Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=Spike77;4076177]Why are people spending 90 bucks a month on a site to score crack den ******? Why wouldn't you just save your money and go to onebackpage or cruise the streets for streetwalkers?[/QUOTE]Well, in short, better quality and different experience.

I joined SA lees than two years ago and have had more good experiences than bad ones. It all depends on what you are looking for. In my case, I am looking for the GFE / FWB type arrangement, a girl I can see on the side not just for a hookup but rather an ongoing thing, a girl who has a career, a life, a family, a car. Who need a little help or a college babe. Because I have a SO I am not able to take them to vacations, long diner or overnights but I still manage to find what I am looking for, it takes patience. More often than not, I have to decline an arrangement after a M&G or first encounter when they are desperate or a BP girl type.

Right now, I am seeing 3 girls, one mid 20's Asian, one single mom nurse and one married 30 something with no kids, for a few months and my cost per meet is 300 to 500, all horny. I am happy with that until I find THE ONE to go exclusive with a monthly allowance. I even found a hottie that I can't pursue because I have interviewed her for a job back in the Spring, too risky.

Life is good!

Merry Christmas to all.

J.

[QUOTE=Javazer;4076463]Well, in short, better quality and different experience.

I joined SA lees than two years ago and have had more good experiences than bad ones. It all depends on what you are looking for. In my case, I am looking for the GFE / FWB type arrangement, a girl I can see on the side not just for a hookup but rather an ongoing thing, a girl who has a career, a life, a family, a car. Who need a little help or a college babe. Because I have a SO I am not able to take them to vacations, long diner or overnights but I still manage to find what I am looking for, it takes patience. More often than not, I have to decline an arrangement after a M&G or first encounter when they are desperate or a BP girl type.

Right now, I am seeing 3 girls, one mid 20's Asian, one single mom nurse and one married 30 something with no kids, for a few months and my cost per meet is 300 to 500, all horny. I am happy with that until I find THE ONE to go exclusive with a monthly allowance. I even found a hottie that I can't pursue because I have interviewed her for a job back in the Spring, too risky.

Life is good!

Merry Christmas to all.

J.[/QUOTE]Excatly!! I usually keep two going just in case one moves on or gets a real job. I treat them good, respectful and they stay "loyal" to me. I prefer this and pay a little extra for that privilege but my standards have matured as has my disposable income. Everybody has the perfect match in mind so each to their own. Just don't over pay and the market will settle down so we can all get some.

Good luck!!

[QUOTE=Joe1223;4076473]Excatly!! I usually keep two going just in case one moves on or gets a real job. I treat them good, respectful and they stay "loyal" to me. I prefer this and pay a little extra for that privilege but my standards have matured as has my disposable income. Everybody has the perfect match in mind so each to their own. Just don't over pay and the market will settle down so we can all get some.

Good luck!![/QUOTE]100% agree find the best ones to come from the health field other than mentioned Brandi who is a game player. Or college degree single parent moms needing the extra income easy to find in an email or 2.

Plus guys if you can't come up with 10 or so matches in a 50 miles from you in a month than something is wrong just like getting resumes talk get there email or cell numbers and keep when you need them.

There is no reason you need to stay on sa every month maybe in the start 2 straight months another key is that when your time is going to expire like say 3 days do not try talking with a new women.

[QUOTE=Javazer;4076463]Well, in short, better quality and different experience.

I joined SA lees than two years ago and have had more good experiences than bad ones. It all depends on what you are looking for. In my case, I am looking for the GFE / FWB type arrangement, a girl I can see on the side not just for a hookup but rather an ongoing thing, a girl who has a career, a life, a family, a car. Who need a little help or a college babe. Because I have a SO I am not able to take them to vacations, long diner or overnights but I still manage to find what I am looking for, it takes patience. More often than not, I have to decline an arrangement after a M&G or first encounter when they are desperate or a BP girl type.

Right now, I am seeing 3 girls, one mid 20's Asian, one single mom nurse and one married 30 something with no kids, for a few months and my cost per meet is 300 to 500, all horny. I am happy with that until I find THE ONE to go exclusive with a monthly allowance. I even found a hottie that I can't pursue because I have interviewed her for a job back in the Spring, too risky.

Life is good!

Merry Christmas to all.

J.[/QUOTE]I probably wasn't very clear in my original post. I wasn't asking why people pay 90 bucks to join SA. I was asking why go for the backpage quality talent on SA when there are plenty of backpage related sites that are free? I don't see the point.

I have had successes myself on SA. I tend to go for the non pro college types. My problem is I am never satisfied. Always looking for the next best thing. I pass up good opportunities for the hope for better opportunities.

I know, I am sick in the head.

[QUOTE=Spike77;4077028]I probably wasn't very clear in my original post. I wasn't asking why people pay 90 bucks to join SA. I was asking why go for the backpage quality talent on SA when there are plenty of backpage related sites that are free? I don't see the point.

I have had successes myself on SA. I tend to go for the non pro college types. My problem is I am never satisfied. Always looking for the next best thing. I pass up good opportunities for the hope for better opportunities.

I know, I am sick in the head.[/QUOTE]Because many of us can't afford $500 per hour high-end stuff even before Backpage went down.

