General Reports

Seriously because everyone is different. Im deff in possession of a vagina, And im deff not law enforcemnt, nor a crack ho. Craigslist has a flagger on the loose and i can't keep my ads up for longer then like 5 mins. But those who have met me know i have a va-jay-jay. I actually have a picture of it but i do not know how to post pics plus im a little shy...Though if anyone gives me their e-mail I'd be happy to prove my womanhood lol.

I was looking for more sites to post on. cause craigslist is bein a pain, and I could use more clients I've been sitting at home bored cause they keep deleting my post"s. Though i do have a couple of return customers I've only been doing this a couple of weeks so not that many.

[QUOTE=Lovin Bbws]I saw the gothic bbw in southington off cl last friday night, she is what her ad says she makes you laugh and feel comfortable and if its your first time she will schedule you later so to have much more time to relax! Showers are offered after if you have a wife (i do and appriciated being able to clean up) and she will listen to you talk about anything.

Very smart her house is nice and clean and her 'grip' was perfectly tight.

I'm going back this friday for more I hope I can afford an overnight with this sexy vixen.[/QUOTE]

This'll get the post count up REAL quick!!!

[QUOTE=Bubba261]This'll get the post count up REAL quick!!![/QUOTE]

Yeah.. flames usually have that effect..

I've run into a few, as sarange put it, claiming to have the right parts, only to have an "Outtie" instead of an "Innie".. Some, I tolerate as friends, til they start going hell-bent on demanding you acknowledge their transgender, then, they simply become a major (if not loud!) Annoyance.

I have Zero tolerance, for those who get you all worked up, claiming everything in the world, pleasure, love, etc., only to suddenly dump on you, "You Sucker! I'm not what you expected, You...blah-blah-blah!" types.. they get more than my hackles raised, if not my Ire. there's nothing more aggravating than getting an email, of someone answering your ad on a singles site, claiming to be a woman, near by, want to meet, then the ONLY way you can contact them, is through some other dating website you never heard of. Aren't you already contacting them through whatever site you advertised on? aren't they supposed to be bound by the site's guidelines, to represent themselves as who they really are? Apparently, the net community says No. They're allowed to be whomever they want, Even a guy posing as a woman, answering a legitimate personals ad of a man seeking a woman.

Mind you, I don't have anything against people who actuially went through the whole procedure of changing from a man to a woman, but if you left the extra parts, just to humiliate, or never even bothered to change, You're a whole different basket-case I do not want to deal with.

Sorry.. rant-mode off.. It's been a long week! I need some physical contact, not addition to my stress.

[QUOTE=Wanderer]

I've run into a few, as sarange put it, claiming to have the right parts, only to have an "Outtie" instead of an "Innie".. Some, I tolerate as friends, til they start going hell-bent on demanding you acknowledge their transgender, then, they simply become a major (if not loud!) Annoyance.

Sorry.. rant-mode off.. It's been a long week! I need some physical contact, not addition to my stress.[/QUOTE]
Before Crazytits get the idea that I think she's some kind of transgendered something or other:

I was referring to a guy who was posting in here earlier this year, pretending to be a woman, talking about strip joints and getting some of the guys all excited.

So, sweetheart (not you Wanderer) don't give up on us. One of us will put it to you before all is said and done, I promise.

[QUOTE=Wanderer]Yeah.. flames usually have that effect.. [/QUOTE]

Interesting viewpoint. However, what I was referring to was newbie "Lovin BBWs" posting the same one twice consecutively.

B.

[QUOTE=Bubba261]Interesting viewpoint. However, what I was referring to was newbie "Lovin BBWs" posting the same one twice consecutively.

B.[/QUOTE]
He probably didn't realize that as a noob, his posts will not appear instantaneously. I've seen several impatient guys do that.

[QUOTE=Sarang Haeyo]He probably didn't realize that as a noob, his posts will not appear instantaneously. I've seen several impatient guys do that.[/QUOTE]It took a day or 2 2 show up.

I get what I'd like to refer to as stalkers allot. And I would like some input as to why.

