The answer to your dilemma
[QUOTE=John G Smith; 1736017]This is a pretty good suggestion! I've been also thinking about similar options like others here. Problem with a lease for an apartment, the credit check will show up on your credit report and usually they'll require deposits of the first and last month. You'll also need to pay utilities and possibly buy some basic furnishing. And then the SB also has a physical location to tie your real identity to. And if you decide to keep a full-time SB in your apartment, you'll have eviction and guest issues that Hernando experienced.
I just did a quick search, and quite a few 2 star hotels offer weekly and monthly rates. I found some motel 6's near my area for $42 a night over a month, $50 a night over a week. That comes to about $350 a week or $1200-1300 a month but that includes utilities and house-keeping. No credit checks. And you're not locked into a long-term lease. Also I bet if you called up a mom & pop motel you might be able to get a more competitive weekly or monthly rate. If I could find a place that would rent a room for $1000 a month or 250 a week, I might experiment with this for a month at some point. As Hernando said, aside from having a dedicated FC it's useful for storing your sex and sugar paraphernalia. The only downside is that my current SB is 90 miles away, so having a local rental FC would be mostly useless to me at the moment.[/QUOTE]Well any ways. One answer to your dilemma is to have a single guy friend rent you his extra bedroom for your FC.
Opsec: Iphone / ipad update
It has been reported to me that the new iOS update has the ability to turn on iMessage to all devices that share the same apple ID. This means all messages sent from one device will appear on all other devices that share the same apple ID. And all messages received on the device will appear on other devices that share the apple ID. From a COMSEC perspective this could spell disaster for you should one of your devices be outside of your control while conducting "eyes only" messaging operations.
For example, I am often asked: "Why do you need your computer, iPad and iPhone all of the time. Can't I borrow your iPad for a moment?" A moment later you receive a communication from a (ahem)"Sugar Baby" on your phone while your wife is using your iPad. One week later your wife begins a conversation with: "Are you involved with any other women?" At which point there is NO good answer as she has already told you she knows by the question alone. She then advises that: "After my attorney gets done with you, you'll have blood dripping from your ass!". This is what is known my brothers as the classic "bad scene".
Don't wind up with blood dripping from your ass! Practice OPSEC. And keep your COMSEC tight!
Sometimes simpler is better
[QUOTE=Blak Casper;1738690]Even free texting apps like Pinger / Textfree (which are great for the anonymity) show up on your Ipad, etc. Along with the string of messages. Even google voice does this. so if you share devices beware!![/QUOTE]I started with a cheap burner phone years ago and have stuck with it ever since, even though texting on it can be very similar to torture for me. If that's what it takes to get panties on the floor, I'll do it. My Sugar cell doesn't link to anything, and I always store it in the same secure place when it's not in use. As for email, as has been said, I keep a dedicated address for all my Sugar activities, and only access it via the provider's website. I never download anything, not even pics, as much as I might like to sneak a quick peak from time to time. I also make sure to log off every time, even if I'm just going to take a piss. The last thing I want is for a wandering family member to glance at the screen when I've been emailing a baby.
I know this "dual" system can be cumbersome, but it helps to promote in my mind the idea that I am under cover, and my Sugar identity is NOT my real identity
The Sugar Bowl Gives And The Sugar Bowl Takes Away
The Sugar Bowl Gives And The Sugar Bowl Takes Away.
It has been quite a week. I am going to have to slow down my pace. But I must admit overall I feel energized.
So the week started off with a shock.
REVVOATF: This was bad. Real bad. Things had been going very well. And all of a sudden she up and quit on me. This was a shock! Things were going so well. It was almost erie how well. We really were very well matched. She is 39 knew her way around and did not cause any problems. She was sexy beautiful and fun, and exciting. She had a life and wanted to live it. But she did have a child and wanted to meet on weekends when she could drop her child off at her moms. I could only meet on weekdays when I was in her town. This caused a hardship for her. And she told me she could not do it anymore. She is hurting for money and was giving up the allowance I was giving her. She has either found another SD or she is really comiitted to doing what she wants. I have repeatedly checked her for lies and have found not one inconsistency. This really sucks. I am suprised at how much this affected me. But I must say she has way outdistanced all other babies I have been with. The only other alternative is REVVOSB1, which my ATF beats her but it is closer. Oh well I am getting over it. But it aint fun.
REVVOSB1: My little fortune cookie is going strong. Very different person. Mellow and quite. But quite passionate in the FC. She is willing to do anything I can think of so far. No drama. No bullshit. She is very accommodating and affectionate. She is very cool. But I will say she is not at exciting and fun as my ATF was. She is absolutely beautiful. Dresses real classy and never wears underwear when she is wearing a skirt or dress. Its always nice to be able to sneak a little feel under her dress when we are out. So sexy.
REVVOPOT1: Very nice latina 20YO 8 head, 7 body, and 8 personality. Sweet as can be. Very willing to follow my lead. She is self sufficient and is going to start college in a few weeks. She is also getting her own apartment so she will be able to host soon. We have not visited the FC yet. But we are close. She was very willing. We did some serious making out but no FC. When we left she texted me 10 minutes later wanting to talk about planning the big day. These young babies you have to really go slow. But since I was cool about everything and she was not feeling any pressure, she came around. So we are set for next week.
REVVOPOT2: This was a big bust. Chick was a solid 10 but had a bad case of GPS, even after she agreed to $$. She even wanted to charge me to meet. So we ended it.