[QUOTE=JimXuper90;4077103]Because many of us can't afford $500 per hour high-end stuff even before Backpage went down.[/QUOTE]Not all of the girls want 500+. If you want high end look on EROS as most of those girls are VIP or at least they think they are LOL. My biggest issue with SA is that almost all of my contacts cannot do incalls. SW can do the car date but car dates are not good for me. I guess I'm looking for more than a chew & screw plus the odds are not in your favor of getting the cream of the crop.

Everyone has thier preference and resource limits so there should be something for everyone, it's just a lot harder than it used to be. Overpaying the girls only drives up the rates. Anything over 300 should be gold plated IMHO.

I agree, Joe, most of the ladies I have contacted on SA say they are not able to host. On the price issue, its usually easy to determine who will negotiate and who won't. However, if the lady can't host, it is generally a deal breaker, cause I really don't want to spend additional time getting a room. Partly the time it takes, cost, and general aggravation, nevermind the paper trail.

[QUOTE=Joe1223;4077539]Not all of the girls want 500+. If you want high end look on EROS as most of those girls are VIP or at least they think they are LOL. My biggest issue with SA is that almost all of my contacts cannot do incalls. SW can do the car date but car dates are not good for me. I guess I'm looking for more than a chew & screw plus the odds are not in your favor of getting the cream of the crop.

Everyone has thier preference and resource limits so there should be something for everyone, it's just a lot harder than it used to be. Overpaying the girls only drives up the rates. Anything over 300 should be gold plated IMHO.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Longjblues;4077547]I agree, Joe, most of the ladies I have contacted on SA say they are not able to host. On the price issue, its usually easy to determine who will negotiate and who won't. However, if the lady can't host, it is generally a deal breaker, cause I really don't want to spend additional time getting a room. Partly the time it takes, cost, and general aggravation, nevermind the paper trail.[/QUOTE]I had one girl not show up after I checked in so if I do agree to a room I don't pull the trigger until they are in the parking lot. I prefer the younger ladies or single moms so this adds to the burden for accommodating an Incall. Not many young girls can afford a solo apartment and single moms worry about safety. All legit reasons but my hunt continues. LOL. The lemonade is the money I am saving from being more selective and not having such a large pool to choose from.

[QUOTE=Joe1223;4077539]Not all of the girls want 500+. If you want high end look on EROS as most of those girls are VIP or at least they think they are LOL. My biggest issue with SA is that almost all of my contacts cannot do incalls. SW can do the car date but car dates are not good for me. I guess I'm looking for more than a chew & screw plus the odds are not in your favor of getting the cream of the crop.

Everyone has thier preference and resource limits so there should be something for everyone, it's just a lot harder than it used to be. Overpaying the girls only drives up the rates. Anything over 300 should be gold plated IMHO.[/QUOTE]I have tried different stuff during the years. The most expensive one I got was $2000 overnight. Frankly, it was the inexperience of me and I can't afford that price anymore due to the job change. I settled with $100-$150 BP girl in the past 10 years and craigslist girls of course. SA has some new girls that's for sure. BP was full of "pro" and craigslist had some new girls. The girls I talked with on SA that fit in my price range were all BP and Craigslist level of appearance. The better ones are more expensive. They either were new to the business or just GPS. I had met decent looking college kids on Craigslist for $120 before. Maybe I should have spent a bit more time on SA to find the right resource, but hey, SA banned me, for. Let's say hooking.

Has anyone scored a hot Asian on SA? I do OK on the site but I can't get an asian girl to give me the time of day.

It seems like everyone has had not so great experiences on SA.

Are there any good SA girls anyone can recommend?

This one wants 6K per month to replace the allowance her parents were giving her, LOL.

[url]https://www.seeking.com/member/c38fd60f-8720-4f7c-a25b-ee0fe69773a0[/url]

I'm not a shill for SA but holy shit there are a ton of college girls home for the holidays trying to make some cash. I can't even keep up with the messages. Most cannot host but I've gotten offers of car dates from some really cute 19-20 yr olds. One wanted to meet me at a mall and said she would take care of me in a furniture store. Who knew? If I end up pulling the trigger I'll post links but again hollly shit.

[QUOTE=TwoMins;4080809]This one wants 6K per month to replace the allowance her parents were giving her, LOL.

[url]https://www.seeking.com/member/c38fd60f-8720-4f7c-a25b-ee0fe69773a0[/url][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PaulRew;4080041]Has anyone scored a hot Asian on SA? I do OK on the site but I can't get an asian girl to give me the time of day.[/QUOTE]And of course she is Asian!

[QUOTE=Aardvarks;4080831]I'm not a shill for SA but holy shit there are a ton of college girls home for the holidays trying to make some cash. I can't even keep up with the messages. Most cannot host but I've gotten offers of car dates from some really cute 19-20 yr olds. One wanted to meet me at a mall and said she would take care of me in a furniture store. Who knew? If I end up pulling the trigger I'll post links but again hollly shit.[/QUOTE]Wish I knew which 19-20 year olds you are talking to I am talking to a bunch also and they are all asking for $500, $300, want money to have a drink with me.

Ones who I am talking about meeting tell me they can't host, I tell them I can't host, they then say nothing and disappear.

I have the worst luck on SA For me it sucks!