Let me indulge you.

I see a client a couple times, most of my clients like to see me weekly or bi weekly. More than half of them can see the difference between a escort/Gentleman and a girl/boyfriend scenario, even when experiencing the gfe. Though it seems about 25% of them believe that they can save me.

They claim to love me, tell me they want me to be with them, send me 50-100 I'm's within an hour span and god forbid I don't reply! Then I'm a harlot, a *****, a ****, a **** and god knows what else. But they always say sorry in the end and say things like "I just need you" or "Do you hate me now" Mind you. I'm still not at the computer to reply to any of this.

I can't just throw them on ignore, I do incalls, and thus they know my address. So I continue to play along, and slowly inch away until they are hooked onto someone else.

I suppose the point in this post is to ask you Gent's if you know why men (about 10-15 right now) do this crazy crap to me, and if it happens to all escorts.

[QUOTE=Gothic Bbw]I get what I'd like to refer to as stalkers allot. And I would like some input as to why.

Let me indulge you.

I see a client a couple times, most of my clients like to see me weekly or bi weekly. More than half of them can see the difference between a escort/Gentleman and a girl/boyfriend scenario, even when experiencing the gfe. Though it seems about 25% of them believe that they can save me.

They claim to love me, tell me they want me to be with them, send me 50-100 I'm's within an hour span and god forbid I don't reply! Then I'm a harlot, a *****, a ****, a **** and god knows what else. But they always say sorry in the end and say things like "I just need you" or "Do you hate me now" Mind you. I'm still not at the computer to reply to any of this.

I can't just throw them on ignore, I do incalls, and thus they know my address. So I continue to play along, and slowly inch away until they are hooked onto someone else.

I suppose the point in this post is to ask you Gent's if you know why men (about 10-15 right now) do this crazy crap to me, and if it happens to all escorts.[/QUOTE]Some hobbyist are here just for the fun.

It sounds like your gfe is too good.They get caught up in the fantasy.You may be the closest thing to a relationship they can find.They want to be your knight in shining armor.You are going to have to look at all your past stalkers and find the common thread and catch your behavior with new callers so you are not caught up in that mess.

[QUOTE=Gothic Bbw]I get what I'd like to refer to as stalkers allot. And I would like some input as to why.

Let me indulge you.

I see a client a couple times, most of my clients like to see me weekly or bi weekly. More than half of them can see the difference between a escort/Gentleman and a girl/boyfriend scenario, even when experiencing the gfe. Though it seems about 25% of them believe that they can save me.

They claim to love me, tell me they want me to be with them, send me 50-100 I'm's within an hour span and god forbid I don't reply! Then I'm a harlot, a *****, a ****, a **** and god knows what else. But they always say sorry in the end and say things like "I just need you" or "Do you hate me now" Mind you. I'm still not at the computer to reply to any of this.

I can't just throw them on ignore, I do incalls, and thus they know my address. So I continue to play along, and slowly inch away until they are hooked onto someone else.

I suppose the point in this post is to ask you Gent's if you know why men (about 10-15 right now) do this crazy crap to me, and if it happens to all escorts.[/QUOTE]The purpose for this board is to share information about women who are professional sex workers. This is a group of men who utilize this forum to openly exchange non-biased information. I think it was really fucking stupid for anyone who uses this site properly to give you its address. There is no place for you here. The Classifieds section is an area for us to report on ads we have seen at various sites that offer sex for money-- NOT a place for you to look for clients.

This is certainly not a place for you to recveive therapy about the emotional or psychological or harrassing behaviors you have encountered in your chosen line of work. Take that shit somewhere else. I can almost guarrantee there are sites you can get all that in some chat room or other forum.

This is the second time recently that a working woman has posted on the board in order to solicite. I think this sets a bad precedent for the purpose of USG-- again, we are a community of men openly sharing information about sex.

Finally, be aware that there are some pretty stupid motherfuckers out there sharing the site with the wrong elements. Want to get infiltrated with BS handles/accounts? It will happen if this continues.

