Streetwalker Reports

[QUOTE=Horsetrader; 1579643]We all know how to get sucked into the world of a streetwalker, many of us have done it. It's as easy as falling off a log. BBB and Punished just described some of the heartaches and issues very nicely.

I have two suggestions of how to get out of her world. First, is to plead poverty when she calls: "Oh, baby, I want to see you so bad but I just paid rent and I don't have money to put gas in the car to come see you. This car is too expensive, I need to sell it and buy a POS." Even if you are filthy rich these girls can related to being broke. Don't ever say that you can't spend money today because you need to pay rent (or whatever) tomorrow, that is admitting you have money today and she wants it. Second, you need to convince her that she can get money from other men. I once drove a girl to her client so she could do a BJ for the $20 she needed to buy her meds, she would have been really pissed if she knew I had plenty of money in the trunk when I dropped her off. When she talks about other men paying her money, be supportive of her servicing that man."Wow, it sounds like he is rich, you should give him a call. I wish I had that much money."

Once she believes that you are broke she won't have any reason to call you.[/QUOTE]Getting sucked in may cost more than time and money. I occasionally hear of well-meaning mongers who bail out favored SWers. While the gesture is kind (if not at least a little self serving) it could leave one's name attached to a court record that surfaces in a MD judiciary court search. I don't think many of us would be partial to our names be attached to some of these girls, especial those with prostitution charges.

[QUOTE=Drunker Irish;1579632]Sounds like an adrenaline addiction in and of itself. W / o the drugs (well not directly). Girls use different terms for this, the girls in Nevada call guys like this "Capt' save a 'ho". In reality, they don't want to be saved. Harsh reality for those that get sucked into the save a princess fairy tale. Pretty Woman this is not.[/QUOTE]Boy have I tried to play Captain America and tried to save the day. This year the girls that went the longest being clean, fell of the wagon. Like I said earlier. This is not like on TV. Dr. Drew will not help these girls. When you start getting sucked in, play the BROKE card. I agree with this. Become more broke than Donald Trump before a divorce! Just take the lumps and move on. Like they say on the block."next booty on duty". But just be nice anyway. Keep hunting / sharing. I know I am.

[QUOTE=Bad Bad Boy;1578858]All have a story to tell and many of us want to help out, it rarely works and leaves us frustrated. Drugs really mess them up to the point it affects their memory and thought process, making it nearly impossible to be responsible. Drama is a big part of this hobby and you need to keep your distance and be careful not to cross that line of getting too involved in their lives. It's always a good idea to have a back up plan ready when something goes wrong. .We need to remember at all times that we live in two different worlds which neither will be able to fit into the other. BBB[/QUOTE]I agree with everyone. Most people that get caught up with a SW / provider forget that the reason why they initially began seeing the SW / or provider was because of the convenience: The ability to get what you want (physical satisfaction) , without the drama, obligation, or significant expenditure of time / money / or effort. Those are the parameters / context of every SW / provider relationship. However, things go sideways when hobbyist bring civilian rules and expectations into a pay for play relationship.

Succinctly put, it is business. Those hobbyist amongst us that are therapists / divorce lawyers do not date clients, just as officers don't date enlisted, and nco's don't date non-nco's = it is contrary to good order and discipline. In fact, this entire discussion reminds me of the Seinfeld episode where Jerry had sex with his house cleaner. After a while, she would come over, not clean a thing, and then still want to get paid. Same scenario with a SW / provider. After all they are human, and who wouldn't take the easy way out? If a guy will pay w / o the play, they will take the path of least resistance and effort and milk the situation. Just my two cents.

Doe

Time to put a smile on your faces after all that drama this week, hope you gentlemen enjoy.

Renee is back2

Renee is back3

Look, Some times it is easy to "fall" for one of our ladies. We are involved intimately with them. We may try hard to SAVE them.

You can't. You can help, you can support them, you can even aid them. You can love them. But Gentleman, YOU CANNOT SAVE THEM.

There is a line. It is very clear. If you cross that line, and you will know when you do. Its when you know you are "involved" with them, When your private personal life is being opened to them. This is a Big Red Flag. It will destroy you, and your life. Stop.

I have an expression. You have read my posts, I am an intensive lover. I make love to my ladies, I pay amazing attention to their needs and passions, I am supportive and helpful to my closest friends. I say to them.

Fall in love with me, I will fall in love with you. For just a little while. And then they are gone.

I can't beleive we are having this descussion again. But I see new names, so its always good to review the rules.

An update here. 4 day marathon. 4 girls 4 days 4 amazing women. OMG. I am even impressed. LOL.

Headen for the Hosp. Next week, so all your ladies will be safe for a few weeks. My ladies want to visit me in the hosp. How can I hit on that hot nurse with all these girls running around my room. LOL.

Be safe out there.

