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I'm getting a bad feeling about this classified business. I think if you do it you have to make sure in some way that the advertisers and the respondents are real and not setups. There comes a point when certain activity gets so obvious and blatant that the gestapo gets the feeling that they have to make an example of the participants. I'm sure everyone knows what I mean. Other than that, I love the idea.
Cheech.
Even though I'm in Cleveland.
[QUOTE=Cheech1;2080281]I'm getting a bad feeling about this classified business. I think if you do it you have to make sure in some way that the advertisers and the respondents are real and not setups. There comes a point when certain activity gets so obvious and blatant that the gestapo gets the feeling that they have to make an example of the participants. I'm sure everyone knows what I mean. Other than that, I love the idea.
Cheech.
Even though I'm in Cleveland.[/QUOTE]And is it unreachable for the new talent to get in, whether $ or basic knowledge. Everyone has a starting point. Anyone doing their homework already deflects that nonsense. I've learned to control my appetite. I'll wait months for a safe bet. Of course, moments of weakness are understandable.
I'd say go off A2's handling of the forum as an overview. Manages well. That'll keep a board alive for years. Nothing is bullet proof, understood.
[QUOTE=Cnorse27;2079199]I'd use it. Would allow me to get at specific.. Interests or at the very least do new things with known providers.[/QUOTE]Great idea with the proper limitations.
Greetings from Memphis. This Southern Belle is Mimi, my favorite long-legged redhead. I have not seen her for a while so we got together yesterday. She more than made up for lost time. As you can see, she has no problem with my "tasteful explicit" style of photography.
[QUOTE=Glockman;2081277]Greetings from Memphis. This Southern Belle is Mimi, my favorite long-legged redhead. I have not seen her for a while so we got together yesterday. She more than made up for lost time. As you can see, she has no problem with my "tasteful explicit" style of photography.[/QUOTE]She is a sexy Doll. Once again my cup of tea 4 sure! Thanks my friend.
[QUOTE=Cheech1;2080281]I'm getting a bad feeling about this classified business. I think if you do it you have to make sure in some way that the advertisers and the respondents are real and not setups. There comes a point when certain activity gets so obvious and blatant that the gestapo gets the feeling that they have to make an example of the participants. I'm sure everyone knows what I mean. Other than that, I love the idea.
Cheech.
Even though I'm in Cleveland.[/QUOTE]Verification is something we are thinking about. I read a lot of posts from you guys about BP so we know it's an issue. As far as the forum is concerned, I use chrome when I work so I'm already right clicking on new pics on new ads. If they come back as some internet model I delete the ad. We have some other ideas for our new site that we want to implement as well. I don't think anybody can ever make this bulletproof but our intention is to try. Since they don't at all right now I think it will make a superior product. Time will tell if the market likes it. We aren't looking to get a million ads, we are looking to get good ads and combine that with a great review site.
[QUOTE=Admin2;2076376]
I'm going to look into Square.[/QUOTE]Square's great for card-present transactions, but not really good for anything else.
If I happened to be in your shoes, I would take a good look at either Stripe or Braintree Payments.
I believe that Braintree handles the payments for village voice (backpage).
Just FYI, they are payment providers that are specific to the 'adult' industry, however, they suck, they charge an insane amount of money, and there are complains after complains on some of the adult webmaster communities about them. The one thing that you'll have to be on the lookout for are chargebacks -- I've heard that backpage has a chargeback rate of somewhere around 13-17% each month...and at $25-75 per pop from the processor, that tends to make margins very, very thin.
MM.
Well here I am again alone smoking cigar with glass of fine chard. BC gone to bed. Would like to hear what Cincinnati mongers and gals are doing after their Skylight are up to.
[QUOTE=MisforMaster;2081596]Square's great for card-present transactions, but not really good for anything else.
If I happened to be in your shoes, I would take a good look at either Stripe or Braintree Payments.
I believe that Braintree handles the payments for village voice (backpage).
Just FYI, they are payment providers that are specific to the 'adult' industry, however, they suck, they charge an insane amount of money, and there are complains after complains on some of the adult webmaster communities about them. The one thing that you'll have to be on the lookout for are chargebacks -- I've heard that backpage has a chargeback rate of somewhere around 13-17% each month...and at $25-75 per pop from the processor, that tends to make margins very, very thin.
MM.[/QUOTE]We aren't going into this business to make a fortune for card processors.
[QUOTE=Admin2;2081703]We aren't going into this business to make a fortune for card processors.[/QUOTE]I don't think that anyone does, but this type of 'business' is considered high risk, and high risk == more money sucked out of your account if you go at this in a legitimate fashion.