Finally, Gothic BBW, I [personally] do not think this is the place for you-- go back to the advocate or to craigs list or TER or whereever.

I gotta agree with Garthy. If we're going to have providers on this board it needs to be controlled somehow (right now I don't think it is). There is another board where any solicitation is removed unless the provider has paid an ad fee. Without that kind of control this board could end being a useless series of 'flaming threads' with providers disputing marginal reviews.

If we can keep this to the general section somehow that could work. If controlled it's actually interesting to hear from providers.

[QUOTE=Garthy]The purpose for this board is to share information about women who are professional sex workers. This is a group of men who utilize this forum to openly exchange non-biased information. I think it was really fucking stupid for anyone who uses this site properly to give you its address. There is no place for you here. The Classifieds section is an area for us to report on ads we have seen at various sites that offer sex for money-- NOT a place for you to look for clients.[/QUOTE]

You seem like a smart girl. I'm a bit surprised you don't already know the answer as most providers seem to have a tremendous talent for reading people.

The short answer is, it's all about basic human need. In this case it's all about love baby. If you already have it in your life than mongering is a little extra thrill to spice things up. If you don't then mongering gets confused with filling that need. And you end up with 100 IMs of desperation.

Later,

Vegas

[QUOTE=Gothic Bbw]I get what I'd like to refer to as stalkers allot. And I would like some input as to why.

Let me indulge you.

I see a client a couple times, most of my clients like to see me weekly or bi weekly. More than half of them can see the difference between a escort/Gentleman and a girl/boyfriend scenario, even when experiencing the gfe. Though it seems about 25% of them believe that they can save me.

They claim to love me, tell me they want me to be with them, send me 50-100 I'm's within an hour span and god forbid I don't reply! Then I'm a harlot, a *****, a ****, a **** and god knows what else. But they always say sorry in the end and say things like "I just need you" or "Do you hate me now" Mind you. I'm still not at the computer to reply to any of this.

I can't just throw them on ignore, I do incalls, and thus they know my address. So I continue to play along, and slowly inch away until they are hooked onto someone else.

I suppose the point in this post is to ask you Gent's if you know why men (about 10-15 right now) do this crazy crap to me, and if it happens to all escorts.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Garthy]This is certainly not a place for you to recveive therapy about the emotional or psychological or harrassing behaviors you have encountered in your chosen line of work. Take that shit somewhere else. I can almost guarrantee there are sites you can get all that in some chat room or other forum.[/QUOTE]Agree 100%!

There is no description of each forum saying bla bla bla you can't place ads here. Why would you yell at her like that? Someone obviously misinformed us. We didn't know, someone told us that we could place ads here and then there is a forum that says classified ads, well sounds like a place to post an ad at to me. As far as what she just asked, she was genuinely looking for an answer. When I messaged her about the flagging at craigs she was talking to me about the same problem, and I'm sure she wasnt trying to solicit me seeing as I am a girl and obviously not gonna buy since I am selling.

You are extremely rude. And grouchy and I'm thinking that maybe you need to get laid or something.

I do not understand people. Always soo rude everywhere you go it's the holiday season lighten up if a new person posts in the wrong spot pm them and let them know hey maybe you should try posting here. No one else complained about my ad except you just now. I got lots of messeges from people trying to see my pics.

Anyways. How's everyone liking this ice? Sux when your trying to make money though LOL.

I have to disagree with the nasayers. I think there is a place in this forum for women. If you want to advertise there is an advertising section. If you want to ask questions or give advice it is here.

Why shouldn't they be able to talk about their work. That is why we are here. The do not need to wear veils. They also can call out the asshole mongers who mistreat them.

Please don't tell me (we) senior members havent answered some stupid ignorant questions from our fellow men!

There is a place for women here. Do not hold it aginst them because someone, a guy, I might point out pretended to be a woman in the Danbury section. If you's all recall while we were duped we did have a good time thinking we were getting a womans point of view.

MHO there is allways a place for the ladies. This is an open forum for the exchange of information on sex. They should be treated like any other member.

