Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;2831675]NC Transplant, I agree 100%. That's pretty much what I was trying to say earlier. Most of these girls do not want to be passed around, because they don't see themselves as escorts. They usually stick with one, or just a few daddies, depending how many can satisfy their needs. Otherwise it makes them the same like escorts, and most of them don't want to go that rout. Actually, a good number of them see only one daddy at the time. Now, like someone mentioned, if their profiles are active, and they may be seeing more than one daddy at the time, that's still in significantly smaller numbers than your average escort. So helping the good ones to stay UTR is completely understandable. Once we're done with them, and if they decide to reactivate their profiles on SA or any other site, at that point it's all fair game. Reporting on bad ones should be a definite must, as a warning to the rest of us.. Or, if anyone is considering the particular SB, and want's to run her profile on the forum, just to check if any one of us had any experience with that particular one, that would be understandable.[/QUOTE]Agreed. Passing along warnings about scammers or flakes is a good idea, but I'm not going to pass along too much info on the girls I see. I've asked them to be discrete about this and I owe them the same courtesy in return.

Makes sense. I just wish my pockets was deep enough to get into this game. But there are other risks involved in getting overly involved in any one gal.

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;2831675]NC Transplant, I agree 100%. That's pretty much what I was trying to say earlier. Most of these girls do not want to be passed around, because they don't see themselves as escorts. They usually stick with one, or just a few daddies, depending how many can satisfy their needs. Otherwise it makes them the same like escorts, and most of them don't want to go that rout. Actually, a good number of them see only one daddy at the time. Now, like someone mentioned, if their profiles are active, and they may be seeing more than one daddy at the time, that's still in significantly smaller numbers than your average escort. So helping the good ones to stay UTR is completely understandable. Once we're done with them, and if they decide to reactivate their profiles on SA or any other site, at that point it's all fair game. Reporting on bad ones should be a definite must, as a warning to the rest of us.. Or, if anyone is considering the particular SB, and want's to run her profile on the forum, just to check if any one of us had any experience with that particular one, that would be understandable.[/QUOTE]

Never pass a sb onto another monger, especially guys that doesn't even belong to the SA or any other site. That is a big NO.

Posting links is ok because only paying members to the site can contact them. Now if their profile is up then they are open for business.

Most of these girls have more than one SD, count on that. There is the occasional girl who sees only one and they usually pull the profile or deactivate it. Again if profile is up they are.

Looking the same as you are.

Now posting the link and info as if they show up, are the pics accurate, what kind of arrangement they are looking for, are they pros, utr girls, useful info is quite all right. NEVER PASS THEIR NUMBER TO SOMEONE ELSE.

Now as to volume of guys they see most have quite a few, especially if your doing the college girls. Most are very wild and party hardy LOL. You would be surprised at the number getting hammered and doing 2-3 guys at the same time. Oh and remember that the college boys are getting it free. So don't throw out the low volume of guys that they are fucking.

If you giys want an useful forum then publish links and info. If you just want to do fictional writing about all the babes you have then there are several other forums that do that. Oh they don't give out any info either just all the 10's they are fucking.

[QUOTE=Bruco;2831896]Agreed. Passing along warnings about scammers or flakes is a good idea, but I'm not going to pass along too much info on the girls I see. I've asked them to be discrete about this and I owe them the same courtesy in return.[/QUOTE]I agree too: that I'm not going to pass along too much info on the girls I see. Here's why:

Girls that advertise on WYP or SA expect a SD who will take care of them and not share her info with his friends. It is intended to be a discreet arrangement. Also, I don't mind telling you about some girls on BP or in the strip club who are easily accessible to everyone. But I invest a considerable amount of time and money to meet girls on SB sites. I'm not going to go to all that trouble and expense and then just give you her number. You got to work for it like I did.

Now I will share techniques and tactics to guide you. And here's my first tip:

Login in to WYP. Setup a profile. Purchase some credits and start shopping. You will have to contact a bunch of them just to find a diamond-in-the-rough. But they're out there waiting for you.

GB40.