Smiling Fox, ; }

The best one can do is to offer some kind words of advice and moral support. Most SW's tend to have a lot of problems. I try to be nice to the girls. There was this one girl named Junie that I visited when she was in the hospital.

[QUOTE=Smiling Fox; 1580300]Look, Some times it is easy to "fall" for one of our ladies. We are involved intimately with them. We may try hard to SAVE them.

You can't. You can help, you can support them, you can even aid them. You can love them. But Gentleman, YOU CANNOT SAVE THEM.

There is a line. It is very clear. If you cross that line, and you will know when you do. Its when you know you are "involved" with them, When your private personal life is being opened to them. This is a Big Red Flag. It will destroy you, and your life. Stop.

I have an expression. You have read my posts, I am an intensive lover. I make love to my ladies, I pay amazing attention to their needs and passions, I am supportive and helpful to my closest friends. I say to them.

Fall in love with me, I will fall in love with you. For just a little while. And then they are gone.

I can't beleive we are having this descussion again. But I see new names, so its always good to review the rules.

An update here. 4 day marathon. 4 girls 4 days 4 amazing women. OMG. I am even impressed. LOL.

Headen for the Hosp. Next week, so all your ladies will be safe for a few weeks. My ladies want to visit me in the hosp. How can I hit on that hot nurse with all these girls running around my room. LOL.

Be safe out there.

Smiling Fox, ; }[/QUOTE]

I don't allow myself to close to these girls. I treat them with respect but keep them at a distance when it comes to my emotions. I've been told by a SW every time I see her 'I'm getting into a program next week' Well next week comes and she is on the same program-SW. I wish them the best, but I can't SAVE them. THEY have to go through the difficult rehabilitation process and have the resilience not relapse. What I can do is pull for them from a distance and hope that they are successful in their future endeavors. Thanks to the posters who provided their stories-teaching moments.

[QUOTE=NiteTimer;1580018]What you're doing now is what we call re-investing. You have to pull out your investment of time, money and energy in Kiara and have to re-invest in someone else. You are not the 1st one as my friend Joe Cool is learning right now, and this was not a wasted investment, because she was obviously fun for the moist part, and if she wakes up suddenly she may discover you probably were a high (not needle induced) point in her life. I only met her once, and was amazed of how pretty she was, but I know that spell all too well. You're still thinking linear; as most of us old soldiers do do don't punish yourself for making it through the chaos of someone else's life. Now, go out and find some sweet young thang to take your mind off the drama; carry on.[/QUOTE]I think that we are taking to much time on this subject If I would have known that answering or responding to BBB's post would have started such huge response on my comments, I probably would not have done it. I am certainly past it as all of us should be by now. LOL.

It happens to the best of us and even the ones that have been mongering for years.

Happy Hunting

[QUOTE=NiteTimer;1580223]Time to put a smile on your faces after all that drama this week, hope you gentlemen enjoy.[/QUOTE]I saw Ranee today and took pictures and video of her while we were together. She said she didn't mind me taking them and posting them as long as it was not pornographic pictures. I told her I would ask her to pose if I intended on posting pictures like the one I have on this site. [blue][Deleted by Admin][/blue]

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I am with Nitetimer, lets get back to Freaky Friday Fun! All this analysis and you are letting todays treats slip through your hands. We all have been in this long enough to know what the drill is. You can get caught up, once. After that you know there is a line. It is there for a reason, if you decide to cross it, you cross it knowing how things are going to be. If you chose to get involved with anyone beyond the norm, you do so willingly. Its like getting deeply involved with a raging alcoholic then being pissed off they are drunk.

That being said, lets continue to scout new talent! Isn't that what this is all about?

Have a great weekend.

So I've been venturing out of my usual area into the Brooklyn area. I am just starting to get familiar with the terrain and have seen some prospects but no hook ups yet. I have seen this BSW that roams around the churches on pontiac always looking at herself in a random car's side mirror. Has anybody had any contact with her, or somebody like her? Also, there is always this bigger WSW in the same jeans and blue t-shirt that just kinda stands in the middle of the road. I tried to pick her up, but she just looked at me, then her eyes did a little flutter from the meds. There was a car coming behind me, so I left her standing there. She seemed spaced out. Last thing, does anybody have a number or two from a provider that accepts normal street tuition? I have a new phone and completely lost ALL of my numbers. Please Please PLEASE PM me with info. Thanks in advance.

Hello everybody,

Hooked up with this cute as hell little spinner early this AM. Her name is Jessica. Seems to be lots of Jessicas. Long brown little curly hair, very cute from the face and about 115 lbs, is very easy going. Definately a spinner. High recommended, will suck you till you pop and then keep sucking you til you are dry! Treat this one right and she will blow you til you can't help make noises, LOL.

Be safe guys.

MagnumX10,

You are such a standup citizen. There is always some clown like you on this site.