Delaware Douchebaggery!

[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;4436103]OK, a few thoughts.

1. There are a lot of new or low number members around these days. I can't help but think that a fair number of them are dudes who saw the WHFT affidavit and rightly dumped their monger phones and dumped their accounts here, so they could start over. So might be that some of the newbies aren't so much.

2. That said, the girls tell me they are starting to get a lot of calls from 20-somethings. Hey, this is inevitable as life marches on. However, the good girls (desirable ones) aren't interested in the sh*t and disrespect that many of these dudes bring. Yeah, you are f*cking a wh*re, but that makes you a wh*remonger! So no reason to disrespect the girls or look down on them. In fact, if you treat them as you would want a dude to treat your sister on a date you'll get a better experience. This approach has always worked for me over the years and might be one reason I can keep prices low.

3. For those truly new to mongering I can't stress enough the need to take it slow and learn! [B]While mongering may look easy, safe long-term mongering is far from easy.[/B] Treat this like anything else new you do and be patient in the learning process. Seems kike 20 something have no respect for history or the past! Sigh. [U]There is a WEALTH of info on these threads,[/U] so reading back a year or two can be instructive and helpful. Yeah, it takes time! But what new thing doesn't take some time to learn? You can take short cuts if you wish, just don't be surprised if you have more than a few "experiential learning" situations! Problem is some might be dangerous, others financial hits and some might even get you jammed up! I will say, the other day I did see a monger suggest to a newbie that they should read the entire board, because that had helped them in the hobby! Kudos! Someone got it!

4. Prices! I think we all know the prices out there.[/QUOTE]Just my personal opinion I think mongering is pretty easy, especially street walkers I literally just drive down Lancaster make eye contact, discreetly pull over, never have them talk through the window just have them get in and that's really all there is to it, I don't go through a 30 rule checklist but hey that's me. Only tough part of mongering is the shady motels where you never know who is lurking. At least on the streets you know its just you and the girl.

[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;4436103]
5. Why couldn't youse guys let me die with pappasmurf? Do I have to spell out my recent absence? If you are aware of what has transpired in the hobby in 2019, as noted in #1 above, one should be able to make the leap?![/QUOTE]I gave you the best "out" imaginable, but the fellas weren't having it.

[QUOTE=GioBeYourBody;4437435]I gave you the best "out" imaginable, but the fellas weren't having it.[/QUOTE]Just when I thought I was out, they pull me back in.

So the girl first. There is a new girl on uLA who's name is. Wait for it. [B]Ashley![/B] NO! Not always preggers Ashley! This one is half Hispanic, a bit rotund (small BBW) and has some red / pink streaks in her hair. Anyway, I have been warned about her by my required 3 separate girls and thus this one is on the [B]NO FLY LIST![/B] Seems that in group therapy some people say things they ought to keep their moth shut about. Why would anyone talk about owning Residential Real Estate in Virginia? But the discussion was had and many ears heard it. So hey I guess there is some dude who will think I am trying to stop them from seeing the girl and am thus stating the no fly list as a method to keep her all to myself. But hey! Some have to learn 'life long' lessons the hard way!

Next, a Monger! I see a dude had a bad experience with a girl involving bodily fluids from the end of the GI track. Hey, "interesting" things happen to all of us from time to time. But what is the point in creating a nickname for this girl based on that event and using it constantly? First the nickname is just juvenile but it's constant use is just plain degrading to the girl! I wonder if this is an indication of either the maturity level of the monger or his view of the girls he is dating? Then others have jumped in and used the term / nickname too? Seriously? Look, if you have a bad experience with a girl, big deal, it happens! But if you need to pump yourself up by degrading a girl, or think name calling is fun / funny, then shame on you! Some of my success in the hobby comes from the fact that I treat all girls with respect. Believe me the girls figure that out and avoid the disrespectful guys and are willing to be more accommodating to the respectful ones. But hey, everyone is free to come on a public forum and demonstrate their true colors.

Finally I see a monger claiming mongering is easy and no need to follow any silly rules! LOL! Sure looks like an arrogant attitude or a fair amount of hubris? As one with a fair amount of both, I believe I am qualified to comment here. Let me just say this, I have had more than a few "interesting" and dangerous experiences. Most if not all of those experiences happened when 1) I thought I knew everything or 2) I just plain flat out ignored the rules or one aspect of them. Can a monger wing it and be fine? Yeah sure, er at least until the streets, a girl or LE catches up with them! Like I have pounded the table over the years, read the rules, reread the rules and read them again until they are ingrained in your mind and the way you practice the hobby. But hey, been around long enough to see that everyone perceives and handles risk differently. I still say, [B]mongering looks easy, but consistently safe mongering is anything but easy![/B].

For any newbies reading this here are the "rules" in three posts (read all three), for SW mongering:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/custompages.php?pageid=MongeringRules[/URL]

For online dating, this short thread is a good guide:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?13919-My-Suggestions.-Rules-For-BackPage[/URL]

As always, if one has questions about style or techniques in the hobby, the boards are a great place to ask! Gents are usually willing to share 'how to' information. Much more so than the number of their favorite girl. So if in doubt -ASK! Easier & quicker way to get an education, rather than paying "tuition" in the school of hard knocks!

