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[QUOTE=Gjt34;7229323]Chatted with Amber and she does seem eager to meet. I couldn't get her to respond to any questions I had. Said she can't host, and wanted an insane amount to meet. 600-800 if she had to host, 800. Smh.
I deleted her number.[/QUOTE]She is flakey as hell, will be interesting to see if anyone actually meets her.
[QUOTE=TomJones1016;7231994]Hi question about this forum / site. I've never reached out to anyone here (non paying member). Are these providers only interested in a long term Financial benefit or can you reach out to "try them out"?
It depends. Some are really escorts or UTR escorts. Others are SBs who will do pay per meet and some want an allowance.
I'm not looking to fund anyone long term / monthly.
Am I in the wrong area / forum?
Thanks.[/QUOTE]It depends. Some are really escorts or UTR escorts. Others are SBs who will do pay per meet and some want an allowance.
I imagine everyone here would notice the verification video displays how they look without the filters but I thought I would post an example anyways. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4305a32696c7f419[/URL].
[QUOTE=CraigStone2025;7232547]I imagine everyone here would notice the verification video displays how they look without the filters but I thought I would post an example anyways. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4305a32696c7f419[/URL].[/QUOTE]Very true, it's amazing what those filters can do!
Fairly new to the SD / SB scene and want advice from those more experienced.
Messaged this girl on SA for about a week and she initiated moving to text. Her profile says she wants to get to know online before meeting.
Convo was going okay until I asked for a verification photo and she flipped out.
[QUOTE=Qwerty2;7233437]Fairly new to the SD / SB scene and want advice from those more experienced.
Messaged this girl on SA for about a week and she initiated moving to text. Her profile says she wants to get to know online before meeting.
Convo was going okay until I asked for a verification photo and she flipped out.[/QUOTE]You're fine. The only thing I would caution you against is "getting to know online before meeting". This typically means that they have no intention of meeting and will try to get you to "send $20 to help with gas" or something.
There will be times when girls you have or want to dream with do very unlogical things. Do not drive yourself crazy trying to figure out why. Be polite, explain what you're looking for ie in-person arrangements, and that you'd like to meet in public somewhere for a drink (coffee or alcohol are good choices). If they agree to that, then typically you have someone who's more legit. If they argue, try to sell "content", or just make it inconvenient for you then most likely they're trying to sucker you. Note: a lot of these girls do not know the difference between SB / Princess Treatment / Findom and other niche things. Basically, they see trends on tiktok where they think there is an army of older gentlemen giving away money for nothing and that receiving said money makes them a SB.
[QUOTE=BamaTrip;7233462]You're fine. The only thing I would caution you against is "getting to know online before meeting". This typically means that they have no intention of meeting and will try to get you to "send $20 to help with gas" or something.
There will be times when girls you have or want to dream with do very unlogical things. Do not drive yourself crazy trying to figure out why. Be polite, explain what you're looking for ie in-person arrangements, and that you'd like to meet in public somewhere for a drink (coffee or alcohol are good choices). If they agree to that, then typically you have someone who's more legit. If they argue, try to sell "content", or just make it inconvenient for you then most likely they're trying to sucker you. Note: a lot of these girls do not know the difference between SB / Princess Treatment / Findom and other niche things. Basically, they see trends on tiktok where they think there is an army of older gentlemen giving away money for nothing and that receiving said money makes them a SB.[/QUOTE]Appreciate the advice. Thanks!
[QUOTE=Qwerty2;7233437]Fairly new to the SD / SB scene and want advice from those more experienced.
Messaged this girl on SA for about a week and she initiated moving to text. Her profile says she wants to get to know online before meeting.
Convo was going okay until I asked for a verification photo and she flipped out.[/QUOTE]Another thing is half of them who are real, are nuts. And the other half are worse. Most suffer from some terrible GPS. The hard part is finding the actual good ones from the crazies. I have lucked out with a few and that's like the unlucky fisherman and was after throwing out a thousand casts. They are there, but rare. Good hunting. That's half the fun of it. And find ya a buddy or two on here to help compare notes and share with.