Back when I worked at $ADULT_COMPANY, we started off at $.75 per authorization and then they processors took 10.9% of every transaction, but by the time I left, I believe we had that moved down to $.35 per auth and 5.9% of every transaction, keeping 10% of our sales in a rolling reserve for chargebacks. Then again, this was the early 2000's, so a lot has changed since then, but adult processing is still a fustercluck.
MM.
I think your best bet would be to just set up a front business there in BA to handle the credit card payments. You could set up a sightseeing recommendation company, and create a nice little 10 page brochure that you could e-mail to customers. They get the classified listing for free. - grin. Then, you of course have to actually e-mail the brochure, and of course it can have monthly updates and so on. Which of course you charge a fee for. A legitimate charge for a legitimate product. You shouldn't have any more than normal cc charges and exchange fees, you could even set up the account someplace where the US dollar, such as it is, can be deposited without exchange to local currency. Check it out.
Cheech.
[QUOTE=Cheech1;2082072]I think your best bet would be to just set up a front business there in BA to handle the credit card payments. You could set up a sightseeing recommendation company, and create a nice little 10 page brochure that you could e-mail to customers. They get the classified listing for free. - grin. Then, you of course have to actually e-mail the brochure, and of course it can have monthly updates and so on. Which of course you charge a fee for. A legitimate charge for a legitimate product. You shouldn't have any more than normal cc charges and exchange fees, you could even set up the account someplace where the US dollar, such as it is, can be deposited without exchange to local currency. Check it out.
Cheech.[/QUOTE]But like Vince Vaughn said in Mr and Mrs Smith "I like where your head's at, man.".
Sooooooo.
The Viking that usually stays at the Monger Mansion every other month for a month is only going to be here for 9 days this month. He has informed me that I will be going out with him tonight. I am right to be frightened. I suspect serious debauchery will be roaming the misty streets of Buenos Aires tonight. I would give more details but you guys have far too many reasons to hate me already.
Pray for me.
A2.
[QUOTE=Admin2;2082404]Sooooooo.
The Viking that usually stays at the Monger Mansion every other month for a month is only going to be here for 9 days this month. He has informed me that I will be going out with him tonight. I am right to be frightened. I suspect serious debauchery will be roaming the misty streets of Buenos Aires tonight. I would give more details but you guys have far too many reasons to hate me already.
Pray for me.
A2.[/QUOTE]We'll pray your dick can stay hard enough for all the debauchery that is forthcoming but we WILL want some details!!
Luv.
[QUOTE=LuvdaLadys14;2082437]We'll pray your dick can stay hard enough for all the debauchery that is forthcoming but we WILL want some details!!
Luv.[/QUOTE]I didn't realize that Floyd was fighting an Argentino (that kid was pretty fucking good) it was like a hooker holiday here tonight. Saturdays are never good but this was terrible.
A2, I'm just a nice old Sicilian guy trying to get by. A sailor on the seas of fate.
Cheech.
The change of weatrher changes a lot. The harley is ready to ride, I won't be paying for pussy for quite awhile, not hard to do, better quality also I'm only in this hobby temporarily, cane here out of a relqationship, filled the gaps, but it's not for me on a full time basis too much free stuff out here have fun, play safe I;m out of here.
So I get this post reported by some chick. It was in the rip off section. The guy said "She took my money and left." The girl sent me this report saying "he only put that there because I refused his offer of sex for money, which is illegal in my state.".
I answered her back with "Then it seems like he's trying to clarify the confusing message in your BackPage ad where you promised a 'night of unbelievable passion with a money-back guarantee.' Seems to me he's helping you because no other guys who are confused on the issue and might think you would stoop so low as to offer a service which is illegal in your state will bother you anymore. As a matter of fact, he wanted to help you so much that he also took the time to post the pictures from your ad. We at USASG are also glad to give you in a hand in your desire to weed out any potential respondents who might be confused by your ad. No thanks are needed.".
Seems that wasn't what she was looking for.
Really? Really?! How could you tell?
[QUOTE=Admin2;2083055]So I get this post reported by some chick. It was in the rip off section. The guy said "She took my money and left." The girl sent me this report saying "he only put that there because I refused his offer of sex for money, which is illegal in my state.".
I answered her back with "Then it seems like he's trying to clarify the confusing message in your BackPage ad where you promised a 'night of unbelievable passion with a money-back guarantee.' Seems to me he's helping you because no other guys who are confused on the issue and might think you would stoop so low as to offer a service which is illegal in your state will bother you anymore. As a matter of fact, he wanted to help you so much that he also took the time to post the pictures from your ad. We at USASG are also glad to give you in a hand in your desire to weed out any potential respondents who might be confused by your ad. No thanks are needed.".
