[QUOTE=Waxxon;3597208]Good catch there. So what gives Rleft?[/QUOTE]Who knows, maybe this SA girl is bisexual lmao.
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[QUOTE=Waxxon;3597208]Good catch there. So what gives Rleft?[/QUOTE]Who knows, maybe this SA girl is bisexual lmao.
[QUOTE=Rleft35;3595830]I am new to this and thus clueless.
Summary, I gave allowance in advance, to someone who seemed reasonable & had reasonable explanations about things.
All in all, I transferred about 1 k to this person.
This person seems to be in the 4's ranch area.
She has a little dog that she brings everywhere with her -- including restaurants.
Meet #1 -- sushi & wanted to know was for real (200).
Meet #2 -- brewery & makeup (120) and prep allowance (400).
Meet #3 -- mex food // purchase gas for her car (50) // (300) we are going her place to hangout.
On the Meet #3, she has me park my car on side of street, next to complex. She then says she will park her car and get me.
After I wait for 15 minutes, she says some folks showed up at her house and she needs a few minutes. After another 30 minutes, she says how about the next day.
I then say, I think we should meet up tonight.
Eventually, she does completely dark and does not respond to any of my text messages; etc.
After I read through here, I realized I am just clueless about this.
I hope you will at least find this funny, in a twisted way.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2b3da629-46e7-d8bf-b91e-23777fa7b709[/URL]
The photos have been blurred or modified -- but you will get the general idea here.[/QUOTE]Go to the Richmond Va sd / sb thread and read. Its thousands of pages of info on every subject that has ever come up. Any question you have will be found there and answered several times in different approaches. Take what works for you and apply it.
[QUOTE=KingBaby;3596934]Thank you Rleft35 for the report. I think you should read up and im sure we can at least help you a bit.
However, why are you an "Advertiser"?[/QUOTE]Thanks for noticing this and letting me know. I think this is just example #2 of me not knowing what I am doing.
I will see if I can figure out how to changes my Account Type.
LOL. Tennis bro. If you really become a pimp, you would be a very successful and well-respected one.
[QUOTE=TennisNut;3596160]Paypal $1,000 to me and I will coach you in the ways of SA. It'll be money well-spent!
Haha. Okay, we're all laughing. I'm guessing you learned your lesson and will read through this forum to better educate yourself. PM me if you want some advice and suggestions of who to call to get your money's worth. Geez, I'm starting to sound like a pimp![/QUOTE]
There's a guy in Richmond, VA who seems to have condensed a lot of great info into one blog. If you are new to SA or another sugar daddy site, read this to get your basic questions answered:
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?15100-Sugarbaby-Thread-Highlights-Index-and-FAQ[/URL]
[QUOTE=Avalorth;3595096]Saw her once more yesterday. She contacted me around dinner time and invited me to her place. Exact phrase was "want to netflix and chill?" There was no reason to refuse the offer but wasn't sure if she was insisting to have an arrangement or just fwb thing so I went there without much of expectation. We chatted for like an hour or so, cuddled and snuggled, then began kissing. Got into her bedroom and the fun time began. This time though, she took off condom in the middle of fucking and asked me if I want to rub the bare cock on her pussy. Hell, why not and she eventually couldn't take it anymore and asked me again "want to just put just the tip?" Then it got all escalated to "oh well why don't we just. Do it" so yes BBFS was successfully performed. After she came on my cock while riding me, she began giving me BBBJ to finish off, followed by CIM. Then we cuddled again for like 10 minutes or so and that's where shit got a bit weird. She freaking fell asleep, began snoring like a mother of three children. That lasted about 30 minutes until she woke up out of no where and apologized. Told her it's okay, but obviously it wasn't. I got dressed up and was ready to leave and she did as well since she wanted to get food too. Allowance was not discussed until we got to the parking lot. I gave her 100 and told her I wasn't sure if she was looking for an arrangement, she said it's fine. I will probably not going to see her again; tons of new fishes out there and I am not planning to be stuck with this snoring girl.[/QUOTE]She txted me again right now, asking me if I could help her cover $145 and next visit will be her treat. I said I don't give money in advance then she began telling me "well you owe me 100 last time. " WTF? Haven't complained for like 3 days about the allowance I gave her and now she does? I can already see more drama is coming and on the way.