Steel Blue

St

My only point is this: How direct are you going to be about a review of a girl when you know she is going to read it. The other board I mentioned has tons of examples where the girl 'disagrees with the review', turns it around and all of a sudden she paints the guy like he is an a-hole. As a reader, not only don't you know who to believe but if I'm the guy. Why would I want some beoch possibly calling me out in public and spewing out some details about me (license plate number, physical description, wether I'm a cheap tipper, etc. Etc).

Kind of all a mute point as this is an open forum anybody can join.

Later,

Vegas

[QUOTE=Gothic Bbw]I get what I'd like to refer to as stalkers allot. And I would like some input as to why.

I suppose the point in this post is to ask you Gent's if you know why men (about 10-15 right now) do this crazy crap to me, and if it happens to all escorts.[/QUOTE]
Men are pathetic. We get the shit kicked out of us at work; then we go home where we expect to find some sanctuary from our employer and those with whom we work only to get the shit kicked out of us some more by a wife or SO who doesn't appreciate our efforts.

We then turn to professionals so that we can get an hour or so of respite from the above BS. This time is so precious that we want repeat performances early and often. Some of us get so wrapped up in the provider experience that we want it to be real. Hence, your stalkers.

This shit you're experiencing comes with the territory. A guy doesn't get what he wants and he's going to take all of his frustrations out on the easiest target: you. If he vents to his boss: fired. If he vents to his wife: burned meatloaf. If he vents to you: he gets his rocks off, no penalty.

Get it? Does this get you into the "minds of men"?

I agree with Steel. I have no problem with the ladies posting here, looking for business, after all, I'm looking for the business! We may have looked at the "Classified " section as a review of classified ads, and the providers who place those ads, but why not let them provide info here. After all, CL seems like quite the waste these days. Perhaps here, there is better control, and better feedback.

I'd rather know where I'm going, and what I'm going to do, than jump in the car and see what I can find! After all, a phone number,(or other contact,) is worth alot of time and gas money. The "General Reports" area may not be the place to post, but I have no problem with providers using the classifieds.

I gotta say, I'm with Steel on this one too. Despite his spelling handicap, I couldn't have said it better. ;) I see no reason why a woman / provider can't join in on the conversation here...

Of course, like the rest of us, women need to follow the forum rules too.... no spamming the forum, keep discussions in the proper place and category, and keep advertising in the "Classified Ads" section (the Classifieds sections are actually FOR classifieds, not necessarily for reviewing classifieds -- per the Forum Rules:

[b]No Self-Promotion: Please do not post any messages anywhere on this site that are primarily for the promotion or advertising of any website, forums, email address, business, multi-level marketing activity, or other entities that you have an affiliation with EXCEPT in the classified advertising section.[/b] )

Also, newbies would be good to remember (especially newbies who are used to repeatedly and excessively posting on CL) that this place is NOT a democracy -- everyone who posts and continues to post here does so at the pleasure of Jackson -- break the rules or behave in a generally annoying fashion, and you're gone. Don't believe me? Have a look at the Banned Users Hall of Shame.

So, I say welcome to Gothic BBW and Crazytits... Feel free to join in on the conversation but be aware: this place is like a rowdy sports bar of sex... expect frank talk, a little obnoxious offensiveness and a bunch of heavy-handed (yet constructive) criticism if you stray off base. Work on developing a thick skin -- we have a lot of fun here, and on the whole I'd say that we're a generally good, fair and respectful group of guys but at the same time we're not about to coddle you, pat you on the head and tell you it'll all be OK after you've had a rough day...

Good luck!

jmg

I do concur with my man, JMG and Steel. Though I do understand where Garthy is coming from. However, if a woman wants a no holds barred response from a gent, this is the place to get it. None of the boards can give it. More over, you can't quite call up a hotline or advice column for this shit.

Gothic,
I've been at this game for a few years and know plenty of gents online and off who've been at this game. It is nothing new. There is nothing new under the sun. When a woman gives a man undivided attention and strokes his ego or shows herself to be in need of a man, well...men do what men have always wanted to do.