[QUOTE=Bruco;2831896]Agreed. Passing along warnings about scammers or flakes is a good idea, but I'm not going to pass along too much info on the girls I see. I've asked them to be discrete about this and I owe them the same courtesy in return.[/QUOTE]I had a fair share of them on SA. Below are top 2 scams that I faced. Now I do laugh thinking of them.

1. I started chatting with a beautiful probably a 10 22 ish girl. We flirted a lot and skyped about once or twice. Everything was perfect. The catch here is she won't meet outside and she only want to meet in the hotel room. Even though we skyped, I was little skeptical. We arragnged a date and the plan is to pick her from a public place. I did not book a room by this time. I went a little early and scooped the whole place just to make sure. I parked my car and started the wait game. A girl came with couple of guys, started putting on make up and started texting me from a different number with a story like her phone is gone blah blah. I was watching the whole thing from my car and started panicking on how they are trying to scam me. She is not the girl in the pics or the one who skyoer. Even now I am not sure how she pulled it. There is no trace of her pics on the web. I reported to SA and they deleted her of the very next day.

2. Started flirting with a beautiful 9 ish girl and planned the date. Again no trace of her pics on the web. As usual, asked for skype and she was up for it. Just want to see her pretty face. When the Skype was turned on, it was guy and he is interested to be my sugar daddy. Disconnected the Skype immediately and blocked him. He started texting me saying that he is willing to give or do anything for my virgin ass. I said fuck off and blocked him as well. I did not sleep for almost 2 days. Again reported to SA and they removed him right away and they have apologized for the inconvenience.

Now I really do laugh when I think about it, but I was really scared and pissed at that moment. I had good memeories on SA though. That's for another time. Bottom line is, We should really start calling out the scammers here and I will do the same in future.

Stay tight and have fun.

[QUOTE=HotLake;2832205]I had a fair share of them on SA. Below are top 2 scams that I faced. Now I do laugh thinking of them.

1. I started chatting with a beautiful probably a 10 22 ish girl. We flirted a lot and skyped about once or twice. Everything was perfect. The catch here is she won't meet outside and she only want to meet in the hotel room. Even though we skyped, I was little skeptical. We arragnged a date and the plan is to pick her from a public place. I did not book a room by this time. I went a little early and scooped the whole place just to make sure. I parked my car and started the wait game. A girl came with couple of guys, started putting on make up and started texting me from a different number with a story like her phone is gone blah blah. I was watching the whole thing from my car and started panicking on how they are trying to scam me. She is not the girl in the pics or the one who skyoer. Even now I am not sure how she pulled it. There is no trace of her pics on the web. I reported to SA and they deleted her of the very next day.

2. Started flirting with a beautiful 9 ish girl and planned the date. Again no trace of her pics on the web. As usual, asked for skype and she was up for it. Just want to see her pretty face. When the Skype was turned on, it was guy and he is interested to be my sugar daddy. Disconnected the Skype immediately and blocked him. He started texting me saying that he is willing to give or do anything for my virgin ass. I said fuck off and blocked him as well. I did not sleep for almost 2 days. Again reported to SA and they removed him right away and they have apologized for the inconvenience.

Now I really do laugh when I think about it, but I was really scared and pissed at that moment. I had good memeories on SA though. That's for another time. Bottom line is, We should really start calling out the scammers here and I will do the same in future.

Stay tight and have fun.[/QUOTE]Dang! That second story is crazy. Good to know that SA addresses complaints.

[QUOTE=HotLake;2832205]I had a fair share of them on SA. Below are top 2 scams that I faced. Now I do laugh thinking of them.

1. I started chatting with a beautiful probably a 10 22 ish girl. We flirted a lot and skyped about once or twice. Everything was perfect. The catch here is she won't meet outside and she only want to meet in the hotel room. Even though we skyped, I was little skeptical. We arragnged a date and the plan is to pick her from a public place. I did not book a room by this time. I went a little early and scooped the whole place just to make sure. I parked my car and started the wait game. A girl came with couple of guys, started putting on make up and started texting me from a different number with a story like her phone is gone blah blah. I was watching the whole thing from my car and started panicking on how they are trying to scam me. She is not the girl in the pics or the one who skyoer. Even now I am not sure how she pulled it. There is no trace of her pics on the web. I reported to SA and they deleted her of the very next day.