This is someone I saw quite some time ago and she dropped off the radar, has reappeared and may be interesting to some.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e1054224-32b0-e20b-9264-43fff14b51b3[/URL]
Had a lot of fun with her, she's a 40 ish MILF, has some baby bumps from having a couple kids. Very cool, intelligent, easy to talk to and has a lot of interesting stories. As for details, if you want to experience a squirter, go somewhere else because she is a gusher, over and over and over again. Will keep going as long as you can, insatiable is an inadequate description.
Please be kind and respectful. And do not reveal what you heard here.
[QUOTE=Waxxon;3599635]This is someone I saw quite some time ago and she dropped off the radar, has reappeared and may be interesting to some.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e1054224-32b0-e20b-9264-43fff14b51b3[/URL]
Had a lot of fun with her, she's a 40 ish MILF, has some baby bumps from having a couple kids. Very cool, intelligent, easy to talk to and has a lot of interesting stories. As for details, if you want to experience a squirter, go somewhere else because she is a gusher, over and over and over again. Will keep going as long as you can, insatiable is an inadequate description.
Please be kind and respectful. And do not reveal what you heard here.[/QUOTE]She is a super-nice person and you'll love the action. Waxxon meant to say "if you're NOT into squirting, go somewhere else. " Yes, JK is a squirter, so be forewarned. I would recommend seeing her in a hotel or motel. That way you won't care about what happens to the bed.
She's in Temecula, but might travel to San Diego. She has an interesting background. Ask her about it and you'll learn a thing or two about SA, among other things.
FaithfulEm [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7924d506-1115-414c-8184-443584950e5b[/URL].
Don't really know what to think of this one. Anyone had any luck with her? She's been viewing my profile off and on for a few months, asked to view my private pics. I messaged her several months back, just got crickets. So I've completely forgot about her. Now she's been checking my profile again and requested to view my private pics on more than one occasion, I give her access and request the same from her. No response. I guess she's bordering on BSC and GPS. Sent her a message asking her why doesn't she have the common courtesy to share her pics after she initiated asking for pics in the first place? I figure she'll just block me haahaa.
Is she UTR? Or strictly w / SA?
[QUOTE=TennisNut;3599828]She is a super-nice person and you'll love the action. Waxxon meant to say "if you're NOT into squirting, go somewhere else. " Yes, JK is a squirter, so be forewarned. I would recommend seeing her in a hotel or motel. That way you won't care about what happens to the bed.
She's in Temecula, but might travel to San Diego. She has an interesting background. Ask her about it and you'll learn a thing or two about SA, among other things.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Waxxon;3599635]This is someone I saw quite some time ago and she dropped off the radar, has reappeared and may be interesting to some.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e1054224-32b0-e20b-9264-43fff14b51b3[/URL]
Had a lot of fun with her, she's a 40 ish MILF, has some baby bumps from having a couple kids. Very cool, intelligent, easy to talk to and has a lot of interesting stories. As for details, if you want to experience a squirter, go somewhere else because she is a gusher, over and over and over again. Will keep going as long as you can, insatiable is an inadequate description.
Please be kind and respectful. And do not reveal what you heard here.[/QUOTE]I second this. She is awesome. Treat her well, you won't find a more insatiable, smarter, cooler person anywhere on SA, and eat your wheaties!
When she asks you to get champagne don't skimp. It's worth it!
Anyone with info or experience with this latina?
Jet Set Wanderlust [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f6bf5d22-0bdb-48c6-aa09-6906280375a2[/URL].
Been messaging with her for last several days. Feel like she's been scoping out the daddy market, she can take 12 hours or so to respond to a message after she's read it. Now all of a sudden she wants to meet, I assume she's now down to her 3rd or 4th option-ME! Haha. Is she in for a surprise. I'm just another monger like the rest of you.
Anyone with intel, let's hear it.
Anyone got any info on this girl. Would be much appreciated.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1499c711-c426-4610-a841-e9f563ba4d56[/URL]
I visited my now-favorite FBSM-masseuse today and got another milking table treatment! She's modified it so she's more comfortable underneath and the pay-off is a better experience for the guy! Wow. I was blown away--literally and figuratively. AND she's got great hands, a sparkling personality, and lovely big breasts. What a package!
I posted her phone number on a previous post, but some of the numbers were replaced with astericks * so PM me for her number, but be patient, I'm busy and not on the computer all day.
