Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[QUOTE=Pubb69;4157528]It's all so true. The site is a magnet for dumb college age scammers looking for an easy score off a soft hearted dope. I have had at least 30 send me cash for gas and I will meet you. Countless hardship stories and send money to see my fat ass photos and videos. Than they ***** about guys scamming them and wasting their time, that's all they deserve.[/QUOTE]Yes, you have to sift through the sand to find the gold, but if you put in the work it can pay off. I have been with, in the biblical sense, over 35 girls from SA. Of those girls, only a handful were straight "pay4 play" with a prearranged sum, and only because they were 18-21 and a hard 8 or better. Most of the girls I've been involved with had no idea what they wanted, were eager to give up the booty, never even suggested a condom, and took whatever I gave them for their time happily (usually a Benjamin or less), and almost always came back for more. Several wanted no money, and were just needy little girls with Daddy issues. Hell, I am basically dating a girl I met on SA right now, and I have to force her to take gas money when she spends the weekend. YMMV.

Ilovesammy: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0f0c6034-0fca-4b42-b3bc-cf696680400d[/URL].

Can't host, wants 500 up front, and bad communication. Just like that.

[QUOTE=AdamEve7;4158452]But why do we need to know real name anyways? And if you send money to her you are reliving your identity as well in that app.[/QUOTE]You can use a name other than your real name in cash app. When you sign up it makes you believe you cannot. And maybe that is true. But after it is working you can go in and change your name to your screen name on match or anything you like.

Most girls do not figure this out so yes generally you do get their real name.

Also make sure you have a balance in the cash app before you send it. Otherwise the girls name appears in your bank statement!!

Not sure every SD would want that!! If you have a balance inside of cash app, it just transfers and the only record is in cash app history which you can delete.

Got on SA about a year ago for a few months. During that time, found four solid hookups (AC25, BigStar, Alex, and Cornelius gal) that I saw off and on for a long time. I also met a smoking hot chick who was a stay at home mom from the UNCC area. We texted a lot and shared a lot of nude pics. However, over a few weeks, it progressed where she wanted money via cash app just to keep texting so things finally died off between us and never did hook up. Recently, I reached back out to her via text to see if she was still in the game. She said she quit SA, I asked her why. Her response was "guys actually thought I wanted to have sex with them. " I said "isn't that why you were on SA, to trade gift$ for sex"? She said, no her friends had told her to just play along with guys and they would give her money just for texting and some nude pics. Never in a million years did she imagine that SA was about actually meeting someone in person.

Bottom line, I think there is a big disconnect between why many girls are on there and clearly why guys are on there.

Moral to this story, establish right up front your expectations and see if it scares them off. If it does, it's a good thing as it will save you a lot of text and frustration in the end. If not, hit that stuff before a dozen other guys do.

PK.

[QUOTE=Breitlingb2;4159226]Ilovesammy: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0f0c6034-0fca-4b42-b3bc-cf696680400d[/URL].

Can't host, wants 500 up front, and bad communication. Just like that.[/QUOTE]I had a similar exchange with her except she told me she wouldn't really do anything until she got 2 k.

I haven't had too much going on in Secret Benefits. I have had a decent amount of success with WYP however. I normally throw out of consideration any girls who don't indicate an interest in discreet affairs on their profile. Most I've probably met 8 girls in the last year and only had one that wasn't interested in pay for play including a limited amount of fun on the first meeting. They might not even realize how much they are open to pay for play until you work them. 90 percent of them won't respond well to too much of a direct approach. And only once have I paid more than 100 for a first time meeting which includes some play at the end of the date. Plenty of the girls are doable.

And plenty of them are real. Change your approach if you are getting no results. Happy hunting!

[QUOTE=Breitlingb2;4159226]Ilovesammy: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0f0c6034-0fca-4b42-b3bc-cf696680400d[/URL].

Can't host, wants 500 up front, and bad communication. Just like that.[/QUOTE]You can see her body. Her face is a 9 easy. She is absolutely gorgeous. She is not as flakey intentionally but she has a number of issues going on. First she has serious migraine and is out for 1-2 days at a time. Second she has custody issues. Third her significant other (and if you are clever enough you can guess the name) is a women who will be getting various surgeries. She will come down to 2 if you are really luck, 3 most likely. If you go out with her ask her to wear her green dress. OMG!! With the green dress and heels she is a total 100% knockout!!

In 10 years in the SB game this one is one of the most flaky I have encountered. To make this short: We agreed on a date for mid week, later that night she starts texting asking weird shxt something you get usually from a teenager. I sorta play along, a day before meet I text, she says "can't meet has found what she was looking for", so cool, saved some time and cash. Few hours later she starts texting all apologetic, saying that what she had going fell threw and wanted to know if I still wanted to meet.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/87a17e8b-578f-4728-a9b8-acff2e6ca1ed[/URL]

Been chatting with her too, not too seriously, because she seemed like a time waster. Definitely a flake or a tire kicker.

[QUOTE=Crewzin;4161016]In 10 years in the SB game this one is one of the most flaky I have encountered. To make this short: We agreed on a date for mid week, later that night she starts texting asking weird shxt something you get usually from a teenager. I sorta play along, a day before meet I text, she says "can't meet has found what she was looking for", so cool, saved some time and cash. Few hours later she starts texting all apologetic, saying that what she had going fell threw and wanted to know if I still wanted to meet.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/87a17e8b-578f-4728-a9b8-acff2e6ca1ed[/URL][/QUOTE]

This is similar to previewing [URL]seekimg.com[/URL] without paying for a premium account, I don't know if it still works but will try later. [URL]https://medium.com/hackerpreneur-magazine/how-i-hacked-into-one-of-the-most-popular-dating-websites-4cb7907c3796[/URL].

So I was unable to login to WYP and then later came to know from customer care I was banned because of solicit sex in exchange of money, I had 300 credits balance, they agreed upon $100 refund but unfortunately I used prepaid visacard which I no longer have with me and the refund $100 on that card is wasted now because I don't have the card. Lesson learned, be careful guys using these sites, I learned it hard way. Now I am too old to start new account again. Good luck to you guys.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/30dcc23c-47aa-4ea1-84cf-71b090a77617[/URL]

She has the most perfect backview I've seen in some time and appears to be quite the looker.

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4163219][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/30dcc23c-47aa-4ea1-84cf-71b090a77617[/URL]

She has the most perfect backview I've seen in some time and appears to be quite the looker.[/QUOTE]Let me know if you hear any feedback. She'd be worth spending some time with.

Best part about SA is the variety. From 18, to college age, to a 53 year old it's given me the range that keeps things fun and interesting.

[QUOTE=AdamEve7;4162361]So I was unable to login to WYP and then later came to know from customer care I was banned because of solicit sex in exchange of money, I had 300 credits balance, they agreed upon $100 refund but unfortunately I used prepaid visacard which I no longer have with me and the refund $100 on that card is wasted now because I don't have the card. Lesson learned, be careful guys using these sites, I learned it hard way. Now I am too old to start new account again. Good luck to you guys.[/QUOTE]You can work your game anyway you wish, but personally when it gets down to the business side I take it off site to my burner. Whoever you was chatting with reported you or a admin from the site read your messages, also you get her number and you may be closer to having some real fun, instead of taking to some dick.

Just thought I would let why'all know that this is a new profile for the girl that went by Jessicainshape. Her number is the exact same but is introducing herself by a different name. Her rates are still very high wanting 3000 a month. Here is a link to the new profile.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/00c00c52-a5ac-4068-97d3-b125fb4f02a2[/URL]