Rip their shirts, remove their ties, and reveal the (S) on their chest. Men are doers. They see a need and rush to fill it. Its in our nature. Some men develop an oversized ego when it comes to helping a lady.

Be that as it may, what you are facing is something that goes on constantly in strip clubs. If you want good advice from a stripper, you may want to befriend a few and see where it takes you.

If you want a male perspective, understand this: lonely hearts seek loneliness. If you show a man your loneliness, he will think that he can fill his loneliness and meet your need at the same time. Show them your LACK of loneliness, while stiking a balance of seduction and desire, and you may find the equilibrium you seek. It will not work for all, mind you, but for many. It will also cost you a few dollars here and there, for the sake of your sanity.

Always be careful however of disturbing an illusion. If you think a stalker is truly a stalker, especially in the physical sense, you should be 100% aware that things could turn beyond ugly. You should never hesitate to call in community resources to assist you.

One thing I can't beleive you've done...and I caution you to end it...is to invite men into your address. Its a huge no-no. For you, and all of your clients. Reconsider.


[QUOTE=Gothic Bbw]I get what I'd like to refer to as stalkers allot. And I would like some input as to why.

Let me indulge you.

I see a client a couple times, most of my clients like to see me weekly or bi weekly. More than half of them can see the difference between a escort/Gentleman and a girl/boyfriend scenario, even when experiencing the gfe. Though it seems about 25% of them believe that they can save me.

They claim to love me, tell me they want me to be with them, send me 50-100 I'm's within an hour span and god forbid I don't reply! Then I'm a harlot, a *****, a ****, a **** and god knows what else. But they always say sorry in the end and say things like "I just need you" or "Do you hate me now" Mind you. I'm still not at the computer to reply to any of this.

I can't just throw them on ignore, I do incalls, and thus they know my address. So I continue to play along, and slowly inch away until they are hooked onto someone else.

I suppose the point in this post is to ask you Gent's if you know why men (about 10-15 right now) do this crazy crap to me, and if it happens to all escorts.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Stoner]I do concur with my man, JMG and Steel. Though I do understand where Garthy is coming from. However, if a woman wants a no holds barred response from a gent, this is the place to get it. None of the boards can give it. More over, you can't quite call up a hotline or advice column for this shit.

Gothic,

I've been at this game for a few years and know plenty of gents online and off who've been at this game. It is nothing new. There is nothing new under the sun. When a woman gives a man undivided attention and strokes his ego or shows herself to be in need of a man, well...men do what men have always wanted to do.

Rip their shirts, remove their ties, and reveal the (S) on their chest. Men are doers. They see a need and rush to fill it. Its in our nature. Some men develop an oversized ego when it comes to helping a lady.

Be that as it may, what you are facing is something that goes on constantly in strip clubs. If you want good advice from a stripper, you may want to befriend a few and see where it takes you.

If you want a male perspective, understand this: lonely hearts seek loneliness. If you show a man your loneliness, he will think that he can fill his loneliness and meet your need at the same time. Show them your LACK of loneliness, while striking a balance of seduction and desire, and you may find the equilibrium you seek. It will not work for all, mind you, but for many. It will also cost you a few dollars here and there, for the sake of your sanity.

Always be careful however of disturbing an illusion. If you think a stalker is truly a stalker, especially in the physical sense, you should be 100% aware that things could turn beyond ugly. You should never hesitate to call in community resources to assist you.

One thing I can't believe you've done...and I caution you to end it...is to invite men into your address. Its a huge no-no. For you, and all of your clients. Reconsider.[/QUOTE]Well at the moment I can only operate from my residence. I'm reconsidering it greatly though. Perhaps only repeats can come home and new clients I meet somewhere else?

Thing is, with the latest unfolding of drama on CL I'm growing more and more weary to even meet new clients. The fact remains that I am highly addicted to sex. And moderately addicted to cash. So. I won't stop this for a while.