Yes, she's a waste of time. "Online first or only. " "Platonic. " Asking for help within the first few messages. Leave those alone unless that's what you're looking for. I found that most older are willing to do a M&G upfront than someone in their early 20's. Like the other person said, many are crazy and she's probably one. Most younger women will have kids and some dude they're supporting, which is fine with me, but not when they are not serious about meeting.
Just be honest and straightforward when asked what you're looking for.
[QUOTE=Qwerty2;7233437]Fairly new to the SD / SB scene and want advice from those more experienced.
Messaged this girl on SA for about a week and she initiated moving to text. Her profile says she wants to get to know online before meeting.
Convo was going okay until I asked for a verification photo and she flipped out.[/QUOTE]
Always! That verification video will tell you everything! LOL.
[QUOTE=CraigStone2025;7232547]I imagine everyone here would notice the verification video displays how they look without the filters but I thought I would post an example anyways. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4305a32696c7f419[/URL].[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=CraigStone2025;7232547]I imagine everyone here would notice the verification video displays how they look without the filters but I thought I would post an example anyways. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4305a32696c7f419[/URL].[/QUOTE]Tried to follow up with you on the last convo. Your mail box is stuffed. LOL.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/6f8d5245689b1ad5[/URL]
I don't know one way or another and could be wrong. But be careful with this one. She reaches out to me. Messaged very quickly. Was very ready for anything as she claimed she loved to make extra money. Then I asked if she was really 21 like she claimed as I didn't want anything to do with someone under 20 and had absolutely no interest in anyone under age. What so ever! Crickets. Not another word from her after about 15 messages. Just throwing it out there. Be careful.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/1f4cfe7ed65ab038[/URL]
Has anyone seen this young lady? I am conversation with her and looking for any opinions if anyone has. Thanks.
[QUOTE=HsvHuntin1;7237697][URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/1f4cfe7ed65ab038[/URL]
Has anyone seen this young lady? I am conversation with her and looking for any opinions if anyone has. Thanks.[/QUOTE]She's messaged me but I have yet to open it.
Anyone been with or know of this one? Seems eager.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a64eb087-e757-4ef2-a3df-3e9d8a5de244[/URL]
This one messaged me so I responded. She wants a bunch of online carts paid for before meeting. Wow. Don't waste you time on it. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/7df8d99cfc57af2f[/URL].
[QUOTE=CraigStone2025;7238957]This one messaged me so I responded. She wants a bunch of online carts paid for before meeting. Wow. Don't waste you time on it. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/7df8d99cfc57af2f[/URL].[/QUOTE]She has changed what she asks for I see. Was exchanging messages with her about 2 months ago. She wanted $ 800. Told her she was nuts and moved on. You are right. She's a waste of time. X.
I've seen her out in the clubs downtown. She's cute, but idk if I'd call her. Seems like she only may want handouts.
[QUOTE=GunPilot;7238535]Anyone been with or know of this one? Seems eager.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a64eb087-e757-4ef2-a3df-3e9d8a5de244[/URL][/QUOTE]
She only wants to sell pics / vids.
[QUOTE=HsvHuntin1;7237697][URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/1f4cfe7ed65ab038[/URL]
Has anyone seen this young lady? I am conversation with her and looking for any opinions if anyone has. Thanks.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Gjt34;7239099]She only wants to sell pics / vids.[/QUOTE]That seems more common than not unfortunately.
Has anyone talked with this one? She jas messaged me but I'm not sure if I should reach back out. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c4755cd077a1f74b[/URL]
This one messaged me but then no response. I found her on an escort board out by Florence and also on Seeking. Both of those sites say no one over 40. I'm over 40. Why did she even bother messaging me the 1st time. Geez. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/b6b593c131475340[/URL]
She will not meet you. We also messaged about a month back and she only want a handout with no meet or anything.