Be safe, be cool, be respectful!

[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;4452888]So the girl first. There is a new girl on uLA who's name is. Wait for it. [B]Ashley![/B] NO! Not always preggers Ashley! This one is half Hispanic, a bit rotund (small BBW) and has some red / pink streaks in her hair. Anyway, I have been warned about her by my required 3 separate girls and thus this one is on the [B]NO FLY LIST![/B] Seems that in group therapy some people say things they ought to keep their moth shut about. Why would anyone talk about owning Residential Real Estate in Virginia? But the discussion was had and many ears heard it. So hey I guess there is some dude who will think I am trying to stop them from seeing the girl and am thus stating the no fly list as a method to keep her all to myself. But hey! Some have to learn 'life long' lessons the hard way!

Next, a Monger! I see a dude had a bad experience with a girl involving bodily fluids from the end of the GI track. Hey, "interesting" things happen to all of us from time to time. But what is the point in creating a nickname for this girl based on that event and using it constantly? First the nickname is just juvenile but it's constant use is just plain degrading to the girl! I wonder if this is an indication of either the maturity level of the monger or his view of the girls he is dating? Then others have jumped in and used the term / nickname too? Seriously? Look, if you have a bad experience with a girl, big deal, it happens! But if you need to pump yourself up by degrading a girl, or think name calling is fun / funny, then shame on you! Some of my success in the hobby comes from the fact that I treat all girls with respect. Believe me the girls figure that out and avoid the disrespectful guys and are willing to be more accommodating to the respectful ones. But hey, everyone is free to come on a public forum and demonstrate their true colors.

Finally I see a monger claiming mongering is easy and no need to follow any silly rules! LOL! Sure looks like an arrogant attitude or a fair amount of hubris? As one with a fair amount of both, I believe I am qualified to comment here. Let me just say this, I have had more than a few "interesting" and dangerous experiences. Most if not all of those experiences happened when 1) I thought I knew everything or 2) I just plain flat out ignored the rules or one aspect of them. Can a monger wing it and be fine? Yeah sure, er at least until the streets, a girl or LE catches up with them! Like I have pounded the table over the years, read the rules, reread the rules and read them again until they are ingrained in your mind and the way you practice the hobby. But hey, been around long enough to see that everyone perceives and handles risk differently. I still say, [B]mongering looks easy, but consistently safe mongering is anything but easy![/B].

For any newbies reading this here are the "rules" in three posts (read all three), for SW mongering:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/custompages.php?pageid=MongeringRules[/URL]

For online dating, this short thread is a good guide:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?13919-My-Suggestions.-Rules-For-BackPage[/URL]

As always, if one has questions about style or techniques in the hobby, the boards are a great place to ask! Gents are usually willing to share 'how to' information. Much more so than the number of their favorite girl. So if in doubt -ASK! Easier & quicker way to get an education, rather than paying "tuition" in the school of hard knocks!

Be safe, be cool, be respectful![/QUOTE]As always, great words. Thank you, and thank you for all that you do, Sir! Just know that not ALL of the wisdom is getting lost. There are still those who will ALWAYS be willing to learn, and these forums and it's members are a great resource.

[QUOTE=PPJones;4455278]As always, great words. Thank you, and thank you for all that you do, Sir! Just know that not ALL of the wisdom is getting lost. There are still those who will ALWAYS be willing to learn, and these forums and it's members are a great resource.[/QUOTE]+1.

My latest take away is I ALWAYS have a "thank you but no thank you" amount ready if she is looks or acts different from her ad. I apologize that I'm interested in someone else and give that to them. That has always got me a "thank you" and "if you change your mind I'm here if you want to see me".

PH.

[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;4452888]So the girl first. There is a new girl on uLA who's name is. Wait for it. [B]Ashley![/B] NO! Not always preggers Ashley! This one is half Hispanic, a bit rotund (small BBW) and has some red / pink streaks in her hair. Anyway, I have been warned about her by my required 3 separate girls and thus this one is on the [B]NO FLY LIST![/B] Seems that in group therapy some people say things they ought to keep their moth shut about. Why would anyone talk about owning Residential Real Estate in Virginia? But the discussion was had and many ears heard it. So hey I guess there is some dude who will think I am trying to stop them from seeing the girl and am thus stating the no fly list as a method to keep her all to myself. But hey! Some have to learn 'life long' lessons the hard way! [/QUOTE]Is Ashley just a little thick or actually a bbw? There has been a little bit thick Latino girl around ULA lately with a pretty face and magenta dyed hair. No pink that I've seen. She also has a darker skin tone like she's full Latino not half. I've avoided her because of this report. Just wondering if it's the same girl. I feel like if asked her name she would just lie if she knew people were avoiding Ashley.

Forgive my being dense, what the heck is owning residential real estate in Virginia?

[QUOTE=Seeker5901;4482248]Forgive my being dense, what the heck is owning residential real estate in Virginia?[/QUOTE]Thank you--I thought it was just me! That one has me puzzled!