Seems that wasn't what she was looking for.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=RedBred;2083110]Really? Really?! How could you tell?[/QUOTE]The (at last count) 37 emails calling me a faggot.
[QUOTE=CockNumb;2082947]The change of weatrher changes a lot. The harley is ready to ride, I won't be paying for pussy for quite awhile, not hard to do, better quality also I'm only in this hobby temporarily, cane here out of a relqationship, filled the gaps, but it's not for me on a full time basis too much free stuff out here have fun, play safe I;m out of here.[/QUOTE]Is a word you are terming wrong.
I know this as I dabble in both for selection without a long drive to find it. Pretty sure we all have a job, maybe not a Harley but I represent "one of those" you don't care about if we get ripped off. Why you burned that to print is beyond me, but keep in mind your hostility towards the hobby won't earn you flyer miles with anyone.
"Free" usually denotes messy. Messy as in time consuming, surprises, feelings beyond the pale of reason. Nobody said "free" isn't attainable. Best way to describe this world is selective design. If you are constantly getting burned in this game you're doing something really wrong. Either that or you are sloppy at being a risk taker. The best homework achieves the highest grades.
Too many farewell posts here lately that come with a thin skin. You are either in this world or out of it. Pick one and excel.
[QUOTE=CockNumb;2082947]The change of weatrher changes a lot. The harley is ready to ride, I won't be paying for pussy for quite awhile, not hard to do, better quality also I'm only in this hobby temporarily, cane here out of a relqationship, filled the gaps, but it's not for me on a full time basis too much free stuff out here have fun, play safe I;m out of here.[/QUOTE]Cocknumb. I'm sure your Harley is very nice. And a lot of women are going to love your beautiful bike. But a lot of men misunderstand the purpose of an escort. And many have different reasons why they contact one. Its not due to desperation its pure entertainment. You go the the movies, amusement parks etc. & you pay for entertainment. Every girl has their own unique twist paid or un paid. Some just require a up front fee. In the scheme of things you are paying either way. Drink tab: let's say 100 bucks. Gas money let's say 20. You have already spent about the same price as your average provider. Now let's continue. Hotel room 70.00 food 40.00 etc. No pussy is free pussy. Ever.
[QUOTE=Lilly22;2083420]Cocknumb. I'm sure your Harley is very nice. And a lot of women are going to love your beautiful bike. But a lot of men misunderstand the purpose of an escort. And many have different reasons why they contact one. Its not due to desperation its pure entertainment. You go the the movies, amusement parks etc. & you pay for entertainment. Every girl has their own unique twist paid or un paid. Some just require a up front fee. In the scheme of things you are paying either way. Drink tab: let's say 100 bucks. Gas money let's say 20. You have already spent about the same price as your average provider. Now let's continue. Hotel room 70.00 food 40.00 etc. No pussy is free pussy. Ever.[/QUOTE]To quote the master.
[QUOTE=Admin2;2083049]The most expensive pussy in the world is "free" pussy. I'm not saying a lot of it isn't worth it, there is certainly an allure to passion based, rather than compensation based motivation. I've known both in my life. One is predictable, the other...well less so but still appealing. The list of providers I would consider taking up on an offer like that is very short indeed and in every case it's more about how interesting the chick is and has very, very little to do with traditional hotness.
I would certainly consider dating a provider, I'm a putanero and that's very unlikely to change. If I was to date anybody it would have to be a chick that understood that oft times for guys sex is just like jerking off watching a porno but with help present, the pool of "normal" chicks that would get that is way too fucking small. I know brothers, you can't turn a ho into a housewife. Lucky for me I have no interest in a housewife. I've never, for the fucking life of me, understood why any guy would prefer a regular chick over somebody who has sucked a 1000 dicks in their life. The girl next door can fucking stay next door. When I use the forbidden words on this site they are ALWAYS complimentary, never derogatory.[/QUOTE]Oh wait, that was me.
I don't date other than providers these days. There is, in fact, free pussy, but it is like the Unicorn, hard to find. And, if you try to keep it, it starts costing money, or time, or freedom. I'd much rather date a provider. Ask her to get all dolled up, take her to a concert or for a nice meal. You can dance real close and start the excitement, you can cop a feel and not get your hand slapped as long as you're discrete. Have a few drinks and know she's not going to get asshole drunk, and if she does, you can just leave her there. Sure its expensive, but you know what you're getting. And, you know what you're NOT getting.
Cheech.