REVVOPOT3: This one was a very strong college student Eastern Indian. 23YO 9 head. 9 body. 4 attitude. She had an even worse case of GPS. If you do not get this money thing out of the way up front. It can really bite you wasting your time. So she is out of here. We had a long text exchange about value and the sugar bowl. Here is a little of it:
Aghamora: I've decided I would only meet up with you for 500 bucks 8:37 PM.
Me: Is that 500 just to meet? 8:37 PM.
Aghamora: Ok I am just going to be honest with you. I am attracted to you, I am interested, but I am also looking for money for school. 8:41 PM.
Me: Honesty is good. Lets be honest. I am attracted to you and I am very interested. And this is a sugar daddy dating site so money is a part of it. 8:44 PM.
Me:. So you want 500 just to meet? 8:45 PM.
Aghamora: Yes 8:47 PM.
Me: Well sweetie I cannot do that. And I do want to meet you. But I never pay someone to meet them. You are very attractive and interesting and I can help you out but. 8:50 PM.
Me:. I have met many beautiful women on here and on my own and I never paid anyone money to meet. 8:50 PM.
Me: Ok sweetie. It was very nice meeting you. I enjoyed chatting with you. Please let me know if you change your mind. .9:32 PM.
Aghamora: sorry I am not changing my mind. I have only been with 2 guys my whole life, I'm foreign, I'm sexy and this is the first time I'm doing this. I am definitely not changing my mind. If you change your mind let me know. 3:33 PM.
Me: Sweetie. I would never ask you to do something you do not want to do. But I think you should know a few things. I have had several sugar babies they were all very beautiful and some went on to be long term. 4:18 PM.
Me:. I have friends that have dated many SB's. And I have never paid for someone to just meet me. And the most I have ever paid for a visit is 200 and that is for everything. Yes your are cute and foreign. But for example. 4:20 PM.
Me:. My last SB was Asian, beautiful and she was 25 and had an Ivy League education. And we adored each other and truly had a great time together. Good luck with your search. .4:22 PM.
Aghamora: goodluck to you too. It was great talking to you 5:00 PM.
Aghamora: and I am aerospace engineering major by the way. 200 for everything that is crazyy and cheap, but I guess we are just not for each other. 5:49 PM.
Me: Aghamora. I understnad how you feel. This is a market just like anything else. You are educated so you understand there is supply and there is demand. For every man on the SD site there are 20 women. 6:12 PM.
REVVOPOT4: This is a sweet little 20 yo white baby 8 head. 8 body. 7 attitude. At first had a little attitude but she came around kind of quickly. She is very responsive and sexy. We are still working on schedules but not been able to meet yet. But she seems very willing and wants to meet. Works as a server at night. So it is hard to find a good time to meet.
Much more to write not much time right now. Will come up with an update soon.
Be careful out there,
Revvo
SB Status Update. TiggerHarem
Hollywood has inspired me. So let me see, maybe I'm underestimating the fun I'm having.
NSA / Bootycall Group.
(Maryland)
- Thick 28 year old AA, with own place, career, etc. $200 per month. Met on SA Seeing her 2 to 3 times a month. #FreakyDentalAssitant.
- Thick big body AA 37 year old (H-Boobs. Big shapely butt. Almost no fat on her at all). Met on AM, meeting once a month. No cost #MsBigBody.
(Virginia)
-MsOxyMoron. $400 per month, seeing her once a week. I'm still paying for hotels, but found a 3 star for $88
-FreakyLatina. Thick Latina, met on AM. We meet Once a month. No cost.
Potential Girlfriend Group (agreed gift amounts)
MsSuccessful. We stopped seeing each other. She's married and her situation just changed too much for us to be a good fit. (no cost)
Druggie College SB. Spinner, with great face, we are just not a good match. ($700 per month)
-South Carolina 24 Year AA, nice legs, big boobs, little extra around the waist. She's moving here in the fall. She will have her own place and be a full time student. We are meeting in a few weeks. ($750 per month)
-Baltimore 21 year old AA college cutie. Just started emailing, have not met yet.
-DC 21 year old AA, works and goes to school in accounting field. Only exchanging emails so far.
Long Distance Group.
-Atlanta Big Butt friend. Was meeting once a month, now once every 2 months. Cover cost of expenses and $200 cash spending money when she's here.
-Alabama friend. 5'11, big boobs, runner. Met on dating site many years back. I see her once every 3 to 4 months. Expenses only.
-California White Thick 4'11, big boobs and big butt. We've not met, but she's ready to cum visit. Expenses only.
-Delaware 5'7 AA with not butt but big boobs. We were meeting once a month, but now it's very sporadic. $60-100 when we meet.
-Delaware 5'4 AA with big butt and big boobs. She has a butt that's even distracting to women. We were meeting once a month, but now it's very sporadic. $60-100 when we meet.
-Tidewater area Virgina, very pretty AA. 44 years old, nice boobs. Absolutely flat as ironing board butt. Meeting once a month. Met on AM. No cost.
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Currently on the hook for $400 with MsOxyMoron, plus $360 in hotel bills.
Everyone else is pay as you go or we have not sealed the deal on the arrangement yet.
I have a big boobs or big butt fetish. Gotta have one or the other or be really cute/pretty.
I'm trying to stay under a total monthly budget of $1500
BigTigg
"I'd rather have a 6 three times than a 10 once"