Bakc in the Saddle. First Impressions
Took me a while to get going on SA. But I finally got there. Thought I would share some first impressions based on the first couple of days of interactions:
SA is hitting you hard with the BOTS. Basically a bunch of favorites from half way across the world. SA and Philippines. Cool no thank you. There are some favorites from other states in the US, but again, not looking at profiles first. The only one that intrigues me of the favorites, is a chica from the Chi - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/80969bef-c439-44e7-88d4-04cc9b3c8e4f[/URL].
She's short. But she's got this look that I'd like to explore. Maybe I'll reach out to her.
I got messages from the regulars. The ObscureMusician (who just went right to it, here is how it works, 400,150 up front, 250 at time of, etc. Etc.) - hard pass. Then I got a message from Elite Ella. Who everyone has talked about here. I even interacted with Tif39 or something in Schaumburg, who wanted 2 K for the month. Even though she was first hinting at PPM. I hard passed on all of them.
I'm currently in discussion with some Amira chick who is brand news (man they can be the best if cultivated properly) and she's on tough times. She's giving me the sob story hard about bad financial situation, but she's close by and she's the right amount of eager. I'm going to play this one forward a little bit and see how it goes.
Also talking to some Indian girl. MOH - who is married. This one is somewhat interesting. Her profile picture isn't the greatest, but hoping that something better emerges. I just have a thing for Indian women. Ha!
I will say that women are responding more just to seeing their profile is viewed, or being favorite-d. They'll initiate the conversation. Whereas before, they would not! I think they know, the pickings are slim. So go for it and put yourself out there? I dunno but definitely seems like the atmosphere has changed in SA.
A complete waste of time. NancyP
A complete waste of time. NancyP.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d283ae9f-aedd-4b43-bf7c-a621ef3b6c82[/URL]
Reached out to this chick and we started texting, she sent a couple of sexy photos. Agreed on 300 for her to visit me.
I contact her again a a couple of days later no response to text messages. Message her through seeking. She's changed her number.
I text her on the new number and she says 400. I say no 300 as agreed. She says ok.
Next day I text her for a meet this weekend, she says 400. I say no 300 as agreed. She says ok.
Now she's insisting on an advance for the first tryst together, I tell her absolutely no advances.
By this point I loose all interest and block her.