[QUOTE=CraigStone2025;7239940]This one messaged me but then no response. I found her on an escort board out by Florence and also on Seeking. Both of those sites say no one over 40. I'm over 40. Why did she even bother messaging me the 1st time. Geez. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/b6b593c131475340[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Gjt34;7240085]She will not meet you. We also messaged about a month back and she only want a handout with no meet or anything.[/QUOTE]What's sad is that there are plenty of idiots that will do it. Those guys are killing it for everyone else.
[QUOTE=CraigStone2025;7239889]Has anyone talked with this one? She jas messaged me but I'm not sure if I should reach back out. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c4755cd077a1f74b[/URL][/QUOTE]She reached out to me also. I sent her back one message which was are you really 18 and can prove it. She scared me in 2 ways. One she was very eager to meet. Serious or not, who knows. But she said she was. And wanted me to know how much she could do for me. Suspicious to me. Uncle LEO? All too possible. Not getting near one her age.
She messaged me and then nothing. I'd suggest everyone save your credits. IMHO [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/0b69f834bda833e9[/URL].
Seems the majority are just looking for a quick buck with no intention of meeting.
No, I won't help you with your rent or utility bill before we meet.
No, I don't want to pay to see your pics or vids.
[I]*sigh*[/I]
Updates below:
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/e1a9a627d9834c58[/URL] - her response was "send 25 and we can talk all you want".
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/messages?box=Inbox&requested_profile_id=14813665[/URL] - talked and set up a m&g but ghosted at time to meet. Didn't ask for money upfront so possibly real just a warning.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/messages?box=Inbox&requested_profile_id=14793638[/URL] - no response after first message.
[URL] https://members.seeking.com/member/d2b5ea5f-c322-4cad-881e-4c1fd69f03f9[/URL] - Wants you to cashapp before talking on the phone, but won't meet without talking on the phone.
To be honest, I'm having significantly better luck with girls from Bham and Chatt visiting Huntsville than I am with the ones here. I think a lot of the TDY guys at the Arsenal are tainting the pool here.
Check out these pictures vs the verification video. What is she thinking? Lmao [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2dd79bd5001b90c5[/URL].
Secret benefits has had a huge increase in messages from the ladies. It's the first of the month and they are looking at their bills. Be safe out there and have fun!
This one has messaged me a few times. She asks if I'm around. She's said let do a private meet. She does one liners. When I ask when, where. Crickets. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/48e5536abaed8918[/URL]
This one hit me up as I do visit the place on certain weekends now. Out the gate she says 1 k starting. Starting what? I was polite and said I'm sorry but you are out of my league. I can visit cuter and younger for way less there. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/185b549dee107741[/URL]
[QUOTE=CraigStone2025;7246102]This one has messaged me a few times. She asks if I'm around. She's said let do a private meet. She does one liners. When I ask when, where. Crickets. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/48e5536abaed8918[/URL][/QUOTE]Yes, she is the queen of one liners and making no commitment to anything. She has sent me 6 messages and 5 have been monosyllable types. One actually had 3 sentences in it. LOL. And like you no reply to serious questions.
Fiestyt_Hottie (bham, will come up).
Babygirl8288.
Very reasonable gifts and a good time; both can be submissive and are just sweet, caring ladies who love strange dick beating their cervix up for multiple hours in a nice hotel.
Never closed, maybe real?
Hope, 31.
Nothingrosee, 28.
Ddebbie, Scottsboro, AL.
Short trip to HSV with a decent yield. Young MILF Tinder action is still decent but I swung and missed on a number SB. However, these two are reliable and have been discussed:
Fiestyt_Hottie (bham, will come up).
Babygirl8288 (discussed befor).
Very, very reasonable gifts and a good time; both can be submissive and are just sweet, caring ladies who love strange dick beating their cervix up for multiple hours in a nice hotel.