Enjoy the pictures!
[QUOTE=Waxxon;3600170]FaithfulEm [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7924d506-1115-414c-8184-443584950e5b[/URL].
Don't really know what to think of this one. Anyone had any luck with her? She's been viewing my profile off and on for a few months, asked to view my private pics. I messaged her several months back, just got crickets. So I've completely forgot about her. Now she's been checking my profile again and requested to view my private pics on more than one occasion, I give her access and request the same from her. No response. I guess she's bordering on BSC and GPS. Sent her a message asking her why doesn't she have the common courtesy to share her pics after she initiated asking for pics in the first place? I figure she'll just block me haahaa.[/QUOTE]She texted me back today, 300 to watch her eat mcdonalds, 500 for extended session. Nope, nope.
She is beautiful! Oh my god! Someone please do her, take pictures, and share them!
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/bb0f751c-0f6e-4a4d-b4c1-919761f356fb[/URL]
[QUOTE=Simplewishes;3605809]She texted me back today, 300 to watch her eat mcdonalds, 500 for extended session. Nope, nope.[/QUOTE]Wow, that $300 to watch a chick eat MickeyDs must be some kind of exotic high-end fetish that had totally slid past my radar.
I won't disclose her profile link, since she unabled her profile to be searched or tagged on front page. Her username is jasminebellexo, if you happen to be the lucky guy who got contacted by this girl, I suggest you to do whatever you can to see her. 22 years old, 5'11 with flawless body. Pics she uploaded on her profile CANNOT represent her beauty as seen in person. It was fucking surreal experience. On the side note though, she says she prefer seeing Asians only. Her profile says she is Native American, but she told me she is half Swedish and half Japanese.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e612584d-592a-4fbf-b8f1-e2c03850aa96[/URL]
Baked and delusional to demand 300/ hr, for a dinner and cuddles 600. Nope, woke up immediately sweating, so dint lost any sleep there.
I had 3 other dreams for 250/ date. Dinner + lots of exploration of nether regions. Seniors pm me for info.
Works ok in porn videos, but in real life there sometimes tends to be a biting reaction...
[QUOTE=Member#2041;3595474]You know if you stick your dick in her mouth, she'll have no choice but to stop snoring.[/QUOTE]
This woman is amazing.
Just as much fun (in different ways) over dinner and drinks as in the other ways.
An hour with her is like 3 with anyone else.
Don't be cheap guys, treat her well, she's worth it.
And repeat visitors get some added perks.
Oh and bring towels!!
[QUOTE=Member#2157;3611572]This woman is amazing.
Just as much fun (in different ways) over dinner and drinks as in the other ways.
An hour with her is like 3 with anyone else.
Don't be cheap guys, treat her well, she's worth it.
And repeat visitors get some added perks.
Oh and bring towels!![/QUOTE]She seems hard to stay in touch with. I've tried multiple times and she drops off the conversation each time so far.
[QUOTE=Sinner1904;3611816]She seems hard to stay in touch with. I've tried multiple times and she drops off the conversation each time so far.[/QUOTE]Persevere. You'll thank me!
LovelyLexi00.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ea23537c-b050-4e24-87c5-51e023ff405e[/URL]
Here's another new one, she got in touch with me about a week ago with the proverbial "hey!" greeting. I respond gracefully, and then get the request to see my private pics treatment. Being the perfect gentleman I try to keep her engaged in a reasonable messaging conversation and she suggests that we should meet, which leads to exchanging numbers so we can text. By the way, she never reciprocates with her private pics which is a bad sign in my experience. She gets back to me a day or two later by text and asks "what are you up to?" Me- " I'm working right now but will be done soon if you still want to meet". Then she responds with the incredibly creative "what would be the perfect arrangement for you? " I give a nice rundown on what a nice SD can do to enrich a POT life to become a worthy SB. Ghosted me now for the last 3 days even though she is still checking out my profile. I have since ignored her because she appears to be the hybrid mix of flaky, GPS, TWOT, entitled POT that I don't have the time for. I've already got 2 other sweet new POT ringing my text line that I'm working on.
Check her out guys, someone here should be able to break through because I obviously don't have what it takes to please this one.
