoplifting, unauthorized use of a car, possession of drug paraphernalia all since the beginning of the year. She has an upcoming court date or two. She's been good to me, but I don't need the complications of fucking some chick that's a cop magnet. She's been in my car once going to / from the FC I shudder to think if I had been pulled over and she presented some evidence of drug use / paraphernalia in my car.[/QUOTE]I had a few similar situations in the past and despite the explosive session with the gansta SB, it was a one and done. Like me, you're probably one of the few people in their lives that treat them half way decent. She's getting good dick, getting paid and she feels relatively safe with you. Most likely multiple visits will have her catching feelings and you nor her need that in your lives. Lastly, I didn't want to jeopardize getting caught up in her mess. Imagine getting pulled over with her in your car and she gets arrested or cited. I don't know the laws about that but your name might be attached to her because she's with you.
Just something to keep in mind especially if you have a significant other, a cleared job or a public figure.
Stay safe. Kid.
I had one of these as well
[QUOTE=KidFarian;6520968]I had a few similar situations in the past and despite the explosive session with the gansta SB, it was a one and done. Like me, you're probably one of the few people in their lives that treat them half way decent. She's getting good dick, getting paid and she feels relatively safe with you. Most likely multiple visits will have her catching feelings and you nor her need that in your lives. Lastly, I didn't want to jeopardize getting caught up in her mess. Imagine getting pulled over with her in your car and she gets arrested or cited. I don't know the laws about that but your name might be attached to her because she's with you.
Just something to keep in mind especially if you have a significant other, a cleared job or a public figure.
Stay safe. Kid.[/QUOTE]I had one of these.
We saw each other for a few months. Was some of the best damn sex I ever had. It was intense and several rounds. But she did start catching feelings and no money was exchanged. She eventually found a boyfriend and I turned out I was her side piece LOL. It was kinda turn on doing several dirty deeds then having her shower to head over to her guys place. That being said I would never look at anything long term because her history, the world she came from she would never leave no matter how hard she tried, and most importantly she was crazy deeper down.
She did confess that she liked being with me because I was straight with her, didn't judge her for her past and encouraged her to grow a better life with some guidance. Not to be cruel but I was never going to bring her into my world or risk my life and future for that POA.
That being said I also have another SB who hits me up regularly and I treat in my own unsavory way and she likes it. Car meetings, on demand meeting and so fourth.
No one in this game is worth your future or safety no matter how good their story or intentions.
All the more reason to run FaceCheck
It doesn't happen a lot, but every once in a while, you'll catch a girl who has a mugshot on one of those sleazy arrest websites. One of the chicks I messaged on SDM popped right up from that, and SB / low-end pro Lucy / Zoe / Sage that a few have reported on in Silver Spring / TKPK also has a rap sheet a mile long (and in fact may be "quiet" right now because she's getting a vacation).