Real, didn't close:
RedheadTemptress97 / Madeline.
Southernhoney.
Never closed, maybe real?
Hope, 31.
Nothingrosee, 28.
Debbie, Scottsboro, AL.
SammySweetheart.
Anybody still hitting the 30 year old redhead w / blue eyes from Athens? I passed her off on here a few years back.
[QUOTE=AnomBox;7249038]Short trip to HSV with a decent yield. Young MILF Tinder action is still decent but I swung and missed on a number SB. However, these two are reliable and have been discussed:
Fiestyt_Hottie (bham, will come up).
Babygirl8288 (discussed befor).
Very, very reasonable gifts and a good time; both can be submissive and are just sweet, caring ladies who love strange dick beating their cervix up for multiple hours in a nice hotel.
Real, didn't close:
RedheadTemptress97 / Madeline.
Southernhoney.
Never closed, maybe real?
Hope, 31.
Nothingrosee, 28.
Debbie, Scottsboro, AL.
SammySweetheart.
Anybody still hitting the 30 year old redhead w / blue eyes from Athens? I passed her off on here a few years back.[/QUOTE]Assuming these are all on SA and not SB and oof still a pain trying to search to find out who you're reviewing.
Fiestyt_Hottie (bham, will come up) - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0f96cc33-9b91-4369-8d16-f3ca758c4b1a[/URL]
Babygirl8288 - Still looking for link.
Southernhoney - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/75898b01-77e8-403a-aab3-47a15ad9ce06[/URL].
Nothingrose - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8a8ef504-b833-42aa-9124-94bee5031b4a[/URL].
Hope - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/67351454-38b5-4bd6-94fa-ee9c4126645a[/URL].
Sammysweetheart - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d10ebb1f-e0e1-4eef-a2ed-7cf319441983[/URL].
RedheadTemptress - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f54985d8-98a5-4393-aa7b-9ef2ea393524[/URL].
I don't think Nothingrosee will meet. We chatted and she immediately brought up a car maintenance issue. I have her on social and everything I see says she wants the $$. Even posted her cashapp a few times. Smh.
[QUOTE=AnomBox;7249038]Short trip to HSV with a decent yield. Young MILF Tinder action is still decent but I swung and missed on a number SB. However, these two are reliable and have been discussed:
Fiestyt_Hottie (bham, will come up).
Babygirl8288 (discussed befor).
Very, very reasonable gifts and a good time; both can be submissive and are just sweet, caring ladies who love strange dick beating their cervix up for multiple hours in a nice hotel.
Real, didn't close:
RedheadTemptress97 / Madeline.
Southernhoney.
Never closed, maybe real?
Hope, 31.
Nothingrosee, 28.
Debbie, Scottsboro, AL.
SammySweetheart.
Anybody still hitting the 30 year old redhead w / blue eyes from Athens? I passed her off on here a few years back.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Gjt34;7250004]I don't think Nothingrosee will meet. We chatted and she immediately brought up a car maintenance issue. I have her on social and everything I see says she wants the $$. Even posted her cashapp a few times. Smh.[/QUOTE]Nothingrose and Sammysweeheart are both real and both play. I see Nothingrose about twice a month when I'm in the area. She was hard to pin down, but after that she is very easy to meet with.
I used to see Sammy, but she started putting on weight and getting a little needy so I moved on. Looks like she has lost the weight. She used to dance at one of the clubs in town.
Maybe that is why, she's just hard to pin down.
[QUOTE=Fergie830;7250070]Nothingrose and Sammysweeheart are both real and both play. I see Nothingrose about twice a month when I'm in the area. She was hard to pin down, but after that she is very easy to meet with.
I used to see Sammy, but she started putting on weight and getting a little needy so I moved on. Looks like she has lost the weight. She used to dance at one of the clubs in town.[/QUOTE]