2. Started flirting with a beautiful 9 ish girl and planned the date. Again no trace of her pics on the web. As usual, asked for skype and she was up for it. Just want to see her pretty face. When the Skype was turned on, it was guy and he is interested to be my sugar daddy. Disconnected the Skype immediately and blocked him. He started texting me saying that he is willing to give or do anything for my virgin ass. I said fuck off and blocked him as well. I did not sleep for almost 2 days. Again reported to SA and they removed him right away and they have apologized for the inconvenience.

Now I really do laugh when I think about it, but I was really scared and pissed at that moment. I had good memeories on SA though. That's for another time. Bottom line is, We should really start calling out the scammers here and I will do the same in future.

Stay tight and have fun.[/QUOTE]I had one potentially dangerous experience. I had chatted with 2 gals on SDforme several years ago. They were from Greensboro, and we decided to meet for dinner in Charlotte. I sat in the parking lot waiting. I am not sure they ever showed up, but I did see one car approach with 2 blondes in it. They left so I am not 100% sure if it was them or not. I bailed because my gut feeling was starting to get the best of me. Several months later these 2 tried to rob a sugar daddy that they had been seeing at knife point.

One other gal that I recently talked with off SDforme wanted me to pick her up at her house. I was uncomfortable with that. A week or so later she had acquired a car and could meet me for lunch. The morning that we were to meet, I asked what restaurant she wanted to meet at. She said it didn't matter cause she was going to eat anyways. Strange!! So I suggested we just meet inside the mall. She didn't want to do that, but instead wanted me to meet her at her car in the parking lot. Again, I bailed because of my gut feeling.

Another strange one. I had talked to a gal off SA from Florence, SC. She was willing to drive to Charlotte. Claimed she would Skype to prove she was real. The Skype name she gave did not exist. I texted her a few weeks later, apparently, a gay guy had got her number and was wanting to hook up. I blocked him. Later, she recontacted me through SA and gave me a new number. We conversed back and forth for awhile, the suddenly a guy saying he was her bf texted me thanking me for breaking them up. I never replied but felt like telling him that his gf is the one hoing around on him.

Moral of the story: Think with your big head, trust your gut, and ignore what the little head is trying to get you to do!

[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;2832102]Most of these girls have more than one SD, count on that. There is the occasional girl who sees only one and they usually pull the profile or deactivate it. Again if profile is up they are.[/QUOTE]This isn't in blue so it's me the guy not the mod.

What makes them different from a hooker then except charging more money?

[QUOTE=DirtyDingus;2832254]I had one potentially dangerous experience. I had chatted with 2 gals on SDforme several years ago. They were from Greensboro, and we decided to meet for dinner in Charlotte. I sat in the parking lot waiting. I am not sure they ever showed up, but I did see one car approach with 2 blondes in it. They left so I am not 100% sure if it was them or not. I bailed because my gut feeling was starting to get the best of me. Several months later these 2 tried to rob a sugar daddy that they had been seeing at knife point.

One other gal that I recently talked with off SDforme wanted me to pick her up at her house. I was uncomfortable with that. A week or so later she had acquired a car and could meet me for lunch. The morning that we were to meet, I asked what restaurant she wanted to meet at. She said it didn't matter cause she was going to eat anyways. Strange!! So I suggested we just meet inside the mall. She didn't want to do that, but instead wanted me to meet her at her car in the parking lot. Again, I bailed because of my gut feeling.

Another strange one. I had talked to a gal off SA from Florence, SC. She was willing to drive to Charlotte. Claimed she would Skype to prove she was real. The Skype name she gave did not exist. I texted her a few weeks later, apparently, a gay guy had got her number and was wanting to hook up. I blocked him. Later, she recontacted me through SA and gave me a new number. We conversed back and forth for awhile, the suddenly a guy saying he was her bf texted me thanking me for breaking them up. I never replied but felt like telling him that his gf is the one hoing around on him.

Moral of the story: Think with your big head, trust your gut, and ignore what the little head is trying to get you to do![/QUOTE]I hate girls that trick their SD. Because of all the scams I restricted my hunt between 30-40 and was always lucky. They are good at bed though.