[QUOTE=Seeker5901;4482248]Forgive my being dense, what the heck is owning residential real estate in Virginia?[/QUOTE]*H*ouse *I*and *V*irginia.

[QUOTE=RickAnon1973;4482424]*H*ouse *I*and *V*irginia.[/QUOTE]Thanks, I've read that part 6 times trying to figure it out.

So the most recent event is a motion to exclude the time from March to November 26 from the "speedy trial" clock time. Apparently defendant has the right to a trial within 70-days of arraignment or something. So now plea negotiations are underway. A plea has been submitted to the defendant (Xavier) and is under consideration. So dude, when you want to head to Club Fed? Before T-day? After Christmas?

Hopefully this means no trial and this whole event is over and records get archived. I suspect many are still holding their breath?

Anyway, in the mean time there was a review of the evidence collected. Posted to the fed court record was inventories of items seized on execution of search warrants. One inventory is of particular interest to this writer and is posted here because it might be of public interest.

Now I am pretty sure saw video on the WHFT website at one point that suggested this and saw info in the Affidavit filed in support of the search warrants that stated X had sex with girls he was hiring.

[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;4515789]So the most recent event is a motion to exclude the time from March to November 26 from the "speedy trial" clock time. Apparently defendant has the right to a trial within 70-days of arraignment or something. So now plea negotiations are underway. A plea has been submitted to the defendant (Xavier) and is under consideration. So dude, when you want to head to Club Fed? Before T-day? After Christmas?

Hopefully this means no trial and this whole event is over and records get archived. I suspect many are still holding their breath?

Anyway, in the mean time there was a review of the evidence collected. Posted to the fed court record was inventories of items seized on execution of search warrants. One inventory is of particular interest to this writer and is posted here because it might be of public interest.

Now I am pretty sure saw video on the WHFT website at one point that suggested this and saw info in the Affidavit filed in support of the search warrants that stated X had sex with girls he was hiring.[/QUOTE]Thanks for sharing. I am so lucky that I did not partake in any of those activities. I highly suggest my brethren who may have used these services to check out the attachment included in Ceph's post. Specifically, the last thing noted at the end of item #1. Whew for me. Be safe all.

Shaking my head on this one.

Dude posts on other states threads that he is looking for an ex-WHFT girl. He is given advice there from more that one as to let sleeping dogs lie. One helpful poster points the dude in the direction of the WHFT thread in DE, where I would think most would read, at least, the recent posts and be given pause. Yet the dude goes ahead and posts there STILL looking for the girl? Shaking my head.

Just a dumb question: Why would anyone want to find ex-X girls? Seems pretty clear from the court docs I saw posted here, that there are any number of ex-X girls on the prosecution witness list and which LE is still in contact with. I also noted that the way LE "found out" X had broken his bail conditions by contacting his ex-girls and soliciting them, was by reading these threads. So, it is probably just my natural paranoia, but that doesn't seem like anything I'd want to wave a red flag at!

There are plenty of other waters one can fish in as the threads will atest, so why are dudes taking the risk of playing in those water? I guess many from outside DE don't perceive the "nature" of this place, its interconnections, etc. ?

So are those who want to play that game just ignorant (uneducated, unaware) of the happenings or are they full of hubris, it will never happen to me?

Since the dude was a WHFT client I wonder if he is aware the FBI has a video of his naked azz with the girl?

There is info around on how to stay safe and many posters are willing to share their experience and techniques. Just ask! A successful player is always learning! Should be no excuse for ignorance. I am just saying.

Be smart, stay safe amigos!

Maybe he was the only one who boinked her?? True love has a place in the heart!!

[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;4597365]Shaking my head on this one.

Dude posts on other states threads that he is looking for an ex-WHFT girl. He is given advice there from more that one as to let sleeping dogs lie. One helpful poster points the dude in the direction of the WHFT thread in DE, where I would think most would read, at least, the recent posts and be given pause. Yet the dude goes ahead and posts there STILL looking for the girl? Shaking my head.

Just a dumb question: Why would anyone want to find ex-X girls? Seems pretty clear from the court docs I saw posted here, that there are any number of ex-X girls on the prosecution witness list and which LE is still in contact with. I also noted that the way LE "found out" X had broken his bail conditions by contacting his ex-girls and soliciting them, was by reading these threads. So, it is probably just my natural paranoia, but that doesn't seem like anything I'd want to wave a red flag at!

There are plenty of other waters one can fish in as the threads will atest, so why are dudes taking the risk of playing in those water? I guess many from outside DE don't perceive the "nature" of this place, its interconnections, etc. ?

So are those who want to play that game just ignorant (uneducated, unaware) of the happenings or are they full of hubris, it will never happen to me?

Since the dude was a WHFT client I wonder if he is aware the FBI has a video of his naked azz with the girl?

There is info around on how to stay safe and many posters are willing to share their experience and techniques. Just ask! A successful player is always learning! Should be no excuse for ignorance. I am just saying.

Be smart, stay safe amigos![/QUOTE]