[QUOTE=Waxxon;3613218]LovelyLexi00.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ea23537c-b050-4e24-87c5-51e023ff405e[/URL]
Here's another new one, she got in touch with me about a week ago with the proverbial "hey!" greeting. I respond gracefully, and then get the request to see my private pics treatment. Being the perfect gentleman I try to keep her engaged in a reasonable messaging conversation and she suggests that we should meet, which leads to exchanging numbers so we can text. By the way, she never reciprocates with her private pics which is a bad sign in my experience. She gets back to me a day or two later by text and asks "what are you up to?" Me- " I'm working right now but will be done soon if you still want to meet". Then she responds with the incredibly creative "what would be the perfect arrangement for you? " I give a nice rundown on what a nice SD can do to enrich a POT life to become a worthy SB. Ghosted me now for the last 3 days even though she is still checking out my profile. I have since ignored her because she appears to be the hybrid mix of flaky, GPS, TWOT, entitled POT that I don't have the time for. I've already got 2 other sweet new POT ringing my text line that I'm working on.
Check her out guys, someone here should be able to break through because I obviously don't have what it takes to please this one.[/QUOTE]I'd love to know your "rundown on what a nice SD can do to enrich a POT life to become a worthy SB". What did you say to her? Come on, be honest. Then maybe we can tell you why she didn't reply. Or not.
When I "hide members" that viewed me, they don't stay hidden. When I hide members that favorited me, they stay hidden. I contacted their tech support and they have been ineffective. Anyone else notice that problem?
[QUOTE=Waxxon;3613218]LovelyLexi00.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ea23537c-b050-4e24-87c5-51e023ff405e[/URL]
Here's another new one, she got in touch with me about a week ago with the proverbial "hey!" greeting. I respond gracefully, and then get the request to see my private pics treatment. Being the perfect gentleman I try to keep her engaged in a reasonable messaging conversation and she suggests that we should meet, which leads to exchanging numbers so we can text. By the way, she never reciprocates with her private pics which is a bad sign in my experience. She gets back to me a day or two later by text and asks "what are you up to?" Me- " I'm working right now but will be done soon if you still want to meet". Then she responds with the incredibly creative "what would be the perfect arrangement for you? " I give a nice rundown on what a nice SD can do to enrich a POT life to become a worthy SB. Ghosted me now for the last 3 days even though she is still checking out my profile. I have since ignored her because she appears to be the hybrid mix of flaky, GPS, TWOT, entitled POT that I don't have the time for. I've already got 2 other sweet new POT ringing my text line that I'm working on.
Check her out guys, someone here should be able to break through because I obviously don't have what it takes to please this one.[/QUOTE]She gave me access to her private pics right away. But still hasn't actually answered my message to her. BTW, the private pics are just more close up views of her head and shoulders, one in a not revealing bikini top, and one in a pink blouse.
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[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f72bab10-3be3-40b4-bbcf-c4fa6205cd07[/URL]
[QUOTE=TennisNut;3613515]I'd love to know your "rundown on what a nice SD can do to enrich a POT life to become a worthy SB". What did you say to her? Come on, be honest. Then maybe we can tell you why she didn't reply. Or not.[/QUOTE]My approach is to respond to each POT in an individualized way that is tailored to my read on their profile and their "type" Suggestive, sexpot revealing pics, down to earth, educated, party girl. Etc. I used to have a generic response that covered a lot of bases, fun, convo, travel, allowance, mentor and on. Now I make sure to personalize the message- introduce myself, give my name, acknowledge her name or handle in some way, a compliment about her is helpful and direct the message based on info in her profile. Without revealing a secret family recipe, develop some game, make her curious enough to want to learn more. Obviously they want sugar, but I never ask about arrangements or money, I let them do that first. For this particular POT in question, I let her know each situation is unique and will develop based on how two people's chemistry interacts, that's what nice about this site etc. We're here to help each other in the ways we're best able to assist each other in a meaningful way and blah blah. Basically, you want sugar, I want the honey. If they come out with how much allowance or "gifts" as their primary focus, then I lose interest real quick because it seems like a bidding war. My #1 sb is looking to have all her senses stimulated, cerebral, emotional, economic, and their sexuality. Nothing is perfect, but a good balance of this at a comfortable $ is all I ask.
[QUOTE=LoveFinePussy;3613685][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f72bab10-3be3-40b4-bbcf-c4fa6205cd07[/URL][/QUOTE]Looks like she could be a lot of fun, give us some follow up reports.