On the stalkers I know if I say something wrong do something wrong or anything in the like one can snap. And I can't risk that. I've been doing good though, I speak gently to them, hold eye contact, touch their arm and tell them if they gave me their heart, I would crush it, and it's nothing personal. This seems to have worked for now.

Well seeing he said I could be useful for tips for men, here are some in order of importance.

Baby powder. You want oral contact, powder up the boys ;)

Chewing gum if you're a kisser

Don't be embarrassed if you finish fast, it is the biggest compliment a woman in this business can receive.

Pick the proper size glove!

Bring her a flower, even a 99 cent rose from the local getty mart will make her wetter than anything and more 'into the scene'.

Tipping, if she wasn't too hot toss her a $5, if she rocked your world, toss her no less than a $10.

Don't argue her compliments, ie;

Woman "I love how soft your hair is"

Man 'Meh I'm balding"

If she didn't like your hair, or whatever she complimented she wouldn't say anything. We look for things in clients to admire, to touch, to kiss, to please... to separate you from the man who was there before or the one coming by after. We like to make each man unique in our minds.

Remember we are humans and not just fawk-holes. that will get you farther than a crisp c-note.

I don't know if this was helpful, but it is fact.

Don't take it personally. An online persona needs a thick skin. People get flamed for a reason or for no reason at all. Some level of anonymity will make people spill out a lot more than they normally do. Venting frustrations, lying and exaggerating, or confessing, all the same. Things that many of us wouldn't dare say when in person or whenever our true identity would be known. It can become frustrating and making eveybody sick of reading. But, overall, I think some of this BS is good, as long as it doesn't completely take over (like it does on some other boards). Because sometimes we do need to remove the barriers that keep controlling our behaviour, especially if it can happen with no real harm done.

Back to the original reason of this thread: I must agree with Stoner and Steel and Co., postings from "the other side" are OK as long as they are not marketing. A different perspective is always a plus - the more info/insight the better.

And to make this a fair game: how about some questions from gents answered by the ladies? If you want feedback, give us some feedback, too. To start, here's a simple one: how many strippers and/or providers do you think are (semi)regularly reading this board?

happy holidays,
crv

PS - welcome back, Stoner - long time no post, where you've been?

[QUOTE=Crazytits69]There is no description of each forum saying bla bla bla you can't place ads here. Why would you yell at her like that? Someone obviously misinformed us. We didn't know, someone told us that we could place ads here and then there is a forum that says classified ads, well sounds like a place to post an ad at to me. As far as what she just asked, she was genuinely looking for an answer. When I messaged her about the flagging at craigs she was talking to me about the same problem, and I'm sure she wasnt trying to solicit me seeing as I am a girl and obviously not gonna buy since I am selling.

You are extremely rude. And grouchy and I'm thinking that maybe you need to get laid or something.

I do not understand people. Always soo rude everywhere you go it's the holiday season lighten up if a new person posts in the wrong spot pm them and let them know hey maybe you should try posting here. No one else complained about my ad except you just now. I got lots of messeges from people trying to see my pics.

Anyways. How's everyone liking this ice? Sux when your trying to make money though LOL.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=crvtbynu]To start, here's a simple one: how many strippers and/or providers do you think are (semi)regularly reading this board?[/QUOTE]Well. I would say possibly 100, or less. See if more women knew of this board they would say "check my reviews at usasexguide" instead of just tra, whatever that is, and big doggie.

I put a report on her under the hartford craigslist board. maybe I should have put it here. l8r

Some folks seem to think the only way a provider can learn about this site is from a monger. Most web savvy women can find it on their own.

For the record....I've never told a provider about this place. I don't want her to match me to my posts.

Certainly no adverts outside the proper place, but I enjoy their participation.

Baby Powder.....who knew?

Actually, the honey powder is the shit. But that only comes out for the extra special dates.

Small bit of advice...and I won't post in this thread any longer. This is the CLASSIFIED thread. Its not the advice column. Its for "MARKETING" if you so will.

So I shall create a new thread for folks to use instead.