My understanding is the only difference is lower millage. A SB has one or just a few Daddies that she sees where a hooker may see several guys a day. There may be more accessibility too. My pockets are deep enough to afford a SB. Could feel more like a relationship rather than a hit it and go? Just how I see it. Just a more exclusive way for the same game.

[QUOTE=Admin2;2832414]This isn't in blue so it's me the guy not the mod.

What makes them different from a hooker then except charging more money?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Admin2;2832414]This isn't in blue so it's me the guy not the mod.

What makes them different from a hooker then except charging more money?[/QUOTE]To me most sugar babies are about the same as a hooker that has just a few regular customers. Most of them don't want to think of themselves as escorts, but its a very fine line between the two. There are quite a few professional sugar babies, and they depend on their daddies to provide them the level of living that they are use to. When they lose a daddy, they just pick up another to take up the slack. I am with you though, not very much difference at all!

[QUOTE=Admin2;2832414]This isn't in blue so it's me the guy not the mod.

What makes them different from a hooker then except charging more money?[/QUOTE]Technically your right, if they accept money for sex that's prostitution. Thats the law. Now if we go by that then not sure if anything outside of marriage is not and some will argue that is.

Is there a gray area? If your dating and you help with a bill would you consider them as hookers?

I agree with you that if your paying then that's hoo king. Cut off the money and see if they are still there.

Mongers like to think they have rediscover the wheel with the term SB. Younger less used pussy that cares about them while still paying for it.

[QUOTE=DirtyDingus;2833007]To me most sugar babies are about the same as a hooker that has just a few regular customers. Most of them don't want to think of themselves as escorts, but its a very fine line between the two. There are quite a few professional sugar babies, and they depend on their daddies to provide them the level of living that they are use to. When they lose a daddy, they just pick up another to take up the slack. I am with you though, not very much difference at all![/QUOTE]I couldn't disagree with this, even if I wanted to. The difference is only in milage. Several years ago, I red this line somewhere, if I remember correctly, while reading some eastern philosophical writings, related to femininity and the "power of pussy" In a rough translation, it said something like this "All women are ******! Sorry mother, you're women too. " It took a while to digest that, but as I get older, it gets clearer to me. All it takes is right circumstances, and a strength of the desire toward something, to bring that "inner *****" to the surface in every woman, and to use the pussy to get whatever they want. And of course, our radars get turned on and pick up the vibes making our laser guided missiles search for the target. With that in mind, I choose to have fun and hit as many targets as I can afford. Because, in the end, it will cost me one way or the other. I'll share what I can, whenever I can. Protect the gems, expose the fakes, and warn the rest. Play safe!

K here is what I don't understand. Why do the mongers say that the SB experience of feeling like a relationship. If that's what they seek then why not develope a regular GF, and help her out without her asking for help. Heaven forbid they do that.

My reasons for doing this is its faster than the normal process. I'm also older with a taste for younger women (not the 18-20's group) that most seem to shoot for. The last reason is I pay for it because its faster and this is the only reason most younger girls would even consider it. I believe that to be the case with every monger here. If you think they care again cut the sugar off. There again there are exceptions but lets not foget we are paying for the company, the sex and their feelings for us.

I have yet to meet a woman that won't use her pussy to get what she wants. How about a woman that lays on her back to get a job promotion? Isn't that the same thing too?

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;2833268]I couldn't disagree with this, even if I wanted to. The difference is only in milage. Several years ago, I red this line somewhere, if I remember correctly, while reading some eastern philosophical writings, related to femininity and the "power of pussy" In a rough translation, it said something like this "All women are ******! Sorry mother, you're women too. " It took a while to digest that, but as I get older, it gets clearer to me. All it takes is right circumstances, and a strength of the desire toward something, to bring that "inner *****" to the surface in every woman, and to use the pussy to get whatever they want. And of course, our radars get turned on and pick up the vibes making our laser guided missiles search for the target. With that in mind, I choose to have fun and hit as many targets as I can afford. Because, in the end, it will cost me one way or the other. I'll share what I can, whenever I can. Protect the gems, expose the fakes, and warn the rest. Play safe![/QUOTE]