Does not host. 2 bens to meet and greet. Met over a month ago. Got to make out with DATY and HJ in my car but that's about it. Did not repeat.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2d3fc235-f476-47a5-99a6-ae2d0c45f234[/URL]
This one just turned out to be a lunch date but no ppm.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/987427da-5194-4363-a1a7-ff6543be8d70[/URL]
These two I've been in contact with when I was in WA. They happened to be in LA a month ago and hooked up again. 6 bens for two hours of uncovered except for BBBJ but all holes where open.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7e40134d-f421-45e2-b076-7d68a2b06f8d[/URL]
This one is game. Saw her 2 months ago near where she lives. Had lunch and then went to her place to make out. Then things went wild afterwards. All covered though and wouldn't want to accept cash that I'd offered. I repeated twice but got too busy with others on the site.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1e4035e3-23b1-493c-ba9b-d8f096f4029d[/URL]
This one is across the border. Met her once a couple of weeks ago but it was just lunch and making out. Nice rack though and got a HJ for nothing in return.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9403c284-406a-4ec2-8b18-9acd16bcb126[/URL]
This one is definitely ppv. I did not know until she mentioned over coffee. 8 bens for 2 hours but open to anything. But I am hesitant to do any bb cip with anyone on SA. We went to my place and everything is open. BBBJ CIM twice, covered cip and covered cia. I did not repeat though for the price.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/62933b03-b0e7-4426-9394-[/URL]
The one on the photo reached out to me a month ago asking to pay for a saddle. She sent these photos and more but was asking for $3800 in return. It was unreasonable so I just ignored afterwards.
I am scheduled to meet 4 this weekend. Happy searching.
[QUOTE=JakeDSnake;3616391]Does not host. 2 bens to meet and greet. Met over a month ago. Got to make out with DATY and HJ in my car but that's about it. Did not repeat.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2d3fc235-f476-47a5-99a6-ae2d0c45f234[/URL]
This one just turned out to be a lunch date but no ppm.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/987427da-5194-4363-a1a7-ff6543be8d70[/URL]
These two I've been in contact with when I was in WA. They happened to be in LA a month ago and hooked up again. 6 bens for two hours of uncovered except for BBBJ but all holes where open.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7e40134d-f421-45e2-b076-7d68a2b06f8d[/URL]
This one is game. Saw her 2 months ago near where she lives. Had lunch and then went to her place to make out. Then things went wild afterwards. All covered though and wouldn't want to accept cash that I'd offered. I repeated twice but got too busy with others on the site..[/QUOTE]Nice report! Thanks! Who is the chick in the photo on the right. She has perfect tits!
[QUOTE=TennisNut;3613518]When I "hide members" that viewed me, they don't stay hidden. When I hide members that favorited me, they stay hidden. I contacted their tech support and they have been ineffective. Anyone else notice that problem?[/QUOTE]Didn't know one could do that. As a paying member I can hide from people that I view or favorite. But if my membership lapses that goes away so the ones I viewed or favored will see that I checked them out. The hide is a perc for paying members the way I understand it. What is the thought on hiding people who viewed or favored you.
Thank you for the report! Good luck this weekend.
[QUOTE=TennisNut;3616537]Nice report! Thanks! Who is the chick in the photo on the right. She has perfect tits![/QUOTE]That's Scarlett01 xxx from Wales, England. Not her true name of course. She favorited me 3 months back and have been emailing back and forth and she sent many pics. And so, I have blocked her since she started becoming unreasonably demanding.
6 bennies for those 2 smoking hotties? All holes open? Hell yeah if I'm ever out west I'll partake for sure!
All holes open on both girls? Did they play with each other? You said "all uncovered except BBBJ", did you mean all covered except BBBJ? Or were you raw dogging all 6 holes on these two?