[QUOTE=Lilly22;2083420]Cocknumb. I'm sure your Harley is very nice. And a lot of women are going to love your beautiful bike. But a lot of men misunderstand the purpose of an escort. And many have different reasons why they contact one. Its not due to desperation its pure entertainment. You go the the movies, amusement parks etc. & you pay for entertainment. Every girl has their own unique twist paid or un paid. Some just require a up front fee. In the scheme of things you are paying either way. Drink tab: let's say 100 bucks. Gas money let's say 20. You have already spent about the same price as your average provider. Now let's continue. Hotel room 70.00 food 40.00 etc. No pussy is free pussy. Ever.[/QUOTE]The "free pussy" is not really free I will agree. The diference in " free pussy" and paid for pussy is pretty substantial. Since I am single and can bring the free pussy to my humble abode. I will go with your drinks and dinner. I'm looking 100-150 for decent dinner and drinks. (25.00 each for dinner 50-100.00 on adult beverages) That is generally the max I am willing and can afford to spend on the paid for variety. For this amount of paid for pussy, I get a major YMMV exsperience from woman to woman. Worst case scenario is a get nut and leave before or just at my one hour time limit from a rushed appointment with no itellectucal satisfaction. (Believe it or not some of us enjoy the non sexual interaction as much as the sexual) Best case, I really connect with the girl, have great conversation and even better sex! A real GFE.
I am all about the GFE. I have been pretty lucky. Since I started this hobby, I have dreamed at least 15 providers. Some made me wish I was younger so I would have the intellectual connection to go with the great sex. (Natti, Silk & Remmy). Some girls I really felt like I connected with, satisfaction of the body and mind (Sinful Dreams, Blake & Rebecca). Most fell pleasantly between these two groups. I have had couple straight up PSE (Felicia & Cassidy) Sometimes you just need to have your brains sucked through you dick. Then there was The GFE / PSE that is LSM. Some times you need to have your mind stimulated, then sucked through your dick & immediately rode hard till your thinking of the possibility of actually being fucked to death. What a way to go! There we only two ladies that I left feeling I wouldn't repeat. I got my nut, but there really seemed to be no connection what so ever. I don't blame them at all it. We just are not going to be or should we think we are going to be good connections with everyone. (Daddy's Girl & Susan).
Even in the best case, paid for sex scenarios, I am getting a a non rushed, longer than 60 minute hours worth of satisfaction of the mind & body. All for the bargain price of $100-$150.00. I am getting my rocks off and pleasant female interaction on an intellectual level. For that same $100-$150.00, in the best case " free sex" scenario I'm am getting dinner & several adult beverages spread over an un rushed evening, that includes satisfaction of the mind and body, as well as, the possibility of a pleasant place to inject the inevitable case of morning wood that will surely wake me in the morning. I am getting food, drink, sex and my overall need female companionship met. A true GFE!
Now, I know the "free pussy" scenarios are YMMV as well. But even with the worst case "free sex" scenario, I am still getting food and drink and getting my rocks off.
I guess my point is. " free pussy" is a lot cheeper than the paid for variety. Unless you start providing a steak dinner and 12 pack of Budweiser, I'd say it's about half the price.
BuyingSmiles!
[QUOTE=Lilly22;2083420]Cocknumb. I'm sure your Harley is very nice. And a lot of women are going to love your beautiful bike. But a lot of men misunderstand the purpose of an escort. And many have different reasons why they contact one. Its not due to desperation its pure entertainment. You go the the movies, amusement parks etc. & you pay for entertainment. Every girl has their own unique twist paid or un paid. Some just require a up front fee. In the scheme of things you are paying either way. Drink tab: let's say 100 bucks. Gas money let's say 20. You have already spent about the same price as your average provider. Now let's continue. Hotel room 70.00 food 40.00 etc. No pussy is free pussy. Ever.[/QUOTE]I don't like the hassle of meeting someone wining and dining and then when you finally get her is the sack she thinks we're married. Suddenly she wants to be exclusive and is questioning who's calling and texting me.
Since I've been in the hobby, when I spend $60-80 on dinner and we don't hit it off, I feel I could have gotten laid and home watching the game for the time and money wasted. The worst thing is dating women my age and trying to get excited by their 50 year old bodies after spending time with these hot providers. I'm sure most guys have met a provider that fills that girlfriend void (for me it's Susan40). Like most people I'm looking forward to find a special person to spend the rest of my life with, but until I find her this is the next best thing.
I know I rambled a little. Sorry.
JJ.
While the sight is adding new things and such, I was thinking that maybe when someone gets a pm that maybe there could be an option where we are notified by email or something. I myself get lots of PM's from clients that like to stay Utr and sometimes I get them too late due to the fact that I am not on here every hour. It would definately help if there was that kind of option to where I could be notified if needed / wanted to be. Jmo.