One last thing...for the love of all things holy, do not post adverts, schedules or marketing outside of Classified. I know you haven't. But in case the thought crosses your mind...don't. Just trust. If you post pics, especially new ones, you will get plenty of attention. In fact, pics actually are seen across the country in moments. Not just CT. Just an FYI. Pics posted here are forever.

[QUOTE=Bud Waiter]Some folks seem to think the only way a provider can learn about this site is from a monger. Most web savvy women can find it on their own.

For the record....I've never told a provider about this place. I don't want her to match me to my posts.

Certainly no adverts outside the proper place, but I enjoy their participation.

Baby Powder.....who knew?[/QUOTE]

1st time I stopped at Magic, down in Waterbury, (since the place is closed), I mentioned about here.. They were kind of surprised about the site, and asked for the web address.

LOL! Baby powder, is more for chafing, than rash. at least in the adult method. Nobody likes sweaty balls anyways. (*GROSS!*)

Happy & safe holidays, Everyone!

Wanderer --:Those who wander, rarely are lost!

[QUOTE=Wanderer] Nobody likes sweaty balls anyways. (*GROSS!*)[/QUOTE]*smiles and nods* You got it :D

Here is the link to the arrest pf the operators of American Spa.

[url]http://www.connpost.com/ci_7795551[/url]

From The Norwalk Hour

A new law championed by state Sen. Bob Duff, D-25, tightens the standards in the massage therapy industry, putting pressure on dens of prostitution posing as legitimate massage parlors.

I am pretty web savvy imo, don't get me wrong.. but for the LIFE of me I can't find out where to change the link in this public profile from the *accidental* personal ******* to my business one I intended to post up! grr, will someone possibly give me some instruction?

Go to "USER CP" top of page above girls. Then select email address/password on left.

[QUOTE=Gothic Bbw]I am pretty web savvy imo, don't get me wrong.. but for the LIFE of me I can't find out where to change the link in this public profile from the *accidental* personal ******* to my business one I intended to post up! grr, will someone possibly give me some instruction?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Gothic Bbw]I am pretty web savvy imo, don't get me wrong.. but for the LIFE of me I can't find out where to change the link in this public profile from the *accidental* personal ******* to my business one I intended to post up! grr, will someone possibly give me some instruction?[/QUOTE]

Go to "User CP" at the top of the screen. Then on the left you'll find "edit email and password". Change whatever you want on the subsequent screen.

[QUOTE=Bubba261]Go to "User CP" at the top of the screen. Then on the left you'll find "edit email and password". Change whatever you want on the subsequent screen.[/QUOTE]The email address is correct. It is a link on my hompage on here to my space, I put the wrong one in. And on the user cp under email/pwrod change there is no option to change my hp around.

You mean in your public profile. I didn't see any options to change either. Send Jackson (site owner) an email via contact us option. Bottom of the page.

[QUOTE=Gothic Bbw]The email address is correct. It is a link on my hompage on here to my space, I put the wrong one in. And on the user cp under email/pwrod change there is no option to change my hp around.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=WhenIn Vegas]You mean in your public profile. I didn't see any options to change either. Send Jackson (site owner) an email via contact us option. Bottom of the page.[/QUOTE]I did, Thanks Vegas. Have a x-rated photo as a thank you gift ;)

Here's a question that I've been mulling over for a while. As a woman would I be able to go to an AMP and get the same 'release' service men do?

I do love those asians :p

Gothic BBW,
If you go to an AMP (Asian Massage Parlor) please write a detailed review of your experience.
Oh man, the thought of that is SO hot. I'd pay the 160 just to watch!

[QUOTE=Gothic Bbw]Here's a question that I've been mulling over for a while. As a woman would I be able to go to an AMP and get the same 'release' service men do?

I do love those asians :p[/QUOTE]

You would need to find the right girl. The K-girl culture of pleasing men is ubiquitous. But I suspect that many of them are not as open to the idea of women on women intercourse, orally pleasing a woman or as forward-thinking as to thinking a lesbian relationship is okay.

I can think of one place where I am 99% sure you can get this service, if you are serious.