[QUOTE=JakeDSnake;3616391]Does not host. 2 bens to meet and greet. Met over a month ago. Got to make out with DATY and HJ in my car but that's about it. Did not repeat.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2d3fc235-f476-47a5-99a6-ae2d0c45f234[/URL]
This one just turned out to be a lunch date but no ppm.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/987427da-5194-4363-a1a7-ff6543be8d70[/URL]
These two I've been in contact with when I was in WA. They happened to be in LA a month ago and hooked up again. 6 bens for two hours of uncovered except for BBBJ but all holes where open.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7e40134d-f421-45e2-b076-7d68a2b06f8d[/URL]
This one is game. Saw her 2 months ago near where she lives. Had lunch and then went to her place to make out. Then things went wild afterwards. All covered though and wouldn't want to accept cash that I'd offered. I repeated twice but got too busy with others on the site.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1e4035e3-23b1-493c-ba9b-d8f096f4029d[/URL]
This one is across the border. Met her once a couple of weeks ago but it was just lunch and making out. Nice rack though and got a HJ for nothing in return.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9403c284-406a-4ec2-8b18-9acd16bcb126[/URL]
This one is definitely ppv. I did not know until she mentioned over coffee. 8 bens for 2 hours but open to anything. But I am hesitant to do any bb cip with anyone on SA. We went to my place and everything is open. BBBJ CIM twice, covered cip and covered cia. I did not repeat though for the price.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/62933b03-b0e7-4426-9394-[/URL]
The one on the photo reached out to me a month ago asking to pay for a saddle. She sent these photos and more but was asking for $3800 in return. It was unreasonable so I just ignored afterwards.
I am scheduled to meet 4 this weekend. Happy searching.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=PauFord;3616927]6 bennies for those 2 smoking hotties? All holes open? Hell yeah if I'm ever out west I'll partake for sure!
All holes open on both girls? Did they play with each other? You said "all uncovered except BBBJ", did you mean all covered except BBBJ? Or were you raw dogging all 6 holes on these two?[/QUOTE]Sorry, dang sticky fingers. I to type in "all covered except BBBJ".
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3616552]Didn't know one could do that. As a paying member I can hide from people that I view or favorite. But if my membership lapses that goes away so the ones I viewed or favored will see that I checked them out. The hide is a perc for paying members the way I understand it. What is the thought on hiding people who viewed or favored you.[/QUOTE]Why hide members? It's about house-keeping. Do you want to continue to look at the ineligible girls / women? If I'm doing a search, I don't want to keep looking at the girls who I find unattractive or in whom I have no interest for any reason. So when you hit Hide Profile, they are hidden.
To make it so the women cannot see when you have visited them, go to your profile settings, and disable the notifications of when you do certain things, like view someone. See the attached picture for more details.
[QUOTE=Waxxon;3614005]My approach is to respond to each POT in an individualized way that is tailored to my read on their profile and their "type" Suggestive, sexpot revealing pics, down to earth, educated, party girl. Etc. I used to have a generic response that covered a lot of bases, fun, convo, travel, allowance, mentor and on. Now I make sure to personalize the message- introduce myself, give my name, acknowledge her name or handle in some way, a compliment about her is helpful and direct the message based on info in her profile. Without revealing a secret family recipe, develop some game, make her curious enough to want to learn more. Obviously they want sugar, but I never ask about arrangements or money, I let them do that first. For this particular POT in question, I let her know each situation is unique and will develop based on how two people's chemistry interacts, that's what nice about this site etc. We're here to help each other in the ways we're best able to assist each other in a meaningful way and blah blah. Basically, you want sugar, I want the honey. If they come out with how much allowance or "gifts" as their primary focus, then I lose interest real quick because it seems like a bidding war. My #1 sb is looking to have all her senses stimulated, cerebral, emotional, economic, and their sexuality. Nothing is perfect, but a good balance of this at a comfortable $ is all I ask.[/QUOTE]I agree 100% that talking about money up-front is a red flag and a turn-off. My best relationships--short or long--were ones in which nothing was said, they trusted me, and they got $200 in an envelope and were happy with it. That's the way I want to do it, not up-front negotiating. Imagine what the sex would be like then--mechanical. No thanks.
You certainly get credit for taking the time to personalize your initial sales pitch to their individual qualities. I do that a little, but not as much as you. I also don't try to sell myself too much. That's just me. I DO, however, when the weather is conducive, try to use my sailboat as a big lure. I figure, if they'll go sailing, they'll fuck me at the end of the day. It's worked 100% with and = 2.
I sometimes ask for pictures after I've PM'd or texted for a while. Some will cooperate and some won't. Some will even get down to sexting with you on the first contact via cell phone and then you know you're going to get a hot one when you get together! That's all new to me. I like it! But it's a dumb idea for politicians! (Ya hear that Anthony?