[QUOTE=ClassASweetie;2084874]While the sight is adding new things and such, I was thinking that maybe when someone gets a pm that maybe there could be an option where we are notified by email or something. I myself get lots of PM's from clients that like to stay Utr and sometimes I get them too late due to the fact that I am not on here every hour. It would definately help if there was that kind of option to where I could be notified if needed / wanted to be. Jmo.[/QUOTE]You can do that yourself. At the top of the page in the red bar click "Settings" -->Next page left side click "General Settings"--> Next page center of page "Email Notification of New Private Messages:" select radio button for "Receive Email Notification of new Private Messages"--> bottom of page click "Save Changes" done.
Since you're a Class A Sweetie I did it for you. If you ever find yourself in Argentina you know what ima want! Remember when you were a kid and used finger paints to paint your face like an Indian? It's something like that but more grown up and easier to wash off.
A2.
[QUOTE=Admin2;2085099]You can do that yourself. At the top of the page in the red bar click "Settings" -->Next page left side click "General Settings"--> Next page center of page "Email Notification of New Private Messages:" select radio button for "Receive Email Notification of new Private Messages"--> bottom of page click "Save Changes" done.
Since you're a Class A Sweetie I did it for you. If you ever find yourself in Argentina you know what ima want! Remember when you were a kid and used finger paints to paint your face like an Indian? It's something like that but more grown up and easier to wash off.
A2.[/QUOTE]A2 you are right she's is a sweetie it's a nice feature.
[QUOTE=TheGoodSh;2085154]This is the kind of thing that by it's very nature, most guys don't need to see. Couldn't you just start a New Thread, and call it Monger ISO's, and those interested could go there. The ladies can check out what is new, and PM you.
You get what you want (if it's out there), they get what they want, and the rest of us don't have to worry about it, or can post our own ISOs.[/QUOTE]I'll try it out here and see how it goes.
No fucking douchbaggery, nobody makes stupid comments about what a brother is looking for.
A2.
[QUOTE=Admin2;2085099]You can do that yourself. At the top of the page in the red bar click "Settings" -->Next page left side click "General Settings"--> Next page center of page "Email Notification of New Private Messages:" select radio button for "Receive Email Notification of new Private Messages"--> bottom of page click "Save Changes" done.
Since you're a Class A Sweetie I did it for you. If you ever find yourself in Argentina you know what ima want! Remember when you were a kid and used finger paints to paint your face like an Indian? It's something like that but more grown up and easier to wash off.
A2.[/QUOTE]Thank you very much. I been on here for quite some time and never knew that nor could I ever find it. I more than appreciate you doing for me and I would for sure love to visit you. I can only imagine the fun and excitement we would have. Goodness I am horny just thinking about it!
[QUOTE=Admin2;2085467]I'll try it out here and see how it goes.
No fucking douchbaggery, nobody makes stupid comments about what a brother is looking for.
A2.[/QUOTE]Thanks A2 , I like a lot of other brothers got tired of post wanting this and that in threads for info about girls ,this was needed.
[QUOTE=TheGoodSh;2085154]This is the kind of thing that by it's very nature, most guys don't need to see. Couldn't you just start a New Thread, and call it Monger ISO's, and those interested could go there. The ladies can check out what is new, and PM you.
You get what you want (if it's out there), they get what they want, and the rest of us don't have to worry about it, or can post our own ISOs.[/QUOTE]I am in favor of A2 putting it up and I have posted so will use that in the future to keep it in one place. Good suggestions and thanks A2 for starting the ISO Monger thread Great idea. We are all on her looking for pussy just the manner of delivery may be different. Thanks again A2 for the ISO thread. PT
I sent out a post that was intended to be a pm. By mistake it went out as public. Regular members to not have the option to edit their post. Can this be added for regular members? I searched to a way to do this and only seniors can edit their posts. I screwed up and I would feel terrible if she got busted because of me. She is a really nice person.
Thanks.
[QUOTE=MassageIt;2085700]I sent out a post that was intended to be a pm. By mistake it went out as public. Regular members to not have the option to edit their post. Can this be added for regular members? I searched to a way to do this and only seniors can edit their posts. I screwed up and I would feel terrible if she got busted because of me. She is a really nice person.
Thanks.[/QUOTE][BLUE]No that's not going to happen because then guys would make a new handle, post some serious bullshit, then two hours, after the forum had blown up later go back and edit it so it was gone.
Whatever post you're talking about, use the report post function on it and ask me to delete it. That will send me an email with a link to the post, so long as you are the OP, one click later it's gone.
A2[/BLUE]